Seeking.com (London)

[Crockers]

How do you guys let a girl downg gently but still happy to engage with you at a later date?

I've found a gem but have five other women interested in meeting. I lined so many up as it is a numbers game. They now wonder why I'm not talking to them.

I'm happy with the gem I've found and now don't want to meet the others.

Cheers

[Cunning Punt]

How do you guys let a girl downg gently but still happy to engage with you at a later date?

I've found a gem but have five other women interested in meeting. I lined so many up as it is a numbers game. They now wonder why I'm not talking to them.

I'm happy with the gem I've found and now don't want to meet the others.

Cheers

Lucky you. Some of us are struggling to find one gem, let alone six. Five women may be interested in meeting now but chances are some of them will not go through with it.

It depends if you want to see a girl again in future. If I don't then I'm honest and say that I enjoyed our date but sorry I don't think there is chemistry and/or if the two of you aren't aligned then 'we're seeking something different'.

If you do want to see her in the future then depends on when. But preface whichever excuse it is by making clear you enjoyed your date and got on very well/there's chemistry 

If you're just going to see the others once and it will be a couple of weeks, say you have holiday/a big work project on atm but will be available in a couple of weeks and stay in touch with her in the meantime.

If it's likely to be longer than say you're embarking on an arrangement that is nearer to you/more convenient. Or you could lie a bit more and say you've met someone outside SA and you want to pursue a traditional relationship at this time. But add you will let her know if the situation changes.

[Cunning Punt]

this worked for me this month

VWO33COM (33% off)

As I used that code, I found another mentioned on here that also works:

VWO33PB

[Crockers]

Hi, my experience having renewed.

Ok, so rejoined last Friday. It's bloody hard work but we all know that.

Yesterday found an absolute gem. An English, slinky slim, 27 year old. Long, long, long legs. Tight lacy shorts, nice vaguely see through silky vest with a small black bra. Chic as fuck. Really intelligent, in a full-time job in the City, working. Laid back with a great sense of humour.

We met for a get to know you dinner and drinks on her day off.

Gave me gorgeous and passionate lfk as we said goodbye. I groped her. Fuck me, she is cool and genuine and really liked me.

We passed each others screening test and have agreed to meet for sex in a few days at a reasonable £. I only offer btw £200-£300ppm and she came in well under my highest level. I've no doubt she gets more from others.

However it is hard work.

I DMed 42 girls. I got 14 onto WA and 2 onto Telegram. From Friday-Sunday I ended up blocking 16 girls, 1 blocking me as I said no to her silly offer.

Blocked the girls because:

Getting angry about me not replying quickly;
silly offers - one ok looking girl wanting £5k, holidays abroad and gifts;
being obs full-time escorts;
saying they live in London then asking for fare from Coventry or somewhere;
wanting payment for the first platonic meet that I always insist on.

One actuall WAed  me at 1.30 in the morning saying she was 10 miles from home with no UBER £ and could I pay! Lols. Think I'll keep her and see what happens.

A fair few didn't go onto WA or simply did not reply after seeing my private pic. I'm in shape but have a very alternative look with tattoos and piercings. Those girls who like are passionate about it, most dislike it. Marmite innit.

Prob I have now is that I have four other girls wanting/expecting to meet. (See my earlier post.)

I think I'll meet one more for a platonic drinkso I have two on the go. One a reserve if you like.

God, what a 'problem'. I can't have 'em all can I?

Not proactively active on the site now, occasionally browse to see who's new.

So, yeah, hatd work, numbers game and you need to be clearabout what you want and steely eyed too get it.

I want a fwb where connection is as important as the sex. Where succesful, I find the girls will accept a very low price.

I am now in the situation whete I can make silly offers to girls wanting much more as I'm no longer having to work (as hard) to find another gem.

Cheers all.

[Crockers]

As I used that code, I found another mentioned on here that also works:

VWO33PB

Thanks.

[Richjimbo]

Hi mate - would you mind DMing me. I think I might be meeting the same girl this week

Cheers,

Hi, my experience having renewed.

Ok, so rejoined last Friday. It's bloody hard work but we all know that.

