Seeking.com (London)

[sammathy]

My current 'arrangement' over the past year, is a monthly allowance, we meet 2/3 times a month, sometimes we just do something fun (no sex), other times we will spend the night in a hotel or at my house.

If I just wanted sex I would stick with AW. I do find it funny on here when people say things like 'she was giving off pro-vibes in her messages' when that is exactly what they are looking for (i.e. one off sex).

100% agree. Not to say it’s not possible to source from Tinder, but being able to throw money at the concept of flaking and the inevitable influx of BBWs as an in shape guy, makes Seeking a formidable option. Sex is so easy to obtain because of this hobby. Sometimes I’d like to switch things up. Like a dine out with a stunner who I’ve not had to spend about 5 weeks or any other similar timeframe, thinking up ways to wear her down enough into meeting, just to save myself £400 or whatever her PPM fee is.

One of the first few question from women is how you can support them and it will be very tricky to convey that message without violating the policy of the site.

Personally, my way around this is to get girls on WA within the first couple of messages. I only message girls that favourite me back, apart from just 1 girl, so there's no mystery on mutual attraction. Just a quick "Hi, I definitely like the look of your profile and would really like to connect further, are you on Whatsapp? What's your number?". But of course, we'll see how the change of policy manifests itself and whether this one-liner needs to be tweaked further, but it works so far!

[southcoastpunter]

 I haven't messaged anyone for sometime now as i have not renewed my subscription recently but yesterday, i took out the word "arrangement" and the phrase "financial support" from my profile to unsure i did not fall fowl of the Seeking updated requirements - to today get suspended and "watch the video".

which i did and my account was released from suspension.

[londonhunter008]

I tried SecretBenefits in past to find alternative to SeekingArrangement but it has changed since then and my question was if anyone has tried it recently. SA, is getting more difficult to use for arrangements purpose and they want to this site to be used as more of a dating site.

SecretBenfits did not have option for women to put verified videos (if you log in today you can view them on most the profile without taking any subscription) which clearly shows that those are genuine profile and not Bots (and I could see some common faces on Seeing and this site...few SBs i communicated in past).
One  good thing by looking at those videos is that many women have very good pictures but when you see video  they dont look as good but can see the its a real profile. Many of us want to have video call with SB before meeting, having a verified video on site can reduce that need and that is one plus point which SecretBenfits sites have over Seeking.
Subscription is based on number of messages (but I dont remember exact usage of the points now...is it for initiation a conversation and used only for first message (the model Ashley Madison site used)  or for every message.

i do my research and thank you for your reply. It has helped me to clarify my question more here, which was more about any latest experince.

[seed_sprayer]

I have seen her for a M&G - she is from somewhere between Salisbury and Andover and has a great body - I meet her in a pub for a drink and I am sure all the other men were envious of me!
I can’t remember what went wrong but something did and we didn’t take it any further- but she is genuine and a good looking lady!

She looks very hot - hasn't replied to messages - has any one else got further?

[Jardent6]

Has anyone got any discount codes?

[Jazzy99]

I tried SecretBenefits in past to find alternative to SeekingArrangement but it has changed since then and my question was if anyone has tried it recently. SA, is getting more difficult to use for arrangements purpose and they want to this site to be used as more of a dating site.

SecretBenfits did not have option for women to put verified videos (if you log in today you can view them on most the profile without taking any subscription) which clearly shows that those are genuine profile and not Bots (and I could see some common faces on Seeing and this site...few SBs i communicated in past).
One  good thing by looking at those videos is that many women have very good pictures but when you see video  they dont look as good but can see the its a real profile. Many of us want to have video call with SB before meeting, having a verified video on site can reduce that need and that is one plus point which SecretBenfits sites have over Seeking.
Subscription is based on number of messages (but I dont remember exact usage of the points now...is it for initiation a conversation and used only for first message (the model Ashley Madison site used)  or for every message.

i do my research and thank you for your reply. It has helped me to clarify my question more here, which was more about any latest experince.

