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Offline ik8133

Done it twice when the wife was away….drinks before, then back to mine for an overnight. Two of the best experiences in my life….but probably a stupid thing to have done.

You can't just leave it there, go on, give us the details!

Offline Brimich

Was a long time ago….and both are no longer on the site, though both have been discussed in this forum, but long ago.

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I met her recently. Cute but a bit formulaic. I think she’s a bit too into chemicals too…

She mentioned her friends also. Anyone had a chance to meet them? Didn’t get numbers and they don’t have profiles apparently.


I really hate it when girls quote £250/hour. What it ACTUALLY means is 20 minutes for £250.

I was tempted by a girl who wants £250 but she's won't do a pre-meet (External Link/Members Only)

Furthermore, she has sent pics of other young women. So it would be like booking an escort but with no benefit of reviews.

A proper, good SB will do PPM, where a meet is several hours. IMHO.
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Offline updownandaround

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This one messaged me this morning but a quick Pimeyes shows her on AW but without a direct link to her profile. Anyone know who she is or have her AW link?

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Very pro attitude, straight to WA, asking me to book hotel. Wants £500ppm. Way too much imo, didn't bother negotiating

Layla

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Thinks she has a gold-plated pussy...

"Financial help is a bonus so if you’re okay with 1k allowance each time....." Surely if the financial help was just a "bonus" then she's be happy with much less....



Offline Kirtlands

Update the first one (Stunning Fan) came back with £300ppm after I'd said that's too much, goodbye. She looks fit but still comes across as more of a pro than an SB so will swerve.

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Layla

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Thinks she has a gold-plated pussy...

"Financial help is a bonus so if you’re okay with 1k allowance each time....." Surely if the financial help was just a "bonus" then she's be happy with much less....

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Good spot! £850...some people have more money than sense

Offline updownandaround

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I suppose one man's rubbish is another man's treasure and all that but there is no way I would pay that kind of paper for her. Seeking or otherwise! That kind of money is porn actress money.


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Any have any luck with Barbiegirl? External Link/Members Only

I messaged her and she read it, but no reply

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Any have any luck with Barbiegirl? External Link/Members Only

I messaged her and she read it, but no reply

Why ask if she didn't reply? Apart from the fact it's pointless if a girls isn't interested, if we all posted asking for info on girls we sent messages to but who didn't reply then this would cease really to be a thread of any use.  :unknown:

Offline andrew.michael

Any have any luck with Barbiegirl? External Link/Members Only

I messaged her and she read it, but no reply

Profile suggests she’s in US?


Offline DeanoDeano

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She’s been posted about before definitely. Also has her own pornhub channel.

And she’s an absolute 24carat cunt to engage with and speak to.

Search for that url and you’ll probably find the link i mentioned - she also has a few instagram accounts where she touts her onlyfans…

Offline DeanoDeano

I suppose one man's rubbish is another man's treasure and all that but there is no way I would pay that kind of paper for her. Seeking or otherwise! That kind of money is porn actress money.

She is a porn actress!  :lol:

Offline HomerC

I met her recently. Cute but a bit formulaic. I think she’s a bit too into chemicals too…

She mentioned her friends also. Anyone had a chance to meet them? Didn’t get numbers and they don’t have profiles apparently.

Please PM me (I am unable to; I can only reply)

I'm surprised she's actually a woman and cute! Good to know. She wouldn't do a free coffee meet so i left it

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I agree she is formulaic at best but really really sub verging on passive. Seriously into Chems & alcohol.
Since discovered that she BB’s though claims to test regularly……

Also mentioned her friends but never met any of them so saw some pics and tbh have avoided this one - it’s too risky


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I'm surprised she's actually a woman and cute! Good to know. She wouldn't do a free coffee meet so i left it

Offline Jardent6

Had a mixed 2 months on SA

Ranging from 270 all the way down to a freebie.

Echoing what someone else said the younger girls tend to be more spontaneous you have to move quickly and arrange a meet otherwise they definitely tend to flake and ignore.

Be very clear about what you want and expect. I learnt that the hard way when I booked a hotel paid for dinner and this girl got dressed after we fucked once. 🤬.