Yesterday found an absolute gem. An English, slinky slim, 27 year old. Long, long, long legs. Tight lacy shorts, nice vaguely see through silky vest with a small black bra. Chic as fuck. Really intelligent, in a full-time job in the City, working. Laid back with a great sense of humour.

We met for a get to know you dinner and drinks on her day off.

Gave me gorgeous and passionate lfk as we said goodbye. I groped her. Fuck me, she is cool and genuine and really liked me.

We passed each others screening test and have agreed to meet for sex in a few days at a reasonable £. I only offer btw £200-£300ppm and she came in well under my highest level. I've no doubt she gets more from others.

However it is hard work.

I DMed 42 girls. I got 14 onto WA and 2 onto Telegram. From Friday-Sunday I ended up blocking 16 girls, 1 blocking me as I said no to her silly offer.

Blocked the girls because:

Getting angry about me not replying quickly;
silly offers - one ok looking girl wanting £5k, holidays abroad and gifts;
being obs full-time escorts;
saying they live in London then asking for fare from Coventry or somewhere;
wanting payment for the first platonic meet that I always insist on.

One actuall WAed  me at 1.30 in the morning saying she was 10 miles from home with no UBER £ and could I pay! Lols. Think I'll keep her and see what happens.

A fair few didn't go onto WA or simply did not reply after seeing my private pic. I'm in shape but have a very alternative look with tattoos and piercings. Those girls who like are passionate about it, most dislike it. Marmite innit.

Prob I have now is that I have four other girls wanting/expecting to meet. (See my earlier post.)

I think I'll meet one more for a platonic drinkso I have two on the go. One a reserve if you like.

God, what a 'problem'. I can't have 'em all can I?

Not proactively active on the site now, occasionally browse to see who's new.

So, yeah, hatd work, numbers game and you need to be clearabout what you want and steely eyed too get it.

I want a fwb where connection is as important as the sex. Where succesful, I find the girls will accept a very low price.

I am now in the situation whete I can make silly offers to girls wanting much more as I'm no longer having to work (as hard) to find another gem.

Cheers all.

[90125]

Hi mate - would you mind DMing me. I think I might be meeting the same girl this week

Cheers,

You'll get a ban for soliciting PM's.

[Richjimbo]

Oh, thx for letting me know.  Didn’t realise

[WKD123]

This is probably a very, very daft question but presumably the search doesn't bring back results from the closed SA Thread?

[JoeFiddleSticks]

Hi, can someone check if Anastasia External Link/Members Only has deactivated? Otherwise they blocked me for some reason.

Thanks

[Rotm]

Hi, can someone check if Anastasia External Link/Members Only has deactivated? Otherwise they blocked me for some reason.

Thanks

Works for me

[Crockers]

Hi, can someone check if Anastasia External Link/Members Only has deactivated? Otherwise they blocked me for some reason.

Thanks

She's still active and online now.

[NightKid]

External Link/Members Only - Milfa

Intel request please, anyone chatting with her?

[PLeisure]

External Link/Members Only - Milfa

Intel request please, anyone chatting with her?

Gotta love her profile description, "at heart Im a little bit slutty" 

[NightKid]

Gotta love her profile description, "at heart Im a little bit slutty" 

Feels like I'm repeating myself but the words honesty and policy springs to mind again here 

[toddroman456]

How many have you heard these from the girls on seeking
1.My relative just died
2. I'm trying to start a business,  food ,beauty, jewelry  clothes etc etc
3. If I have one more bad experience I'm leaving seeking
4. I have just been scammed , he did not pay me
5. If ever you are not interested can you please be honest because I dont like games !
Number 5 kills me,  these girls are the biggest game players going, it's actually a clever way to get your trust.

Also how many of you have had a girl from seeking actually get offended or upset that you don't want to see thrm anymore, but only after they mess you about and cancel and ignore you.

