Author Topic: How to escalate massage with ‘professional’ masseuse that is attracted to me?  (Read 7036 times)

Offline DastardlyDick

As for the police (and I'm no expert here), I hope they can use their time better than trying to find out if legitimate masseurs are actually prostitutes, and wouldn't, they have to send someone and record them offering services in person for it to hold up in court, otherwise the SP could say it was a misunderstanding on the phone / txt? (assuming they haven't a large collection from the same SP)
Given that VAWG (Violence Against Women and Girls) is flavour of the month with the political classes, so I wouldn't bet on that.
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I'm still puzzling over this phrase "escalate massage" what does it mean in English?

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I'm still puzzling over this phrase "escalate massage" what does it mean in English?

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Offline Crackpot11

If it’s a legit massage and you fancy her, you could just ask her out at the end rather than exposing your privates. If you just fancy a tug from her just ask if any extras. She’s unlikely to give you sex just because you think she fancies you.

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Have you thought about popping a blue pill before you go and just think sexual thoughts, spin over and the boner of the year is there.

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It must be pretty bad as a legit masseuse to have men contact you asking for extras. I don't blame them for going women only.

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To the OP in my experience if you have seen a woman a couple of times for a massage and extras where on offer she
would of mentioned it by now. Remember this is how the girls make extra money and if you give it to them straight
in room the establishment will not know about. If you enjoy her company and a simple massage enjoy what you have
but if you want more maybe look elsewhere

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It must be pretty bad as a legit masseuse to have men contact you asking for extras. I don't blame them for going women only.

And there is a lot of woman offering happy endings to ladies as well. I don't have any data but have been told by various people in my city who offer it / get offered. Ladies need a happy ending as well!

Likewise places can change. I knew one legit place where they fired a lady for doing happy endings. Taking went down...... so they now look the other way..... takings back up.
Earning can be low - and tips mean they are making double for the same time - all cash in hand. And just for massaging in a sexy way - less work than a real deep massage.

If advertising on gumtree or VS - over 80% do. Feel sorry for the others - but advertising on gumtree..... need to make it clear - underpants must be kept on and no extras or police will be informed (as it says on one local website - would have to be a DH to then ask)

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And there is a lot of woman offering happy endings to ladies as well. I don't have any data but have been told by various people in my city who offer it / get offered. Ladies need a happy ending as well!
I've asked a few massage providers about this and they say they don't give their female customers happy endings.

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Would these tend to be Chinese ladies?

I have heard from some local Thai, white and coloured ladies of being asked / giving ladies happy ending massages. No data just heard plenty of times that there is a market for it. There use to be at least 1 lady in Norwich spitting distance from where I work who focused on 'tantric' massages but for ladies only. Plenty of bi / gay / straight ladies about who are happy to give a hand

But I did hear from a white lady she use to do ladies - but in her own words they can't trust ladies - and some male's have got into a lot of trouble not worth it anymore - but men are simple she said - if any complained there would be 5 coppers there to find out if true! On a serious note - a local chap got arrested and locked up for 5 hours for giving his secretary a food massage?! And when she told her mother - her mother made her complain to the police :-s

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Interesting recent article that the OP and a few others might want to read.

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I've asked a few massage providers about this and they say they don't give their female customers happy endings.

If massage providers were giving their female customers happy endings, do you think they would admit this

Offline Thephoenix

If massage providers were giving their female customers happy endings, do you think they would admit this

Some of them have to me. :thumbsup:

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I've asked a few massage providers about this and they say they don't give their female customers happy endings.

I've met a few who do.

Offline fredhiggins

Given that VAWG (Violence Against Women and Girls) is flavour of the month with the political classes, so I wouldn't bet on that.
Not illegal for one woman to sell sex is it?

Offline Heph

If massage providers were giving their female customers happy endings, do you think they would admit this

Yes - they do

I've asked a few massage providers about this and they say they don't give their female customers happy endings.

Some told me they do. Now you know different.

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Not illegal for one woman to sell sex is it?
Raids on massage parlours in the north east have been to look for human trafficking which is illegal and I would think it's safe to assume other force areas would be the same.

I does surprise me that some people think that the police's time could be 'better spent' on something other than 'looking for prostitutes'. I thought it was common knowledge that there are different departments within the police force and one of those departments is concerned with modern slavery and human trafficking so when they raid a massage parlour they are doing what they are being paid to do. Northumbria police also have officers specially trained to deal with sex work.

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I've met a few who do.

It is a very small market and difficult to quantify.

There are the more specialised 'tantric' providers who will include orgasm as part of the regime for women clients. The provider may be male or female. The whole subject of tantric massage is very complex. Tantric providers are not huge in number and are often concentrated in larger towns in particular the capital.

In terms of the 'high street' massage providers where happy endings may be on the menu (and are frequently reviewed on here), then inevitably some will have a small number of female clients, who are also seeking 'an ending'. However the overall numbers are small and many providers will therefore have none, as a result of either lack of demand or by choice.

Choice is also an important consideration for the client, in terms of preference for a male or female provider.

Indeed many women are likely to be put off seeking even just a massage, from a provider who spends much of her day wanking off men .. or worse  :D

The other issue is that, in general terms, successfully providing a happy ending to most men is not an unduly onerous or indeed a time consuming task. The same is not true for the majority of women.

As I have posted before in relation to this subject then the potential market is probably much greater, but for a prospective female seeker of such a service, finding a provider (be it a male or female) who possesses the required skill set is not easy. As a result there is a lot of 'word of mouth' involved in finding and choosing one to make the financial outlay worth it.

Also being an experienced, skilled and qualified massage therapist, does not equate to being skilled with ensuring a satisfactory female orgasm. The latter is hugely more variable and complicated and can require a natural aptitude and many years of experience with a wide range of women to perfect.


Offline Thephoenix

There are also the massage exchange sites .
I'm not sure if I can do a link.

I joined one of the popular sites for a while many years ago.
Most of the members are hetero/gay/bi males, but perhaps surprisingly there are a few single females and couples.

Offline Munter84

You misread my post I still wore no boxers.

I don’t want a relationship she is married with kids

Fair enough, I misunderstood your post.

If you're just looking for extras, what is stopping you just asking? As you mentioned in your first post her massage isn't all that and the only reason you're a repeat client is that you think she's hot. You also believe she's attracted to you, not sure how you can be so sure of this, but if it's true then that surely tips the odds in your favour.

Maybe ask in a roundabout way like "Do any of your clients ever try to ask you for extra services?" and gauge from her reaction whether you should ask or not.

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I'd use UKP to find another place that does extras. It's not hard to find them.