Seeking.com in the South West

[stokecity]

Thanks for the info...have heard nothing, so...

Seems a bit quiet tbh...I had a fine time last October, but nothing so far looking exciting.

We live in hope...😝

[simit]

Here's another one that doesn't offer much but wants a lot: 

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[Cunning Punt]

Here's another one that doesn't offer much but wants a lot: 

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Could do with a bit more detail because some folk may be happy with whatever it is she does offer and is expecting. This is a shot in the dark, but do you mean she is platonic only and expecting a high allowance, in which case, what sum was quoted?

And given SW a large area, it's worth nothing her location is Stroud.

[liverbird_1973]

Here's another one that doesn't offer much but wants a lot: 

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Would be interested to know too as just been contacted by this member tonight!

[salam]

Has anyone met an alternative girl, 20 yo American student in Bristol? WhatsApp number 07377188xxx. I can't find her profile anymore on seeking. Had a meet and greet, was behaving weird and stopped comm after that.

[simit]

Would be interested to know too as just been contacted by this member tonight!

Sorry fellas.  This Sophie in Stroud - nice enough.  She is asking for £350 for an hour of her time, and it won't be at her place.  If that's your thing crack on ...................

[Cunning Punt]

Sorry fellas.  This Sophie in Stroud - nice enough.  She is asking for £350 for an hour of her time, and it won't be at her place.  If that's your thing crack on ...................

As these conversations are on WhatsApp, if a girl quotes me a hourly figure, particularly a ridiculous one like that, then I bluntly tell her she's an escort so best she gets off SA and onto Adultwork!

[southcoastpunter]

Bournemouth guys - just joined today:

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she says : "Be my sugar daddy for a guarantee good blowjob" and also : "always willing to go for dinner and stay in hotels"

I have a good stable of current "seeking" ladies otherwise i would follow up with her!

[Southernandy]

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This one is looking for a meet on Saturday if anyone is interested

[stokecity]

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I think I met this one before covid...she lived with a seeking mate in Fishponds near the skateboard park...

Hmmm...a bit meh - she'll fuck for 100£ but not very exciting as I remember...jaded, cynical and unenthusiastic - not one to remember.



This one is looking for a meet on Saturday if anyone is interested

[mgkerx]

if it's the same girl it's unlikely she will Fuck for £100 I had a arranged to see her last week and agreed at £200 She never turned up and when challenged she says her price that SD's pay is £300 a meet

[stokecity]

He prices must have gone up substantially then...either that or I'm better looking than u 🤪😋🙂

[mgkerx]

He prices must have gone up substantially then...either that or I'm better looking than u 🤪😋🙂

Yep that's possible but with most of these girls it's all about the Money looks are somewhat irrelevant and I'm better than average in the looks department,Meow

[southcoastpunter]

Yep that's possible but with most of these girls it's all about the Money looks are somewhat irrelevant and I'm better than average in the looks department,Meow

sorry, i disagree  - sure there are some out and out WG's on there and for them it maybe "all about the money" but for most of the ladies i chat to and certainly those i have had an arrangement with i would say its much less to do with financial support (yes that is part of the package) but its also about  looks to some extent and def personality and "click" or whatever you want to call it.

I rarely do PPM's - maybe the sort of lady that does PPM is more like a WG and is more focused on "the money". If guys treat them like and want them to perform like WG's (ie hotel/sex meets) then maybe that is what they get!!

[Doombar]

if it's the same girl it's unlikely she will Fuck for £100 I had a arranged to see her last week and agreed at £200 She never turned up and when challenged she says her price that SD's pay is £300 a meet

I also chatted to her last year. She wanted 300ppm for a 2 hour date that included drinks, meal and sex - so not much time for sex!  I asked for a few full length photos - she refused saying "isn't my face enough?" and came across as very arrogant.  Clearly an escort type with attitude issues so not for me and I didn't pursue her further.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

If you buy a car you check the bodywork thoroughly first, yes?      Must have a spare tyre.
I operate in London but good to hear similar nonsense happens here too.   

