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[tazz]

I like her - haven't met yet because another stepped up first - but we're still exchanging messages and she's next in line.
Quoted Lunch & intimacy for £350 and if it becomes regular she'd drop it. I countered £50 less and she was happy. Generous with her time.

Shes an escort, told me she lives in the countryside and has a airbnb flat.

[PLeisure]

Shes an escort, told me she lives in the countryside and has a airbnb flat.

Good to know, thanks
How do you know - any links?

[Atrueyorkie]

Seeking has become such a nasty place, i rejoined after a gap of year and half and then 2 girls made me feel worthless, this first one is

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She favourited me and wanted to talk on Wapp, asked PPM of 400, i said lets start with 300 , if you are worth it i will pay 400, then she was very abusive and called me a poor guy with no money , i wanted to say sweet heart we pay only what you are worth , then she asked me to go and beg some money before coming onto SA.

The second one was this one

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again she liked my profile and gave access to her private pictures without me asking , i asked her what areher expectations , she said something like , for me to go out with her i need to have strong pockets, i asked her to define strong. For no reason she became abusive and said , why are you on this site without knowing what it means and called me ugly man and blocked me.

But again since then i met a young black girl in watford and a hair dresser in kent in 30's who were both great and worth the abuse i faced. I did not think its worth abusing them back but felt worth sharing here.

Sounds a bit cutthroat. I’m looking into it and interested in joining.

I do think you dodged bullets on both but you easily riled them up. When a price is being set, the 400 for example the reply might have come back as a kick in the teeth, I think it was just wording but also you’re talking to a volatile girl so you just sped it up there.

2nd one it’s more you should have clocked on. Asking to explain what’s in your face is a bit huh. I read that as the girl is saying she’s gonna rinse you till the cows come home and you need to have a wallet where you don’t care what’s being bought. The reply asking how strong was the indicator you respectfully don’t have it like that.

Both were not ones I would go for or recommend, so bullets dodged ultimately.

I’d like to venture on the scene, there’s definitely good ones out there from what I’ve heard. Just gotta sift through the shit to find the gold nuggets

[updownandaround]

Seeking has become such a nasty place, i rejoined after a gap of year and half and then 2 girls made me feel worthless, this first one is

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She favourited me and wanted to talk on Wapp, asked PPM of 400, i said lets start with 300 , if you are worth it i will pay 400, then she was very abusive and called me a poor guy with no money , i wanted to say sweet heart we pay only what you are worth , then she asked me to go and beg some money before coming onto SA.

The second one was this one

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again she liked my profile and gave access to her private pictures without me asking , i asked her what areher expectations , she said something like , for me to go out with her i need to have strong pockets, i asked her to define strong. For no reason she became abusive and said , why are you on this site without knowing what it means and called me ugly man and blocked me.

But again since then i met a young black girl in watford and a hair dresser in kent in 30's who were both great and worth the abuse i faced. I did not think its worth abusing them back but felt worth sharing here.

These days you need fairly thick skin on Seeking. But remember, it's a numbers game and the more girls you try = more success you will have.

The girls often get nasty because a lot of guys will push back on their prices and most of these girls are used to infinite free attention on Insta or Tinder. A lot of guys will call them out on the fact that they aren't worth that kind of money. It's a tough one for them as it undermines their entire view of their own self worth to the opposite sex. Bit of a mindfuck for them usually.

[paul_tall_]

I like her - haven't met yet because another stepped up first - but we're still exchanging messages and she's next in line.
Quoted Lunch & intimacy for £350 and if it becomes regular she'd drop it. I countered £50 less and she was happy. Generous with her time.

Did she ask you if you had a family life? Her seeking states "I’m looking for an arrangement with the right person. Ideally who has family but would like to run away from the routine time to time or who has a busy schedule and want someone to be there for you when you have some free time "

[PLeisure]

Did she ask you if you had a family life? Her seeking states "I’m looking for an arrangement with the right person. Ideally who has family but would like to run away from the routine time to time or who has a busy schedule and want someone to be there for you when you have some free time "

I confirmed in my opening message that I didn't - keep the collateral to a minimum 

[Lone-punter]

Hello folks,

Does anyone here have the pleasure of seeing/interacting with this SB?

