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Offline jamiekinkxxx

Seeking still shit vfm?

Depends on what you are looking for. But as NightKid states, you could ask the same thing about the 'pure' escort scene. I would, from your reviews suggest that (maybe?) seeking isn't your wheel house.... for me I dip my toes in now and again when I am looking for mor than just sex.

IMHO you cannot compare the two.

« Last Edit: November 03, 2024, 06:17:25 pm by jamiekinkxxx »

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

Form an orderly queue.

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PHOTOS ARE PRIVATE AS IT SEEMS MOST MEN DON'T KNOW HOW TO READ AND ONLY KNOW HOW TO LOOK AT PICTURES... IF THE FIRST OR SECOND MESSAGES IS TO SEE MY PICTURES, CONSIDER YOURSELF TALKING TO A BLOCKED PERSON...

In my experience I have found that there are two types of men on this earth

1. The men that think of woman as toys to be used as they wish, they have a small mind and is often not that educated or intelligent. Most likely than not they are married and looking to cheat on their wives. They will start a conversation with a “hey” and 10 minutes later they want you to satisfy them and get paid for it.

2. Those that are interested in getting to know a person for who they are, well educated, intellectually and know that the money will never satisfy the right woman, as not all woman can be bought. If memory serves me correctly this site is called Seeking, and has not been Seeking Arrangements for quite a while.


Update: If you are married and you want us to connect, I want prove that your wife said you may talk to me, if you can't provide me with proof, you can consider yourself blocked, I am not going to be the person you cheat on your wife with.

What I am Seeking
Men
(Age 35-60+)
*I don't plan on meeting you from the get go, if we have not got to know each other first, don't ask me to meet you*

I am looking for a long term relationship with the right person, one that is willing to get to know me and not just get in my pants.

Someone that is intellectually attractive, educated, and well spoken. Not looking to meet for a one night stand or to be a sexual fantasy.

I don’t plan on answering anyone that starts the conversation with “hey” or start of saying I am beautiful, thank you for the compliment but I hear it way too much. Be unique and start the conversation differently.

If you plan on having an arrangement with me, you will be wasting both of our time as I don't want any arrangement. I am hoping that we are all mature enough to be able to read and understand.

And for all those that are not sure about where I am, I recently moved  to the Netherlands, and not living in the UK anymore.


Offline Brimich

Hi all.

Its been mentioned on another thread that BrunaGirlxo - External Link/Members Only is also on seeking.

I am planning on seeing her via AW, she has reviews but they are very old (circa 5 years).

Anyone have any more recent intel before I commit on seeing her via seeking?

I saw BrunaGirl a good few years ago for two hours (can’t remember if i reviewed her)…she was a really lovely person, and someone i had a lot of fun with. Only saw her the once, but still is one of the few I remember. Also remember chatting with you about Didi from seeking a long time ago…..she was a different level.
« Last Edit: November 03, 2024, 06:58:51 pm by Brimich »

Offline jamiekinkxxx

I saw BrunaGirl a good few years ago for two hours (can’t remember if i reviewed her)…she was a really lovely person, and someone i had a lot of fun with. Only saw her the once, but still is one of the few I remember. Also remember chatting with you about Didi from seeking a long time ago…..she was a different level.

Thanks Brimich.

ah Didi! Now there is a SB that I still think of occassionly... she was amazing!

Offline NightKid

Hi all.

Its been mentioned on another thread that BrunaGirlxo - External Link/Members Only is also on seeking.

I am planning on seeing her via AW, she has reviews but they are very old (circa 5 years).

Anyone have any more recent intel before I commit on seeing her via seeking?


Which platform are you seeing her through exactly?  :unknown:  Either way can you please post her seeking link cos it'll be easier to tell if we have that for a start, cheers.

Offline jamiekinkxxx

Which platform are you seeing her through exactly?  :unknown:  Either way can you please post her seeking link cos it'll be easier to tell if we have that for a start, cheers.

Its been mentioned on another thread that BrunaGirlxo - External Link/Members Only is also on seeking.

No SA link was given.

