Seeking.com (London)

[londonhunter008]

Sam 40:  External Link/Members Only
Grace 45: External Link/Members Only

Both online at same time. Whom do you think is genuine? or both fake? Same lady with two profiles

[koshkaj]

All valuable and interesting viewpoints above. To answer your question the appeal was much more of a mutual experience and more cost effective than seeing an escort. I would pay anything between £200-£400 for 2-3 hours company for something that when it works/clicks felt like fucking a potential partner than an escort. Crucially it was always much more cost effective and gratifying than seeing an escort. I saw plenty of women who were in it just for the thrill, sex and cash.
That said there are pros and cons to every situation and currently I'm very happy seeing regular escorts who have dabbled with the seeking life as the maintaining of a SB relationship can be tiresome if you have a punting mindset which I do. Although I'm 100% transparent from the beginning about my needs and expectations - I'm sure many men promise the world, get the prize and disappear.
As for your question about the why not use the dating apps? I'm on tinder and have hooked up with a handful of ladies from there who are into sugar. The difference is it takes way more time as the majority of women are on there to find a partner not a sugar daddy, while Seeking used to be(I've not been on seeking for a year) much more targeted and easier to make plans.

This seems more logical, especially the first and last paragraphs which tend to get glossed over.

It does stand out to me that you mention dating apps take more time as the women are there to find a partner.  That brings me back to my original thought that Seeking/SB sites are ultimately about a transaction between parties, which is the dividing line between them and dating apps. whether that qualifies as enough of a difference from SW i suppose is up to the individual.

[Famy8989]

No from hinge. Set filters to Short term, Still figuring out.
You can spot the ladies open for it. Some say in bio love shopping. Some say Love travel. Be inventive with a Like. Comment something. Also put in your bio provider.
Hinge is good. Lets you see who liked you free, also you get a set amount free each day.

Already planned a next meet with her tbh.

Seeking as a site is good, but to me gone downhill in UK. So have to be inventive on other apps. Its good abroad.

Great advice, cheers

[Famy8989]

**SCAMMER**

Lacey - External Link/Members Only

Promised meet, made me pay for train and hotel then blocked.

Should’ve expected, I know I should’ve video called. I’m going to do that from now on. I’ve got 2 back up options ready for tonight who are on their pay now. Though the train money I won’t get back… bitch
Very weird one because everything was going well then she messaged me to fuck off on seeking as I write this haha. Must be a troll

[Mr Garmin]

I’ve got 2 back up options ready for tonight who are on their pay now.

You've got a duo booked with 2 seeking girls?

Way to go 

[Mr Garmin]

Lacey - External Link/Members Only

She's in Chesterfield, you're in London!  You didn't really think she was coming all that way to see you did you?

[londonhunter008]

**SCAMMER**

Lacey - External Link/Members Only

Promised meet, made me pay for train and hotel then blocked.

Should’ve expected, I know I should’ve video called. I’m going to do that from now on. I’ve got 2 back up options ready for tonight who are on their pay now. Though the train money I won’t get back… bitch
Very weird one because everything was going well then she messaged me to fuck off on seeking as I write this haha. Must be a troll

Her recent location is Coratia. Do you check recent locations ? It is visible on all profile even though they mention London.

[Famy8989]

Her recent location is Coratia. Do you check recent locations ? It is visible on all profile even though they mention London.

I know… I’m an idiot. I noticed it a few hours ago, I don’t think it said that before.

[Famy8989]

You've got a duo booked with 2 seeking girls?

Way to go 

Yup, they don’t know each other. I wouldn’t say they’re necessarily conventionally attractive though, they’re a bit alt. But wish me luck!

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[Famy8989]

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Thought I’d mention, saw her name as Jo on another profile with the same pictures. Also, the number that she gave me on WhatsApp, when checking on Snapchat, the bitmoji is of some brown girl. With the snap name Jo. Something very dodgy. Fucking hell seeking…

[londonroad]

I know… I’m an idiot. I noticed it a few hours ago, I don’t think it said that before.

She maybe using a VPN which can mean a different location is displayed and not where she actually is.