[southcoastpunter]

NurseBaby - Poole,   Timewaster

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chatted for a few days on seeking, then on WA - some messaging, voice messages, and video chats. agreed to meet for lunch in 4 days time. lots of chat in the days in between. Then on the day 5 or 6 messages in quick succession along the lines of - I am so anxious, i can't do this, sorry, i just can't, sorry etc

so either a time waster or has real "issues" and will likely let you down. And that was just for lunch, i had already told her its lunch only, nothing more!

[simit]

Heads up that although this girl is happy to chat and go to WA easily, she is looking for a full on SB relationship.  This will either include a monthly allowance or £400ppm.

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[simit]

The above girl is in Cheltenham

[Cunning Punt]

Heads up that although this girl is happy to chat and go to WA easily, she is looking for a full on SB relationship.  This will either include a monthly allowance or £400ppm.

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Thanks for the intel, good to have confirmation but I could tell that was going to be the case by just looking at her profile. She's made herself up to look like a model and just look at the very little she has on her profile, starting with "Everything in life isn’t for free" and her only line on what she's seeking is "I’m looking for a mutual agreement for paid meet ups". 

Yes, we all know what's involved but if a girl is too money orientated on her profile then that's a red flag for me. One learns to pick up these telltale signs from profiles and not even give them the time of day and waste our time in the first place.

[Cunning Punt]

so either a time waster or has real "issues" and will likely let you down.

Still a timewaster either way. I have some sympathy if people have genuine issues but if they do, aren't sure about this and are going to let people down, then they shouldn't be on SA wasting people's time in the first place.

[southcoastpunter]

ElegantGambler, Poole      External Link/Members Only

Good looking (better than her pic) but a time waster and a bit of a scammer in that she will lead you on, tell you what you want to hear, make excuses why you can't meet "properly" etc.

[stokecity]

Just finishing my 6th/7th month of Seeking - done a month at a time over the last 3/4 years, so here's a report if anyone's interested.

Firstly, a shame I couldn't subscribe during Jan/Feb...I was banned - that time has always been good for me, but couldn't re-join until I learnt about Revolut on here - so thanks again for the advice, UKP; v much appreciated.

I can confirm that it's not IP addresses or phone numbers that they trace, just credit card deets/addresses...if you're banned, get a Revolut - v easy.

Anyway, the actual month...a bit disappointing tbh. Met 5, a couple slightly ropey, but one dirty enough to make up for it. Two decent tbf...but none at the 8/9 level that I've enjoyed previously...a few irons in the fire, but no great hopes...you never know though on Seeking. 🤞

A bit of a sadl take, though. Managed to re-connect with a previous SB who I hadn't seen for maybe 18 months...I was looking forward to it, tbh - she was a super sexy petite lil 18 year old cutie when we first met a few times....

Really hot, sharp haircut, nice make up...a good girl...

I genuinely liked her..smart, brave, confident, relaxed...killer size 8 - just a little bit of puppy fat to wobble slightly and grab hold of... properly delightful.

Met her last week again...still a lovely girl...but goodness me, ....I thought I looked rough after the lockdowns. 😝

She must have put on a stone at least...a shame for such a young girl...she's only 20 now. A shadow of the sex goddess I worshiped ...

Still, nice enough...ofc I fucked her, but...

I'd happily take her out for lunch or coffee, but won't be paying her again for intimacy. She's now got the figure of a 35 yr old mother of two...nothing wrong with that..
Unless Ur 20....

I know, I know..
What a horrible old pervert I am...but genuinely more upset for the way beauty and hotness has drained from such a fab young girl....

Hopefully, she's not suffering any mental health issues and is just having a bad few months...we've all been there!

Either way, the highs and the lows of Seeking, eh?

Glad to be back on, but not a great month...happy to be off the daily tread mill of message checking etc...

Hope everyone else is fairing well on there...

[Hantsolo]

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AspiringBlonde (Poole)

Wants £150 per hour to meet, can't accommodate..... Obviously she isn't an escort despite the hourly rate 

[southcoastpunter]

Messiana, aged 18, Salisbury     External Link/Members Only

straight to WA and said £200 for 2 hours, £500 overnight - and "whatever i want".

Haven't pursued it so haven't met her.

(btw - she said the pic without piercings is the most recent)

[Cunning Punt]

Classy Bae, 27
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"Only offer virtual sugar services if you are familiar with the term ? X"

To which I replied I was but it was incorrect as she was not a sugar baby but an online content provider, and why would I want that etc. Then I told her to get off the site and onto OnlyFans.