LeKira
26 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
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Thanks in advance for any intel 

[hardhans75]

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I know you should not send advance or help out or be a knight in armour, but when someone literally leaves you 10s of messages on WhatsApp you feel sorry for them. She asked for 200 for a night out and once I naively agreed she started the bombardment. I sent her 50 and then she started asking more for buying a dress to look nice for me. When I put my foot down she blocked me. Never ever pay before meeting, another reminder to self and others.

[paul_tall_]

How did you send her the money? Have you thought about raising a dispute on the transaction?

[hardhans75]

I sent it through cashapp

[MLawro93]

I sent it through cashapp

Instant red flag.

[stampjones]

Just as a general point that may help some newbies on SA:

I have a profile with no pictures and literally one line of text that says something like - looking for a fun time. I do that because Im not especially interested in attracting girls to me that Im not interested in. But I still get a regular flow of messages saying how much they love my profile and I sound like the perfect SD.  Point is just because someone says they love your profile doesnt mean they read it and studied the words and fell instantly in love.

Take everything with a pinch of salt until you have reason not to. Seeking isnt a dating site full of innocent girls looking to fall in love. While there may well be a few there that fit that category there are probably just as many - or more - who are just trying to scam gullible men out of their cash. Be open to genuine unicorns but be sensible to reality at the same time. That voice that tells you that she really loves you and its such a shame that she’s had all those misfortunes will lose your money for you quicker than you can believe it if you listen to it!

[Atrueyorkie]

Just as a general point that may help some newbies on SA:

I have a profile with no pictures and literally one line of text that says something like - looking for a fun time. I do that because Im not especially interested in attracting girls to me that Im not interested in. But I still get a regular flow of messages saying how much they love my profile and I sound like the perfect SD.  Point is just because someone says they love your profile doesnt mean they read it and studied the words and fell instantly in love.

Take everything with a pinch of salt until you have reason not to. Seeking isnt a dating site full of innocent girls looking to fall in love. While there may well be a few there that fit that category there are probably just as many - or more - who are just trying to scam gullible men out of their cash. Be open to genuine unicorns but be sensible to reality at the same time. That voice that tells you that she really loves you and its such a shame that she’s had all those misfortunes will lose your money for you quicker than you can believe it if you listen to it!

Genuine question, what photos do you post?

As a guy who is very discreet the idea of putting out face pictures is almost a no no. Is that mandatory? Would you if you must put them on your private gallery or supply only when requested?

[bigden40]

Genuine question, what photos do you post?

As a guy who is very discreet the idea of putting out face pictures is almost a no no. Is that mandatory? Would you if you must put them on your private gallery or supply only when requested?

I’ve never had a picture on my profile and has never been an issue. Have always said I’ll share on WhatsApp.

I have put a lot of effort into the words and as a result I get more interest than I can handle from girls that have the mindset I’m looking for. 

[Steve2]

Genuine question, what photos do you post?

As a guy who is very discreet the idea of putting out face pictures is almost a no no. Is that mandatory? Would you if you must put them on your private gallery or supply only when requested?

I put out just a generic body shot and I will send a "one time" pic on Whatsapp when we get talking

[Deku69]

Hello folks,

Does anyone here have the pleasure of seeing/interacting with this SB?

LeKira
26 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
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Thanks in advance for any intel 

Chatted to her last year but she ghosted me after moving to WA.

[NightKid]

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Finally branching out I see.

[MLawro93]

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Finally branching out I see.

Pretty sure that is where she started off 

[Atrueyorkie]

I’ve never had a picture on my profile and has never been an issue. Have always said I’ll share on WhatsApp.

I have put a lot of effort into the words and as a result I get more interest than I can handle from girls that have the mindset I’m looking for.

Alright cheers 

[Atrueyorkie]

I put out just a generic body shot and I will send a "one time" pic on Whatsapp when we get talking

I see, thanks

[stampjones]

Genuine question, what photos do you post?