[seraph20]

Katy - External Link/Members Only
Thought I’d mention, saw her name as Jo on another profile with the same pictures. Also, the number that she gave me on WhatsApp, when checking on Snapchat, the bitmoji is of some brown girl. With the snap name Jo. Something very dodgy. Fucking hell seeking…

I had been in communication with the “Jo”
version (different profile to Katy). I no longer have the number she sent me for WhatsApp as I deleted it and blocked her on Seeking also.

We communicated for a bit on what’s app. I tried to arrange a video call and never happened. She left me a couple of voice notes and sounded legitimate. Requested small sums of money a couple of times. I declined and she eventually stopped responding altogether.

I have just messaged “Katy” and she has answered on Seeking clearly not remembering who I am.

No idea what to make of it really.

[Famy8989]

I had been in communication with the “Jo”
version (different profile to Katy). I no longer have the number she sent me for WhatsApp as I deleted it and blocked her on Seeking also.

We communicated for a bit on what’s app. I tried to arrange a video call and never happened. She left me a couple of voice notes and sounded legitimate. Requested small sums of money a couple of times. I declined and she eventually stopped responding altogether.

I have just messaged “Katy” and she has answered on Seeking clearly not remembering who I am.

No idea what to make of it really.

She must be running some sort of elaborate scam haha. She told me she got over £3000 from someone she never met, she doesn’t want money, she just wants connection. That was under the “Jo” profile

[Famy8989]

On a side note, I feel like seeking has dried up a little for me this past week. I find myself meeting with my previous meets rather than someone new. I tend to go for under 26 and thought that uni starting again might help with finding someone suitable on the app, but it’s kind of done the opposite.
What countries would you guys say are the best? I always hear Europe, but where is Europe? I’ve been having a look at France and Spain lately. Not too bad..

[Punting2022]

On a side note, I feel like seeking has dried up a little for me this past week. I find myself meeting with my previous meets rather than someone new. I tend to go for under 26 and thought that uni starting again might help with finding someone suitable on the app, but it’s kind of done the opposite.
What countries would you guys say are the best? I always hear Europe, but where is Europe? I’ve been having a look at France and Spain lately. Not too bad..

Spain is cheap. Most girls 400 euros overnights.
Spain also nice country. Cheaper to go out, cleaner . Hinge is good to

[Famy8989]

Spain is cheap. Most girls 400 euros overnights.
Spain also nice country. Cheaper to go out, cleaner . Hinge is good to

I’ve got a meet lined up from seeking in a couple of days with a 21 year old uni student. If all goes well I may stick with seeking/old arrangements. If not I will probably pull the trigger on hinge.
Thought so, I do want to revisit Spain so may try to get something arranged

[seraph20]

She must be running some sort of elaborate scam haha. She told me she got over £3000 from someone she never met, she doesn’t want money, she just wants connection. That was under the “Jo” profile

Exactly the same. Not the £3000 bit. She just wants connection and some help - around £200 a month for some debts she has. That was under the Jo profile. Her Katy profile has now blocked me.

As an aside on the voice note she left me she has a Scottish accent.

[Punting2022]

I’ve got a meet lined up from seeking in a couple of days with a 21 year old uni student. If all goes well I may stick with seeking/old arrangements. If not I will probably pull the trigger on hinge.
Thought so, I do want to revisit Spain so may try to get something arranged

My hinge meet was amazing,  she got so wet from just kissing, done her around the room.
I have spotted a few girls on hinge that are on seeking tbh.
Also secret benifits has the same members. Seeking to me is not worth the 115 per month, when you can get the girls doing it on diff apps and sites for same price.

One thing u have to be prepared with uni students is availability. There plans do change ie friends outings organised and coursework deadlines.

[Famy8989]

My hinge meet was amazing,  she got so wet from just kissing, done her around the room.
I have spotted a few girls on hinge that are on seeking tbh.
Also secret benifits has the same members. Seeking to me is not worth the 115 per month, when you can get the girls doing it on diff apps and sites for same price.

One thing u have to be prepared with uni students is availability. There plans do change ie friends outings organised and coursework deadlines.