There is definitely gems but there’s also fucking wrongens too. It’s all luck tbh . I mean I took one girl to a fast food place for a date Lool . She told me to give her any amount I wanted(ofc I lowballed- like it was such a lowball offer I even felt embarrassed to say it 😂) and she let me absolutely use her all night long , she probably had the best arse of all the girls I’ve seen on that site

It’s definitely a numbers game. It’s definitely time consuming. And it’s definitely expensive - especially if you want variety. It’s also not always definitely worth it as you never know what you’re going to get.

If you’ve really got the spare money then go ahead and have some fun. If you’re saving for something - don’t bother signing up as that website will rinse your cash reserves quicker than pep guardiola in his first transfer window

Offline updownandaround


Echoing what someone else said the younger girls tend to be more spontaneous you have to move quickly and arrange a meet otherwise they definitely tend to flake and ignore.


Also, the young ones just have more options as they are getting hit on a lot more on SA plus the other mediums they use. 😀

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

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Sweetie pretty cutie

Have an Asian student meet this evening that might extend … and was just checking if anyone has seen this one yet?
Might try for tomorrow.

Rings a bell as I’ve looked at most Asian profiles on SA.
Nice profile photo  :D and her message to me was very suggestive although staying within the rules … just … pretty clear she’s up for ppm.
Love those tits.


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Just a small flat! Well as long as its not big.

Offline updownandaround

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Just a small flat! Well as long as its not big.

Last night online, I had one who asked to prove I am genuine by buyer her a car. Of course! 😀

Offline stampjones

Last night online, I had one who asked to prove I am genuine by buyer her a car. Of course! 😀
Get a toy car and take a photo lol

Offline Whiteknight

Last night online, I had one who asked to prove I am genuine by buyer her a car. Of course! 😀

Haha, I had that asked by a SB that I have seen many times before, we are now friends with no benefit.

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

Haha, I had that asked by a SB that I have seen many times before, we are now friends with no benefit.

*** news flash***
Friends without benefits might be added to SA listings  :D replaces platonic.

Offline updownandaround

*** news flash***
Friends without benefits might be added to SA listings  :D replaces platonic.

I just don't get the whole platonic thing. So many girls have it in their profiles but I can't see why any bloke would want to pay for being friends. And don't get me started on the whole online thing!

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I guess I am lucky. I tried to buy my SB a birthday present. We have been meeting for 15 months now. She said you already give me too much. But she really is an ordinary girl, works as a nanny, and is so sweet. and we have a 40 year age difference). I feel I have been very lucky

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

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25 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
Sweetie pretty cutie

Have an Asian student meet this evening that might extend … and was just checking if anyone has seen this one yet?
Might try for tomorrow.

Rings a bell as I’ve looked at most Asian profiles on SA.
Nice profile photo  :D and her message to me was very suggestive although staying within the rules … just … pretty clear she’s up for ppm.
Love those tits.

WA photos don’t match the young hottie in the SA photo. Pleasant enough Vietnamese-Chinese likely to be late 20’s or maybe over 30 … who knows?
Settled for £250 ppm sex included if anyone is interested …. I’m out  :thumbsup:
« Last Edit: May 31, 2022, 11:31:52 am by Prifessionallondinguy »

Offline paul_tall_

*** news flash***
Friends without benefits might be added to SA listings  :D replaces platonic.
Have come across profiles that have fwb rather than platonic list have implied that is is just friends and the benefit is the reward for them when chatting

Offline Whiteknight

I just don't get the whole platonic thing. So many girls have it in their profiles but I can't see why any bloke would want to pay for being friends. And don't get me started on the whole online thing!

A rare few who uses the Platonic to deter some SD who are into sex on 1st date.  If you manage to sift through properly with lots of luck, there are some gold dust.  Being on that site for over 2 years, I found 1 a few months ago, after 3 platonic meets, with social allowance PPM, dinner and drinks on each occasion, finally went back to hers for fun while her parents were away in Spain.  Its kind of paying off now, as she was happy with just a small increase in allowance and never expected a certain minimum amount.

