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[randompunter1234]

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Another one that screams scam. "Medical student", yea right. Chats well initially but says cannot do PPM. Asked how much for allowance, says, £100 a week to meet 3-4 times a meet. Ok, not bad so £400 a month. Payment when, I ask. She says, payment made before we meet. So, transfer of £400 to a stranger and then wait for further details. She's got it sorted!

Just to add, she's free tonight and Im waiting for her paypal details, wish me luck!

Just the language of the profiles suggests it's not a native speaker. It may well be someone sitting overseas running multiple profiles

If you seeking to find genuine Brit asian (as opposed to oriental brit) , I recommend profiles without pics and little or no write up.

I have two so far in London. no nonsense and up for a meet. will be seeing them in the next couple of weeks. PPM 150 &
200 (plus travel) for the latter.

I have another one, just waiting to convert. she's a bit further afield.

I will share the profiles once i've actually met

[randompunter1234]

Any info on this profile

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I think she's genuine, but wondering if anyone seen her, what was the ppm and how was it like. i wanna negotiate at the right price point

[Prifessionallondinguy]

This one was funny. Video chatted with me telling me that her grandmother had died and she needed help with funeral expenses. I knew the moment she said but followed HomerC's advice on scam baiting told her i'll pay her but in cash in her hands so she needs to come to me. Kept telling me all sort of stories all day then gave up LOL. But i wasted a lot of time too

I’ve spoken to so many who ALL live with their grandparents and therefore cannot meet in person but will 110% meet at later date fir a hamburger today... or is that Wimpey from Popeye!!

I have to say even with Covid there’s so many flakes about.

[Whoisarrypotter]

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Deposit scammer
Call herself Shann,i asked if it was short for Shannon replied with no.
Gave me her telegram name to find her and chat on there username Shannon ha ha ha.
"I know she says but my name is actually Shann.
She sounded quite genuine during the chat.
I made her an offer of £100 ppm and meet once a week.
She sends me a voice message saying most girls are a bit a suspicious of guys who offer low amounts And that i.probably wont find anyone that will agree to that.

All of a sudden she says you know what ill see you for £100 per time as you seem nice and money isnt really that important to me (you heard it right).

Then after a few more pleasantries exchanged she hits me with i will need a deposit of half the fee so I know your legit.

Im sure ive seen another profile of her since then which uses her other picture as the main profile picture

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If be interested if someone proved me wrong and has actually seen her after paying a deposit

[jonny]

Double acts are usually scammers. I just ignore them.

Just like others meant, most likely to be scam Msg'ed me on WA and asked whether im free today, i went along and asked how much she's looking for and said £400 each, yeah right. I said happy to meet one of you at a time and aparently they only go together, we left it there.

[Markus]

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Deposit scammer
Call herself Shann,i asked if it was short for Shannon replied with no.
Gave me her telegram name to find her and chat on there username Shannon ha ha ha.
"I know she says but my name is actually Shann.
She sounded quite genuine during the chat.
I made her an offer of £100 ppm and meet once a week.
She sends me a voice message saying most girls are a bit a suspicious of guys who offer low amounts And that i.probably wont find anyone that will agree to that.

All of a sudden she says you know what ill see you for £100 per time as you seem nice and money isnt really that important to me (you heard it right).

Then after a few more pleasantries exchanged she hits me with i will need a deposit of half the fee so I know your legit.

Im sure ive seen another profile of her since then which uses her other picture as the main profile picture

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If be interested if someone proved me wrong and has actually seen her after paying a deposit

She’s hooking you in.  Don’t fall for it.

[jonny]

Had a strange experience last week, been chatting to a SB for couple of days then moved onto WA. She asked me about the allowance etc and was happy with PPM then asked whether im looking for intimate ppm.  When i said yes and she said she's looking for just dates and we stopped.

She messaged me again on Tue last week saying she had a little change of heart and was asking more details about what kind of intimate meet im after and ask what allowance im prepared to pay her. I offer her £200 an she said she will think about it and get back to me next day. She did not get back to me and then on Thursday i sent her a messge asking whether she's interested or not, she has yet to reply but also not logged into SA for about 3-4 days too.