Yeah, I found 2 girls that are on seeking, on hinge haha. Though I had to pay for a subscription for the filters on hinge, I’ve been on it a couple of hours, haven’t had any interest yet. To be fair, I’ve just been sending likes, no messages. I don’t know what to message.
I feel I’m running into so many scammers on seeking at the moment. I’ve had a few good arrangements, nothing to hit home for though, I’ve had one gem but she had some sort of awakening and now wants double ££ and doesn’t want to travel to London anymore for the amount I previously paid her.

[Punting2022]

Yeah, I found 2 girls that are on seeking, on hinge haha. Though I had to pay for a subscription for the filters on hinge, I’ve been on it a couple of hours, haven’t had any interest yet. To be fair, I’ve just been sending likes, no messages. I don’t know what to message.
I feel I’m running into so many scammers on seeking at the moment. I’ve had a few good arrangements, nothing to hit home for though, I’ve had one gem but she had some sort of awakening and now wants double ££ and doesn’t want to travel to London anymore for the amount I previously paid her.

14 quid is cheap. Or wait and a few days u get it for 7 as promo. On free you get set amount of likes.

Some girls have a business model. Get you hooked, up the price and sometimes they get it

[londonroad]

My hinge meet was amazing,  she got so wet from just kissing, done her around the room.
I have spotted a few girls on hinge that are on seeking tbh.
Also secret benifits has the same members. Seeking to me is not worth the 115 per month, when you can get the girls doing it on diff apps and sites for same price.

One thing u have to be prepared with uni students is availability. There plans do change ie friends outings organised and coursework deadlines.

I find it interesting that you are enjoying success with finding girls on Hinge. In your profile and messages do you have to be careful about what you say? We all know that on Seeking any suggestion of guys paying the girls leads to all sorts of difficulties and potentially being banned. Do you know if these are issues when using Hinge?

[Punting2022]

I find it interesting that you are enjoying success with finding girls on Hinge. In your profile and messages do you have to be careful about what you say? We all know that on Seeking any suggestion of guys paying the girls leads to all sorts of difficulties and potentially being banned. Do you know if these are issues when using Hinge?

I dont message on hinge, same as seeking, get thier whatsapp snapchat etc. Do all your messages there.

[Alexmck]

Yup, they don’t know each other. I wouldn’t say they’re necessarily conventionally attractive though, they’re a bit alt. But wish me luck!

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This in Doha? How did it go? Might stop over on way to HK next month

[bigden40]

This in Doha? How did it go? Might stop over on way to HK next month

That’s just an ad, I don’t think is 11 degrees in Doha. 

[Punting2022]

So i have been told by a lady. That most sugar babies are getting thier daddies in clubs. Clubs exist in london where girls go free. Men have to pay 1500k plus for entry. Here they are getting girls. Explains lack of talent on site

In lockdown ovs couldnt go these clubs, thats when the talent was higher. I guess its the same everywhere

[Garyhart]

I’ve mentioned before in previous posts, night clubs in west / central London and private member clubs are the best way. Easy to sleep with women on AW and Seeking for free if you’re a member of the latter. Won’t be saying names but some Brit girls I’ve seen posted here on seeking and aw threads frequent a few members clubs. their friends who aren’t on seeking (I haven’t seen them there at least) are lookers too

[Punting2022]

Quick question, so why do escorts on seeking charge the same amount as their rates or more. I would have thought they value the connection and would know that seeking is different PPM wise.
Had a few that I have seen on escort sites, But all want the full 2k Overnight rate. They don't do the 1 hour booking rate etc. Or like compromise for 500 for a few hours.

Also has anyone ever seen a seeking girl who is a escort, seen they can get her for lower as hourly and gone for a escort booking.

[Punting2022]

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Is a escort, On Tryst.link.
Charges by the hour.

Why cant escort differentiate between hourly rates and seeking. Surely they know most people want PPM and not charge by the hour. Or do they see it as a way to advertise for custom too.
Had one latina, shes a escort on the sites. but wanted 2k ppm. Dinner and few hours she said like her escort rates.
I told her, thats escort rates and i know your one. Not interested.

