Seeking.com (London)

[maakriman]

Yes, true. Don't have any reviews to post.

[DashSam89]

Contacted loads of people. Most of them considered me as scammer as i was trying to chat with them from my home country. So lot of no replies and some dismissed me after seeing my photos. I have avoided who reply with WA or TG.

Also taken Pimeyes subscription for a month to weed out pros and scammers.

External Link/Members Only - ClassyPrincess - Said previous arrangement was 1k. And if i could match that.

External Link/Members Only - Crystal. Straight to WA/TG. Pimeyes shows Onlyfans girl and has a business on Insta as well.

External Link/Members Only - Tatjana. Seems pro as well. Pimeyes shows some camgirl.

External Link/Members Only - EducatedSocialite. Wants 300. Came down to 250.

External Link/Members Only - Valentine_Anna. Declined after seeing my photos.

External Link/Members Only - RubyB. Think she was on Aprov's list. Cant find her now.

External Link/Members Only - CapriciousOne. Looks like a model. Declined me after seeing my photos.

External Link/Members Only - HelpfulBeauty. Staright to WA.

External Link/Members Only - Olivia. Wants 600.

External Link/Members Only - Violetfoxx. Replied with WA.

External Link/Members Only - Larissa_LT. Wants 800. When i replied back with 500 then immediately agreed.

External Link/Members Only - Your new obsession. Replied with a list of domination she wants to do and I will not be allowed anything. I declined,

External Link/Members Only - LadyLady
External Link/Members Only - Madame. Both of these profiles are of the same girl. Not sure if her pics are stolen or something.

[martini2429]

Contacted loads of people. Most of them considered me as scammer as i was trying to chat with them from my home country. So lot of no replies and some dismissed me after seeing my photos. I have avoided who reply with WA or TG.

Also taken Pimeyes subscription for a month to weed out pros and scammers.

External Link/Members Only - ClassyPrincess - Said previous arrangement was 1k. And if i could match that.

External Link/Members Only - Crystal. Straight to WA/TG. Pimeyes shows Onlyfans girl and has a business on Insta as well.

External Link/Members Only - Tatjana. Seems pro as well. Pimeyes shows some camgirl.

External Link/Members Only - EducatedSocialite. Wants 300. Came down to 250.

External Link/Members Only - Valentine_Anna. Declined after seeing my photos.

External Link/Members Only - RubyB. Think she was on Aprov's list. Cant find her now.

External Link/Members Only - CapriciousOne. Looks like a model. Declined me after seeing my photos.

External Link/Members Only - HelpfulBeauty. Staright to WA.

External Link/Members Only - Olivia. Wants 600.

External Link/Members Only - Violetfoxx. Replied with WA.

External Link/Members Only - Larissa_LT. Wants 800. When i replied back with 500 then immediately agreed.

External Link/Members Only - Your new obsession. Replied with a list of domination she wants to do and I will not be allowed anything. I declined,

External Link/Members Only - LadyLady
External Link/Members Only - Madame. Both of these profiles are of the same girl. Not sure if her pics are stolen or something.

4 or 5 of the profiles you have listed are to your message inbox/outbox 

 

[youngwolf994]

Seeking is just full of pros right now. The choices are very limited and quality is down. Hopefully it picks up after the holidays.

[finn5555]

Seeking is just full of pros right now. The choices are very limited and quality is down. Hopefully it picks up after the holidays.

Very true, there are a lot of pros for sure but a few gems can be found.

I had a 20yo on WhatsApp, petite blonde and looking hot, air of innocence about her then discovered she had a 18 month old daughter and struggles to get childcare 

She was happy to host at her place but when her daughter was in bed, not for me so declined     

[Heph]

Following on from his reply 13252 - I see that DashSam89 makes a very useful contribution which I'd like to see if we can encourage more of- he lists the SB's names after the link.

This is going to save anyone reading the 'any intel?' requests so much time, and will make helping out so much easier if more of us will do it - because there's a good chance that we, the readers, can scan the listed name and may recognise it without having to go through the bother of following each and every link, logging on and leaving a visit footprint before we even know if we might be able to help out. Gents, may I commend it to you?

[southcoastpunter]

Contacted loads of people. Most of them considered me as scammer as i was trying to chat with them from my home country. So lot of no replies and some dismissed me after seeing my photos.

External Link/Members Only - Valentine_Anna. Declined after seeing my photos.


External Link/Members Only - CapriciousOne. Looks like a model. Declined me after seeing my photos.

if you don't mind me asking - is that because of your age or ethnicity or some other reason ?

Following on from his reply 13252 - I see that DashSam89 makes a very useful contribution which I'd like to see if we can encourage more of- he lists the SB's names after the link.