Im not too sure what to make of it, is she quite new to intimate stuff as she's been on SA for about 3 years.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Yeah right she’s all discombobulated about what exactly  “intimacy” means... more likely looking for more money for putting it out!

[jonny]

Yeah right she’s all discombobulated about what exactly  “intimacy” means... more likely looking for more money for putting it out!

Well, not offering more than £200 for PPM lol

[Whoisarrypotter]

She’s hooking you in.  Don’t fall for it.

Cheers for the confirmation mate i thought it was a bit suspect and although im new to SA im not new to everything ive read on here about deposit scams.
I was actually almost considering swallowing it just to see, but your are quite right the golden rule never pay deposit ever.

[Cunning Punt]

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Another one that screams scam.

The profile text says she likes to get her nails done and is high maintenance, plus wants someone to "look after his price [sic] possession/ princess" which is a yellow flag in itself. However, it also says 'ONLINE ONLY!!' so that's no good.

Not that some of us would have actually clicked on the profile in the first place because it invites SDs to check out her wishlist in the headline.

Personally, I wouldn't waste any of my time on her/him but, hey, whatever entertainment gets you guys through lockdown. 

[GMontag]

The profile text says she likes to get her nails done and is high maintenance, plus wants someone to "look after his price [sic] possession/ princess" which is a yellow flag in itself. However, it also says 'ONLINE ONLY!!' so that's no good.

Not that some of us would have actually clicked on the profile in the first place because it invites SDs to check out her wishlist in the headline.

Personally, I wouldn't waste any of my time on her/him but, hey, whatever entertainment gets you guys through lockdown. 

So I actually had a conversation with her. I told her that I'm a lawyer  (I'm not) and that her asking for money in advance would be fraud if she failed to turn up. Also told her that I had got her IP details and triangulated with her phone number (wouldn't even know how to) so I could actually locate her and initiate criminal proceedings if she failed to turn up after I transferred the money (of which I had no intention to). She then came clean and said she was real but had no intention of meeting up as she actually only wanted a platonic only relationship but for some reason was struggling to get those as other girls were.
I told her good she let me know as I was only looking for hard-core passionate love making and not friendship and I would have been really disappointed if she had failed to live up to her side of the contract.
I guess that's why she now changed the wording as she didn't have Online Only before.

[Cunning Punt]

Had a strange experience last week, been chatting to a SB for couple of days then moved onto WA. She asked me about the allowance etc and was happy with PPM then asked whether im looking for intimate ppm.  When i said yes and she said she's looking for just dates and we stopped.

She messaged me again on Tue last week saying she had a little change of heart and was asking more details about what kind of intimate meet im after and ask what allowance im prepared to pay her. I offer her £200 an she said she will think about it and get back to me next day. She did not get back to me and then on Thursday i sent her a messge asking whether she's interested or not, she has yet to reply but also not logged into SA for about 3-4 days too.

Im not too sure what to make of it, is she quite new to intimate stuff as she's been on SA for about 3 years.

She's quite new to this despite being on SA for 3 years, you mean.

Even before one reads that killer last sentence, it's clear that she is simply one of the many girls on SA who are just curious about the site, not comfortable with intimacy (or in some cases even understand what it is), and are just wasting guys' time.
If a girl is unsure, there's no point chasing her up because you'll just prolong the issue - it ain't going to happen. Those who are genuinely interested reply to messages fairly promptly.

If a girl has been registered for 2/3 years, hasn't got a clue and is unsure about arrangements, then she never will be and is a timewaster, so just move on.

[Markus]

The problem with SA is that it seems to breed a type of female who thinks they would only receive an allowance if they do something similar to OnlyFans I.e post pictures.

I’m sure this is being fuelled by men who actually would pay to receive pics.  I for one won’t be contributing to such nonsense.