Offline jamiekinkxxx

Which platform are you seeing her through exactly?  :unknown:  Either way can you please post her seeking link cos it'll be easier to tell if we have that for a start, cheers.

Sorry it should have read I am planning on seeing her viaa AW, not seeking. If she is still on seeking  :unknown: then may consider that route too. Just after intel.

Reviews are mixed. Good comment on this thread (by Brimich) but also had a DM suggesting the negative reviews are more accurate than the positive. Hence just trying to get a broader picture.

Offline billy groat

Chaps,

If anyone has any intel on the following I’d be much obliged.

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Sandy  External Link/Members Only

Shelly External Link/Members Only


And in return I offer;
Sweet treats External Link/Members Only - £250 older than her profile suggests but with a very very hot body. She’s an eager beaver, fantastic cock sucker & energetic fuck. Hot vanilla.


Offline paul_tall_

Chaps,

If anyone has any intel on the following I’d be much obliged.

Northerngirl External Link/Members Only

Sandy  External Link/Members Only

Shelly External Link/Members Only


And in return I offer;
Sweet treats External Link/Members Only - £250 older than her profile suggests but with a very very hot body. She’s an eager beaver, fantastic cock sucker & energetic fuck. Hot vanilla.
Shelly was based around Guildford on her profile so must have changed location. She favourited my profile around the time that her profile indicates she joined but didnt reply to the message I sent her so I just assumed she had had had other messages

Offline billy groat

Yeah that makes sense. She reckons she 45 mins from Waterloo…

Offline Moutarde2

Has anyone had the chance to meet PrincessRose?
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She has been on seeking for a few years but is giving semi-pro vibes.

Offline NightKid

Northerngirl External Link/Members Only

This one's genuine as well, I've met her couple times before but didn't shag as she has typical traits of a Northern lass I personally find to be a huge turn off - prideful & headstrong to the point of being stubborn.

IYKYK

And in return I offer;
Sweet treats External Link/Members Only - £250 older than her profile suggests but with a very very hot body. She’s an eager beaver, fantastic cock sucker & energetic fuck. Hot vanilla.

How generous is she with her time or how many hours was she willing to offer for that?
« Last Edit: November 05, 2024, 06:03:34 pm by NightKid »

Offline billy groat

3 hours ish. I suspect she’d stay longer if stamina (mine allowed)

Offline keij

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when asked expectation, she mentioned a gift birkin bag but will settle for 600ppm, send multiple long moaning messages when I refused

Offline WKD123


Sandy  External Link/Members Only


Already been mentioned on here before - looking for £600 on last report.  I messaged her and just got back - "I am Brazilian and I want P P M"

Offline SwenyTodd

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This girl is very hard to see. I saw her over a year ago and had to take her out for a meal before she let me have sex with her. She iwas looking for a long term relationship however recently it appears as though she is a bit strapped for cash and is willing to do PPM meets at £300 for the evening. You will need to take her to a hotel. She has a decent figure, lovely big breasts and does CIM.


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Met her last week for an outcall: £300 + Dinner and Drinks and got her some beauty gifts she requested (so you can say I paid nearly £400 in total)
Tall and curvy.  She's very intelligent and easy to talk to.  Sex was fantastic.  She took her time giving me a blow job and her pussy was tasting great.  Some anal play and sex in several positions.  Whilst chatting with her it turns out she re-joined SA after losing her permanent job so she's freelancing.  She prefers the older man as she says we're more refined which I think is bollock as all I wanted to do was shag her lol  She's away on a beauty conference in America now but I plan to see her regularly when she's back.

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ST - of course us older guys are more “refined” !!!
£300 plus dinner and drinks plus gifts is surely more than £400 - unless it was a McD, Costa and a look round M&S!  Haha
Do you think that if other guys don’t want to guy her gifts ahead of any meet, is that an issue /deal breaker for her?