This is going to save anyone reading the 'any intel?' requests so much time, and will make helping out so much easier if more of us will do it

100% agree!!

[PLeisure]

Following on from his reply 13252 - I see that DashSam89 makes a very useful contribution which I'd like to see if we can encourage more of- he lists the SB's names after the link.

This is going to save anyone reading the 'any intel?' requests so much time, and will make helping out so much easier if more of us will do it - because there's a good chance that we, the readers, can scan the listed name and may recognise it without having to go through the bother of following each and every link, logging on and leaving a visit footprint before we even know if we might be able to help out. Gents, may I commend it to you?

+1 - a big help 

[DashSam89]

4 or 5 of the profiles you have listed are to your message inbox/outbox 

 

And i thought i would avoid these types of silly mistakes.

External Link/Members Only - ClassyPrincess

External Link/Members Only - Crystal

External Link/Members Only - Tatjana

External Link/Members Only - VioletFoxx

External Link/Members Only - Olivia

[DashSam89]

if you don't mind me asking - is that because of your age or ethnicity or some other reason ?

Mostly ethnicity or average looking perhaps. I am in my 30's and would not consider myself completely fit but better than average. My pics were not very very clear but you could discern my face easily. So in my opinion it would be ethnicity or they want a looker + money.

[DashSam89]

+1 - a big help 

Yeah I actually had an issue that i could not find profiles that has been previously mentioned here as well hence added the name which someone had suggested before.

Contributing as much as i can.

[LAZY_GENTLEMAN]

Seeking is just full of pros right now. The choices are very limited and quality is down. Hopefully it picks up after the holidays.

Given that this has been an increasing trend over the last 5 years, I'm not holding my breath unfortunately.
You really have to sift through so much crap to find a gem. It's almost a full time job.

[WKD123]

So, here are my findings from quite a few weeks of research.  Forgive some of the repeats, but I thought it might build on previous intel and be useful. Hopefully, these are all in the right area as I have split my report and will be posting on the appropriate board.  Don't shoot the messenger!

As mentioned recently, it might be an idea to check if you've already engaged just using the name rather than follow every link ...

Known on UKP but this is my interaction:

Yoursugar
External Link/Members Only
found the photo on Russian Brides through a hint from another forum member.
Went straight to WhatsApp and when I wouldn't share a photo, insisted on a video meeting first
Might be genuine, but I swerved

sugarbaby87j
External Link/Members Only
Went straight to £500 ppm so she went straight to the bin (as reported previously)

EasyGoingCutie
Wanted my picture because she said she needed to know if she fancied me... well known already so I would emphasise the need to avoid

I don't think these have been reported before:

Foxyformature
External Link/Members Only
Should have read the profile in more detail, still a bit confused by our "conversation" but note
that only mature men, intelligent and good looking need apply (that rules me out then!)

Jade
External Link/Members Only
Requested my private pics out of the blue and I didn't respond as she didn't seem my type

E
External Link/Members Only
Really not sure how to read this one - I think that she's looking for a long term arrangement

Datingfun
External Link/Members Only
Had a brief chat online but I think that she's looking for a casual relationship, maybe
turning into something more permanent, but not any arrangement

Mel
External Link/Members Only
Another stilted conversation which didn't go anywhere

ClassyLadyLondon
External Link/Members Only
Has a very straight talking profile, so I messaged with enough information so she could make a decision...
Thanked me for my detailed response and then radio silence

SexySiren
External Link/Members Only
Got a good sense of humour, but not my type

Ella2022
External Link/Members Only
Straight to the point - £400 ppm?

Emmy
External Link/Members Only
Only seemed to want online and to show me her body and ask what I would do with it...

Petite 37
External Link/Members Only
Very direct "Not interested thank you" response

TheGoodGirl
External Link/Members Only
Very chatty but not sure she was my type, so I didn't follow up

Mariahearts
External Link/Members Only
Contacted me out of the blue.  Not my type so I haven't responded

Jayjaygirl
External Link/Members Only
Wanted to do online until she was in a position to meet but I suspect it would remain just online
I politely declined

Cindyloo
External Link/Members Only
Required an upfront payment for an initial meeting. I politely declined

ConfidentMiss
External Link/Members Only
Looks lovely, but I think she wants someone that isn't me...!

StunningAngel
External Link/Members Only
Reached out to me and wanted to get to know me better then radio silence

Sweetlea
External Link/Members Only
Claimed to be new to this but there's no info on when she joined, or logged in...
Didn't get very far once I shared my photo

Abby
External Link/Members Only
Requested to see my private photo out of the blue so I tried to engage... no response

The_JJLoves
External Link/Members Only
Contacted me out of the blue, but not really my type so I didn't respond

FierceBae
External Link/Members Only
Requested to share my private photo out of the blue and no response when I suggested we chat a bit first...