As a guy who is very discreet the idea of putting out face pictures is almost a no no. Is that mandatory? Would you if you must put them on your private gallery or supply only when requested?

I dont post any photos. Its never been a problem for me (though I guess there are some girls who just dont reply because of it).  i send photos on WhatsApp

[PLeisure]

Pretty sure that is where she started off 

An entrepreneur since 18, no less
Sounds like she's looking to settle down...

[updownandaround]

An entrepreneur since 18, no less
Sounds like she's looking to settle down...

I'm not sure OnlyFans or selling used panties counts.

[Atrueyorkie]

I dont post any photos. Its never been a problem for me (though I guess there are some girls who just dont reply because of it).  i send photos on WhatsApp

Appreciate the response 

[southcoastpunter]

I'm not sure OnlyFans or selling used panties counts.

surely yes! a true entrepreneur will find various/different/anyway to make money!

[finn5555]

A familiar face 

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[updownandaround]

A familiar face 

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Diane Abbott has only just been booted from the Labour Party and she's already on Seeking? She's a fast mover.

[Richjimbo]

Pretty sure that is where she started off 

Caution - note that she lists BB as option on her profile. 

[massagepuntingfan]

Just resubbed. Discount code and revolut working fine.

[bigden40]

Diane Abbott has only just been booted from the Labour Party and she's already on Seeking? She's a fast mover.

You wot?

[cakerusk]

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another scammer asking for 150 via PayPal before meet. Will ask 100 for vid call to confirm that she is real. Afterwards bombarded with verbal abuse when s/he didn't get what s/he wanted

[martini2429]

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another scammer asking for 150 via PayPal before meet. Will ask 100 for vid call to confirm that she is real. Afterwards bombarded with verbal abuse when s/he didn't get what s/he wanted

Thanks for the warning, what a shame she was on my "I could be interested" list, not anymore

 

[londonhunter008]

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another scammer asking for 150 via PayPal before meet. Will ask 100 for vid call to confirm that she is real. Afterwards bombarded with verbal abuse when s/he didn't get what s/he wanted

her recent location is South Africa. You did not even have to message her at first place.  It seems not many member have mentioned here but profile location helps a lot. even from verified profile (very easy to create a fake insta or fb profile just to get verified) and then try to scam ppl.

[cakerusk]

her recent location is South Africa. You did not even have to message her at first place.  It seems not many member have mentioned here but profile location helps a lot. even from verified profile (very easy to create a fake insta or fb profile just to get verified) and then try to scam ppl.

I think there has been a lot of discussion about location here. Personally, location means very little to me, we can easily hide or be in a different location using VPN. And she was in my London search list. She wouldn't have came up in my search if she were not in London "location" at that time.

[tj87354]

her recent location is South Africa. You did not even have to message her at first place.  It seems not many member have mentioned here but profile location helps a lot. even from verified profile (very easy to create a fake insta or fb profile just to get verified) and then try to scam ppl.

Profile location is so easy to change as to be meaningless. Wouldn't put any weight on what location is listed at all.

[martini2429]

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another scammer asking for 150 via PayPal before meet. Will ask 100 for vid call to confirm that she is real. Afterwards bombarded with verbal abuse when s/he didn't get what s/he wanted

Profile looks to have gone, either that or she has blocked me

 

[Graphics789]

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Be careful with this one, she's 18 years old and wants you to come to her place first meet - isn't interested in meeting up in public (restaurant or hotel).

Don't know what scam she's trying to pull.

[wagglemypaddle]

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Be careful with this one, she's 18 years old and wants you to come to her place first meet - isn't interested in meeting up in public (restaurant or hotel).

Don't know what scam she's trying to pull.

Yes my Spidey sense kicked in with this one too, I find her attractive (if a bit young) but was also surprised that she wanted to meet at hers. Her explanation was that she was in care so was given her own place.

[wagglemypaddle]

Can I get some of your opinions on my experiences with seeking and messaging on there. I find with seeking that I get plenty of replies from black, Latina, Asian, middle eastern ladies but very few from white British women. I have pics on my profile, I'm white British myself. just wondered what might be the reasons for this, is it the case that opposites attract so they're looking for more exotic men, or maybe that they're more age-ist (I'm in my early 50s). would be interested in knowing what others have experienced.

