Ditto above.
Seasoned vet on seeking switched to secret benefits.
Prefer secret benefits as I like the verification videos system.
Received 10 messages from Asian ladies and chose to reply to these using credits. Three of those are certain ppm dates. One is on WhatsApp. Hit rate about the same. I would certainly see 2 of these and will likely do so by the end of next week.
I don’t mess around. My criteria are:
Must be Asian ethnicity
Must have a video
Must reply and want to meet with ppm + openly happy to discuss details
No fatties
Age 19 to 35
A good test is for me to mention I’m available to meet in a few dates or by the end of the week.
This lets me know who’s serious.
I filled out my profile with face photos. No verification videos as of yet as I’m still sussing it out.
Have 44 messages waiting to be unlocked. Although my profile states very clearly Asian student or Asian young professional or Asian lady tourist. I’ve received nothing that catches my eye enough to message them (use credits) back.
Messaged 9 Asian ladies myself. Instigated these myself with paid credits. Various ages and types. I’ve tried various strategies to catch their eye. Numerous messages sent.
Polite messages including something mentioned in their profile.
More flirtatious messages. Matching the vibe if theirs is.
Coffee meet, lunch, dinner offer.
Let them know 💰 support is fine.
Not one reply. Unsure their profiles are genuine. Bots! £44 spent.
But I like that you can openly chat, freely, with no reservations as I do want to fuck and 2 of them
are very happy and open to wear secretary outfit in the hotel room.
Always dinner and drinks offered and accepted first.
Chinese, Kazakhstan and Indian ethnicity. All tiny and cute with good tits and someone I’d book if they were an escort on AW. £400 - £450 mark was my opening offer.
So there are bots and lots of unanswered messages but what was pissing me off so much about seeking was that the ladies I was interested in were unsure about ppm and intimacy. Couldn’t move on.
I haven’t had a seeking account since June so can’t verify if these ladies are also on there.
I’ve been sugar dating since 2015 …. 2 or 3 gems out of numerous attempts is the current ratio for me. I’m no Brad Pitt. Just seems secret benefits wastes less of my time and the ladies I’ve managed to message all are open to ppm.