Missclassy1
External Link/Members Only
Looking for online only....

RedHairedLady
External Link/Members Only
Too young really but I thought I would ask and the conversation quickly fizzled out

Je Ne Sais Quoi Girl
External Link/Members Only
Messaged... no reply

Brendaculrywonderful
External Link/Members Only
Got a bit of a pro vibe but she was very friendly

Peachydaze
External Link/Members Only
Messaged out of the blue (I may have viewed her profile). Sent a message... no reply

Laylagirl
External Link/Members Only
Requested access to private pic but didn't reciprocate, seemed quite suspicious of my intentions!


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Profile now inactive (but hopefully the name will stay the same and ring a bell?)

MissEnigma
External Link/Members Only
Attractive but getting together regularly could be a challenge (Brompton)
Profile went inactive

Satin soul
External Link/Members Only
Started a chat and then deactivated account - not sure why

Hotforyou
External Link/Members Only
I think that I browsed her profile and, bam!, she was messaging straight away.
Direct and to the point, where can we meet, when... kept pressing and then bam! account deactivated

EuropeanBombShell
External Link/Members Only
After an unsolicited "Hey babe x" this went the way I thought it would and, no I don't pay to watch online...
Profile now deactivated

[southcoastpunter]

thank you for your long post WKD.

maybe others will disagree with me but i didn't find that of much use. Its a list of ladies you have started a conversation with or have messaged /they messaged you. Personally i only found 3 useful - sugarbabe87 (a figure (£) mentioned), Ella2023 (figure again), missclassy1 (online only). Not sure how guys can use your other comments to their advantage . for example if the profile is now deactivated, how is that useful?

sorry not intentionally shooting you down but trying to help you help us. As i said, others may disagree with me!

[v54]

thank you for your long post WKD.

maybe others will disagree with me but i didn't find that of much use. Its a list of ladies you have started a conversation with or have messaged /they messaged you. Personally i only found 3 useful - sugarbabe87 (a figure (£) mentioned), Ella2023 (figure again), missclassy1 (online only). Not sure how guys can use your other comments to their advantage . for example if the profile is now deactivated, how is that useful?

sorry not intentionally shooting you down but trying to help you help us. As i said, others may disagree with me!

I think there are pros and cons either way.

I often get favourited by "Casey" - different id every time (and sometimes existing at the same time - seeking does not require profile names to be unique).  So anyone called Casey that I find gets put on ignore.  So there the name is useful.

In the list given above, I had quite a long dialog with SensualSiren, so immediately I saw that name I recognised who that was.  I never met her, things just tapered off, but I have no doubt that she is genuine.

On the other side of the coin: names can be changed by their owner.

I think one way to determine if you've been blocked is if the profile name is retained.  If the profile becomes Attractive Member then that indicates deactivation.  Sometimes I see profiles called Attractive Member in my browse list that are active.  I wonder if these have come back from enforced deactivation and not been renamed by their owner?

[updownandaround]

thank you for your long post WKD.

maybe others will disagree with me but i didn't find that of much use. Its a list of ladies you have started a conversation with or have messaged /they messaged you. Personally i only found 3 useful - sugarbabe87 (a figure (£) mentioned), Ella2023 (figure again), missclassy1 (online only). Not sure how guys can use your other comments to their advantage . for example if the profile is now deactivated, how is that useful?

sorry not intentionally shooting you down but trying to help you help us. As i said, others may disagree with me!

My personal opinion is that I like to see all the links, active or not. Why? I keep a Google Sheet of virtually everyone I've spoken to, that's just the pedant in me. In my latest girl dump in the NW Seeking thread, I omitted a few girls as their profiles are now dead, hopefully not as a result of meeting me. In an ideal world, I'd also include their public photos but there's a part of me that feels that's a total invasion and without studying the rules I'm not sure that's even allowed here. I am really really bad at remembering names, before I meet a girl I have to remind myself of her name even. I've been on multiple "dates" now where I haven't the foggiest of what the girls name is, maybe a product of my advancing years. I then find myself making an excuse to go to the loo to scroll up in our Whatsapp chat to see what their name is. I do remember faces very well however.

I've been toying with the idea of using a list service to collate all the information in one place that even others can contribute to as sometimes I find the search function on here doesn't always work well, even with partial links.

[updownandaround]

So, here are my findings from quite a few weeks of research.  Forgive some of the repeats, but I thought it might build on previous intel and be useful. Hopefully, these are all in the right area as I have split my report and will be posting on the appropriate board.  Don't shoot the messenger!

As mentioned recently, it might be an idea to check if you've already engaged just using the name rather than follow every link ...

