Seeking.com (London)

[seraph20]

Or they get a better last min offer. I never book rooms until shes there and agreed to go forward. Look on the day for the cheapest decent area.

Dayuse now hace some rooms 3pm to 8pm as well

Or this is highly likely I supposed - but I just cannot believe how communicative and normal she seemed and then this.

I guess in the end the lesson is you never can tell so don’t book in advance

[Punting2022]

Or this is highly likely I supposed - but I just cannot believe how communicative and normal she seemed and then this.

I guess in the end the lesson is you never can tell so don’t book in advance

Some get off on it too. Sb also have thier own groups like us men where they discuss things

[londonhunter008]

Amber 32 - She looks stunning in per pictures but she has not listed in profile but she is post-op Trans lady and is available on many Trans and Escort websites. I managed to find her by doing reverse image serach 
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Max Says.. Lottie is a stunning post op TS. (Transexual with a pussy)

[Famy8989]

Lay - External Link/Members Only
Know she’s been mentioned here but thought I’d give a final update. Tried to work her for the last 2 months on and off. Just texting here and there, she definitely does not want to meet if we’ve spoken this long. Purely content seller/ strings you along so scammer.

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[southcoastpunter]

Has she said she will meet you before and is now changing her mind?
Has she been pushing the “ buy some contents” stuff?

The fact that she chooses not to meet you doesn’t necessarily make her a scammer!

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Who’s her mate? The invisible woman?

[Famy8989]

Has she said she will meet you before and is now changing her mind?
Has she been pushing the “ buy some contents” stuff?

The fact that she chooses not to meet you doesn’t necessarily make her a scammer!

Pushing her content stuff like for example, can you treat me to xyz. I always mentioned I would be open to online once a connection is established and we meet. She would go quiet then pop up again when I’d either view her seeking profile, she’d message me back on WhatsApp or message her on seeking. And yes, she has mentioned she wants to meet at the end of this month. Last month too. First it was Im going to Scotland for my nan. Now it’s the picture I showed above. Stories don’t match, she’s very active on seeking. That is a scam imo, I stand by it. Saying you want to meet but actually you just want to sell your content. I’ve also had other users message her and she tries the same gimmick. I’m yet to find someone one here who has actually met her…

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Your first sentence …. Clear sign to move on. No intention of meeting. Saying you’d be open to something online after meeting is irrelevant =  it’s not happening.
Likely a chap from Calcutta (Kolkata)

[Famy8989]

Your first sentence …. Clear sign to move on. No intention of meeting. Saying you’d be open to something online after meeting is irrelevant =  it’s not happening.
Likely a chap from Calcutta (Kolkata)

Haha yeah. I thought I’d try work it on the side, didn’t prioritise or anything, just sent a text every week or so. But yeah at least it’s been established

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Hey I’ve done it plenty of times too …   

[Punting2022]

Pushing her content stuff like for example, can you treat me to xyz. I always mentioned I would be open to online once a connection is established and we meet. She would go quiet then pop up again when I’d either view her seeking profile, she’d message me back on WhatsApp or message her on seeking. And yes, she has mentioned she wants to meet at the end of this month. Last month too. First it was Im going to Scotland for my nan. Now it’s the picture I showed above. Stories don’t match, she’s very active on seeking. That is a scam imo, I stand by it. Saying you want to meet but actually you just want to sell your content. I’ve also had other users message her and she tries the same gimmick. I’m yet to find someone one here who has actually met her…

One who say spoil me, treat me. Most turn into online content stuff. Or want gifts buying

[Famy8989]

Lauren - External Link/Members Only
Willing to travel to London, lives in Kent. Wants a shopping trip before the end of the month, vs and a coach bag. Also ppm on top, I believe everything included would amount to a 600-700 ppm. Think she’s looking for just a sb relationship but says she’s open to intimacy after first meet. I wouldn’t though, seems like she’ll block after she gets what she wants.

Lucy - External Link/Members Only
400 ppm

Amelia - External Link/Members Only
400 ppm, wants to meet for dinner first or an activity like an art exhibition.

