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Offline Mr.WeirdBeard

Please PM me. I had some luck on SD meet aswell. Its to check about a girl I have met. I can't PM.
Hmm, looks like I can't pm either. Does anyone know why? Haven't used the PM functionality here in a while, are there new rules?

Offline rafathegaffa

Don't use it. I had a couple real meets from there. From like 300 credits? not sure. After a while you can complain and they give you some credits back, so you can spend on more bots..

I had better luck with sugardaddymeet . Much smaller than SA, but similar amount of real/online/scammers. If you can weed out the bad ones, some decent girls to be found

I will check it out, thanks  :hi:

Offline Mr_Shins

Hmm, looks like I can't pm either. Does anyone know why? Haven't used the PM functionality here in a while, are there new rules?

I assume you mean on this site not Seeking. There's a topic about the removal of the PM facility somewhere. It can be annoying as we know the woman can read this site so if you want to ask or tell something about one in particular it's better done by PM. Or if they don't read it themselves, they may know someone who reads and feeds back.

For me, someone might ask me about Melysa (an escort, not a woman on Seeking). I have avoided reviewing her again after the first time, but she's been my regular for 5 years and lots of people know that. I haven't met any new escorts in 2022 thus no reviews by me this year - it's good to write reviews but you have to meet new escorts first..


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I assume you mean on this site not Seeking. There's a topic about the removal of the PM facility somewhere.

its on the main/national page
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=351038.0

it is an issue -  i almost exclusively use "seeking" with maybe an occasional massage. I think i have seen only one "traditional" Escort this year. 
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its on the main/national page
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=351038.0

it is an issue -  i almost exclusively use "seeking" with maybe an occasional massage. I think i have seen only one "traditional" Escort this year.

It really isn’t an issue. This is a Punting Review site. Rules 1 & 27 cover it perfectly.

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Hmm, looks like I can't pm either. Does anyone know why? Haven't used the PM functionality here in a while, are there new rules?
Have you met Lcornellia from the site, profile seems deactivated now

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Offline Mr.WeirdBeard

Yes I meant PMs on this site, not on seeking.
I read the new rule now. I can see the positives and negatives, not sure I like it though.

No I haven't seen that one. What happened? Did you meet her once, all went well, but then she disappeared?

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Yes, met her a few times then disappeared.
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Offline alwaysamazing

its on the main/national page
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=351038.0

it is an issue -  i almost exclusively use "seeking" with maybe an occasional massage. I think i have seen only one "traditional" Escort this year.

I am in the same boat. Use seeking since 2017 and wasn't aware of seeking on the forum. Joined a long ago but was inactive for years not visiting escorts due to relationship and then seeking to post any review. I respect the forum rules and ok with PM being removed so that more people share here.
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I am in the same boat. Use seeking since 2017 and wasn't aware of seeking on the forum. Joined a long ago but was inactive for years not visiting escorts due to relationship and then seeking to post any review. I respect the forum rules and ok with PM being removed so that more people share here.

I think you’re on the wrong forum if you cannot manage a single Review in over 9 years.

Offline Mr.WeirdBeard

Yes, met her a few times then disappeared.
Sorry mate can't help. But had that happen to me recently too. Saw a girl twice, had an amazing time. She was very happy too, all ok for meeting again and next day her sdm profile gone, phone number blocked..
Perhaps her BF found out or something. Oh well..

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External Link/Members Only - £150 for few hours and it was her proposal for ppm. No kids and i would say she has a body of 28yr old. she is a lovely girl and met her once. but something going on with her health and an overall sad feeling which i couldn't explain.

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External Link/Members Only - Wants £400 ppm and sounds like a pro though the profile looks like created last month. I didn't pursue.

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External Link/Members Only - £250ppm and east london. Both price and location wasn't really in my favour.

External Link/Members Only - £400 ppm for few hours. I didn't pursue.

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External Link/Members Only - Wants £400 ppm and sounds like a pro though the profile looks like created last month. I didn't pursue.
Met her once, was Pro like. Thread already exists with her old profile.
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Offline Jason1971

I have a quick question. How often do you expect to receive messages from your SB? I have been in an arrangement for a couple of months now, meeting her 3 sometimes 4 times a month, but in between meetings days can pass without hearing from her even though I message her most days.