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And in return I offer;
Sweet treats External Link/Members Only - £250 older than her profile suggests but with a very very hot body. She’s an eager beaver, fantastic cock sucker & energetic fuck. Hot vanilla.
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Does she host or hotel? I belive I readonly she hosts

Offline Labomba123


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Met her last week for an outcall: £300 + Dinner and Drinks and got her some beauty gifts she requested (so you can say I paid nearly £400 in total)
Tall and curvy.  She's very intelligent and easy to talk to.  Sex was fantastic.  She took her time giving me a blow job and her pussy was tasting great.  Some anal play and sex in several positions.  Whilst chatting with her it turns out she re-joined SA after losing her permanent job so she's freelancing.  She prefers the older man as she says we're more refined which I think is bollock as all I wanted to do was shag her lol  She's away on a beauty conference in America now but I plan to see her regularly when she's back.

How much time did yu spend with her?  What area she is based

Offline updownandaround


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Met her last week for an outcall: £300 + Dinner and Drinks and got her some beauty gifts she requested (so you can say I paid nearly £400 in total)
Tall and curvy.  She's very intelligent and easy to talk to.  Sex was fantastic.  She took her time giving me a blow job and her pussy was tasting great.  Some anal play and sex in several positions.  Whilst chatting with her it turns out she re-joined SA after losing her permanent job so she's freelancing.  She prefers the older man as she says we're more refined which I think is bollock as all I wanted to do was shag her lol  She's away on a beauty conference in America now but I plan to see her regularly when she's back.

She's been on for many years, if I am not mistaken this is the former flight attendant, she used to bring her uniform with her if you asked nicely. 😀
« Last Edit: November 07, 2024, 01:39:55 pm by updownandaround »

Offline Budgiesmuggler


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Met her last week for an outcall: £300 + Dinner and Drinks and got her some beauty gifts she requested (so you can say I paid nearly £400 in total)
Tall and curvy.  She's very intelligent and easy to talk to.  Sex was fantastic.  She took her time giving me a blow job and her pussy was tasting great.  Some anal play and sex in several positions.  Whilst chatting with her it turns out she re-joined SA after losing her permanent job so she's freelancing.  She prefers the older man as she says we're more refined which I think is bollock as all I wanted to do was shag her lol  She's away on a beauty conference in America now but I plan to see her regularly when she's back.

Interesting that she is doing PPM...told me the couple of times we met for a M&G she was just looking for allowance to help since she lost her job. Also said she wasn't looking to meet multiple men.....confirms the view not to believe a word that anyone on seeking says. But i agree, she is genuine, very curvy and intelligent

Offline updownandaround

Interesting that she is doing PPM...told me the couple of times we met for a M&G she was just looking for allowance to help since she lost her job. Also said she wasn't looking to meet multiple men.....confirms the view not to believe a word that anyone on seeking says. But i agree, she is genuine, very curvy and intelligent

They all say they only want to meet "one man", what this translates into however in most cases, "one man at a time"!

Offline SwenyTodd

ST - of course us older guys are more “refined” !!!
£300 plus dinner and drinks plus gifts is surely more than £400 - unless it was a McD, Costa and a look round M&S!  Haha
Do you think that if other guys don’t want to guy her gifts ahead of any meet, is that an issue /deal breaker for her?


We was together for about 5ish hours.  Dinner then back to hotel.  She didn't stay the night as went back home about 11pm as she didn't want her house mate to suspect anything.  I don't think gifts are a deal breaker as for her its about money.  She's not looking for a relationship as she spoke about how expensive London is for her so it's purely cash for her.

I've found most women will say "I want one man" blah blah blah but it's rubbish.  Money talks and if there's a connection or some appeal they will meet and we all know.  It's about being persistent and these girls like to test us too.

I did ask her about her uniform and she said she had to return it when she quit.  I'll ask her again about it.

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We was together for about 5ish hours.  Dinner then back to hotel.  She didn't stay the night as went back home about 11pm as she didn't want her house mate to suspect anything.  I don't think gifts are a deal breaker as for her its about money.  She's not looking for a relationship as she spoke about how expensive London is for her so it's purely cash for her.

I've found most women will say "I want one man" blah blah blah but it's rubbish.  Money talks and if there's a connection or some appeal they will meet and we all know.  It's about being persistent and these girls like to test us too.