Known on UKP but this is my interaction:

Yoursugar
External Link/Members Only
found the photo on Russian Brides through a hint from another forum member.
Went straight to WhatsApp and when I wouldn't share a photo, insisted on a video meeting first
Might be genuine, but I swerved

sugarbaby87j
External Link/Members Only
Went straight to £500 ppm so she went straight to the bin (as reported previously)

EasyGoingCutie
Wanted my picture because she said she needed to know if she fancied me... well known already so I would emphasise the need to avoid

I don't think these have been reported before:

Foxyformature
External Link/Members Only
Should have read the profile in more detail, still a bit confused by our "conversation" but note
that only mature men, intelligent and good looking need apply (that rules me out then!)

Jade
External Link/Members Only
Requested my private pics out of the blue and I didn't respond as she didn't seem my type

E
External Link/Members Only
Really not sure how to read this one - I think that she's looking for a long term arrangement

Datingfun
External Link/Members Only
Had a brief chat online but I think that she's looking for a casual relationship, maybe
turning into something more permanent, but not any arrangement

Mel
External Link/Members Only
Another stilted conversation which didn't go anywhere

ClassyLadyLondon
External Link/Members Only
Has a very straight talking profile, so I messaged with enough information so she could make a decision...
Thanked me for my detailed response and then radio silence

SexySiren
External Link/Members Only
Got a good sense of humour, but not my type

Ella2022
External Link/Members Only
Straight to the point - £400 ppm?

Emmy
External Link/Members Only
Only seemed to want online and to show me her body and ask what I would do with it...

Petite 37
External Link/Members Only
Very direct "Not interested thank you" response

TheGoodGirl
External Link/Members Only
Very chatty but not sure she was my type, so I didn't follow up

Mariahearts
External Link/Members Only
Contacted me out of the blue.  Not my type so I haven't responded

Jayjaygirl
External Link/Members Only
Wanted to do online until she was in a position to meet but I suspect it would remain just online
I politely declined

Cindyloo
External Link/Members Only
Required an upfront payment for an initial meeting. I politely declined

ConfidentMiss
External Link/Members Only
Looks lovely, but I think she wants someone that isn't me...!

StunningAngel
External Link/Members Only
Reached out to me and wanted to get to know me better then radio silence

Sweetlea
External Link/Members Only
Claimed to be new to this but there's no info on when she joined, or logged in...
Didn't get very far once I shared my photo

Abby
External Link/Members Only
Requested to see my private photo out of the blue so I tried to engage... no response

The_JJLoves
External Link/Members Only
Contacted me out of the blue, but not really my type so I didn't respond

FierceBae
External Link/Members Only
Requested to share my private photo out of the blue and no response when I suggested we chat a bit first...

Missclassy1
External Link/Members Only
Looking for online only....

RedHairedLady
External Link/Members Only
Too young really but I thought I would ask and the conversation quickly fizzled out

Je Ne Sais Quoi Girl
External Link/Members Only
Messaged... no reply

Brendaculrywonderful
External Link/Members Only
Got a bit of a pro vibe but she was very friendly

Peachydaze
External Link/Members Only
Messaged out of the blue (I may have viewed her profile). Sent a message... no reply

Laylagirl
External Link/Members Only
Requested access to private pic but didn't reciprocate, seemed quite suspicious of my intentions!


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Profile now inactive (but hopefully the name will stay the same and ring a bell?)

MissEnigma
External Link/Members Only
Attractive but getting together regularly could be a challenge (Brompton)
Profile went inactive

Satin soul
External Link/Members Only
Started a chat and then deactivated account - not sure why

Hotforyou
External Link/Members Only
I think that I browsed her profile and, bam!, she was messaging straight away.
Direct and to the point, where can we meet, when... kept pressing and then bam! account deactivated

EuropeanBombShell
External Link/Members Only
After an unsolicited "Hey babe x" this went the way I thought it would and, no I don't pay to watch online...
Profile now deactivated

What an awesome list, thanks for all your effort in creating this. I love a good list me.

I was very active in London last year but the vast number of semi pros and pros really puts me off. I do meet London girls but only those that will venture to the outskirts to meet, like Heathrow which is super easy to get to and has a decent selection of hotels. And it has flight attendants.

It's also such bad value for money in London, not only in terms of the girls but also the cost of hotels/drinks/dining. For the price of a night in a decent suite in the Shagri-La, I can get 4-5 nights in a decent suite in a posh Manchester hotel.

