Seems so. That’s what is making me hesitate as this is my first time trying seeking. Do I spend 400 or do two sessions at 150/200? I get the whole pretend romance thing, meeting at hotel, etc. But not sure it’s worth it
It reads like you may benefit from more time deciding if sugar dating is what you want.
First thing to bear in mind is that it is quite removed from an escort arrangement... the girls like to feel that they've been woo'ed to some extent. They hear £400 (or more), and the situation is suddenly fast-tracked
So, yeah - it lacks the conveniece of simply messaging them to ask if they're available this afternoon and, how much for how long.
Do not do that; she'll shut you down pronto
The pay-off is that you get someone who manages to feign interest in you for however many hours you spend together; it's not, 'how many positions can I squeeze into this one hour meet?' If you like the sense of being more connected; mutual interests, etc - and not everybody does - then it's worth playing the mid-to-long game to catch your prize fish. When things go really well, you can look forward to overnights and, if you so wish, trips away.
If your mindset is still, 'um, yeah - but the £400 this SB is asking could pay for two 1hr meets with a WG' then the timing's not right yet.
It took me almost two years on Seeking before I fully rinsed the 'WG convenience' mindset out of my system. And that's when Seeking opened up like a lotus flower for me
I know this is a humungous thread now, but it's still worth speed rerading the whole thing to get a sense of what works and what doesn't
Don't rush it; it'll backfire. Spend a lot of time getting a feel for the site and identifying who's genuine (the significant minority, but they are there) and the abundance of timewasters/ fakes/ pro-SBs, etc
