So many girls talk the game. Intimacy yes. Then say but let’s have a platonic meet first. Im like we go out for drinks and if we click back to the room. We all know platonic first meets are an easy way to make a quick buck for the girl and no intimacy or 2nd meet will happen. Money focused too in UK.
Aren’t you money focused too? You have mentioned it several times in this post!
Whilst I agree we guys need to be careful with girls wanting paid platonic meets, they are not all the same ! I have had several non paid platonic meets that lead to long term arrangements but last year I was chatting to one girl , had a couple of video calls and really wanted to meet her but she wanted £200 for a date/dinner night and if we both wanted to upgrade it to an overnight at £400!
I was so keen to meet her I agreed- but had already decided that whatever, I wouldn’t convert it to an overnight! We had a really good fun night out and both really enjoyed it - the following day I paid her the £200 ( I would not have agreed to pay it in advance but tbf she never asked for it in advance) and arranged our next date with overnight !
I have had 5 or 6 overnights with her and always have a really fun evening with her! So not all are scammers!!