https://www.adultwork.com/ViewProfile.asp?UserID=7457964Meeting didn't happen. Long post because the whole thing was...odd to say the least. So apologies for thatbut I wanted to describe the whole thing in detail.
To preface. I had attempted to see her once back in Nov last year when she was in Warrington but I had to cancel due to sickness. I do so in advance and it was alright. In Dec I tried to see her again and early in the day I sent her a text asking if we are still ok to which she responded that she isn't going to be working anymore due to the snow. I thanked her for letting me know in advance.
After that she never came to Warrington. Until last week, at which point I sent her asking if she was going to be in Warrington again in near future, to which she said that she doesn't plan on going to Warrington anymore.
I had noticed that she put up on her profile that she'd stop working in June so I thought to myself, you know what...I'll just make a trip to Cheadle even if it's a pain to get to, for this one time.
I contact her early in the week on a Monday for a booking the following day, she says ok. So I book train tickets, then 10 mins after I booked the tickets she sent me a text saying that the hotel in Cheadle is fully booked as she tried to make a booking, so now she'll instead work in Bury till 5PM. I thought that was a bit confusing if she had a hotel booked in Bury already for the day but her profile said she'd be in Cheadle that day.
Anyway she then gives me options and I pick Thursday 7PM. She said that's good.
On the day
10AM - I send her a text in the morning asking if we are good, she immediately responds saying yes we are.
2PM- She asks me if I can come at 7:30PM insyead , mind you I'm using trains so I have to arrange my booking times around train times. So I ask her "Can we make it 1.5 hours instead cause otherwise I'll be waiting in the rain for an hour for the train". She said that's fine and it'll be £300...I said no problem.
3PM - I then sent her a text with outfit request and asked her what I was looking for looking for GFE and told her that I've only seen two girls ever since my breakup and as such if she sees me be nervous and shy then please take the lead. She said that's all good. Point being she was listening and communicative.
5PM- She asks me if I'm still on. I said yes I am. She says alright, and then updates her AW to say she's fully booked for the day. So far so good, I knew about her ghosting people but she had been very communicative so I head out.
7PM- Now I'm at Gatley station and half an hour before the rescheduled time she sends me a text saying she's running a bit late, and asked me if she can push it back to 8PM for a booking from 8PM-9PM, she was being conscious of my train time she knew this would mean only 1 hour booking. I responded by saying I'm only a few minutes away now, but sure I'll walk around a bit.
7:10PM- She then sends me a message saying how she had booked multiple rooms at the hotel for day use and evenings and they checked her out of the wrong room and the cleaners came so she had to go to the reception. But she'll try to get ready earlier. I said that's alright...just let me know when she's ready.
7:50PM - I send her a text saying I'm outside...no response.
8:00PM - I sent her another asking if we're still on...nothing.
8:10PM - I text saying that if she's still occupied then the max I can push back is another 20 mins but that I'll need to know now....still nothing. By this point I'm 1+ hour mins out of the original time I had booked when I started the day.
8:20PM - I sent her a text saying I'm leaving as I don't know what happened. But hope that she's ok. She didn't respond to that.
It took me 1 hour 15 mins to get to Gatley from Liverpool via train, then 25 mins to walk from the station to her hotel. Only to then stand in the rain for another 45 mins like an idiot and then make the whole trip back home.
10:30PM - I get back home all wet and cold, by this point accounting for all the time I had been out of home for 5+hours and 2 hours since she ghosted.
So I sent her a polite text saying that I get that I'm just another guy, and that I do understand sometimes things can just happen that we have no control over and it's none of my business to know what she's dealing with, but I'd have appreciated just a teext otherwise what was the point in confirming multiple times throughout the day and I remind her just how much time I spent traveling and accomodating to her changing schedule just so I make a booking with her for an hour. But still if she would be up for it then we can arrange something another time.
This was basically me giving her an opportunity to just send another response before I wrote this negative review. I always try to be understanding, and forgiving as it takes a lot for me to get riled up, plus if she's just throwing away £300 like that then there must be something.
She didn't respond to that either but did update her AW profile to get rid of the date. No response next day either and from the looks of it she went back to work as per normal.
This is the first time I've experienced this and it was kinda awful. I was aware of her ghosting people but she had always responded to me in comms and was responsive right until the very end. So I didn't imagine it'd have happened to me.
I won't presume and say she thinks low of her clients, but I will say that for one reason or another she comes across as lacking in empathy or just extending basic courtesy.
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