[Punting2022]

I’ve mentioned before in previous posts, night clubs in west / central London and private member clubs are the best way. Easy to sleep with women on AW and Seeking for free if you’re a member of the latter. Won’t be saying names but some Brit girls I’ve seen posted here on seeking and aw threads frequent a few members clubs. their friends who aren’t on seeking (I haven’t seen them there at least) are lookers too

But its not free, you have to pay membership. Pay for expensive drinks. Put effort in. So easier to book them for the hour and maybe cheaper

[jamiekinkxxx]

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Is a escort, On Tryst.link.
Charges by the hour.

Why cant escort differentiate between hourly rates and seeking. Surely they know most people want PPM and not charge by the hour. Or do they see it as a way to advertise for custom too.
Had one latina, shes a escort on the sites. but wanted 2k ppm. Dinner and few hours she said like her escort rates.
I told her, thats escort rates and i know your one. Not interested.

Tryst link?

[Garyhart]

But its not free, you have to pay membership. Pay for expensive drinks. Put effort in. So easier to book them for the hour and maybe cheaper

True, but I don’t go with the intent to sleep with women in all fairness (nor should anyone else). Good to socialise with friends, colleagues, ex colleagues and random strangers

[john122350]

Tryst link?

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[massagepuntingfan]

Quick question, so why do escorts on seeking charge the same amount as their rates or more. I would have thought they value the connection and would know that seeking is different PPM wise.
Had a few that I have seen on escort sites, But all want the full 2k Overnight rate. They don't do the 1 hour booking rate etc. Or like compromise for 500 for a few hours.

Also has anyone ever seen a seeking girl who is a escort, seen they can get her for lower as hourly and gone for a escort booking.

Not all do this. I have a regular who I met initially on seeking, agreed ppm and found out after seeing her she is also a low volume indie escort. We meet for 2-3 hours, click, sex is great and mutual attraction is there. PPM has always stayed the same and is same as her hourly rate. She later admitted she escorts as well and she admits she enjoys having me as a dependable regular who respects her boundaries. Long make it continue.

[jamiekinkxxx]

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Thanks. Pictures as awful as her seeking ones 

[Famy8989]

Lucy - External Link/Members Only
Any intel? Asked for 400 ppm, will take 300 with Ubers.

[Punting2022]

I got tempted to give a regular 1000 ppm. Met her 3 times at 400. But she was like I've been offered more. Went 800 she said still got more. Then I was like 1000. Regretted saying that figure, as I know there are plenty more on site. Thankfully she rejected it. But has anyone ever offered more once a connection developed. Or is it a big mistake. Was a nice blonde student.

[Punting2022]

Lucy - External Link/Members Only
Any intel? Asked for 400 ppm, will take 300 with Ubers.

The ubers would prob nearly amount to 400. Do the 400 and choose a location of your choice.
Sometimes when you give uber money before, girls take the cash, dont turn up.

[Punting2022]

Secret Benifits has a lot of girls on it tbh. Most i chatted too say they don't like seeking nowadays, so joined there.
Only issue is the UI , tbh.

Do girls have to buy credits to reply too.

[Jeffpike]

I got tempted to give a regular 1000 ppm. Met her 3 times at 400. But she was like I've been offered more. Went 800 she said still got more. Then I was like 1000. Regretted saying that figure, as I know there are plenty more on site. Thankfully she rejected it. But has anyone ever offered more once a connection developed. Or is it a big mistake. Was a nice blonde student.

I had a similar experience where i think she was a bit of a newbie. First time we met I got a freebie (kinda - paid hotel and drinks/dinner). Then over time she asked for more and more money per meet as she became comfortable with her worth. She was fun but i drew the line at £600 ppm. Fair play to her if she can get it.

[Punting2022]

I had a similar experience where i think she was a bit of a newbie. First time we met I got a freebie (kinda - paid hotel and drinks/dinner). Then over time she asked for more and more money per meet as she became comfortable with her worth. She was fun but i drew the line at £600 ppm. Fair play to her if she can get it.