Molly - External Link/Members Only
500 ppm, didn’t even bother negotiating. Left it at that.

Esme - External Link/Members Only
Seeking someone bisexual to have a go with her and her boyfriend. Not into it, didn’t bother asking about the ppm.

Eden - External Link/Members Only
400 ppm, don’t think she’s open to intimacy for first meet

Char - External Link/Members Only
500 ppm for “an hour or two?” 

Violet - External Link/Members Only
400 ppm. Not worth imo

Victoria - External Link/Members Only
400 ppm. Open to intimacy

Tee - External Link/Members Only
300 ppm. Open to intimacy

[Everhard115]

ive tried secret benefits again. it has changed a bit because i get no messages now. before i received lots of messages but when i replied nothing ever happened. i think it was a scam but then why change the model? if it is a scam then loads of fake messages would be sent to make you spend money to read them.

Same thing happened to me. I signed up got loads of messages eventually bit the bullet and bought a 100 tokens. Guess what not a single one replied. Its odd you keep getting messages from girls who initiate but when you reply nothing happens. I am a seasoned vet with seeking so thought i try this for a change but just a rip off. Good thing only lost 45. Like all other sites there might be the odd genuine nugget here but I rather pay a monthly fee and then fire loads of texts in any city/country I want.
So I wont be buying any more tokens here.

[bash_eer]

I too bought the 100 tokens i had a blank profile which seemed to be generating interest. Setup my profile properly added pictures etc. Then sent out some messages and replied to some. Not a single bite. I took the plunge as they there was a offer for double credits and paid 144 quid for 1000 tokens. Would you believe the replies started after that. I feel like there is something dodgy with the views and likes you get on top of being given access to a girls private pic fake messages are being used problem is you have spend the token to find out. I found when a girl requests access to your private pics but does not offer access to her's then the chances are she is genuine. I have gained some contacts alot of the same girls from seeking have messaged not knowing we already spoke. Hit rate compared to seeking is no where near as good.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Ditto above.
Seasoned vet on seeking switched to secret benefits.

Prefer secret benefits as I like the verification videos system.

Received 10 messages from Asian ladies and chose to reply to these using credits. Three of those are certain ppm dates. One is on WhatsApp. Hit rate about the same.  I would certainly see 2 of these and will likely do so by the end of next week.

I don’t mess around. My criteria are:

Must be Asian ethnicity
Must have a video
Must reply and want to meet with ppm + openly happy to discuss details
No fatties
Age 19 to 35

A good test is for me to mention I’m available to meet in a few dates or by the end of the week.
This lets me know who’s serious.

I filled out my profile with face photos. No verification videos as of yet as I’m still sussing it out.

Have 44 messages waiting to be unlocked. Although my profile states very clearly Asian student or Asian young professional or Asian lady tourist.  I’ve received nothing that catches my eye enough to message them (use credits) back.

Messaged 9 Asian ladies myself.  Instigated these myself with paid credits. Various ages and types. I’ve tried various strategies to catch their eye. Numerous messages sent.

Polite messages including something mentioned in their profile.
More flirtatious messages. Matching the vibe if theirs is.
Coffee meet, lunch, dinner offer.
Let them know 💰 support is fine.

Not one reply. Unsure their profiles are genuine. Bots! £44 spent.

But I like that you can openly chat, freely, with no reservations as I do want to fuck and 2 of them
are very happy and open to wear secretary outfit in the hotel room.
Always dinner and drinks offered and accepted first.
Chinese, Kazakhstan and Indian ethnicity. All tiny and cute with good tits and someone I’d book if they were an escort on AW. £400 - £450 mark was my opening offer.

So there are bots and lots of unanswered messages but what was pissing me off so much about seeking was that the ladies I was interested in were unsure about ppm and intimacy. Couldn’t move on.

I haven’t had a seeking account since June so can’t verify if these ladies are also on there.

I’ve been sugar dating since 2015 …. 2 or 3 gems out of numerous attempts is the current ratio for me. I’m no Brad Pitt.  Just seems secret benefits wastes less of my time and the ladies I’ve managed to message all are open to ppm.