[stokecity]

Messiana, aged 18, Salisbury     External Link/Members Only

straight to WA and said £200 for 2 hours, £500 overnight - and "whatever i want".

Haven't pursued it so haven't met her.

(btw - she said the pic without piercings is the most recent)

Fuckin ell - I'm sure she's a lovely girl but I'd be offering her 40 quid for an hour max.

I just despair at the fact that - although she might be talking bollocks about money - undoubtedly some saps are giving out way too much - especially to average girls.

I don't know what anybody else thinks but I reckon that 9s and 10s can ask for what they want and if ppl wanna pay, then there we go.

But bang average girls on there should be happy with what they're given - they can choose.

I'd never be impolite to anyone but we're on Seeking to have fab experiences - I don't mind paying good money for hotties, but  ordinary girls can take or leave 60£ for an hour. That how I operate anyway.

Anyone paying silly money just ruins it for others.

5/6/7s often take it in my experience..not necessarily a bad shag either...I just prefer the good looking ones with fit bodies 😋💞🙂

Hey ho...

[southcoastpunter]

£60? Really?

well no wonder you don't do very well. you would be better off going back to AW or whatever!

[joninbristol]

£60? Really?

well no wonder you don't do very well. you would be better off going back to AW or whatever!

Totally agree. I don't subscribe to the £200 per hour AW jokers, but come on StokeCity - even on AW we've not seen £60/hr for a couple of decades. Seeking prices are always higher as you're usually paying for a meeting that's probably going to last much longer than one hour, rather than on the clock.
Appreciate prices vary around the country, but even the lowest priced Romanians on AW are around £100 per hour and I'd guess that's considered cheap by the majority on this forum. Adjust appropriately for Seeking.



 

[Cunning Punt]

£60? Really?

well no wonder you don't do very well. you would be better off going back to AW or whatever!

Well, according to his lengthy report he does. He said he was disappointed by his return but meeting 5 different girls in a month is extremely good going, particularly at the moment.

In one sub this year, I met the sum total of one girl a couple of times who it turned out had a STI and another for a M&G who was an unhinged wacko and it was a very disturbing experience. A few weeks into my 2nd sub, I've not met anyone yet.

I'm not exactly a newbie (~30 arrangements over 4 years) and have reasonable patter, send out 150+ personal (not C&P) messages a month and offer to travel to a wide area.

So if the OP has high standards and still doing well, then he is clearly doing something right, or maybe he just looks like a young Brad Pitt. 

[mikeg1600]

ElegantGambler, Poole      External Link/Members Only

Good looking (better than her pic) but a time waster and a bit of a scammer in that she will lead you on, tell you what you want to hear, make excuses why you can't meet "properly" etc.

Yes she sent me messages, agreed to meet in a Hotel in sandbanks then said she had booked the room on her credit card and could i send her £150 to pay it off, errr let me think!! Suffice to say never heard from her again. Shame she looks nice assuming its her anyway.

[southcoastpunter]

hey mikeg1600 - yes you dodged one there. she is an attractive lady but unfortunately a scammer!

didn't you say you got banned by "seeking" a couple of months ago. how did you get round that?

[mikeg1600]

hey mikeg1600 - yes you dodged one there. she is an attractive lady but unfortunately a scammer!

didn't you say you got banned by "seeking" a couple of months ago. how did you get round that?

New email, prepaid CC. Still dont know why i was banned as i said before can only think i got reported by somebody who didn't like my response to trying to sell me pics / vids. I never talked about arrangements on SA or any indication of it. I did try another email and CC but failed on the CC address issue.

[Pawgylove]

Been a background reader of this thread (never heard of SA till I read this thread last year) and it’s had a lot of good info.
I’m on my third month (first joined in January) and it is an absolute Jungle of a website.