[southcoastpunter]

For the price of a night in a decent suite in the Shagri-La, I can get 4-5 nights in a decent suite in a posh Manchester hotel.

well if you must stay at the Shangri-La! Other decent hotels are available. Have you tried the Travelodge in Covent Garden? haha

[updownandaround]

well if you must stay at the Shangri-La! Other decent hotels are available. Have you tried the Travelodge in Covent Garden? haha

I prefer to call it the Shagri-La, it's like a pick and mix of working girls in that bar on the top floor 😂

I look at the financials in a different way, yes, it's expensive to stay in the higher end hotels but once you start dividing the cost by the number of girls you have entertained there then it's more reasonable and creates a much better impression. Better impression = more freebies that last longer and go the distance over time, in my experience. I will see a minimum of 3 girls a day, sometimes up to 5 if energy, patience, will power and time allows. In between girls, I'll be video chat interviewing the next batch and trust me, doing that with the backdrop of the London skyline works far better than a Travelodge. 😂

The other thing I dislike about London is that no girls are ever on time so it screws up scheduling for the entire day which is also a limiting factor on the number of girls you can see in a given day.

[NightKid]

thank you for your long post WKD.

maybe others will disagree with me but i didn't find that of much use. Its a list of ladies you have started a conversation with or have messaged /they messaged you. Personally i only found 3 useful - sugarbabe87 (a figure (£) mentioned), Ella2023 (figure again), missclassy1 (online only). Not sure how guys can use your other comments to their advantage . for example if the profile is now deactivated, how is that useful?

sorry not intentionally shooting you down but trying to help you help us. As i said, others may disagree with me!

I agree with this, people on both sides send unsolicited messages all the time so there's no point mentioning it unless a noteworthy piece of info comes out of said messages - same applies if there's a lack of interest by either party and the conversation itself is a non-starter lol.

@WKD123 For future reference if I were you I'd just post about the ones who've either a) quoted/accepted a figure or b) set alarms off appropriately (scammer/catfisher/online/attitude) and not bother with anything else. Also, of those you said had deactivated/inactive profile and provided a correct profile (not inbox) link, I can still view all of them which means you were simply blocked.

[stampjones]

I agree with this, people on both sides send unsolicited messages all the time so there's no point mentioning it unless a noteworthy piece of info comes out of said messages - same applies if there's a lack of interest by either party and the conversation itself is a non-starter lol.

@WKD123 For future reference if I were you I'd just post about the ones who've either a) quoted/accepted a figure or b) set alarms off appropriately (scammer/catfisher/online/attitude) and not bother with anything else. Also, of those you said had deactivated/inactive profile and provided a correct profile (not inbox) link, I can still view all of them which means you were simply blocked.

Agree with this and SCP. If people didnt send unsolicited messages there would be no point to seeking at all. If we all just listed the girls who’d messaged us it would just be a list of available links in seeking. Needs some add on info as you mention to make it worthwhile. But thanks for taking the time wkd

[updownandaround]

Agree with this and SCP. If people didnt send unsolicited messages there would be no point to seeking at all. If we all just listed the girls who’d messaged us it would just be a list of available links in seeking. Needs some add on info as you mention to make it worthwhile. But thanks for taking the time wkd

My pet peeve on Seeking is the girls you keep favouriting you, like every day and then do nothing about it, even if you favourite them back. It's a kin to being on a night out and a girl who keeps on looking at you and smiling but who doesn't come over. 😂 #girlbossfail

[WKD123]

Thanks for all your comments.   I did think this over for some time and, on balance decided to post almost all the results of my experiences.. After all it doesn't take long to decide you can't be bothered to read through the list     On a positive note, I think that if others have exactly the same experience as me, i.e. ghosted or no response and this is reported multiple times, we can all stop wasting time contacting what appears to be a likely prospect.  Most of those listed looked like they fitted the bill, mentioned arrangements (in my case also the age preference was OK). 

I, too, was thinking that a "Wiki" of SAs where they appear to be wasting time, require excessive amounts of funding, only want online or to sell you pictures (I wonder which "dating site" our soon to be exposed BBC presenter used  )  .... would be good.  However, it does take time and committment to maintain. I am of course learning all the time so will refine future reports.

[NightKid]

If people didnt send unsolicited messages there would be no point to seeking at all.

If people didn't send unsolicited messages there'd be no point to fundamental human interaction, never mind Seeking 😂

After all it doesn't take long to decide you can't be bothered to read through the list

Thing is you still have to go through the list regardless to know what's on it, which is annoying when it's a post taking up the whole screen.

On a positive note, I think that if others have exactly the same experience as me, i.e. ghosted or no response and this is reported multiple times, we can all stop wasting time contacting what appears to be a likely prospect.

Different guys can/will have different experiences with the same girl on SA - I could get a response from someone but not you for whatever reason and that's her prerogative so you can't cite that. Ghosting/flaking is another story altogether though and that would be worth reporting if the girl is known to do it repeatedly yes.