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Not my type (any picture taken at that angle and you can be sure someone is hiding some fat)

[Bobbins1973]

So I actually had a conversation with her. I told her that I'm a lawyer  (I'm not) and that her asking for money in advance would be fraud if she failed to turn up. Also told her that I had got her IP details and triangulated with her phone number (wouldn't even know how to) so I could actually locate her and initiate criminal proceedings if she failed to turn up after I transferred the money (of which I had no intention to). She then came clean and said she was real but had no intention of meeting up as she actually only wanted a platonic only relationship but for some reason was struggling to get those as other girls were.
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Also a good way is to send via PayPal but insist it’s money for an item - if they are genuine they would turn up, if not you could claim back and say item not delivered
I’ve done this for those wanting train fare etc and have always shit out at last minute when I make this offer explaining that they would get into trouble if didn’t turn up

[Cunning Punt]

She then came clean and said she was real but had no intention of meeting up as she actually only wanted a platonic only relationship but for some reason was struggling to get those as other girls were.

"For some reason" - well guys aren't going to pay to watch you eat, dear.  Platonic arrangements are very rare, and certainly not very long, so she's talking bollocks - she doesn't know anyone who has. She's just been taken in by Brandon's propaganda.
 

I guess that's why she now changed the wording as she didn't have Online Only before.

There were other red/yellow flags but the addition of the words online only - and in caps  - will put off most guys and hopefully now they'll think twice about trying to scam someone. So thanks for taking the time to hold them to account. 

[NightKid]

Cheers for the confirmation mate i thought it was a bit suspect and although im new to SA im not new to everything ive read on here about deposit scams.
I was actually almost considering swallowing it just to see, but your are quite right the golden rule never pay deposit ever.

It's not just deposits either, I was supposed to be seeing a girl last weekend who I saw for the first time earlier in the week and she asked me to gift her some lingerie which I agreed based on the reasoning that it wasn't anything expensive and I could get something out of it when we meet again

Turns out she cancelled after by claiming to have her period on the day and we said to rearrange for this weekend but she's ghosted me since I last heard from her on Wednesday ... quelle surprise 

[mikey1002]

I think you are right in being paranoid about it. I did have a suspicion that the admins have fake profiles on there to check new SD profiles.

Have been there for 2 years. I usually get premium membership for a month collect numbers and delete it. Also, majority of the time they send you discount codes to join a week after u join.

Once got a msg from a girl who seemed like 25 to me from the pics. The msg said that she was 17 and hope I don't mind. I advised her that this is a 18+ website and she shouldn't be on here and cause problems for herself and other SDs. Moved on to responding to other msgs and one hour later my account was suspended. The cheeky Cs reinstated the account only after I replied to them over email stating that I will not do any illegal activities on there

After that incident, I have been cautious like you

That's crazy

[Whoisarrypotter]

Just curious if anyone has ever had a message like this before.

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Hi there!

Let’s get down to it and negotiate terms.

I’m currently in a long term relationship. That being said my boyfriend loves me and will let you fuck me for the right price. I’m quite high maintenance so fair warning the price for this will be high.

If you have a smaller budget I can also accommodate. Anything we do needs to remain private between me and you.

I am very discrete and I can make any arrangement we make very beneficial for both of us 😊

I checked on Fabswingers to see if they are on there,it could just be me being paranoid but I cant help but wonder if its one of those robbery scams where you turn up and then your confronted with the boyfriend to leave minus the fee .
Does sound too good to be true

[martini2429]

Just curious if anyone has ever had a message like this before.

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Hi there!

Let’s get down to it and negotiate terms.

I’m currently in a long term relationship. That being said my boyfriend loves me and will let you fuck me for the right price. I’m quite high maintenance so fair warning the price for this will be high.

If you have a smaller budget I can also accommodate. Anything we do needs to remain private between me and you.

I am very discrete and I can make any arrangement we make very beneficial for both of us 😊

I checked on Fabswingers to see if they are on there,it could just be me being paranoid but I cant help but wonder if its one of those robbery scams where you turn up and then your confronted with the boyfriend to leave minus the fee .
Does sound too good to be true

Boyfriend happy to pimp out his girlfriend, classy    And within seconds of looking at the profile she has messaged me, fuck and off 

 

[Whoisarrypotter]

 
What did she say heh heh.
Please dont tell me its a cut a paste job 

I take it your not tempted to TOFTT

[martini2429]

What did she say heh heh.
Please dont tell me its a cut a paste job 

I take it your not tempted to TOFTT

She said "Definitely Naughty" My tag line is "Are you naughty or nice"

No chance of me TOFTT as she isn't what I am looking for

 

[anotherwoody69]

Hi

Has anyone had any contact with this lady?