I found it absolutely overwhelming at first, so many hot girls, so many don’t reply, getting messaged by scammers from abroad etc. Anyway, I managed to settle in and in my first month, I met three. Quite a range of ppms as well, from mid 300s to high 100s. First meet was mid 300s, felt mugged off cos she took clever pictures and she was a bit far off from her glam photos in real life.. not the best for initimacy either, she just lay there, so not really interested. She also went very crazy on me when I told her I didn’t want any further meets.
Second was better, really attractive, but body wise, not my type.. mid 200s and air bnb costs. I was almost twice her age and the mismatch in experience showed. Third was a pretty dirty posh girl, she didn’t mind being seen once a month… at high 100s even though she’s not my type, I’ll keep her in my back pocket.

2nd month I met one, absolute gem, she didn’t care about the money and we had some good meets, but she started treating me like her bf, asking why I wasn’t speaking to her often… cba with that drama. Was a real shame

Half way through my third month and it’s not much better. Full of girls who don’t really know what they want. Also, what’s up with the girls who just want platonic arrangements?!?! Do people pay for that?? Id say most girls on there regularly say that on their profile.

In summary, I’m not crazy about SA. It’s too much effort for minimum game, besides, I dont help Myself as I’m very picky and also narrowed my search to Bristol only.

Didn’t even mention the flakers or the ones who want to get paid for a coffee date!!! You guys are all obviously doing better. I wont be going back after this go (i said that street the first time mind)

[stokecity]

Well, according to his lengthy report he does. He said he was disappointed by his return but meeting 5 different girls in a month is extremely good going, particularly at the moment.

In one sub this year, I met the sum total of one girl a couple of times who it turned out had a STI and another for a M&G who was an unhinged wacko and it was a very disturbing experience. A few weeks into my 2nd sub, I've not met anyone yet.

I'm not exactly a newbie (~30 arrangements over 4 years) and have reasonable patter, send out 150+ personal (not C&P) messages a month and offer to travel to a wide area.

So if the OP has high standards and still doing well, then he is clearly doing something right, or maybe he just looks like a young Brad Pitt. 

Ha!

Definitely no Bradd Pitt, but  my approach seems to work a fair amount - even if some of them don't stick too long...hot young girls will eventually get offered big money perhaps, and good luck to them, but as long as I've had a few nice meets with them, that's cool.

I like the variety and don't sucked into EA issues even though I'm polite and try to be charming and witty with the girls - they deserve to be treated with respect ofc...I don't bother with the ones who don't deserve that.

No point in comparing SA to AW - again, I wouldn't have anything to do with a Seeking girl who knew what AW was...the ideal is just to get a hot young girl who doesn't see you as too repulsive and fuck them nicely for an amount that's mutually beneficial and agreeable.

There's plenty of them about in my experience and , as I say, I don't mind paying good money if needs be for 9s or 10s, but there's fun to be had at lower price points - even if the girls themselves wouldn't like to admit to it.

Fair enough as well. As I say, if some sap is willing to pay top dollar for a 6, they're daft.

I won't bc
A) they're not worth it, and
2) you don't have to.

[southcoastpunter]

MissMay, Bournemouth     External Link/Members Only

Time waster.

Chatted to her, arranged for a coffee and chat and she cancelled me en-route 15 minutes before meeting time, then blocked me on WA and on seeking!

[Prifessionallondinguy]

MissMay, Bournemouth     External Link/Members Only

Time waster.

Chatted to her, arranged for a coffee and chat and she cancelled me en-route 15 minutes before meeting time, then blocked me on WA and on seeking!

SA profile gone 

[Wtt2014]

Fair enough as well. As I say, if some sap is willing to pay top dollar for a 6, they're daft.

I won't bc
A) they're not worth it, and
2) you don't have to.

It does slightly feel like you're repeatedly re-discovering the idea of market forces. Some guys pay more. Some guys pay less. Some girls want more. Some girls accept less. Ever was it thus.

It's probably also worth remembering that one man's 6 is another man's 10 (or 2). I met a girl from there who's a bit of an Instagram influencer type, in the region of 10's-of-thousands of followers many of whom appear to reply to all her posts slathering after her. They clearly find her very, very attractive. She was a really nice girl and we had fun, but she just absolutely wasn't my type and I didn't fancy her at all when I saw her (often I find my opinion changes - for better or worse - when I see someone). Horses for courses etc.