I've used it in the past. Unless you pay extra to boost your messages you hardly get a response. This was couple of years ago. Never managed to arrange a meet. I may try this site again. Meanwhile I have used WhatsYourPrice which is the sister site to Seeking but meant for other arrangements than purely dating. Have seen a number of women but the pricing model encourages payment incentives for first dates. Some women simply want to get wined and dined, collect their payment and not interested to go any further. Others I've had follow up dates.

[sapunter]

Did anyone meet her in the end? She is still active, so must be genuine.

I hope the quote works. She is active in London. Anyone met her lads?

[sapunter]

That reminded me of another seeking girl who I met. She was turbo active on seeking and tried to be a Kim K wannabe double. Called herself Cherri. Anyone had some experience with her? And what happened to her as seems to have vanished? I met her once for a coffee as she doesn’t drink and to be honest I did a runner after 15 minutes as she just looked so much that everyone starred 😂 Nice person tho despite terrible  chat like I only fly First Class, I am so sexy etc.

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[Spermdispenser]

A rare post these days of some positive past experiences, and that I've seen online recently:

Ayla, 25, External Link/Members Only, very petite and eager to please, £500.

Paige 27, External Link/Members Only, very naughty, requires money up front, but real and not going to run away. £500

Lily, 22, External Link/Members Only, great body, very polite, lovely girl. £400

Elle, 32 External Link/Members Only, she is as per her photos, came over very pro, so we didn't do the deed, but if that's your thing, she's real.

[metalqaz]

Paige 27, External Link/Members Only, very naughty, requires money up front, but real and not going to run away. £500

by upfront you mean handed over to her when you meet and not online transfer right ?

[Spermdispenser]

by upfront you mean handed over to her when you meet and not online transfer right ?

Yes, before doing the deed, as it were. She’s happy to go for a date first.

[paul_tall_]

A rare post these days of some positive past experiences, and that I've seen online recently:

Ayla, 25, External Link/Members Only, very petite and eager to please, £500.

Paige 27, External Link/Members Only, very naughty, requires money up front, but real and not going to run away. £500

Lily, 22, External Link/Members Only, great body, very polite, lovely girl. £400

Elle, 32 External Link/Members Only, she is as per her photos, came over very pro, so we didn't do the deed, but if that's your thing, she's real.

Any host ? or was a hotel required also ? set times ?

[Flush]

That reminded me of another seeking girl who I met. She was turbo active on seeking and tried to be a Kim K wannabe double. Called herself Cherri. Anyone had some experience with her? And what happened to her as seems to have vanished? I met her once for a coffee as she doesn’t drink and to be honest I did a runner after 15 minutes as she just looked so much that everyone starred 😂 Nice person tho despite terrible  chat like I only fly First Class, I am so sexy etc.

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I chatted with her 4 years ago and her ppm was 500 back then, which was too high for those times. I, however, saw her profile pop up like two months ago, her location was New York. I think she has upgraded now. There are guys with more money in NY, and she is probably charging a fortune now. I think I still have a number after all this time.

[Spermdispenser]

Any host ? or was a hotel required also ? set times ?

I don’t think any can host, they were all happy coming to mine.

No fixed times from memory.

[rockyhikes]

Anyone tried  External Link/Members Only site? I am just exploring it. It seems many women have uploaded verification video and you can see a verified profiles along with verification video to be sure that its a genuine profile. I dont understand the credit system they have instead of monthly subscription.

I have been using it for years, with varying success. It seems to be a distant second place to SA in the UK, but in the US, it’s very much a feast or famine situation with some areas being hotbeds of activity and others where it’s virtually moribund.

I’ve heard there’s a lot to like about it from a woman’s perspective, in that, because men pay for sending messages, apparently the volume of low effort messages is lower. The flip side seems to be that the search functions are a lot less granular, for instance there’s no keyword search and, apparently, no requirement for women to complete their profiles. Many profiles lack things like height, weight, and ethnicity.

A lot of US punters claim the site is chockablock with bots, but I’ve never encountered one nor seen evidence of any, so it sounds, to me, like typical conspiracy theory drivel one would expect from American incels.

