Good thread. Shows that people aren't scared to speak their mind or call each other out. Sign of a healthy forum imo. No need to threaten to resign Stuart

we're all men here. People see things differently, and that's to be expected.
It is a harsh neg because there was no intent to waste OP's time and she didn't take anything from him. Let's be frank - she just didn't want anything to do him. Which understandably upset the OP - but if
we don't have a good experience with a prossie, we don't have to see them again, if we don't want to. Difficult to argue it shouldn't work both ways.
It is quite obvious from the text exchange (and I am not sure OP quite grasped this) that her problem was not so much that he reviewed, as that she perceives he took pleasure from her discomfiture. That is why she had a problem, even though OP rated it Positive. To her mind, he enjoyed and went and boasted about something that she did not enjoy (and perhaps even considered deliberate, or unkind).
In fairness, being excitable when reviewing is not proof of ill intent. We all know there are guys who probably fuck like Mr Bean but describe it as if they're Casanova. In this case, this isn't the first time OP's been questioned on treatment of prossies. He is likely "rough". I think there's been a few girls who never did another facial again after he booked

and there is evidence to suggest he takes his "pounding" to extremes.
But I do think OP's surprise at all this is genuine, which just goes to show self-awareness is important. Considering oneself a good guy does not nessarily mean escorts feel the same about you. Food for thought.