Yep 600 to 800 is my max tbh. Not about cant afford, More stupidity to spend that much on a lady.
Will scrap the idea, Plenty more in the sea. Wasn't even a overnight.

[notamagnumguy]

Yep 600 to 800 is my max tbh. Not about cant afford, More stupidity to spend that much on a lady.
Will scrap the idea, Plenty more in the sea. Wasn't even a overnight.

It's a good rule - I find you start resenting yourself a lot for overpaying as negotiating downwards obviously isn't a thing, and the girl can end up the innocent party in your self resentment.  Overpaying is psychologically bad for both sides.

[paul_tall_]

Secret Benifits has a lot of girls on it tbh. Most i chatted too say they don't like seeking nowadays, so joined there.
Only issue is the UI , tbh.

Do girls have to buy credits to reply too.

No girls don’t need to buy credits to message or reply . That was the case a while ago
Have you had many conversations? Or had many one line messages to you and no replies after ? If you search on here there was plenty of discussion that the site is not that genuine

[Punting2022]

No girls don’t need to buy credits to message or reply . That was the case a while ago
Have you had many conversations? Or had many one line messages to you and no replies after ? If you search on here there was plenty of discussion that the site is not that genuine

I have got a few numbers tbh. Waiting on a few other replies. It has more choice tbh then Seeking. Few profiles i have seen on seeking and this the same as well.
Im only messaging verified profiles

[Famy8989]

I had a similar experience where i think she was a bit of a newbie. First time we met I got a freebie (kinda - paid hotel and drinks/dinner). Then over time she asked for more and more money per meet as she became comfortable with her worth. She was fun but i drew the line at £600 ppm. Fair play to her if she can get it.

Yeah same story. I paid £200 for a girl and she upped her ppm to £450 because she met a guy who would pay her that much. These girls don’t understand that a good connection/ trusted regular is better than meeting a bunch of different guys. It comes down to the girl though, some are huge whores, some aren’t so much. Though she is worth paying £400 for, I messaged her a few times and haven’t received any response. I don’t think she was pleased when I didn’t want to go higher the first time, because although I pay that amount ppm for other arrangements, the fact that I got it for £200 the first time, I’d expect a similar amount the next few times.

[seraph20]

These are some of the girls I have spoken to recently. I have NOT met any of them, there are many others I spoke to but can't link the WhatsApp contact to a Seeking Profile.


External Link/Members Only Jade 19
Wants Monthly Allowance says she don't entertain PPM and shouldn’t expect  sex as it something that needs to be earned

External Link/Members Only Oxi 21
Asks for 500 will take a lot less and she says she wont have sex or kiss happy suck dick and go out on dates..

External Link/Members Only Miya 29
Ask for 500 will go down to 450. Will meet for about 4 hours can only meet daytime


External Link/Members Only Rae 21
Asks for 500 I counter with 250 didn't except possible she will come down from 500

External Link/Members Only Tina 25
Will not budge from 400,, she already been discussed here Didnt like her Attitude over WhatApp.

External Link/Members Only Becca 24
This one is a fruit loop, talks alot of shit strings you along for a meet but is just a content seller in big denial.

External Link/Members Only  Emily 28
This one is a time waster acts like she wants to meet but  just wants to sell content.

External Link/Members Only Lay 19
Just wants to sell content

External Link/Members Only Kay 20
Wanted 500 went  down to 400 and wants taxi covered to.

External Link/Members Only Jasmine 31
Wants 350 will come down 250 can host

External Link/Members Only Angel 22
Escort

External Link/Members Only Alyssa 19
Shared her number but no response on Whatsapp

External Link/Members Only Ria 28
Asked for 300 for a couple of hours, likes to factor in Travel time then asked for 400 for a longer meet.

External Link/Members Only Laurie 27
Asks for 400 and didnt really entertain counter offer

External Link/Members Only Kateryana 31
Wants to meet for a coffee first to see if there is vibe will not discuss ppm until a vibe is established.

 External Link/Members Only Christina 25
Seems friendly Asked for 300 went  down 250 and can  host
External Link/Members Only Elle 41
Wants 350 when counter with a lower offer comes back with 400

External Link/Members Only Yasmine 29
Without make up a very different looking person. Will take 200 for a whole night and host as well.