[southcoastpunter]

A lot of US punters claim the site is chockablock with bots, but I’ve never encountered one nor seen evidence of any, so it sounds, to me, like typical conspiracy theory drivel one would expect from American incels.

do a search on here - you will see several threads from guys claiming that from their experience (and research),  SB has more Bots than most other SD/SB sites (UK experience)

[updownandaround]

do a search on here - you will see several threads from guys claiming that from their experience (and research),  SB has more Bots than most other SD/SB sites (UK experience)

The best part of SB is that there are often unfiltered verification videos that I'm not sure that the girls know are public. This is where you see the real girl vs the filters and photoshopped version. And often it's horrific. 😂

[WKD123]

External Link/Members Only Innocent

Has anyone met this one? I see a few of you have chatted to her, and she mentioned no RO or anal, but haven’t actually seen any discussion of what she’s actually like or if she’s worth a meet. Any intel would be welcome 🙏

Sorry to drag back to this but I am currently having a bit of a snoop and this one caught my eye, but no RO is a bit odd and a dealbreaker - bit like the young Russian I met ages ago and I only found out too late, kind of put a damper on things.   Anyone had any further dealings with "Martini"?

[highlander7777]

Anyone speaking with this lady , Veronika?. not sure if its a scam. so have arranged to go for coffee . The language used to reply seems a little over the top. wont exchange numbers and no mention of money yet

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[metalqaz]

Hi! Is anyone met with her? External Link/Members Only  - Red
She is member since 2018 and doing Vibes frequently so probably most of you already come up with her profile

Has anyone seen her recently, if yes what's the review like gents ?

[thatsaint]

Melissa, 29 - External Link/Members Only

Have kept this one in the London regional discussions as she’s just outside the M25 but let me know if I need to repost it elsewhere. 

Been talking with her on/off on SA for well over a month but doesn’t bite when I try to move it to WhatsApp.  She's very wary and cautious of anyone on SA after a negative experience but think I'm making progress and she may be ready for a meet & greet    Hope the time put in to this one is worth it

Did you have any joy? I've been chatting with her on/off for a while now. But she does seem to be very guarded

[rockyhikes]

do a search on here - you will see several threads from guys claiming that from their experience (and research),  SB has more Bots than most other SD/SB sites (UK experience)

As I said, a lot of similar stories in the US, but it’s not been my experience. There are a lot of low effort women on the site who send generic “Hey babe.” messages, and I’ve certainly encountered content sellers and scams, but that’s a different complaint and one that’s present on all adult connection sites.

[keij]

External Link/Members Only Innocent

Has anyone met this one? I see a few of you have chatted to her, and she mentioned no RO or anal, but haven’t actually seen any discussion of what she’s actually like or if she’s worth a meet. Any intel would be welcome 🙏

I met her about 1-2 years ago, straight to business, 350 for the evening if I remember correctly, and at that time she's kinky (and I think she mentioned it on her profile), we did a few light kinky play and there's definately RO, never met for 2nd time as I think 350 is not good VFM, interesting she's doing vanilla meet now.

[liluzivertz]

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One for the big tits lovers, anyone seen her?

[Atrueyorkie]

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One for the big tits lovers, anyone seen her?

Would help if you put a name and not just a link

[Iloveoral]

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One for the big tits lovers, anyone seen her?

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[bigden40]

IIRC she’s not actually based in the UK, lives in France I think. 

Was in contact but couldn’t make it work

[bigden40]

Double post

[finn5555]

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One for the big tits lovers, anyone seen her?

Yes 

[Spermdispenser]

Scarlette, 26 - has anyone had any dealings with her? Hoping to meet soon.

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[seed_sprayer]

Has anyone seen her recently, if yes what's the review like gents ?

I've seen her within last six months I think. Would recommend.  Fun for a few drinks and in the bedroom.  Looks better than pics tbh.  Really uninhibited and loves a good shag!

[cottray]

When is it best practice to pay?

I'm arranging my first meet off the site next week, do you usually pay after?

[Prifessionallondinguy]

When is it best practice to pay?

I'm arranging my first meet off the site next week, do you usually pay after?

First meet. Pay at the end. You’ll be more relaxed knowing it’s on.

I always did so at the end. Mine were overnights.  A few times I would pop it in their handbag as they were showering or using the bathroom early in the meet  (if they were a regular)
Seems an unnecessary hassle to bring this up. Just pay at the end. 