She has always met me when agreed though apart from once when she was ill. Am I expecting too much?

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I have a quick question. How often do you expect to receive messages from your SB? I have been in an arrangement for a couple of months now, meeting her 3 sometimes 4 times a month, but in between meetings days can pass without hearing from her even though I message her most days.

She has always met me when agreed though apart from once when she was ill. Am I expecting too much?

I would caution against excessive texting, you're not in a relationship with your SB. The fact that she isn't texting you regularly should show you that the arrangement is a transactional one. I generally keep comms sparse until time comes to organise a meeting. I once got sucked into the whole regular texting thing and tbh it was a headfuck as boundaries started to get blurred and expectations of the arrangement changed.
I don't know the ins and outs of your arrangement but if your daily messages aren't reciprocated then rein things in and work on your boundaries.

Offline Punting2022

I have a quick question. How often do you expect to receive messages from your SB? I have been in an arrangement for a couple of months now, meeting her 3 sometimes 4 times a month, but in between meetings days can pass without hearing from her even though I message her most days.

She has always met me when agreed though apart from once when she was ill. Am I expecting too much?

Shes seeing other people inbetween so is not messaging you. The honeymoon period has gone where u get to know each other. She knows she will have you coming back for meets so will keep it minimal.
As long as she always meets you on agreed time and dont cut time short. All is ok. If she starts cancelling etc then assume she dont want to see you again etc.

Offline bigden40

I have a quick question. How often do you expect to receive messages from your SB? I have been in an arrangement for a couple of months now, meeting her 3 sometimes 4 times a month, but in between meetings days can pass without hearing from her even though I message her most days.

She has always met me when agreed though apart from once when she was ill. Am I expecting too much?

It really depends. Have you discussed it with her?

I’ve had SBs where there’s frequent texting between meetings and others where there’s none. Ask her what her preference is. 

My personal preference is to exchange the odd chatty message from time to time, but really only when I’ve got something to talk about.

Offline Jason1971

Shes seeing other people inbetween so is not messaging you. The honeymoon period has gone where u get to know each other. She knows she will have you coming back for meets so will keep it minimal.
As long as she always meets you on agreed time and dont cut time short. All is ok. If she starts cancelling etc then assume she dont want to see you again etc.

Thanks although I don't she is seeing others (well she has friends obviously) but doesn't come across as that kind of girl. Also she is a medical student and works in a bakery on the days that she is not at all the hospital or uni, so not sure she has the time anyway. Her seeking profile is deactivated as is mine so fairly confident that there is noone else.

I am probably reading too much into it but like you say she meets when agreed never cuts time short, and amazing in bed so I shouldn't really complain.

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as others have said, texting everyday is a bit OTT - the fact that she doesn't return them all should say something.

I operate and use seeking in a slightly different way to many guys on here and have, until recently 2 long term (monthly allowance) SB's but never messaged either of them every day. Although we had a good relationship and did lots of things together (often going away together) i rarely messaged them apart from arranging our next date/meeting/adventure or to wish good luck for exams etc. yes we had a relationship that someone looking in might say is like a BF/GF relationship, but it wasn't and we both knew it and that it was a SD/SB relationship  -  and we both had a separate life, separate friends etc.

Even in a "real" relationship, i wouldn't message her everyday.  But maybe that is just me!

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as others have said, texting everyday is a bit OTT - the fact that she doesn't return them all should say something.

I operate and use seeking in a slightly different way to many guys on here and have, until recently 2 long term (monthly allowance) SB's but never messaged either of them every day. Although we had a good relationship and did lots of things together (often going away together) i rarely messaged them apart from arranging our next date/meeting/adventure or to wish good luck for exams etc. yes we had a relationship that someone looking in might say is like a BF/GF relationship, but it wasn't and we both knew it and that it was a SD/SB relationship  -  and we both had a separate life, separate friends etc.