 

[Jardent6]

Lauren - External Link/Members Only
Willing to travel to London, lives in Kent. Wants a shopping trip before the end of the month, vs and a coach bag. Also ppm on top, I believe everything included would amount to a 600-700 ppm. Think she’s looking for just a sb relationship but says she’s open to intimacy after first meet. I wouldn’t though, seems like she’ll block after she gets what she wants.

Lucy - External Link/Members Only
400 ppm

Amelia - External Link/Members Only
400 ppm, wants to meet for dinner first or an activity like an art exhibition.

Molly - External Link/Members Only
500 ppm, didn’t even bother negotiating. Left it at that.

Esme - External Link/Members Only
Seeking someone bisexual to have a go with her and her boyfriend. Not into it, didn’t bother asking about the ppm.

Eden - External Link/Members Only
400 ppm, don’t think she’s open to intimacy for first meet

Char - External Link/Members Only
500 ppm for “an hour or two?” 

Violet - External Link/Members Only
400 ppm. Not worth imo

Victoria - External Link/Members Only
400 ppm. Open to intimacy

Tee - External Link/Members Only
300 ppm. Open to intimacy

Has anyone actually met char? Looks alone she looks good

[Everhard115]

Has anyone actually met char? Looks alone she looks good

Yes it is hard work but very rewarding when it works and very frustrating when it does not 

Seeking talent wise is a dry now same old faces most of em and dont see any young fresh talent there hence exploring other venues. Had some success at some clubs in London but very expencive and a lot of work and need to go with mates as dont think would work if I went alone. You kind of go yo enjoy the night and this activity is a secondary product.
Oh well keep trying till the old tool stops working 
 

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Has anyone actually met char? Looks alone she looks good

Is she Asian with speckles? 

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Yes it is hard work but very rewarding when it works and very frustrating when it does not 

Seeking talent wise is a dry now same old faces most of em and dont see any young fresh talent there hence exploring other venues. Had some success at some clubs in London but very expencive and a lot of work and need to go with mates as dont think would work if I went alone. You kind of go yo enjoy the night and this activity is a secondary product.
Oh well keep trying till the old tool stops working 

I’ve had the best success with those visiting on a visa or working for 6 months to a few years. Regular money  for them, 2/3 meets a month …. dinner theatre etc … more than just a fuck but always ending with a good fuck 

Nowadays it’s pretty hard going finding someone. I’ve tapped out this summer couldn’t find one single person to meet my requirements (on seeking) if I wanted to pay 2500 to 4000 a month ( I don’t) then maybe.

[PLeisure]

Is she Asian with speckles?

Prif, she's a 26yr Cauc, 155cm 

[Jardent6]

Yes it is hard work but very rewarding when it works and very frustrating when it does not 

Seeking talent wise is a dry now same old faces most of em and dont see any young fresh talent there hence exploring other venues. Had some success at some clubs in London but very expencive and a lot of work and need to go with mates as dont think would work if I went alone. You kind of go yo enjoy the night and this activity is a secondary product.
Oh well keep trying till the old tool stops working 

In clubs do you flat out say sex for cash? How do you proposition it

[Everhard115]

In clubs do you flat out say sex for cash? How do you proposition it

Clubs are a different ball game went to "Maddox" in London and an other one. Booked a table costing around 1500.
3 lads shared. Then its old school fishing. You chat up have a good time and eventually it comes up as most ladies at these places are gold diggers. However they are not escorts so you gotta play the game and chat them and warm them up.

Its hard work all around but very rewarding if happens.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Clubs are a different ball game went to "Maddox" in London and an other one. Booked a table costing around 1500.
3 lads shared. Then its old school fishing. You chat up have a good time and eventually it comes up as most ladies at these places are gold diggers. However they are not escorts so you gotta play the game and chat them and warm them up.

Its hard work all around but very rewarding if happens.

What do these ladies charge?

[southcoastpunter]

And is the 1500 you mentioned the charge for the table or minimum spend ? What do drinks cost roughly ?

