The “taste of the good life” might work for someone older, maybe, but in my experience the younger girls are after one thing. Money. That’s it. Pure and simple. They aren’t going to want to date a man twice their age Otherwise and anyone who thinks the opposite is surely kidding themselves. Are you going to take them to raves, be their Tik Tok video buddy and hang out with a bunch of 23 year olds?
my experience is different. Maybe its because we look for different things and talk to/attract different types of ladies on seeking or at least ladies that are looking for different things.
some financial assitance is part of it of course but only part of it - just as sex is part of it for me but just part of it and its not just about getting sex. I have had two fairly long term arrangements with ladies who didn't want any monetry allowance but rather said " just buy them gifts from time to time and take them to nice places". One was 21 and the other 23. i also have had two freebies - again one was 25 and the other 28.
Of the ladies i have seen who say they are "into" older guys, i ask why? One of my current SB's (i have two) is 21. I have known her for well over a year, been away with her for long weekends etc several times and trust her 100%. She tells me two things relevant to this - one is that whilst she hangs around with people her own age and parties with them , she does not date or even fuck guys her own age. Second she likes older guys (and this has been more or less repeated by other young ladies not into guys their own age) because most guys her age:
- are idiots or weird
- don't know how to treat a lady
- spend too long on their phone and don't talk to them
- cannot afford to take them anywhere nice
- apart from when actually having sex, most are more interested in their own body rather than hers
- are only interested in making sure they enjoy sex and not whether she enjoys it
- can't hold a decent conversation about anything other than music or football.
Obviously the ladies are sensible enough to know that its not real life dating, as am I. But its certainly not just about money for them as whilst i usually offer some financial support, they could easily get a lot more from other guys who just want to fuck them. We do things together, fun things, and build memories and experiences together. Anything we both want to do - from dinners to theatre to weekends away to go-karting and off road driving and hot air ballooning. And yes of course it comes to an end at some stage - and we go back into real life. And i expect when they get to mid/late 20's, they will find guys have matured a bit and are not like the above list. But in the meantime, I am single and loving it!!