It's bloody mental, I honestly can't stand the bloody site anymore, It has actually messed with me, as I have recently found a girlfriend and I keep having thoughts in my head she is trying to line me up for taking my money and I keep offending her.
It's like I can't get it I my head she actually likes me for me.
Sorry guys but had to talk to someone.
Cheers

[stampjones]

How many have you heard these from the girls on seeking
1.My relative just died
2. I'm trying to start a business,  food ,beauty, jewelry  clothes etc etc
3. If I have one more bad experience I'm leaving seeking
4. I have just been scammed , he did not pay me
5. If ever you are not interested can you please be honest because I dont like games !
Number 5 kills me,  these girls are the biggest game players going, it's actually a clever way to get your trust.

Other than 2 once or twice, never 😂

[toddroman456]

Other than 2 once or twice, never 😂

Interesting what sort of girls I attract,  maybe they changer their personality to suit each person.

[paul_tall_]

How many have you heard these from the girls on seeking
1.My relative just died
2. I'm trying to start a business,  food ,beauty, jewelry  clothes etc etc
3. If I have one more bad experience I'm leaving seeking
4. I have just been scammed , he did not pay me
5. If ever you are not interested can you please be honest because I dont like games !
Number 5 kills me,  these girls are the biggest game players going, it's actually a clever way to get your trust.

Also how many of you have had a girl from seeking actually get offended or upset that you don't want to see thrm anymore, but only after they mess you about and cancel and ignore you.

It's bloody mental, I honestly can't stand the bloody site anymore, It has actually messed with me, as I have recently found a girlfriend and I keep having thoughts in my head she is trying to line me up for taking my money and I keep offending her.
It's like I can't get it I my head she actually likes me for me.
Sorry guys but had to talk to someone.
Cheers

For 1.My relative just died you cold append or my child is sick , she is sick or needs dental treatment, breast augmentation
Add
6 my electricity and/gas has run out
7 i need you to prove you are serious by buying pictures or videos or i dont meet until i feel comfortable so online only
8 my previous arrangement was long term it ended as he left the country
9 i cant share face pics in case someone recognises me and i dont video call
10 Im currently based in x country but will be in London in the summer

[martini2429]

For 1.My relative just died you cold append or my child is sick , she is sick or needs dental treatment, breast augmentation
Add
6 my electricity and/gas has run out
7 i need you to prove you are serious by buying pictures or videos or i dont meet until i feel comfortable so online only
8 my previous arrangement was long term it ended as he left the country
9 i cant share face pics in case someone recognises me and i dont video call
10 Im currently based in x country but will be in London in the summer

11.  I have no food in the house
12.  I need to pay the baby sitter first

 

[stampjones]

Interesting what sort of girls I attract,  maybe they changer their personality to suit each person.

Interesting. Ive obviously seen my share of bollocks just never those ones which is kind of interesting

[Buenos2006]

Hi, my experience having renewed.

Ok, so rejoined last Friday. It's bloody hard work but we all know that.

Yesterday found an absolute gem. An English, slinky slim, 27 year old. Long, long, long legs. Tight lacy shorts, nice vaguely see through silky vest with a small black bra. Chic as fuck. Really intelligent, in a full-time job in the City, working. Laid back with a great sense of humour.

We met for a get to know you dinner and drinks on her day off.

Gave me gorgeous and passionate lfk as we said goodbye. I groped her. Fuck me, she is cool and genuine and really liked me.

We passed each others screening test and have agreed to meet for sex in a few days at a reasonable £. I only offer btw £200-£300ppm and she came in well under my highest level. I've no doubt she gets more from others.

However it is hard work.

I DMed 42 girls. I got 14 onto WA and 2 onto Telegram. From Friday-Sunday I ended up blocking 16 girls, 1 blocking me as I said no to her silly offer.

Blocked the girls because:

Getting angry about me not replying quickly;
silly offers - one ok looking girl wanting £5k, holidays abroad and gifts;
being obs full-time escorts;
saying they live in London then asking for fare from Coventry or somewhere;
wanting payment for the first platonic meet that I always insist on.

One actuall WAed  me at 1.30 in the morning saying she was 10 miles from home with no UBER £ and could I pay! Lols. Think I'll keep her and see what happens.

A fair few didn't go onto WA or simply did not reply after seeing my private pic. I'm in shape but have a very alternative look with tattoos and piercings. Those girls who like are passionate about it, most dislike it. Marmite innit.