[PLeisure]

When is it best practice to pay?

I'm arranging my first meet off the site next week, do you usually pay after?

As Prif advises above...

Some SBs may ask for payment upfront. This can sometimes go wrong and the girl suddenly disappears after making an excuse to leave the room.
You can reassure her by showing her the cash, if she asks - and confirming that you'll pay at the end.

Hope it goes well 

[merseyrob]

I've seen her within last six months I think. Would recommend.  Fun for a few drinks and in the bedroom.  Looks better than pics tbh.  Really uninhibited and loves a good shag!

She looks nice. If you don’t mind me asking, how much did you pay?

[londonhunter008]

Has anyone faced issue about not able to send message despite having premium subscription?
I renewed my subscription today (it was annoying that they showed popup with one month 20% discount and when I clicked on it deduced for three months...misleading advertisement).
But now within an hour...while sending message to a lady, I got notification that my message may have word which violate guideline (only word I can think of is "allowance" in my message). I cancelled sending that message to adhere to the guidelines but right after that I cant send message to anyone.

Using Seeking is getting very difficult and frustrating now .

[PLeisure]

Has anyone faced issue about not able to send message despite having premium subscription?
I renewed my subscription today (it was annoying that they showed popup with one month 20% discount and when I clicked on it deduced for three months...misleading advertisement).
But now within an hour...while sending message to a lady, I got notification that my message may have word which violate guideline (only word I can think of is "allowance" in my message). I cancelled sending that message to adhere to the guidelines but right after that I cant send message to anyone.

Using Seeking is getting very difficult and frustrating now .

Contact their Support team 

[updownandaround]

Has anyone faced issue about not able to send message despite having premium subscription?
I renewed my subscription today (it was annoying that they showed popup with one month 20% discount and when I clicked on it deduced for three months...misleading advertisement).
But now within an hour...while sending message to a lady, I got notification that my message may have word which violate guideline (only word I can think of is "allowance" in my message). I cancelled sending that message to adhere to the guidelines but right after that I cant send message to anyone.

Using Seeking is getting very difficult and frustrating now .

Check your email inbox to see if they have put you on the digital naughty step, there might be a link to click in there so that you be rehabilitated by watching an education video on how to play nicely.

[londonhunter008]

Thank you for replies. Dropped email to customer support. They have fixed it now.

[southcoastpunter]

(only word I can think of is "allowance" in my message).

yep - allowance will do it! anything that suggests financial benefit / compensation for a date /dates (on the assumption i think that they assume compensation it will be for sex and therefore you are offerring money for sex!)

[thatsaint]

I had a message from someone the other day and they said "I don't do paper me"
that's my new go to 

[Wowgeek]

Some intel to, hopefully, inform decision making;

External Link/Members Only Allison - slightly strange conversation. Talks about being discreet so declined a drinks meet. Didn’t really progress to anything and then, apparently, realised how old I am and ghosted me.

External Link/Members Only Arabella - £800 ppm then an allowance. Needless to say, declined.

External Link/Members Only Kathleen - £500 ppm, no negotiation so declined

External Link/Members Only Charlotte - £700 ppm, no negotiation, declined

External Link/Members Only Jessica - £750 ppm, no negotiation, declined

External Link/Members Only Vanesa - definitely pro. Quoted £900 ppm and when I pushed back offered £450 for an hour. Declined.

External Link/Members Only Bella - quoted £300 and sent a pic. Looked hot so agreed. Cancelled last minute twice, with excuses. I gave her one more chance and hasn’t responded since.

External Link/Members Only Paige - another slightly strange one. Wanted to meet immediately and quoted £200 for oral and pussy play, wanted £700 for sex. Declined.

External Link/Members Only Jasmin - I think she’s been discussed on this thread before. Says she has no limits and £450 for a few hours. No negotiation and with no other feedback, I’m not in a TOFTT mood. If anyone has any further intel that would be useful.

External Link/Members Only Chantelle - definitely the girl in the pics but is somewhat larger then they would suggest. Naughty enough but clearly a pro. £350 for a couple of hours but no interest in a proper arrangement.