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A rare few who uses the Platonic to deter some SD who are into sex on 1st date.  If you manage to sift through properly with lots of luck, there are some gold dust.  Being on that site for over 2 years, I found 1 a few months ago, after 3 platonic meets, with social allowance PPM, dinner and drinks on each occasion, finally went back to hers for fun while her parents were away in Spain.  Its kind of paying off now, as she was happy with just a small increase in allowance and never expected a certain minimum amount.

You have more patience than me, unless there's possibility of sex first time then I'm not interested. There are too many fish in the sea that will put out on the first "date". 😀

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the platonic thing was discussed earlier this month. I tend to agree with whiteknight. this is how i do it:

i take "platonic" on a profile as a "indicator" of what the lady wants and doesn't want. i usually ask outright whether they mean platonic under any and all circumstances. usually or at least often the reply is "no, but i want to keep the men away who just want sex, the type who already have a hotel booked when they meet you for the first time. I need to get to know someone first".

i say something like " that's understandable, and i am happy to meet a few times to get to know one another, to build trust and move into an arrangement later when we are both comfortable with each other." and i add "just to be open and honest and to ensure  there is no misunderstanding, whilst i will of course pay for drinks or dinner (whichever we do) there won't be any PPM or arrangement until we are both happy to proceed"

a few will say they want a ppm for a platonic meet - i just say "no, sorry been misled before and won't do it again". so they get ditched and I move on.

And, yes i am someone who doesn't mind paying for dinner with an attractive young lady on a non sex "date" - as an investment in the future and due to enjoying her company and the good food we have. Obviously the intention is to build towards a full arrangement in the future and most times it has lead to a LT arrangement. My best ever 3 arrangements have come about this way. i know i am a little different to many guys on here because "best" for me is BOTH best in the bedroom but also outside of it - that we do fun things together - social, active fun stuff.

 I find it pays off big time, but yes you need to have some patience and play the long game. 

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

Meeting a pretty Asian this week who will come back to my hotel (full ppm price) after dinner but there’s no certainty of sex today.  She kissed me lots during a freebie lunch the other week.
Said maybe not intimacy on first date but happy after.  I’m guessing she’s either testing my resolve, playing me for a fool or is a lesbo!

Yup long game alright.

Offline ik8133

A rare few who uses the Platonic to deter some SD who are into sex on 1st date.  If you manage to sift through properly with lots of luck, there are some gold dust.  Being on that site for over 2 years, I found 1 a few months ago, after 3 platonic meets, with social allowance PPM, dinner and drinks on each occasion, finally went back to hers for fun while her parents were away in Spain.  Its kind of paying off now, as she was happy with just a small increase in allowance and never expected a certain minimum amount.

If I was single, that's the way I would play it as well. If you've met a few times before, the actual fun meet will be more relaxed I suppose, or maybe more exciting as there is a bit of a build up an anticipation.

Offline updownandaround

If I was single, that's the way I would play it as well. If you've met a few times before, the actual fun meet will be more relaxed I suppose, or maybe more exciting as there is a bit of a build up an anticipation.

There's enough anticipation in waiting for Christmas. 😀

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

There's enough anticipation in waiting for Christmas. 😀

 :D The tongue 👅 out look doesn’t always go down well.  I’ve learnt new skills on SA… how to subtly undress someone whilst simultaneously listening to their life history … seemingly looking interested but marking them out of 10/10.

I’d accept being called sexist but one girl I met for lunch headed to the ladies quickly and came back with lippy on and her cleavage open and pushed up.
I didn’t know where to look.  :D

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Fabulous lady

One mentioned earlier.

Having clicked on this one to see what the fuss was all about received an invite to WA to discuss particulars. 
Decent pvt photos.
Might be out of my moral price structure though. Too pro also.
There’s similar escorts I can find with less hassle and the need to be messaging too and fro.
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A rare few who uses the Platonic to deter some SD who are into sex on 1st date.  If you manage to sift through properly with lots of luck, there are some gold dust.  Being on that site for over 2 years, I found 1 a few months ago, after 3 platonic meets, with social allowance PPM, dinner and drinks on each occasion, finally went back to hers for fun while her parents were away in Spain.  Its kind of paying off now, as she was happy with just a small increase in allowance and never expected a certain minimum amount.

the platonic thing was discussed earlier this month. I tend to agree with whiteknight. this is how i do it:

 I find it pays off big time, but yes you need to have some patience and play the long game.