[Lush1pot]

I have found the same with girls not being on time. Some have been super late. Any theories on why this might be? I find it really annoying and at the time thought they don’t respect my time or me!

[updownandaround]

I have found the same with girls not being on time. Some have been super late. Any theories on why this might be? I find it really annoying and at the time thought they don’t respect my time or me!

There are two main reasons, the first is that it's London. The second, which applies to all girls, guys let them get away with it and they know it.

[youngwolf994]

I have found the same with girls not being on time. Some have been super late. Any theories on why this might be? I find it really annoying and at the time thought they don’t respect my time or me!

What updownandaround said.

They can be a bit scatterbrained. Most of the girls I've met on SA are never on time. It kinda makes sense, though. A lot of these girls haven't really had many serious responsibilities or even a proper job where being punctual matters. They just don't seem to have great time management skills.

[stampjones]

I’d say over the years the most common time of arrival at agreed meeting point is T+30 minutes (though Ive had later). Strangely the last two I were both on time. Probably thats my ration for the next five years

[PLeisure]

There are two main reasons, the first is that it's London. The second, which applies to all girls, guys let them get away with it and they know it.

What updownandaround said.

They can be a bit scatterbrained. Most of the girls I've met on SA are never on time. It kinda makes sense, though. A lot of these girls haven't really had many serious responsibilities or even a proper job where being punctual matters. They just don't seem to have great time management skills.

Truth!

I was supposed to see one for a follow-up date the other week. The minute she said that she was with friends having drinks, I offered to reschedule - it was a warm summer's evening; no way was she going to leave dinner with her friends to schlep across the city. Several delays later, she had to ask if we could cancel. We then fixed a new date and she didn't show - or contact me for 10 days after. When she eventually did, the excuse was that she had food poisoning and it hadn't occurred to her to let me know she couldn't make it. This is a trainee barrister 

Another SB has a habit of agreeing to a time and date and then coming back to make frequent adjustments. I've given up trying to accommodate her 'busy' schedule. 

Still. Think I've found someone genuine for next week. I'm hopeful...

[JAYZ]

There are two main reasons, the first is that it's London. The second, which applies to all girls, guys let them get away with it and they know it.

I'm surprised at the poor time keeping as some claim to want mentoring or business advice so you would think they would wish to impress. Also, if it was the guy who is late it is unimpressive to them.

[JAYZ]

What updownandaround said.

They can be a bit scatterbrained. Most of the girls I've met on SA are never on time. It kinda makes sense, though. A lot of these girls haven't really had many serious responsibilities or even a proper job where being punctual matters. They just don't seem to have great time management skills.

That explains why one of my daughters though achieving all A or A*s in her recent A levels has atrocious time keeping, which leads to argument between us.

[updownandaround]

I'm surprised at the poor time keeping as some claim to want mentoring or business advice so you would think they would wish to impress. Also, if it was the guy who is late it is unimpressive to them.

The whole "mentor" thing, I find, is nonsense. In all the years I've been doing this very very few of the girls who claim to want a mentor have ever asked me any meaningful questions about life, how to get ahead or general advice on life. They seem to take most of their advice from Tiktok in 30 second chunks.

[updownandaround]

I’d say over the years the most common time of arrival at agreed meeting point is T+30 minutes (though Ive had later). Strangely the last two I were both on time. Probably thats my ration for the next five years

I had one in Birmingham the other week who messaged me 10 minutes after our agreed time to meet saying she was almost there. Then after another 10 minutes and nothing. I messaged and she said she was just parking in the Mailbox car park. Another 10 minutes later she still hadn't arrived so I followed up and she said she was on the roundabout at Five Ways. Then out of blue another 35 minutes later she said she'd arrived. I told her that I wasn't going to see her which prompted a torrent of abuse, missed calls, denial and "I'm only an hour late, that's normal". Then a week later she started sending me pictures of her tits which I ignored. I have no time for those that don't respect mine as I have a schedule to keep.

[PLeisure]

I had one in Birmingham the other week who messaged me 10 minutes after our agreed time to meet saying she was almost there. Then after another 10 minutes and nothing. I messaged and she said she was just parking in the Mailbox car park. Another 10 minutes later she still hadn't arrived so I followed up and she said she was on the roundabout at Five Ways. Then out of blue another 35 minutes later she said she'd arrived. I told her that I wasn't going to see her which prompted a torrent of abuse, missed calls, denial and "I'm only an hour late, that's normal". Then a week later she started sending me pictures of her tits which I ignored. I have no time for those that don't respect mine as I have a schedule to keep.