Even in a "real" relationship, i wouldn't message her everyday.  But maybe that is just me!

It just depends on the relationship really. I don't mind daily messages but it can't be constant, there is nothing wrong with having a conversation over a couple of days, etc.

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I have a quick question. How often do you expect to receive messages from your SB? I have been in an arrangement for a couple of months now, meeting her 3 sometimes 4 times a month, but in between meetings days can pass without hearing from her even though I message her most days.

She has always met me when agreed though apart from once when she was ill. Am I expecting too much?

Jason,
I have done this mistake before.. few years back.

Just remind yourself and that is me speaking by experience, and even daddies who are much more experienced than me in this game agree on the following two.

1: Girls, or wives are brutal when it comes to dumping men. They are ice-cold, and won't think for a second. They KNOW that we think from our dicks and play with our minds accordingly. They are shrewd FULLSTOP. Its biology, our hormones can easily rule us, but woman's easily don't!.
One anthropologists told me that this could come from their hidden insecure nature of bearing children and being protective about their prodigy. Built into XX chromosomes be it human or animals.


2: All this is an illusion which is fed by your money and her "greed". It will fall one day, just don't make it a big one.... It is a game bud.
Easier said than done, but try to implement if you can.
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Jason,
I have done this mistake before.. few years back.

Just remind yourself and that is me speaking by experience, and even daddies who are much more experienced than me in this game agree on the following two.

1: Girls, or wives are brutal when it comes to dumping men. They are ice-cold, and won't think for a second. They KNOW that we think from our dicks and play with our minds accordingly. They are shrewd FULLSTOP. Its biology, our hormones can easily rule us, but woman's easily don't!.
One anthropologists told me that this could come from their hidden insecure nature of bearing children and being protective about their prodigy. Built into XX chromosomes be it human or animals.


2: All this is an illusion which is fed by your money and her "greed". It will fall one day, just don't make it a big one.... It is a game bud.
Easier said than done, but try to implement if you can.
So true 👌👍
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Plus those who are Prossie types and money minded, communications are far better. They generally come back and text occasionally even if we don't text them to see if we want to meet.
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lots of fruity hot-texting; seems friendly & experienced; only wants £400pw and can accommodate too, but I'm unsure. Any info, chaps?

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Could not believe this person is trans. It's thai level work that.

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They use face-app AI filters to feminise their faces more.
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Offline Yung

I have a quick question. How often do you expect to receive messages from your SB? I have been in an arrangement for a couple of months now, meeting her 3 sometimes 4 times a month, but in between meetings days can pass without hearing from her even though I message her most days.

She has always met me when agreed though apart from once when she was ill. Am I expecting too much?

Just remember this.

She doesnt really like you and only really want to talk to you when you are paying her cash.

Why would she respond to text message which arent business related when she probably has some other guys dick in her?

Offline Punting2022

Thanks although I don't she is seeing others (well she has friends obviously) but doesn't come across as that kind of girl. Also she is a medical student and works in a bakery on the days that she is not at all the hospital or uni, so not sure she has the time anyway. Her seeking profile is deactivated as is mine so fairly confident that there is noone else.

I am probably reading too much into it but like you say she meets when agreed never cuts time short, and amazing in bed so I shouldn't really complain.

Dont fall for this. I did and am just about over things. They will always have old contacts in phones. Duplicate profiles with different details. On other websites etc. Ive learnt the hard way.

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Jason,
I have done this mistake before.. few years back.

Just remind yourself and that is me speaking by experience, and even daddies who are much more experienced than me in this game agree on the following two.

1: Girls, or wives are brutal when it comes to dumping men. They are ice-cold, and won't think for a second. They KNOW that we think from our dicks and play with our minds accordingly. They are shrewd FULLSTOP. Its biology, our hormones can easily rule us, but woman's easily don't!.
One anthropologists told me that this could come from their hidden insecure nature of bearing children and being protective about their prodigy. Built into XX chromosomes be it human or animals.


2: All this is an illusion which is fed by your money and her "greed". It will fall one day, just don't make it a big one.... It is a game bud.
Easier said than done, but try to implement if you can.