Although it might be fruitful, very expensive??

[Famy8989]

Clubs aren’t even worth it in London, abroad they’re a lot more reasonable. If you’ve got the cash why not, of course. But regular punters who are used to paying below 500, it ain’t worth it. Although the table is 1500, there’s drinks, Ubers, hotels to be paid on top. A lot of club girls will go back for freebies to build connection then will ask for stuff later on. Though clubs are expensive and often not worth it. There’s also some level of mutual attraction needed, the girls are hot asf sometimes. A thick wallet helps though of course.

[Everhard115]

Covered nicely by Fam89 in comments. Between 3 guys it 1500 so 500 each.
Includes a bottle and table service. Its more of a life style and its not a guarantee lay by any means.
As then you gotta work on the game too on the night chat the ladies up etc.
One morrocon was upfront others were just there to genuinely meet a rich guy.

This is something I would only do rarely and more to chill with mates than actual way to pick up. Unless I was a true multi millionaire and dont mind spending a few grand a night 😉

[tightfoot69]

A bit of a long shot but does anybody have any info on somebody called Leyla? Who is 30? Says she is a mix of English, Irish and Moroccon

I have been speaking to her on WhatsApp but can’t send a link because her profile has since disappeared from my view. But she insists it is still active and she can’t see mine anymore either. Is this possible on SA?

Willing to meet at her place for £300. Sent me a couple of photos to prove she is genuine. Looks really good but then got a bit pissed off because I wouldn’t send her any money to gain trust before going to her place.

I’m pretty sure there is something dodgy about her but hopefully somebody here has interacted with her.

[Mr Garmin]

Willing to meet at her place for £300. Sent me a couple of photos to prove she is genuine. Looks really good but then got a bit pissed off because I wouldn’t send her any money to gain trust before going to her place.

I think you have your answer, she's blocked you

[tightfoot69]

I think you have your answer, she's blocked you

But the profile disappearing happened whilst we were talking normally and before she expected money. But still sounds dodgy nonetheless.

[tightfoot69]

Anybody had contact with Teana?

American visiting London. Said she would do an overnight for £350. Her Ass is massive from the private photos she let me see.

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[paul_tall_]

Covered nicely by Fam89 in comments. Between 3 guys it 1500 so 500 each.
Includes a bottle and table service. Its more of a life style and its not a guarantee lay by any means.
As then you gotta work on the game too on the night chat the ladies up etc.
One morrocon was upfront others were just there to genuinely meet a rich guy.

This is something I would only do rarely and more to chill with mates than actual way to pick up. Unless I was a true multi millionaire and dont mind spending a few grand a night 😉

Do these clubs allow all male groups even when booking a table ? Obviously the advantage of paying for a table is guaranteed entry but at a high cost,  Surely in reality you will be paying way more than £1500 if you meet any girls as you would be buying their drinks ? Unless you live in London you need accommodation , taxis etc and surely these high end places in London are more touristy / younger rich vibe and you would need to look the part and you would need to like that type of club music wise etc

[Everhard115]

Do these clubs allow all male groups even when booking a table ? Obviously the advantage of paying for a table is guaranteed entry but at a high cost,  Surely in reality you will be paying way more than £1500 if you meet any girls as you would be buying their drinks ? Unless you live in London you need accommodation , taxis etc and surely these high end places in London are more touristy / younger rich vibe and you would need to look the part and you would need to like that type of club music wise etc

We were three guys as mentioned and we got in no problem. These are high end clubbing places no guarantee lay , you have to do all the other hard work so look the part and chat up the ladies.

Our approach was to have a good time with lads and if any ladies wanted yo chat that was an added bonus so not primarily there to pick up. 1500 includes table service and a bottle so most drinks are included.

Highly liklihood that you spend so much but still come back empty so be ready.

