I've literally just signed up to Seeking, bit wary if it's worth the £80pm fee. Would love a breakdown on success on the site and if it's worth it. I understand there will be a lot of fake profiles but any leadership would be great. Thinking of using this instead of the usual AW Punt.
Any experiences?
Short answer: as per above, read the thread.
Long answer: i think it's good fun if you have a lot of spare time and enjoy everything that comes with these kind of apps - searching, grafting, chatting, inevitable dead ends and time wasted, but also potentially sex. It is still about sex (for most, I think - although not exclusively and many have testified for the social element), and potentially lots of it, but it's a circuitous and relatively expensive route compared to punting. It probably only really makes sense if you enjoy the journey as much as arriving at the destination, so to speak.
I have found it got tiresome doing it consecutive months - because of the sheer amount of graft involved, figuring out who's genuine etc. But intermittent subscriptions a few times a year, maybe when work is quieter over the summer etc., would probably keep it more interesting (and feasible for me, from a time consumption perspective).
If you have v little free time, and you are basically in punting for stress relief and to unload at short notice in limited windows of opportunity - it isn't set up as well for that. Also, if you punt to bang models or women you could never dream of getting in "real" life, whilst this is still possible in SA, I think it can actually still be quite hard and generally costs a fortune - certainly more than the £250/300 you might pay for an hour's fantasy with some agency babe. Also, if you are generally disappointed with paying for anything less than extreme PSE sex - you will be disappointed often on SA!
Horses for courses. Nothing to regret though - just protect your private life, use common sense and use a punting phone. That way, if you have a negative experience, you can simply walk away and forget about it (just as you would with a regular prostitute).
