Tbh that’s roughly the rates I’m happy with.
Rarely have to go to £300
Someone posted a while ago that no matter how much they ask for upfront, nearly all girls that do ppm will accept 500, including models. I have found this to be quite true in my experience (bar one exception - some airhead who wanted £1k and wouldn't budge (blocked me, in fact)).
Knowing this, it's made me reluctant to go to the higher end (4-500). Unless we're talking about a date with Jennifer Lopez, I've realised it doesn't say much for my negotiations skills agreeing to 500 or thereabouts, because even real stunners will accept that. The housewives and girls next door, I needn't be paying that. But a lot of them will try their luck and start by asking for that - so you have to be bold enough to lowball them in negotiations (knowing that you may end up meeting in the middle), and also be prepared to walk away if they dig in. Often they act faux-offended/shocked (the number of times I've heard "omg that's very low, esp.if you wanted intimacy...") - they're just playing the game. The majority of guys on there are likely not offering them much more, and the odd millionaire who can offer much more will want a 10/10 for looks. So there is no guarantee they can actually get that guy.
I'm still having a pretty dry month - not many interesting leads (unlike others it seems). On a couple of occasions i've agreed to 350+ while late night messaging, then woke up next morning with a clear head and thought...naaaah. Would have been overnights, so (relative to equivalent cost of a punt) the cost is arguably not that unreasonable and I'm being a tad wallet shy. But I dunno - just feel there must be better out there...
Long way of saying - balls are still full, but so is my wallet (and that's not a bad thing). Got to be prepared to play the waiting game sometimes