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You off to meet her in Japan then?

[DeanoDeano]

If you paid attention, I do not do relationships, I made this very clear from the get go and my profile actually states this and I never gave her an idea that I wanted more i.e. I never hinted that I can manage a relationship beyond meeting up once a week to be intimate. She is no child so I did not need to spell it out to her that I am not looking for more out of her, she expected it clearly but I am not at fault. Also, I put it in writing that I was freaked out by all her googling towards the end and I blocked her before any explanations as I made my own conclusion.

I’m pretty good at paying attention thanks. And nothing you said changes my opinion about my comments. You sound very confused about how to approach SA and what you might expect in return. There is loads of useful advice in this thread. Read it and you might not get yourself into such dangerous situations again. Rather than making pokey comments in reply to useful advice.

Cunning Punt also had some useful comments. Read them.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Hi

Has anyone had any contact with this lady?

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Yeah swapped a few messages... Singapore based I think... that’s if the profile is real.
I’ve focused on Asian girls and have to
admit the take up is very poor.  I’ve only really been successful with three out of goodness knows how many. 
One SKorean, Chinese and Japanese   None are
On SA anymore unfortunately before you ask.
Pm me and I’ll share other leads.
   

[Alexmck]

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I also had a very good meet with this sexy lady.
Got her to FaceTime me on wa first and then arranged meet.

She is Spanish and has a very tight fit body. Lots of dfk, great bj and good sex.
Meet was 200, hope to see again after lockdown as I only do meets in hotels.

Now asking for 300

[TV1089]

Hey I'm new to this and I don't know if this is the right place to ask, but i was wondering when you sign up to SA does it show up on your bank statements? or is there another way to sign up like via PayPal or something ?
Thanks in advance

[stevee]

Thanks, so it looks as if 17th May will be the date. My hope was that because it didn't include an overnight stay the 12th April date might have applied for a dayuse booking.

Dayuse suits me so well with their timings, price, range of properties and free cancellation I doubt if I could tick all those boxes elsewhere. I wanted to avoid having to have false/forged work related documents but that might be the way to go

Not sure what the problem is I have been using Day Hotels all the way through from the November Lockdown

[troubletrouble2021]

I’m unable to PM but would appreciate leads.....

Yeah swapped a few messages... Singapore based I think... that’s if the profile is real.
I’ve focused on Asian girls and have to
admit the take up is very poor.  I’ve only really been successful with three out of goodness knows how many. 
One SKorean, Chinese and Japanese   None are
On SA anymore unfortunately before you ask.
Pm me and I’ll share other leads.
 

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Yeah swapped a few messages... Singapore based I think... that’s if the profile is real.
I’ve focused on Asian girls and have to
admit the take up is very poor.  I’ve only really been successful with three out of goodness knows how many. 
One SKorean, Chinese and Japanese   None are
On SA anymore unfortunately before you ask.
Pm me and I’ll share other leads.
 

I’ve just offered her a deal!! We’ll see if she’s up for it.  My regular is just small amounts here and now ... it’s risky seeing 2 but I’ve juggled 2 before and managed plus she’s seriously fuckable for someone like me who prefers dating, meeting and doing the business with Asians.  Hopefully it’ll put an end to escorts fir me.

Yeah I’ll post a few leads later this week... I’ll see if I can pm you too! 

[disco]

did any of you guys meet up with External Link/Members Only ?
She seems up for it and keen to meet.

[ned78]

I notice that it says she is in Japan, but also says she is based in London.

So just wondering if anyone had made contact.

[ned78]

did any of you guys meet up with External Link/Members Only ?
She seems up for it and keen to meet.

Let me know if you get anywhere? Maybe she is on her way to the UK.

[ned78]

I’ve just offered her a deal!! We’ll see if she’s up for it.  My regular is just small amounts here and now ... it’s risky seeing 2 but I’ve juggled 2 before and managed plus she’s seriously fuckable for someone like me who prefers dating, meeting and doing the business with Asians.  Hopefully it’ll put an end to escorts fir me.