External Link/Members Only Masise 22
Provided number and then no response on Whatsapp

External Link/Members Only Giana 18
Wants to spoiled no intimacy only hugs and pecks on the cheek.

External Link/Members Only Niko 39
Offered her 250 she took real offence to it saying she is not an easy person.

External Link/Members Only Nae 19
Wants 500

External Link/Members Only Madison 19
Scammer

External Link/Members Only Nicolle 26
Wants 500

External Link/Members Only  Rose 26
SB Pro Wants 500

External Link/Members Only Lara 23

External Link/Members Only Layla 25
Wants 400 wont go lower than 300 not timed. Wants travel cost covered will not use Public transport.

External Link/Members Only ellie 21
Says she is travelling in Spain so will only meet when back. Wants Online fun

External Link/Members Only Ana 20
Asks for 300 will take 200 but wants cab paid for.

External Link/Members Only Joshna 34
Will not chat on Telegram but you need to pay to send her message on  Telegram

External Link/Members Only Elle 36
Asks for 450 will take 350 Pro SB

External Link/Members Only Rosie 22
Wants 350, accepted 200 if ubers are covered

External Link/Members Only Beatriz 25
Wants 500 and wants dates.

External Link/Members Only May 20
Wants 350 but would 200 if regular not on a first meet

External Link/Members Only  Popai 19
Misinterpreted what I said suspect English isn’t her first language and literarily said “ I do this for money” I did not want to engage on talking further  on the site.

External Link/Members Only Nicol 37
Asks for 250 accepted 200 but will only meet at a hotel in Dartford.

External Link/Members Only Milena 28
Escort

External Link/Members Only Maya 28
Escort

External Link/Members Only Brooke 18
Scammer Content seller

External Link/Members Only Nini 20
Not even in London only wants to be spoilt doubt she will even meet even  for a platonic.

External Link/Members Only Faye 19
Says she is a virgin and wants to wait for the right person. Wants dates, Money and Gifts. No intimacy

Writing specifically about this girl:

 External Link/Members Only Christina 25
Seems friendly Asked for 300 went  down 250 and can  host

We had great communication including a video call. We made a date, discussed details and preferences and I booked a place.

She was messaging on the day and keeping me posted right up until 1 hour before the meet.

She then stopped responding all together.

I don’t know if anyone else has had similar experiences with her but I would suggest avoid.

Her profile has also now been deactivated.

[Punting2022]

Writing specifically about this girl:

 External Link/Members Only Christina 25
Seems friendly Asked for 300 went  down 250 and can  host

We had great communication including a video call. We made a date, discussed details and preferences and I booked a place.

She was messaging on the day and keeping me posted right up until 1 hour before the meet.

She then stopped responding all together.

I don’t know if anyone else has had similar experiences with her but I would suggest avoid.

Her profile has also now been deactivated.

Had it once in Manchester to me. Thats why first meets i always book a day room. They dont turn up. No money lost. Also i always book a room on the day once shes there. Say meet in bar first. If shes game, then book hotel

[Famy8989]

I had a similar thing literally 2 weeks ago. I don’t know if this is a new scam, same person doing it for fun or what but it seems they get a kick out of wasting time and money.

[Punting2022]

I had a similar thing literally 2 weeks ago. I don’t know if this is a new scam, same person doing it for fun or what but it seems they get a kick out of wasting time and money.

Or they get a better last min offer. I never book rooms until shes there and agreed to go forward. Look on the day for the cheapest decent area.

Dayuse now hace some rooms 3pm to 8pm as well

[seraph20]

Had it once in Manchester to me. Thats why first meets i always book a day room. They dont turn up. No money lost. Also i always book a room on the day once shes there. Say meet in bar first. If shes game, then book hotel

That’s a good tip. Will go forward on that basis from now on.

[seraph20]

I had a similar thing literally 2 weeks ago. I don’t know if this is a new scam, same person doing it for fun or what but it seems they get a kick out of wasting time and money.

I think maybe for fun or they enjoy doing it to us for whatever reason.