I think its easy to over think it or get sucked in by paranoia. Most scammers and pros have fairly clear reasons for being on there andcthey dont waste their time on a long game of trying to draw you in. Pros will quickly move to negotiations snd scammers will quickly ask for money. Pretty much all scammers are of the send me money variety. You mention 2 girls - you mean as a pair? If so then you probably are running an increased risk of being scammed but otherwise just use your common sense. You’d be very unlucky to be scammed by a girl you actually meet on her own
Thanks for the words of advice. To clarify am developing 2 separate girls independently and both seem promising, although the reality is i will probably only go long term with one of them.
I am actually meeting one later today, lunch and fun. We have been speaking on WA for well over a week now and a few days before that on SA. She seems genuine and willing to flex on rates and timings, not overtly rigid like some of the pros that I have come across. Also not insisting on online first etc.
The thing that is bothering me is I haven’t spoken to her on the phone yet. Not sure if this is a red flag, and/or whether i should take a chance and meet for lunch.
I think there is an element of making something happen, else there will always be something playing on your mind that puts you off. Similar to how you might feel meeting your first escort!
Fingers crossed it goes well and I will of course update the group.
Cheers