This sort of mindset and behaviour cracks me up. The latter, in particular, reeks of desperation 

[updownandaround]

This sort of mindset and behaviour cracks me up. The latter, in particular, reeks of desperation 

But don't you notice that girls that you've banged once send all manner of naughty photos to rekindle interest? Seems to be their playbook and at least they understand our real interest in them!

[NightKid]

There are two main reasons, the first is that it's London. The second, which applies to all girls, guys let them get away with it and they know it.

Nice contradiction, if you're gonna make a daft sweeping statement like the latter then that means it's hardly a London issue is it? 

[updownandaround]

Nice contradiction, if you're gonna make a daft sweeping statement like the latter then that means it's hardly a London issue is it? 

To be clear, at least 50% of the point I was trying to make is that London presents way more logistical issues than perhaps most cities which accounts for at least some of the tardiness. 😂

[wdnah]

I think Seeking is going to get a bit of free press with the BBC presenter situation. 'Dating' site, indeed. I also know that there are some lurkers here who are public figures, or people in taintable positions of significant responsiblity. Seeking, and the girls on there, aren't as private as you think. We all know some profiles on there aren't real, but it doesn't take a genius to realize that some will be honey traps, data scrapers, private picture farmers, 'journalists', and probably a 'foreign operative' or two. And now, after the BBC situation, it's going to be more attractive to those looking to ruin lives for whatever reason. Even some women there have parents or partners who have more access to their devices than we would think, or be told. Be careful and use your head.

[stampjones]

I had one in Birmingham the other week who messaged me 10 minutes after our agreed time to meet saying she was almost there. Then after another 10 minutes and nothing. I messaged and she said she was just parking in the Mailbox car park. Another 10 minutes later she still hadn't arrived so I followed up and she said she was on the roundabout at Five Ways. Then out of blue another 35 minutes later she said she'd arrived. I told her that I wasn't going to see her which prompted a torrent of abuse, missed calls, denial and "I'm only an hour late, that's normal". Then a week later she started sending me pictures of her tits which I ignored. I have no time for those that don't respect mine as I have a schedule to keep.

My personal favourite was one who messaged quite a lot on the build up to our meet time. The messages raised a few questions so 5 minutes after the agreed time I asked her when she’d be here. Ten imnutes she said. 20 minutes later with no sign I texted her again asking if she was close. I’ll be ready to leave in 10 minutes she said 

[randompunter1234]

I agree with this, people on both sides send unsolicited messages all the time so there's no point mentioning it unless a noteworthy piece of info comes out of said messages - same applies if there's a lack of interest by either party and the conversation itself is a non-starter lol.

@WKD123 For future reference if I were you I'd just post about the ones who've either a) quoted/accepted a figure or b) set alarms off appropriately (scammer/catfisher/online/attitude) and not bother with anything else. Also, of those you said had deactivated/inactive profile and provided a correct profile (not inbox) link, I can still view all of them which means you were simply blocked.

are you a porn producer, the guy that does casting videos


3 to 5 in a day with video calls in between...

[NightKid]

To be clear, at least 50% of the point I was trying to make is that London presents way more logistical issues than perhaps most cities which accounts for at least some of the tardiness. 😂

And yet London has the best public transport system of all UK cities so you might wanna stop digging mate.

While I don't disagree the average SA girl may have the organisational skills of a peanut, that itself remains a universal issue so let's not tar everybody with the same brush for what is ultimately an individual trait.

are you a porn producer, the guy that does casting videos

3 to 5 in a day with video calls in between...

Think you've quoted the wrong person dude.

[updownandaround]

And yet London has the best public transport system of all UK cities so you might wanna stop digging mate.

While I don't disagree the average SA girl may have the organisational skills of a peanut, that itself remains a universal issue so let's not tar everybody with the same brush for what is ultimately an individual trait.

Think you've quoted the wrong person dude.

Ok Sadiq, London is wonderful, you're right. 😂

[updownandaround]

are you a porn producer, the guy that does casting videos


3 to 5 in a day with video calls in between...

Sometimes, it feels like it.

[Crockers]

Public transport in London is brill. After about Midnight it can be a pain, yes.

Otherwise it's great.

[wilkinc]

New high for allowances:

External Link/Members Only - BARBIE

She wants 4k weekly! Anyone interested? 

[updownandaround]

New high for allowances:

External Link/Members Only - BARBIE

She wants 4k weekly! Anyone interested? 

Tiktok told her that's the going rate!

[luv2kiss54]

So, here are my findings from quite a few weeks of research.  Forgive some of the repeats, but I thought it might build on previous intel and be useful. Hopefully, these are all in the right area as I have split my report and will be posting on the appropriate board.  Don't shoot the messenger!

As mentioned recently, it might be an idea to check if you've already engaged just using the name rather than follow every link ...