We understand the theory of the long game with dates but the issue is paying ppm for platonic dates, which WK said he did on 3 occasions.

I'm pleased he found something that was great for him but even if a guy has the patience, the reality is WK still got extremely lucky; a tiny percentage of the girls who expect being paid for a platonic date are going to end up converting to an intimate meet.
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Izheragain, 20, says London but possibly Basingstoke and spends time in Reading
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Agreed moderate ppm and had video call (not as good looking as photos), then the day before the meet she asked for a bit more and also said she didn't kiss. So I said leave it, but then she said if I gave her considerably more anything was on offer in the bedroom.

Needless to say, I replied I didn't like her tactics and if I wanted an escort I could get better elsewhere, then blocked her.


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Super keen to meet and agreed moderate ppm for London but put off doing a video call. No surprise - she's a total catfish; nothing like the girl in the photos. She's also fairly monosyllabic.

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Offline Whiteknight

You have more patience than me, unless there's possibility of sex first time then I'm not interested. There are too many fish in the sea that will put out on the first "date". 😀

No, our patience as men are pretty much the same, we all want a bit of realistic NSA GFE kind of fun as soon as we can.

Obviously I have more time in my hand, and I do already have a few SB that I met before and are happy to do just intimacy PPM and scratch an itch.

Offline Whiteknight

the platonic thing was discussed earlier this month. I tend to agree with whiteknight. this is how i do it:

 I find it pays off big time, but yes you need to have some patience and play the long game.

I have actually been getting a lot of great advices from you here Southcoastpunter  :hi: and tweek it to suit my personality, time and money budgets.

SB are different to SP, and whenever I felt like services seeking orientated, I would visit a regular escort. 

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thank you whiteknight! Glad its helping someone!


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any intel gents?

hotel based, seems very pro, but hot. £400ppm but I'd imagine it is only for a few hours at most. Imagine more escort like experience but still tempted

Offline Whiteknight

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any intel gents?

hotel based, seems very pro, but hot. £400ppm but I'd imagine it is only for a few hours at most. Imagine more escort like experience but still tempted

Is she hotel based?  Or its hotel expenses on top of the £400.

If she is that precise with hotel PPM, it's no harm to clarify with her what you like and enjoy doing and for how much time you would like to spend with her.

I have had very young and pretty SB that they would get dressed straight after sex and said they were meeting friends somewhere later or needed to catch a train.  They would give any excuses.  So always always pay at the end, when you are both leaving.

£400 is alot of money for 90 minutes if that's what it turned out to be  :unknown:

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I have had very young and pretty SB that they would get dressed straight after sex and said they were meeting friends somewhere later or needed to catch a train.  They would give any excuses.  So always always pay at the end, when you are both leaving.
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This happened to me and it’s so infuriating when this happens. She even said before hand she planned to stay for around 3/4 hours. It ended up being practically 1 hour . It might be worth just saying I won’t pay unless x is met

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This happened to me and it’s so infuriating when this happens. She even said before hand she planned to stay for around 3/4 hours. It ended up being practically 1 hour . It might be worth just saying I won’t pay unless x is met

I think it's definitely better to be upfront about it.  I have different allowances depending on time spent and the kind of date we are doing.

Those SB that don't put in an effort in appearance and hygiene, or always in a hurry in life, I tend not to see again.

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thank you whiteknight! Glad its helping someone!
second that motion . Thanks south coast punter

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I agree she is formulaic at best but really really sub verging on passive. Seriously into Chems & alcohol.
Since discovered that she BB’s though claims to test regularly……

Also mentioned her friends but never met any of them so saw some pics and tbh have avoided this one - it’s too risky

How did you find she does bb. She never mentioned that otherwise it’d have been a walk.

Guessing her friends do also so probably best an avoid even if they did look cute.
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