Enjoy guys.

[highlander7777]

thanks for sharing , some large numbers , 700+.... i guess people are paying otherwise they would not ask

[punter10]

Some intel to, hopefully, inform decision making;

External Link/Members Only Allison - slightly strange conversation. Talks about being discreet so declined a drinks meet. Didn’t really progress to anything and then, apparently, realised how old I am and ghosted me.

External Link/Members Only Arabella - £800 ppm then an allowance. Needless to say, declined.

External Link/Members Only Kathleen - £500 ppm, no negotiation so declined

External Link/Members Only Charlotte - £700 ppm, no negotiation, declined

External Link/Members Only Jessica - £750 ppm, no negotiation, declined

External Link/Members Only Vanesa - definitely pro. Quoted £900 ppm and when I pushed back offered £450 for an hour. Declined.

External Link/Members Only Bella - quoted £300 and sent a pic. Looked hot so agreed. Cancelled last minute twice, with excuses. I gave her one more chance and hasn’t responded since.

External Link/Members Only Paige - another slightly strange one. Wanted to meet immediately and quoted £200 for oral and pussy play, wanted £700 for sex. Declined.

External Link/Members Only Jasmin - I think she’s been discussed on this thread before. Says she has no limits and £450 for a few hours. No negotiation and with no other feedback, I’m not in a TOFTT mood. If anyone has any further intel that would be useful.

External Link/Members Only Chantelle - definitely the girl in the pics but is somewhat larger then they would suggest. Naughty enough but clearly a pro. £350 for a couple of hours but no interest in a proper arrangement.

Enjoy guys.

Had to block Jasmin as I wasnt interested in taking it further but she kept sending messages, pics or vids now and again, is into really rough sex it seems - too extreme for me and borderline dangerous so put me off.
Is very underhand too as i dont think i even messaged her initially and got my number off her mate! and she recently messaged me of a different number after i blocked her lol.
Bit of a mad one me thinks, beware.

[MichaelDBW]

External Link/Members Only Bella - quoted £300 and sent a pic. Looked hot so agreed. Cancelled last minute twice, with excuses. I gave her one more chance and hasn’t responded since.

All very helpful, thanks! I was due to have a M&G coffee date with Bella a few weeks ago, she was communicating up until a couple of hours before but then just didn't show up .. Shame as like you say she initially looked and seemed very genuine.

[sammathy]

Has anyone got any discount codes?

20% discount: External Link/Members Only

25% discount: External Link/Members Only

And this 25% discount from July stlll works: External Link/Members Only

I renewed my subscription today (it was annoying that they showed popup with one month 20% discount and when I clicked on it deduced for three months...misleading advertisement).

The discounts still apply to 1 month subscriptions ($97.50 instead of $130) which I used yesterday. But you would need to be in the US with a bank card that is able to make payments in dollars to avoid the GB tax.

[Boystud23]

Allison - I met her few months back.
No drama, except for anal. During chats she said she doesn't like anything done to anal region incl anal play, but during meet I introduced anal play and was more than happy with it ( but no anal penetration)
Her breasts are enhanced so natural lovers may not like that.
Open to all acts, DFK included. Spent 2 hrs and guess I paid 250.
She has some part time job, does some part time business and intend to do higher studies. She comes straight to hotel room

 

Some intel to, hopefully, inform decision making;

External Link/Members Only Allison - slightly strange conversation. Talks about being discreet so declined a drinks meet. Didn’t really progress to anything and then, apparently, realised how old I am and ghosted me.

 

[thatsaint]

20% discount: External Link/Members Only

25% discount: External Link/Members Only

And this 25% discount from July stlll works: External Link/Members Only
The discounts still apply to 1 month subscriptions ($97.50 instead of $130) which I used yesterday. But you would need to be in the US with a bank card that is able to make payments in dollars to avoid the GB tax.

I put a vpn on USA and used Paypal and it avoided Tax btw

[bottomworship]

Has anyone got any info or feedback on this person?
We're chatting and I'm thinking of setting up a date.

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[Spermdispenser]

Sophia , 26 - External Link/Members Only

Looks good - anyone had any experience?

Thanks