I did ask her about her uniform and she said she had to return it when she quit.  I'll ask her again about it.

She definitely had the uniform at least a few times when I met her originally. Most airlines make it a requirement to return the uniform but in reality very few of them follow up on it and most cabin crew end up selling them on eBay.

I recall her being initially difficult as if she was on the fence about sex work but I suspect when I originally spoke to her she was very new to Seeking and still trying to make it in her writing career.

Offline londonhunter008

Think this profile is EnglishSlutMillie. Can anyone confirm?

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Yes its her, you can see that band on her hand which is there on AW profile as well. I also had chat with me but did not want to proceed because I can meet her by booking via AW for lot cheaper

Offline Yung


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Met her last week for an outcall: £300 + Dinner and Drinks and got her some beauty gifts she requested (so you can say I paid nearly £400 in total)
Tall and curvy.  She's very intelligent and easy to talk to.  Sex was fantastic.  She took her time giving me a blow job and her pussy was tasting great.  Some anal play and sex in several positions.  Whilst chatting with her it turns out she re-joined SA after losing her permanent job so she's freelancing.  She prefers the older man as she says we're more refined which I think is bollock as all I wanted to do was shag her lol  She's away on a beauty conference in America now but I plan to see her regularly when she's back.

I didnt know she was up for anal play. Were you just putting fingers up her arse or more?

Offline paul_2407

Curious if others are having similar experiences to me with SBs.

I’m finding that SBs are generally far more comfortable with unprotected sex compared to escorts. For example, one turned up to a clearly sexual meet with no contraception and was already fully undressed taking me in her mouth when I suggested (protected) penetration and thankfully I came prepared. Another, after a few sexual meets, made it evident through her bodily movements that BB was on the cards if desired.


Offline Reallytired86

Curious if others are having similar experiences to me with SBs.

I’m finding that SBs are generally far more comfortable with unprotected sex compared to escorts. For example, one turned up to a clearly sexual meet with no contraception and was already fully undressed taking me in her mouth when I suggested (protected) penetration and thankfully I came prepared. Another, after a few sexual meets, made it evident through her bodily movements that BB was on the cards if desired.

Yes, very few of my SA encounters used condoms. Sometimes they ask if you have one but then don’t seem to care if you don’t which makes me wonder if they even wanted to in first place - some are like just don’t cum in me but when you do accidentally they just say they’ll get a plan b and don’t seem fussed.

One actually brought a condom to the bed but during sex she just decided not to use it. I have had a couple though where they did use it. Then there was also one who didn’t mind not using it but when I spoke to her a long time later she asked if we mind using it - some girls probably got burnt with an STI or pregnancy scare and they are probably more likely to be careful.

I did get my long term SB pregnant who considered keeping it but thank god she went ahead with abortion due to her young age and disapproving family, so if you do decide not to use a condom, don’t assume they all will use a plan B.
« Last Edit: November 09, 2024, 07:40:14 am by Reallytired86 »

Offline updownandaround

Curious if others are having similar experiences to me with SBs.

I’m finding that SBs are generally far more comfortable with unprotected sex compared to escorts. For example, one turned up to a clearly sexual meet with no contraception and was already fully undressed taking me in her mouth when I suggested (protected) penetration and thankfully I came prepared. Another, after a few sexual meets, made it evident through her bodily movements that BB was on the cards if desired.

I've commented in other threads on this very subject. In all my time on Tinder, Seeking and other apps, I've been asked maybe a handful of times to use a condom by non pros, or a girl actually turns up with condoms. In my experience, many are not even bothered about the pregnancy risks, let alone STDs. In my opinion, it adds some context to why women in the USA are flipping out about "reproductive rights" at the mo.

If you meet a girl anywhere, you have to assume that she's barebacking someone, so treat her as a walking biohazard or embrace the risk.

Offline massagepuntingfan

Curious if others are having similar experiences to me with SBs.

