Did you get your money back?
Of course not.
In a nutshell, she messaged me out of the blue (maybe others of you got the same message?) saying "I'm free this week but only for outcalls". I replied and said great, how about X date at X time and X location, she agreed, and I said "just to remind you, you have my money from last time when you had that problem with your boyfriend and we couldn't go through with the meeting". And she then told me a load of fucking bullshit about how she is under police protection and all her messages are being recorded by the police for evidence of death threats against her, blah blah.
For the record, I obviously never made any threats of any sort against her, unless you count "I'd like my money back please" as a threat. Which personally, I do not.
I have screenshot her messages and am happy to share them privately with anyone who wants to see them.
In my head I've written off that money so I'm tempted to just leave it there and move on. But a part of me wants to see her get her come-uppance, financially I mean.