Yeah I’ll post a few leads later this week... I’ll see if I can pm you too! 

Let me know if you get anywhere? Maybe she is on her way to the UK.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

did any of you guys meet up with External Link/Members Only ?
She seems up for it and keen to meet.

Haven’t met her but she’s messaged me out of the blue asking to meet... not my type though. She’s messaged everyone like a “telemessager” aka Homer on the Simpson’s! 

[jamiekinkxxx]

Check this hottie out! STUNNING IMHO, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder I guess

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In contact... I'll let you know how I fair. She is back and forth from Newcastle so not 100% London based

and I recognise this one from escorting via AW a few years ago... she was excellent (Giselle if I remember correctly, saw her a few times circa 2016):

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She has not responded to my reach out

[finn5555]

Check this hottie out! STUNNING IMHO, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder I guess

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In contact... I'll let you know how I fair. She is back and forth from Newcastle so not 100% London based

and I recognise this one from escorting via AW a few years ago... she was excellent (Giselle if I remember correctly, saw her a few times circa 2016):

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She has not responded to my reach out

Those are links to your inbox

[jamiekinkxxx]

duh! let me try again! lol

[randompunter1234]

Check this hottie out! STUNNING IMHO, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder I guess

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In contact... I'll let you know how I fair. She is back and forth from Newcastle so not 100% London based

and I recognise this one from escorting via AW a few years ago... she was excellent (Giselle if I remember correctly, saw her a few times circa 2016):

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She has not responded to my reach out

These links dont work

but i have someone willing to travel from northeast, pay their own travel and agreeable to £200 ppm . but wont see me  if I am travelling up ( i often travel quite a bit for work)

the cheapest train fare is 85. I dont know how it works, unless she's planning a few meets in succession. which for me a negative on SA

[jamiekinkxxx]

Check this hottie out! STUNNING IMHO, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder I guess

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In contact... I'll let you know how I fair. She is back and forth from Newcastle so not 100% London based

and I recognise this one from escorting via AW a few years ago... she was excellent (Giselle if I remember correctly, saw her a few times circa 2016):

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She has not responded to my reach out

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[exhippy]

My month of premium membership ends tomorrow. I saw 5 women, 4 of which encounters were Fun. I will be seeing two of them regularly, one a 21 year old Turkish beautician, the other a Spanish 27 year old working as a nanny. Both are lovely and the feeling clearly was reciprocal. Neither will break the bank. A fifth woman I am planning to see in another city - the plan is for me to stay with her for a weekend. All in all well worth £93 membership and a good start to my 8th decade

[randompunter1234]

Check this hottie out! STUNNING IMHO, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder I guess

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In contact... I'll let you know how I fair. She is back and forth from Newcastle so not 100% London based

and I recognise this one from escorting via AW a few years ago... she was excellent (Giselle if I remember correctly, saw her a few times circa 2016):

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She has not responded to my reach out

I think the first link is a TS

[Alexmck]

My month of premium membership ends tomorrow. I saw 5 women, 4 of which encounters were Fun. I will be seeing two of them regularly, one a 21 year old Turkish beautician, the other a Spanish 27 year old working as a nanny. Both are lovely and the feeling clearly was reciprocal. Neither will break the bank. A fifth woman I am planning to see in another city - the plan is for me to stay with her for a weekend. All in all well worth £93 membership and a good start to my 8th decade

Damn... Mine is also about to end and I have nothing! 

[Flush]

Hey guys, a mate of mine just hit up this chick:

Mariaxo21

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He confirmed the goods are real but the chick scammed his ass. She allowed him to feel the goods, which he did and she kept asking for cash up front. Once half the cash was collected she remembered she was hungry and disappeared like Houdini. She is a pro scammer that also tried to collect transportation money up front but doesn't want to deliver on the arrangement promises.