I’m finding that SBs are generally far more comfortable with unprotected sex compared to escorts. For example, one turned up to a clearly sexual meet with no contraception and was already fully undressed taking me in her mouth when I suggested (protected) penetration and thankfully I came prepared. Another, after a few sexual meets, made it evident through her bodily movements that BB was on the cards if desired.

If it worries you order a SHL test before starting a new arrangement and request that the lady you're seeing does the same. Not every SB will do so but I've started plenty of arrangements in the past by making clear that this is how I like to do things and if both SD and SB have all clear results then BB is less of an issue. Obvs as others say you run the risk of pregnancy but in 6 years I've never had a problem(might be firing blanks).

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If it worries you order a SHL test before starting a new arrangement and request that the lady you're seeing does the same.

i do the same but still take precautions until we both trust each other enough to talk honestly about about "other sexual partners" - and i know i shoot blanks as i have had the snip.

However as most guys on here seem to think every SB is seeing loads of other guys and you can't believe a word they say - i guess it won't work for many guys on here. and i don't think i would trust a girl who does PPM's as if she was PPMing me, she is probably PPMing others too.
« Last Edit: November 09, 2024, 10:55:17 am by southcoastpunter »

Offline Atrueyorkie

Curious if others are having similar experiences to me with SBs.

I’m finding that SBs are generally far more comfortable with unprotected sex compared to escorts. For example, one turned up to a clearly sexual meet with no contraception and was already fully undressed taking me in her mouth when I suggested (protected) penetration and thankfully I came prepared. Another, after a few sexual meets, made it evident through her bodily movements that BB was on the cards if desired.

There’s a few things with this. Compared to a standard WG, “some” civvy women/SB’s are not spreading their legs numerous amount of times a day, week, months maybe. So in their head it’s low risk and they “should” know their health and they’re all good.

It’s imperative regardless of how they feel that you protect yourself.

Depending on the arrangement you have unless you have an exclusivity arrangement you’ll have to go with the assumption she’s seeing other people whether that’s other SD’s or just dating in general.

I usually go with nsa arrangements. In the buildup I also pose the question, protection or no protection? It’s a trick question as I’m always going to use condoms. It’s to gauge personally how loose they might be, what their previous arrangements were like etc. if they say anything along the lines of they’re fine with not using it or after time they won’t use it with me, I won’t break the stride on the meet and greet conversation but make a mental note and not continue with them.

I always carry condoms because I know generally speaking a SB is not going to bring they because they expect me to bring it. Otherwise if she brought a stack it would personally give me prozzie vibes and secondly in the off chance they were planning to try without. I’ve had a few incidents where in the heat of the passion they’ve tried pulling and trying to put it in, had to stop them and warn them that’s a no no.
In short it’s just carelessness. They believe due to low numbers they would see that raw is fine. But protect yourself.

Offline WKD123

Curious if others are having similar experiences to me with SBs.

I’m finding that SBs are generally far more comfortable with unprotected sex compared to escorts. For example, one turned up to a clearly sexual meet with no contraception and was already fully undressed taking me in her mouth when I suggested (protected) penetration and thankfully I came prepared. Another, after a few sexual meets, made it evident through her bodily movements that BB was on the cards if desired.

Interesting to see the different views expressed on this one.  From my perspective, I would always carry protection and use it. When I first started using seeking and met up with the first I came to an agreement with, she turned out to be downright filthy and I got carried away and next thing I know, I'm riding bareback and then she asks me to cum in her mouth.  I had a real panic and left it a few weeks before sending off for a test kit. Fortunately, all clear but lesson learnt!   I'm sure there are cases where both parties are confident that they are only having sex with each other, but that has to be quite rare.

Offline WKD123

Seeing as we are in the mood to share....

I have, sadly, had to return to seeking (and perusing AW) after a wonderful arrangement ended.  Much the same as last time, most of the dealings are going nowhere fast but I am holding out hope for one young lady who seems normal. So here are a few that didn't work for me, but they might for you....

Fabul0us
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Bit of feedback as the last time someone highlighted this one it didn't seem to go anywhere. Previous arrangements were weekly meets in the evening only with occasional travel and shopping and in the region of £400.  I couldn't work round the availability so didn't take it further and then she blocked me

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Wants £500 for a couple of hours in a hotel OWO and protected sex. Enough said.