Prob I have now is that I have four other girls wanting/expecting to meet. (See my earlier post.)

I think I'll meet one more for a platonic drinkso I have two on the go. One a reserve if you like.

God, what a 'problem'. I can't have 'em all can I?

Not proactively active on the site now, occasionally browse to see who's new.

So, yeah, hatd work, numbers game and you need to be clearabout what you want and steely eyed too get it.

I want a fwb where connection is as important as the sex. Where succesful, I find the girls will accept a very low price.

I am now in the situation whete I can make silly offers to girls wanting much more as I'm no longer having to work (as hard) to find another gem.

Cheers all.

Lucky bastard on finding the English slinky slim gem.

Mind you I have now been on Seeking 2 months and am an absolute convert. I don’t think I’m ever going back to regular punting through Adult Work!

I’ve had 3 great meets through SA. 2 have been in different countries when travelling for work. I like that you can just change your profile location and see who’s around. I prefer it to punting as it feels more like dating, even though I’m still paying, and you’re not on a time limit.

So cheers to this group for educating me about Seeking as otherwise don’t think I would ever have tried it.   

[JoeFiddleSticks]

She's still active and online now.

Thanks @Crockers and @Rotm.  For reference she said intimacy wasn't on the table. I said fair enough, contact me if you change your mind, and it appears that earned me a block.

[updownandaround]

11.  I have no food in the house
12.  I need to pay the baby sitter first

 

All the classics! But the most common by far is "My last arrangement was [insert crazy amount] and it ended when he moved to Dubai and it was just too much effort to travel there every weekend in Emirates First Class".

[v54]

I had BBW sugar baby favourite me. She put in her profile her hobbies as travelling, pampering and shopping.  She said she was seeking someone who shared her hobbies.

For some reason she blocked me when I replied:-

pampering ,shopping: What kind of bloke do you know that lists those as his hobbies?

[updownandaround]

I had BBW sugar baby favourite me. She put in her profile her hobbies as travelling, pampering and shopping.  She said she was seeking someone who shared her hobbies.

For some reason she blocked me when I replied:-

pampering ,shopping: What kind of bloke do you know that lists those as his hobbies?

Did she list eating as a hobby too? 😂

[v54]

Did she list eating as a hobby too? 😂

She didn't.  I think I dodged a bullet/doughnut though.

[anonman2]

External Link/Members Only

Anyone know this one? Offering to meet for £300.

[NightKid]

Did she list eating as a hobby too? 😂

Beat me to it 🤣

[updownandaround]

Beat me to it 🤣

Great dysfunctional minds think alike they say..

[Yung]

Anyone have any info on this one?

She says she is open minded.

External Link/Members Only

Thanks

[Super07Punt]

External Link/Members Only

This one is going for £400 though you could get her lower. I’ve passed because she is so boring to talk to, also get the impression she does this a lot. She did angle for paid M&G but didn’t resist when I poured water on that idea.

[Evildog101]

External Link/Members Only

Anybody also speaking or met this one ?
She is a very confident one on the verge of being a bit rude .

However she is fulling willing for meet ups and intimacy however needs an initial public meet up.
But she is fully aware what SA is about.

Money wish discussed nothing sky high and feels she not in this for the financial element
She really does seem to be kinky one.

I kept on the back burner as I still having luck with other ladies on seeking and have a long term baby also.

[northlondonluke]

*in reference to the question above* Was rude to me in our convo... told me she wasn't a hole to fill! 

[northlondonluke]

Anyone met with Vienna the cat? Kept floating the idea of one off meets, which puts me off.


External Link/Members Only

[Cunning Punt]

Anyone met with Vienna the cat? Kept floating the idea of one off meets, which puts me off.


External Link/Members Only

You may have got more response if you posted in SE as she's in Bracknell. Not met her but she did say she is only available weekday mornings which ruled me out. Also check she can travel to you because I got the impression she wanted something near her.

[northlondonluke]

You may have got more response if you posted in SE as she's in Bracknell. Not met her but she did say she is only available weekday mornings which ruled me out. Also check she can travel to you because I got the impression she wanted something near her.