[updownandaround]

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[Prifessionallondinguy]

Anyone had a go on Anabel in Bristol? External Link/Members Only

She’s not a horse 🐴 

[Palace123]

was reading about time wasters....they are rife on this channel. Last time I used SA, or to be more precise a girl who I'd kept in touch with...she agreed to meet me in Soton, well over an hour..in comms on the way down then total blackout once I got the the bar. tbh..I broke my own rules which is never go out of my way and never spend any money up front (petrol and hotel). What seems to be true is that if a girl wants to meet you...she will make the effort.  I've had girls come up front London before. SA is flakey as hell, annoying really because my area has limited choices so no option but the cast the net wider. But then again, it's no worse than tinder...it seems that these days, there's an aversion to time commitments. My advice is expect plenty of hassle with the good stuff, the latter is definitely there but when I look back at those times..it's always been really easy and never an effort. Give them a little test...ask them to come to your area...if they don't, ask yourself why not...remember, they are the ones getting the reward...the guys are successful eligible chaps.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

What seems to be true is that if a girl wants to meet you...she will make the effort

Good point 

So true. Those that go out of their way, keep in contact and are just as keen to meet as you are make the effort worthwhile.

Met a charming Asian lass just this week. Albeit not in the SW.  She went out of her way to accommodate me as I was running late as the tube went bonkers!  It was just a free meet n greet but with dinner.
She even came back to the area I was staying fir 2 hours to have s few drinks/natter in the pub. 🍺

Like SCP my reviews are few and far between as I’m more interested in SA these days.

[lonn]

Hi all. I've  been off the punting scene since before lockdown and looking to have a dip again. SA looks interesting but I'm mid 60s so find kids a bit much. Do older  ladies get on there, I'm talking 40s early to mid 50s. I'm in Bournemouth btw

[southcoastpunter]

Lonn - i have just done a search for age 40-55 within 40 kms (25 miles) of Bournemouth and came up with 18 who had been active (logged into seeking) within the last week. However if you dropped your lower age to say 35  and looked a little wider (geographically) that opens up many more.  However it is true to say that majority of ladies are more 19-32 ish.

[lonn]

Lonn - i have just done a search for age 40-55 within 40 kms (25 miles) of Bournemouth and came up with 18 who had been active (logged into seeking) within the last week. However if you dropped your lower age to say 35  and looked a little wider (geographically) that opens up many more.  However it is true to say that majority of ladies are more 19-32 ish.

That's brilliant SC I'm tempted to have a dabble   

[jlike]

Loon,
I am mid 60's and in an arrangement currently with a 45 year old off SA. Last arrangement was with a 40's MILF as well, she was 40 miles away from me. Both Plymouth area but did once have someone off SA come down from Bristol, obviously I did pay travel expenses so might be worth looking outside your area as some sugar babes are prepared to travel. Agree with you, not interested in 20 somethings.

[updownandaround]

Loon,
I am mid 60's and in an arrangement currently with a 45 year old off SA. Last arrangement was with a 40's MILF as well, she was 40 miles away from me. Both Plymouth area but did once have someone off SA come down from Bristol, obviously I did pay travel expenses so might be worth looking outside your area as some sugar babes are prepared to travel. Agree with you, not interested in 20 somethings.

I have always found the SW to be really crap on SA, in all the years I've been doing SA I've met maybe 20 or so girls who weren't total mingers, totally unrealistic, time wasters or who didn't get cold feet at the last moment. Pity really.

[southcoastpunter]

I can't comment on the wider SW region but i "operate" in the extreme SE of the SW region and the extreme SW of the SE region (ie mainly Bournemouth and Southampton and here its been generally good. Both are Uni towns of course which helps. Apart from Exeter, Plymouth and Bristol,  most of the rest of the SW is fairly rural which i guess doesn't help.

[updownandaround]

I can't comment on the wider SW region but i "operate" in the extreme SE of the SW region and the extreme SW of the SE region (ie mainly Bournemouth and Southampton and here its been generally good. Both are Uni towns of course which helps. Apart from Exeter, Plymouth and Bristol,  most of the rest of the SW is fairly rural which i guess doesn't help.

The only places I have found success are Bristol, Bath, Swindon and Taunton. Not sure if you class Cheltenham as the SW but that was been a bit better over the years.

[T0pgun]

Jasmine, 24, Bristol

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