Known on UKP but this is my interaction:

Yoursugar
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found the photo on Russian Brides through a hint from another forum member.
Went straight to WhatsApp and when I wouldn't share a photo, insisted on a video meeting first
Might be genuine, but I swerved

sugarbaby87j
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Went straight to £500 ppm so she went straight to the bin (as reported previously)

EasyGoingCutie
Wanted my picture because she said she needed to know if she fancied me... well known already so I would emphasise the need to avoid

I don't think these have been reported before:

Foxyformature
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Should have read the profile in more detail, still a bit confused by our "conversation" but note
that only mature men, intelligent and good looking need apply (that rules me out then!)

Jade
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Requested my private pics out of the blue and I didn't respond as she didn't seem my type

E
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Really not sure how to read this one - I think that she's looking for a long term arrangement

Datingfun
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Had a brief chat online but I think that she's looking for a casual relationship, maybe
turning into something more permanent, but not any arrangement

Mel
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Another stilted conversation which didn't go anywhere

ClassyLadyLondon
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Has a very straight talking profile, so I messaged with enough information so she could make a decision...
Thanked me for my detailed response and then radio silence

SexySiren
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Got a good sense of humour, but not my type

Ella2022
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Straight to the point - £400 ppm?

Emmy
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Only seemed to want online and to show me her body and ask what I would do with it...

Petite 37
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Very direct "Not interested thank you" response

TheGoodGirl
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Very chatty but not sure she was my type, so I didn't follow up

Mariahearts
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Contacted me out of the blue.  Not my type so I haven't responded

Jayjaygirl
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Wanted to do online until she was in a position to meet but I suspect it would remain just online
I politely declined

Cindyloo
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Required an upfront payment for an initial meeting. I politely declined

ConfidentMiss
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Looks lovely, but I think she wants someone that isn't me...!

StunningAngel
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Reached out to me and wanted to get to know me better then radio silence

Sweetlea
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Claimed to be new to this but there's no info on when she joined, or logged in...
Didn't get very far once I shared my photo

Abby
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Requested to see my private photo out of the blue so I tried to engage... no response

The_JJLoves
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Contacted me out of the blue, but not really my type so I didn't respond

FierceBae
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Requested to share my private photo out of the blue and no response when I suggested we chat a bit first...

Missclassy1
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Looking for online only....

RedHairedLady
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Too young really but I thought I would ask and the conversation quickly fizzled out

Je Ne Sais Quoi Girl
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Messaged... no reply

Brendaculrywonderful
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Got a bit of a pro vibe but she was very friendly

Peachydaze
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Messaged out of the blue (I may have viewed her profile). Sent a message... no reply

Laylagirl
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Requested access to private pic but didn't reciprocate, seemed quite suspicious of my intentions!


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Profile now inactive (but hopefully the name will stay the same and ring a bell?)

MissEnigma
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Attractive but getting together regularly could be a challenge (Brompton)
Profile went inactive

Satin soul
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Started a chat and then deactivated account - not sure why

Hotforyou
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I think that I browsed her profile and, bam!, she was messaging straight away.
Direct and to the point, where can we meet, when... kept pressing and then bam! account deactivated

EuropeanBombShell
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After an unsolicited "Hey babe x" this went the way I thought it would and, no I don't pay to watch online...
Profile now deactivated

Just some info re Miss Enigma mentioned above. I had a conversation with her several weeks ago when she quoted £450 PPM or £1800 a month. Too pricey for me so didnt pursue. She also said she had been in a 8 year seeking relationship !

[kutch]

Just some info re Miss Enigma mentioned above. I had a conversation with her several weeks ago when she quoted £450 PPM or £1800 a month. Too pricey for me so didnt pursue. She also said she had been in a 8 year seeking relationship !

She quoted me £350 around 6 months ago.  I didn’t pursue

[DashSam89]

Hello folks,

Does anyone here have the pleasure of seeing/interacting with this SB?

LeKira
26 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
Fun before PhD

External Link/Members Only

Thanks in advance for any intel 

Did you meet this girl? I have plans to meet her next week.

[j4247]

Did you meet this girl? I have plans to meet her next week.

I met her in the end a few weeks back. She’s genuine in that she’s real and she will definitely meet, but as with most of them in my experience, she’s full of nonsense. She wants 1 guy only long term/she hasn’t been seeing anyone else/she had one 2 year arrangement before etc etc. I saw her texting other guys when she was with me! Not that I really cared.

On the plus side I paid £250 ppm, she was on time, although her comms can be slow at times. She’s polite, well educated, appeared to be up for most things in the bedroom.  I just found her a little cold, maybe we didn’t click. We haven’t messaged since - so much for wanting only one guy 

If you fancy her pictures, I’d go for it mate, you might click better than I did?