Author Topic: Seeking.com (London)  (Read 2044711 times)

Offline londonhunter008

Sam 40:  External Link/Members Only
Grace 45: External Link/Members Only

Both online at same time. Whom do you think is genuine? or both fake? Same lady with two profiles :D

Online koshkaj

All valuable and interesting viewpoints above. To answer your question the appeal was much more of a mutual experience and more cost effective than seeing an escort. I would pay anything between £200-£400 for 2-3 hours company for something that when it works/clicks felt like fucking a potential partner than an escort. Crucially it was always much more cost effective and gratifying than seeing an escort. I saw plenty of women who were in it just for the thrill, sex and cash.
That said there are pros and cons to every situation and currently I'm very happy seeing regular escorts who have dabbled with the seeking life as the maintaining of a SB relationship can be tiresome if you have a punting mindset which I do. Although I'm 100% transparent from the beginning about my needs and expectations - I'm sure many men promise the world, get the prize and disappear.
As for your question about the why not use the dating apps? I'm on tinder and have hooked up with a handful of ladies from there who are into sugar. The difference is it takes way more time as the majority of women are on there to find a partner not a sugar daddy, while Seeking used to be(I've not been on seeking for a year) much more targeted and easier to make plans.

This seems more logical, especially the first and last paragraphs which tend to get glossed over.

It does stand out to me that you mention dating apps take more time as the women are there to find a partner.  That brings me back to my original thought that Seeking/SB sites are ultimately about a transaction between parties, which is the dividing line between them and dating apps. whether that qualifies as enough of a difference from SW i suppose is up to the individual.


Offline Famy8989

No from hinge. Set filters to Short term, Still figuring out.
You can spot the ladies open for it. Some say in bio love shopping. Some say Love travel. Be inventive with a Like. Comment something. Also put in your bio provider.
Hinge is good. Lets you see who liked you free, also you get a set amount free each day.

Already planned a next meet with her tbh.

Seeking as a site is good, but to me gone downhill in UK. So have to be inventive on other apps. Its good abroad.

Great advice, cheers :hi:

Offline Famy8989

**SCAMMER**

Lacey - External Link/Members Only

Promised meet, made me pay for train and hotel then blocked.

Should’ve expected, I know I should’ve video called. I’m going to do that from now on. I’ve got 2 back up options ready for tonight who are on their pay now. Though the train money I won’t get back… bitch
Very weird one because everything was going well then she messaged me to fuck off on seeking as I write this haha. Must be a troll
« Last Edit: October 07, 2026, 07:46:33 pm by Famy8989 »

Offline Mr Garmin

I’ve got 2 back up options ready for tonight who are on their pay now.

You've got a duo booked with 2 seeking girls?

Way to go  :music:

Offline Mr Garmin

Lacey - External Link/Members Only
She's in Chesterfield, you're in London!  You didn't really think she was coming all that way to see you did you? :unknown:

Offline londonhunter008

**SCAMMER**

Lacey - External Link/Members Only

Promised meet, made me pay for train and hotel then blocked.

Should’ve expected, I know I should’ve video called. I’m going to do that from now on. I’ve got 2 back up options ready for tonight who are on their pay now. Though the train money I won’t get back… bitch
Very weird one because everything was going well then she messaged me to fuck off on seeking as I write this haha. Must be a troll

Her recent location is Coratia. Do you check recent locations ? It is visible on all profile even though they mention London.

Offline Famy8989

Her recent location is Coratia. Do you check recent locations ? It is visible on all profile even though they mention London.
I know… I’m an idiot. I noticed it a few hours ago, I don’t think it said that before.

Offline Famy8989

You've got a duo booked with 2 seeking girls?

Way to go  :music:
Yup, they don’t know each other. I wouldn’t say they’re necessarily conventionally attractive though, they’re a bit alt. But wish me luck!

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« Last Edit: October 07, 2026, 08:13:00 pm by Famy8989 »

Offline Famy8989

Katy - External Link/Members Only
Thought I’d mention, saw her name as Jo on another profile with the same pictures. Also, the number that she gave me on WhatsApp, when checking on Snapchat, the bitmoji is of some brown girl. With the snap name Jo. Something very dodgy. Fucking hell seeking…

Offline londonroad

I know… I’m an idiot. I noticed it a few hours ago, I don’t think it said that before.

She maybe using a VPN which can mean a different location is displayed and not where she actually is.

Offline seraph20

Katy - External Link/Members Only
Thought I’d mention, saw her name as Jo on another profile with the same pictures. Also, the number that she gave me on WhatsApp, when checking on Snapchat, the bitmoji is of some brown girl. With the snap name Jo. Something very dodgy. Fucking hell seeking…

I had been in communication with the “Jo”
version (different profile to Katy). I no longer have the number she sent me for WhatsApp as I deleted it and blocked her on Seeking also.

We communicated for a bit on what’s app. I tried to arrange a video call and never happened. She left me a couple of voice notes and sounded legitimate. Requested small sums of money a couple of times. I declined and she eventually stopped responding altogether.

I have just messaged “Katy” and she has answered on Seeking clearly not remembering who I am.

No idea what to make of it really.

Offline Famy8989

I had been in communication with the “Jo”
version (different profile to Katy). I no longer have the number she sent me for WhatsApp as I deleted it and blocked her on Seeking also.

We communicated for a bit on what’s app. I tried to arrange a video call and never happened. She left me a couple of voice notes and sounded legitimate. Requested small sums of money a couple of times. I declined and she eventually stopped responding altogether.

I have just messaged “Katy” and she has answered on Seeking clearly not remembering who I am.

No idea what to make of it really.
She must be running some sort of elaborate scam haha. She told me she got over £3000 from someone she never met, she doesn’t want money, she just wants connection. That was under the “Jo” profile

Offline Famy8989

On a side note, I feel like seeking has dried up a little for me this past week. I find myself meeting with my previous meets rather than someone new. I tend to go for under 26 and thought that uni starting again might help with finding someone suitable on the app, but it’s kind of done the opposite.
What countries would you guys say are the best? I always hear Europe, but where is Europe? I’ve been having a look at France and Spain lately. Not too bad..

Offline Punting2022

On a side note, I feel like seeking has dried up a little for me this past week. I find myself meeting with my previous meets rather than someone new. I tend to go for under 26 and thought that uni starting again might help with finding someone suitable on the app, but it’s kind of done the opposite.
What countries would you guys say are the best? I always hear Europe, but where is Europe? I’ve been having a look at France and Spain lately. Not too bad..

Spain is cheap. Most girls 400 euros overnights.
Spain also nice country. Cheaper to go out, cleaner . Hinge is good to

Offline Famy8989

Spain is cheap. Most girls 400 euros overnights.
Spain also nice country. Cheaper to go out, cleaner . Hinge is good to
I’ve got a meet lined up from seeking in a couple of days with a 21 year old uni student. If all goes well I may stick with seeking/old arrangements. If not I will probably pull the trigger on hinge.
Thought so, I do want to revisit Spain so may try to get something arranged

Offline seraph20

She must be running some sort of elaborate scam haha. She told me she got over £3000 from someone she never met, she doesn’t want money, she just wants connection. That was under the “Jo” profile

Exactly the same. Not the £3000 bit. She just wants connection and some help - around £200 a month for some debts she has. That was under the Jo profile. Her Katy profile has now blocked me.

As an aside on the voice note she left me she has a Scottish accent.