[randompunter1234]

Hey guys, a mate of mine just hit up this chick:

Mariaxo21

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He confirmed the goods are real but the chick scammed his ass. She allowed him to feel the goods, which he did and she kept asking for cash up front. Once half the cash was collected she remembered she was hungry and disappeared like Houdini. She is a pro scammer that also tried to collect transportation money up front but doesn't want to deliver on the arrangement promises.

with a profile like this, what do you expect

[Cunning Punt]

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The first is an arrogant domme so you probably won't get to fuck her and the 2nd is a TS so you probably don't want to fuck him.

[DeanoDeano]

The first is an arrogant domme so you probably won't get to fuck her and the 2nd is a TS so you probably don't want to fuck him.

 

I was thinking the same!

[NightKid]

Just a little story that also has tips:

NIGHTMARE 
THIS WEIRDO Hunted me down, messaged my family members on social media, called my office even. Proper stalker and I blocked her off everywhere possible.

Lesson; NEVER TELL THEM YOUR REAL NAME, NEVER GIVE THEM HOPE THAT THEY CAN GET MORE OUT OF YOU THAN AN ARRANGEMENT  & NEVER BRING THEM TO YOUR HOUSE.

First off you weren’t her sugar daddy because by your own admission you weren’t providing any financial support. You were dating / FWB / whatever you want to call it.

Then you freaked out and by your own admission ghosted her.

And then she reacted badly? Not that surprising.

To me the lesson would be that if you want to be a sugar daddy and enter into an arrangement then set the boundaries upfront, linked to the allowance you give her, and don’t blur them yourself then get surprised when it turns sour.

Forgot to say this in my earlier post but I agree as well - if you're not paying for something with money, then you better be prepared to pay for it in other ways

[Link7]

Just a little story that also has tips:
So I met this girl on seeking a year ago, just 2months before lock down,I am quite younger than the typical sugar daddy, I just wanted something that is a little more GFE and less WG experience on a regular. I get bored quickly with dating hence why this was  a good option. Her profile is currently deactivated so cannot share link or pics but also, I am no animal 

Girl:
She is stunning, new to the continent (1/2yrs), petite with a fat ass like those Latin women you see in Brazilian porn(i wish i could put up a pic)

The arrangement:
We hit it off from the first chat. Finally, came back to the country after a month away on a work assignment and we had been talking almost daily. This girl was literally falling for me, even without saying it, I could tell. I booked a rather posh hotel(according to her) every week for the time i was back here. She is a pocket rocket so the sex is pretty much in the top 3, ever and recording allowed, anal, owo etc so It was literally a fantasy. KILLER: SHE REFUSED ANY SORT OF MONEY ETC But i was nice and i sent her some flowers as I got her address when she left her shopping account logged onto my laptop as I had given her a cold(not COVID lol).

Problem:
We away again for two months and I came back as I couldn't travel anymore due to lockdowns, I could not book any place so I was totally hungry for a meet, I made what i now regard as the worst mistake of my adult life, I invited her to my house. She wanted me to log  into my netflix on her laptop and I ended up on her history page, MY WORD, I saw searches with my name, my companies, my social media pages she had visited etc. This freaked me out and I should have taken this as a wake up call.   Now, I got busy so pushed back another meet and I just got freaked out and started to ignore her.

NIGHTMARE 
THIS WEIRDO Hunted me down, messaged my family members on social media, called my office even. Proper stalker and I blocked her off everywhere possible.

Lesson; NEVER TELL THEM YOUR REAL NAME, NEVER GIVE THEM HOPE THAT THEY CAN GET MORE OUT OF YOU THAN AN ARRANGEMENT  & NEVER BRING THEM TO YOUR HOUSE.

Have to agree with consensus. This wasn't really an SA problem as such, more just dating gone wrong. You could have met her off any platform - it wasn't an arrangement. In fact, if you had used SA as it's intended to be used, you may well have avoided this altogether 

[Link7]

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I agree the first one is fit. If she's a Geordie no reason to think she wouldn't put out wouldn't surprise me if she's easy enough to bang. My issue is that she clearly just wants a compete sissy to take advantage of. Fair enough if that's your thing and all part of the thrill - I'd be having none of it personally. "I am a fan of fin domination you must be willing to accept that" also means she intends to rape you financially btw.