That’s fair. I have jumped in without really figuring that out.
I guess I signed up because I want longer meets (eg overnights), rather than just one hour here or there, and the hope that I can find some younger girls and get a more authentic and less rushed experience.
For background - I am absolutely also hitting up the civvie dating apps and now I step back and ask the question again - what am I after, it’s the authentic experience.
To your point about discrimination - I wouldn’t know. I seem to be getting plenty of message responses, inbounds and WhatsApps. But it’s also true that most are quite quick to suggest a PPM (which I guess I am also fine with given I also punt), so a punt off seeking vs an agency - what’s the difference? I would have thought at least there’s the upside on seeking that it may be more authentic, longer and lead to something more recurring and long term?
With a younger age point. It works both ways trust me.
One side will see potentially financially unstable or not the demographic they usually go for. But the flip of the coin another side will message you as you seem like a unicorn, the curiosity will almost be deafening to them. I would personally say use that to your strength, and there is definitely a lot of young successful people around, you don’t need to be a particular demographic to use the site.
If there’s a lot that jump to ppm, you need to look at your bio and who you’re going for. As you’re attracting and seeking those who want that.
There are a lot, I have personal experience who either want to just have a good time, company, mentorship or just a one off. You just need to look and tailor your scope as well as your approach.
I’ve had a few overnights, not an easy thing to just on whim get. You’re a stranger to them, rapport needs to be built as it’s already a big leap to even entertain a stranger for a meet but overnight without any conversation or initial dialogue is a mammoth task. So if that’s something you want you need in my own personal opinion build rapport, do a meet at least once beforehand.
Big difference. The approach. You cannot and it will not bode well approaching like you would a WG.
Be clear what you want and you will get what you want. You may need to sway through the shit but you will pick up golden nuggets I can assure you.
The time limit, make sure you make that clear you’re not after a smash and dash meet. You want it as natural/organic as possible and they will appreciate that as well as they don’t want to be seen as a prossie and will probably. Have a plan set out, and make it clear so it’s not seen as you’re just winging it. Order some food to the place so it’s more chilled, something as small as that makes a difference.
They’re not robots lol so if you can find similar things you like that would make it more seamless. Bonus point if they find you attractive.