[stampjones]

Can I get some of your opinions on my experiences with seeking and messaging on there. I find with seeking that I get plenty of replies from black, Latina, Asian, middle eastern ladies but very few from white British women. I have pics on my profile, I'm white British myself. just wondered what might be the reasons for this, is it the case that opposites attract so they're looking for more exotic men, or maybe that they're more age-ist (I'm in my early 50s). would be interested in knowing what others have experienced.

Seeking has a configurable search function. Use it to find the women you want then message them. Why would you wait in the hope that certain women message you. You have no control over that

[wagglemypaddle]

Seeking has a configurable search function. Use it to find the women you want then message them. Why would you wait in the hope that certain women message you. You have no control over that

Sorry maybe I didn't make myself clear. I do use filters and domessage them, I just only get replies from Asian, black, middle eastern etc. ladies, I hardly ever get replies to my first message from white British ones.

[updownandaround]

Can I get some of your opinions on my experiences with seeking and messaging on there. I find with seeking that I get plenty of replies from black, Latina, Asian, middle eastern ladies but very few from white British women. I have pics on my profile, I'm white British myself. just wondered what might be the reasons for this, is it the case that opposites attract so they're looking for more exotic men, or maybe that they're more age-ist (I'm in my early 50s). would be interested in knowing what others have experienced.

The most logical answer is that "they're just not that into you" or that age is a factor, the only knock backs I've had have been age related. Or they thought I was a minger and were too polite to say so and instead said I was out of their age range!

[stampjones]

Sorry maybe I didn't make myself clear. I do use filters and domessage them, I just only get replies from Asian, black, middle eastern etc. ladies, I hardly ever get replies to my first message from white British ones.

Wow thats weird. Maybe ty without photos for a bit? Or change what you write. I have no photos/minimal profile and dont have a problem. Basically play around with how you present yourself til you get what you want

[londonroad]

Profile location is so easy to change as to be meaningless. Wouldn't put any weight on what location is listed at all.

Totally agree! I made contact with a potential SB who gave a location 30 miles away from where I live. Transpired she was living 1/2 a mile away from my house. Lucky, I had not sent her any identifying photos.
She said this was because she didn’t wish to meet anyone who lives close to her home - which is fair enough.

[bigden40]

Profile location is so easy to change as to be meaningless. Wouldn't put any weight on what location is listed at all.

Profile location is not the issue, it is the “recent location” alongside the member since, last active info. This can defo be a red flag.

[luv2kiss54]

A familiar face 

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Ive been speaking to her what's the story with her ?

[Teejay]

Anyone's got 33% discount code. Thanks

[Steve2]

Anyone's got 33% discount code. Thanks

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Just change the 25 for 33, That normally works

[Palace123]

If I'm in the mood...sometimes I ask why the girl has set the price at that level....maybe it's self worth...other times they say what is needed to keep them afloat a month. After all, its a two way street...if prices are higher then its fair to ask what they give as extra, what places them above the rest? More often than not you might hear .."that's what I've had in the past"...IMO, not worth discussing further if that's the best they can come up with. 

Sounds a bit cutthroat. I’m looking into it and interested in joining.

I do think you dodged bullets on both but you easily riled them up. When a price is being set, the 400 for example the reply might have come back as a kick in the teeth, I think it was just wording but also you’re talking to a volatile girl so you just sped it up there.

2nd one it’s more you should have clocked on. Asking to explain what’s in your face is a bit huh. I read that as the girl is saying she’s gonna rinse you till the cows come home and you need to have a wallet where you don’t care what’s being bought. The reply asking how strong was the indicator you respectfully don’t have it like that.

Both were not ones I would go for or recommend, so bullets dodged ultimately.

I’d like to venture on the scene, there’s definitely good ones out there from what I’ve heard. Just gotta sift through the shit to find the gold nuggets

[PLeisure]

Profile of the month:
The Priests daughter - 30yr Caucasian. Slim - 157cm. Widowed. 
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