 :drinks:   :thumbsup:

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She is back. Amazing company bit of a nympho. Saggy boobs though. So didn't meet again.
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She is back. Amazing company bit of a nympho. Saggy boobs though. So didn't meet again.
met her last year she's goof but too much of fishy smell done there so didn't see her again

Offline Mr_Shins

External Link/Members Only - £150 for few hours and it was her proposal for ppm. No kids and i would say she has a body of 28yr old. she is a lovely girl and met her once. but something going on with her health and an overall sad feeling which i couldn't explain.

She sent me a message after I clicked her profile to look, and she certainly looks pretty from her one photo. Might be worth signing up a subscription if that's her rate: does she do sex? If it's just £150 for a platonic date, I don't need that.

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She sent me a message after I clicked her profile to look, and she certainly looks pretty from her one photo. Might be worth signing up a subscription if that's her rate: does she do sex? If it's just £150 for a platonic date, I don't need that.
After I clicked she messaged and quoted me £200  :D
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Offline Monty_81

And what is it with SB girls and BB? Of the ones I’ve met in the last few months since joining, all have made it clear that they are quite happy to BB from the outset, is this normal or just me?

Offline puntingpumping1920

And what is it with SB girls and BB? Of the ones I’ve met in the last few months since joining, all have made it clear that they are quite happy to BB from the outset, is this normal or just me?

 
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its not just seeking, it seems to be fairly prevalent amongst young people in general!

Offline bigden40

And what is it with SB girls and BB? Of the ones I’ve met in the last few months since joining, all have made it clear that they are quite happy to BB from the outset, is this normal or just me?

I’ve found it a mixed picture.  In my experience the more experienced/professional the SB then the less likely they are to BB.

The younger, more amateur they are then the more likely they are to BB.

Offline Monty_81

The problem is, that the main attraction with SA, certainly for me personally, is to get as far away as possible from these professional time and task types.

Offline bigden40

The problem is, that the main attraction with SA, certainly for me personally, is to get as far away as possible from these professional time and task types.

Agreed.  I don’t see those types. 

And just because a girl is willing to go BB doesn’t stop me rolling on a rubber.

Offline samanderson

She sent me a message after I clicked her profile to look, and she certainly looks pretty from her one photo. Might be worth signing up a subscription if that's her rate: does she do sex? If it's just £150 for a platonic date, I don't need that.

Yes, Sex. I spent around 2.5 hrs and had 2 pops. PM me for her number.

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After I clicked she messaged and quoted me £200  :D

May be due to the sudden spike in views on her profile  :D

Offline ik8133

She sent me a message after I clicked her profile to look, and she certainly looks pretty from her one photo. Might be worth signing up a subscription if that's her rate: does she do sex? If it's just £150 for a platonic date, I don't need that.

Me too, pity I'm so far north.

Offline Mr_Shins

Yes, Sex. I spent around 2.5 hrs and had 2 pops. PM me for her number.

I don't have enough rep on this site to PM. Just tell her to head over to What's Your Price and set up a profile there and I'll find her. Same age, photo and name. Also tell her I will be making a low bid as that is just to get the conversation unlocked and an initial "meet and greet". £150 would cost me 30 credits to unlock, I think.

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Yes, Sex. I spent around 2.5 hrs and had 2 pops. PM me for her number.

Tried PM you maybe you can send number to me….thanks

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Yes, Sex. I spent around 2.5 hrs and had 2 pops. PM me for her number.


Tried PM you maybe you can send number to me….thanks

not sure its right to pass a lady's phone number to others unless you have her permission to do that. She gave her number to YOU not to someone else. if she doesn't have a profile on seeking anymore, maybe there is a reason for that. It could end with both of you being blocked, added to clienteye or whatever. I know some ladies in other locations so wouldn't be surprised if something similar in London have a lady's whatsapp group chat where they share info on guys who mess them around, give security concerns etc.

bear in mind too that whilst guys might come across as being ok on here, we don't know what they are like in real life. sharing published info and phone numbers is one thing, sharing (even by PM) private info is something different. it also might breach UKP rules.
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