[Kuteguy]

Does any body bring/meet these girls back to their own place? I am single guy living in a bachelor pad in Central London and would prefer to bring back to my place, rather than drop another £100 on a hotel

[Jardent6]

Do so at your own risk on a case by case basis. Personally I wouldn’t recommend , I would much rather prefer the girl who I’m doing something taboo with not knowing my home address . Some of these girls I don’t even tell them my real name. Maybe I’m paranoid but I’d say in my experience  33% are unscrupulous characters

[Punting2022]

Does any body bring/meet these girls back to their own place? I am single guy living in a bachelor pad in Central London and would prefer to bring back to my place, rather than drop another £100 on a hotel

Only trusted ones i been with for a while. You can get day hotels for 50 to 80 quid now..
Some girls can not be trusted.

[massagepuntingfan]

Does any body bring/meet these girls back to their own place? I am single guy living in a bachelor pad in Central London and would prefer to bring back to my place, rather than drop another £100 on a hotel

Yes, I've always done this. Never had a problem. Although there are risks I've always tried to be courteous and genuine, thankfully it's not come back to haunt me and hosted on and off for a good 7 years. Perhaps I've been lucky. I'm now off seeking and enjoying seeing a few regulars who I host and the odd incall if a lady piques my interest.

[PLeisure]

Does any body bring/meet these girls back to their own place? I am single guy living in a bachelor pad in Central London and would prefer to bring back to my place, rather than drop another £100 on a hotel

Similar scenario for me - plus, they love my cooking, when I do.
You go by instinct and very careful screening.
Ask to meet in a public venue first, then continue if the vibe feels right.
I understand the need for caution; I also start with a false name. Thankfully, no dramas in the four years I've been hosting.

[Mr Garmin]

Does any body bring/meet these girls back to their own place? I am single guy living in a bachelor pad in Central London and would prefer to bring back to my place, rather than drop another £100 on a hotel

All bar one of the Seeking girls I've seen have come to my place.  However I always meet them first for drink and to sus them out.  Never had a problem so far but I believe I'm a pretty good judge of character.  One girl I visit at her place which I like doing.  Arranging a Seeking meeting is hard enough without the additional hassle and expense of booking a hotel as well.

Only one girl I met for a M&G I didn't take further, she was skanky and would have done it in the car if I'd let her.  I also got the impression that BB would have been the norm with her.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

I book hotels 192 mikes from where I live. I’m taking no chances.  I like my pet bunny rabbit the way she is.  A woman scorned and all that. 

[Famy8989]

I would never. But it’s simply down to what you’re comfortable with, personal preference. It seems you have a nice place, central and as long as you’re respectful and a good judge of character.. you’ll have no problems

[Prifessionallondinguy]

What the flip is up with secret benefits verification videos? 

Do you have to look like you’ve just woken up, are still drunk. aged significantly plus put on a stone in weight to qualify?

 

[Punting2022]

What the flip is up with secret benefits verification videos? 

Do you have to look like you’ve just woken up, are still drunk. aged significantly plus put on a stone in weight to qualify?

 

They ask you to mive head left to right. Ovs to prove its a person. You also have to say its a secret or similar

[Prifessionallondinguy]

There’s zero head moment … barely any mouth movement.

[Zanderpanda]

What the flip is up with secret benefits verification videos? 

Do you have to look like you’ve just woken up, are still drunk. aged significantly plus put on a stone in weight to qualify?

 

i love the videos. it is the main filter and its important on that site.

[Mr Garmin]

What the flip is up with secret benefits verification videos? 

Do you have to look like you’ve just woken up, are still drunk. aged significantly plus put on a stone in weight to qualify?

 

Like when AW showed the selfie verification photos. Almost everyone looked like a police mugshot.

[Punting2022]

There’s zero head moment … barely any mouth movement.

I had to record this is a secret or similar.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

i love the videos. it is the main filter and its important on that site.

Absolutely  : I’ll be generous and say some of the SB’s do scrub up nice.

[Zanderpanda]

Absolutely  : I’ll be generous and say some of the SB’s do scrub up nice.

for some its the opposite. rubbish photos but the video is really pretty and kind.

I had quite a long relationship with one. she deliberately put up rubbish pics to avoid people looking just for an instagram model. she was amazing. miss her.