I’ve bailed from Seeking. A month’s useage, lots of WhatsApp conversations and some very strong possible meetings set, but ultimately I decided it was just too risky for me in my situation. I totally get the sides of the discussion on it and the appeal but it’s not for me in my situation.
Some final thoughts - the range of expectations from girls was large. Some demanding some very high prices for PPM and allowances/gifts etc. I got the impression they really thought they were going to land a billionaire who would be exclusive. A bit naive…
Others were more into it for a thrill and there were a couple that I got chatting to where there was no expectation of a fee per se. The other end of the spectrum.
As I mentioned earlier, when you stray scratching under the surface of why they are there, there is a tinge of sadness in many cases. I feel I got to know a couple fairly intimately and I will kind of miss them.
But for me as a married guy, that needs to be cautious and discreet, it’s too much so I’m going to revert to regular punting from now as and when.
The contributions on this thread are immense and hugely valuable for newbies to Seeking. Thanks all.