Thank you 

[heathen666]

You may have got more response if you posted in SE as she's in Bracknell. Not met her but she did say she is only available weekday mornings which ruled me out. Also check she can travel to you because I got the impression she wanted something near her.

I chatted with her but she blocked ne when she realised I was local to her.

[Evildog101]

External Link/Members Only

This one is going for £400 though you could get her lower. I’ve passed because she is so boring to talk to, also get the impression she does this a lot. She did angle for paid M&G but didn’t resist when I poured water on that idea.

Yup she has been on the site for maybe 3+ years now  met her back on her early days.  No paid m&g she was still unsure about the physical part of SA.  She eventually did .....but just like her chats... yes she is boring in the other aspect too.  Surprised to still see her on the site. Maybe she has opened up a bit and not so up tight as before.

[Super07Punt]

Interesting, that all chimes with my impression of her, she didn’t sound like someone who knew what they liked sexually and saw the whole thing as a means to an end.  Hard to describe, but there was just nothing there personality wise, she was just going through a routine of what she thought needed to be said to close a deal if that makes sense. Three years is a long time, for someone that age in the sense that she needs to settle down soon.  Some photos she looks great in, others she looks old and tired which also was a bit of a red flag.

[kutch]

External Link/Members Only

Managed to get this one on WA.  She wanted a paid M&G first then some hotel fun.  I explained that I don’t pay just to meet for a drink, but would rather know what the price would be for the full evening .  She said it would be £700.  I thanked her and wished her well. She then became abusive saying I couldn’t afford quality and that she wouldn’t be interested in someone like me lol.  Then she sent me a short video of her soaping her tits in the shower 🤷🏼‍♂️

[updownandaround]

External Link/Members Only

Managed to get this one on WA.  She wanted a paid M&G first then some hotel fun.  I explained that I don’t pay just to meet for a drink, but would rather know what the price would be for the full evening .  She said it would be £700.  I thanked her and wished her well. She then became abusive saying I couldn’t afford quality and that she wouldn’t be interested in someone like me lol.  Then she sent me a short video of her soaping her tits in the shower 🤷🏼‍♂️

She looks very OnlyFans plus her photos are filtered to hell and back. 😂

[youngwolf994]

Wants £400 per date External Link/Members Only. She gives me semi-pro vibes. Has anyone met her?

[maakriman]

External Link/Members Only
Anyone in touch with her? Scheduled to meet tomorrow. Only meets in a 5 star for a premium price. Twist to follow.

[JoeFiddleSticks]

ClassyPrincess External Link/Members Only

Said she was looking for long term at 1k per meet.  Not sure how she managed to fit long term and ppm in the same line.  Anyway, I wasn't biting at that price. No more info

[Moutarde2]

External Link/Members Only
Anyone in touch with her? Scheduled to meet tomorrow. Only meets in a 5 star for a premium price. Twist to follow.

These are pics of Xenia Godia who is also "available" is Paris. I would be extremely careful. Maybe she is really on seeking and temporarily in London... but most probably a scam of some sort.
I assume the pictures on the following link have been stolen.
External Link/Members Only

[maakriman]

Time to reveal the twist, I am not meeting her, not even a member now, just saw that profile and thought she looks great  and some lucky fellow will meet her m . From her profile description I thought it was genuine. Half Indian, Spanish

[90125]

Time to reveal the twist, I am not meeting her, not even a member now, just saw that profile and thought she looks great  and some lucky fellow will meet her m . From her profile description I thought it was genuine. Half Indian, Spanish

Suggest you spend your time posting a recent Review 

[maakriman]

I haven't seen an escort for a while now. Roughly 2 yrs I  guess. 1 SB long term, seen 5,6  others from seeking in which only 2 of them on repeat. On verge of retirement, thinking for a while  , not completely stopped yet. But frequency is very less.

[90125]

I haven't seen an escort for a while now. Roughly 2 yrs I  guess. 1 SB long term, seen 5,6  others from seeking in which only 2 of them on repeat. On verge of retirement, thinking for a while  , not completely stopped yet. But frequency is very less.

Not much point you being here then is it if you’re not going to post reviews.