Ellamai
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Lives outside London and didn't get a really good vibe from the limited "conversation"

bouncy
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Not brilliant at communicating and then it ended when she insisted on £150 for meet and greet

Samantha
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Very obviously a EE type of girl. I think she can host, which is a plus but we couldn't agree on PPM

Tron
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Very direct and her pictures certainly got me interested, but I just got a feeling it was all about the money

Liz
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Used to £2-3k a month allowance so the conversation ended there.

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

Seeing as we are in the mood to share....

I have, sadly, had to return to seeking (and perusing AW) after a wonderful arrangement ended.  Much the same as last time, most of the dealings are going nowhere fast but I am holding out hope for one young lady who seems normal. So here are a few that didn't work for me, but they might for you....

My thoughts exactly. Resumed my subscription again but unable to find an arrangement as good as I have had previously.   Very transactional in nature now as expected. £1200 - £1500 per month will now be £2000 to £4000 per month. Busy trying to reconnect with numbers already on WhatsApp.
There’s a few Asian escorts I really like so might just rotate those.  One or two of those are cool with a dinner drink to begin before the action starts.



Offline metalqaz

Been chatting to this one, any intel gents ?

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MaryKate and Ashley, 27
2 friends & they both 10's.


Anyone game?

Offline coming_along

Recently took the plunge, it's a lot of work 😅

Misangle - External Link/Members Only - content seller.

Amelia - External Link/Members Only - Says she's based in Brisbane, wants $1200 pm or sells content for $45.

Ellie - External Link/Members Only - content seller who also allegedly does meets but only with deposits unless you buy x amount of content, too suspect for me, and just not interested in deposits or online.

Emma - External Link/Members Only - initially quoted £150ppm 1.5-2 hrs, could host, seemed a bit low then it evolved into sending money and buying gifts before we'd met, possible scammer.

April - External Link/Members Only - Doesn't live in the UK, wants to chat endlessly before maybe meeting.

Badgirlxo - External Link/Members Only - Very forward to start sexting immediately, didn't bother to find out more.

Offline paul_2407

Yes, very few of my SA encounters used condoms. Sometimes they ask if you have one but then don’t seem to care if you don’t which makes me wonder if they even wanted to in first place - some are like just don’t cum in me but when you do accidentally they just say they’ll get a plan b and don’t seem fussed.

One actually brought a condom to the bed but during sex she just decided not to use it. I have had a couple though where they did use it. Then there was also one who didn’t mind not using it but when I spoke to her a long time later she asked if we mind using it - some girls probably got burnt with an STI or pregnancy scare and they are probably more likely to be careful.

I did get my long term SB pregnant who considered keeping it but thank god she went ahead with abortion due to her young age and disapproving family, so if you do decide not to use a condom, don’t assume they all will use a plan B.

Interesting, appreciate everyone sharing their experiences. Sounds like SBs are much more relaxed about STIs, which I personally think isn’t fully thought through.

The one I recently saw again spoke of 4-5 regulars she’s seeing. Her meets are apparently as busy as twice a week to as infrequent as once a month. As mentioned by someone else, any convo with an SB on the topic must obviously be taken with a grain of salt.

Offline Maximi

Curious if others are having similar experiences to me with SBs.

I’m finding that SBs are generally far more comfortable with unprotected sex compared to escorts. For example, one turned up to a clearly sexual meet with no contraception and was already fully undressed taking me in her mouth when I suggested (protected) penetration and thankfully I came prepared. Another, after a few sexual meets, made it evident through her bodily movements that BB was on the cards if desired.

This is exactly the experience I’m having. I usually ask the girls preference before we meet and 80%+ immediately let me know their birth control status and method. I haven’t met a single girl that has insisted on protection during the act.

Offline MLawro93

Rubber up every single fucking time. You risk an unwanted pregnancy, it is not worth it for that alone.


Offline updownandaround

There’s a few things with this. Compared to a standard WG, “some” civvy women/SB’s are not spreading their legs numerous amount of times a day, week, months maybe. So in their head it’s low risk and they “should” know their health and they’re all good.

It’s imperative regardless of how they feel that you protect yourself.

Depending on the arrangement you have unless you have an exclusivity arrangement you’ll have to go with the assumption she’s seeing other people whether that’s other SD’s or just dating in general.

I usually go with nsa arrangements. In the buildup I also pose the question, protection or no protection? It’s a trick question as I’m always going to use condoms. It’s to gauge personally how loose they might be, what their previous arrangements were like etc. if they say anything along the lines of they’re fine with not using it or after time they won’t use it with me, I won’t break the stride on the meet and greet conversation but make a mental note and not continue with them.

I always carry condoms because I know generally speaking a SB is not going to bring they because they expect me to bring it. Otherwise if she brought a stack it would personally give me prozzie vibes and secondly in the off chance they were planning to try without. I’ve had a few incidents where in the heat of the passion they’ve tried pulling and trying to put it in, had to stop them and warn them that’s a no no.
In short it’s just carelessness. They believe due to low numbers they would see that raw is fine. But protect yourself.

All great points.

I would add a note of caution to the concept of "exclusive arrangement", in my experience that is very rare. Most girls talk about exclusive to extract a premium but in reality they will continue to see guys, whether they are paying or just regular guys they fancy.

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I would add a note of caution to the concept of "exclusive arrangement", in my experience that is very rare. Most girls talk about exclusive to extract a premium but in reality they will continue to see guys, whether they are paying or just regular guys they fancy.

i always take "exclusive arrangements" to mean not seeing other Seeking (or other SD/SB sites) guys and not including "civvy" life guys. For a guy in his 50/60's seeing a lady in her 20's to expect her to be totally exclusive to him is expecting a lot and in reality it ain't usually going to happen! Perhaps the most we should expect (unless we are paying a HUGE allowance) is that they will always use condoms and tell us about it - which is what i expect from my (LT) SB's.

Offline Atrueyorkie

All great points.

I would add a note of caution to the concept of "exclusive arrangement", in my experience that is very rare. Most girls talk about exclusive to extract a premium but in reality they will continue to see guys, whether they are paying or just regular guys they fancy.

Agreed, there’s no “pussy monitor” so there’s no way of actually knowing if they’re sticking to their word of exclusive. I’ve seen too many stories where they are supposedly exclusive but are still on the site looking for another arrangement or fishing.

I don’t do exclusive for that very reason. I almost feel its used to just jump up their price or allowance and they’ll still do whatever.

Offline WKD123

Been chatting to this one, any intel gents ?

External Link/Members Only (Funtime Kate)

She's been on the site for a while and I swapped numbers but when I sent a face pic, I got no reply which tells you a lot about my ugly mug!  Seemed genuine in terms of not being a money grabbing princess, but I never really found out.

Offline paul_tall_





April - External Link/Members Only - Doesn't live in the UK, wants to chat endlessly before maybe meeting.


April messaged me a few months back and then was supposedly in Vietnam, was looking for financial help during her travels and no meetings

Offline Ub12345

External Link/Members Only
MaryKate and Ashley, 27
2 friends & they both 10's.


Anyone game?

I cant see the profile, has it been deactivated?
Can you let me know are they blondes from canada?

Offline Hardluck

I cant see the profile, has it been deactivated?
Can you let me know are they blondes from canada?

Yes they are blondes from Canada

Offline updownandaround

Agreed, there’s no “pussy monitor” so there’s no way of actually knowing if they’re sticking to their word of exclusive. I’ve seen too many stories where they are supposedly exclusive but are still on the site looking for another arrangement or fishing.

I don’t do exclusive for that very reason. I almost feel its used to just jump up their price or allowance and they’ll still do whatever.

I've found that they'll block you on Seeking and pretend they have deactivated their account to show they are serious about being exclusive but continue using as per usual. I mean if I was a girl, I'd do the same so I can't blame them, why sell your poon to just one bloke if you're in the market to sell it in the first place?