When you can’t cum up her chuff

[jayjay28]

Interesting thread. I wonder if any one has any thoughts on when you masturbate but then don't cum. Usually before seeing a wg I try to abstain for around 5-7 days before the meet. This of course gets me even more horny so I end up just edging but prevent myself from cumming in preparation for the meet.

I always mage the 1st pop, but 2nd one sometimes struggle.

[Silva21]

Interesting thread. I wonder if any one has any thoughts on when you masturbate but then don't cum. Usually before seeing a wg I try to abstain for around 5-7 days before the meet. This of course gets me even more horny so I end up just edging but prevent myself from cumming in preparation for the meet.

I always mage the 1st pop, but 2nd one sometimes struggle.

I've done that and jeez I gave the girl a huge Peter North style facial. There was a LOT of cum.

However, about 9 months ago I abstained for 6 weeks. No porn, no edging, no nothing.
Eventually I received two blow jobs and came twice within the space of 15 minutes.

Read into that what you like but I do think it tells its own story.

[yorkielad]

I have suffered with this problem in the past ie pumping away for what seems ages and no cum even though the girls were seriously fit...

Desperate to find a solution I bought some large/extra large condoms and bingo, success, and in about 10 to 20 mts too. The standard sized condoms as mostly provided by wg's constricted the fooookin el out of the lad and all sensation is gone making it almost impossible to finish as there was no movement on the skin. Changing to larger condoms allowed room for the lad to breathe and move naturally under the condom, vital for sensitivity, and resulting in a finish, most times......

Happy days 

[Arbetare]

I have suffered with this problem in the past ie pumping away for what seems ages and no cum even though the girls were seriously fit...

Desperate to find a solution I bought some large/extra large condoms and bingo, success, and in about 10 to 20 mts too. The standard sized condoms as mostly provided by wg's constricted the fooookin el out of the lad and all sensation is gone making it almost impossible to finish as there was no movement on the skin. Changing to larger condoms allowed room for the lad to breathe and move naturally under the condom, vital for sensitivity, and resulting in a finish, most times......

Happy days 

Nice one - not thought of that.

[the_exile]

Interesting thread. I wonder if any one has any thoughts on when you masturbate but then don't cum. Usually before seeing a wg I try to abstain for around 5-7 days before the meet. This of course gets me even more horny so I end up just edging but prevent myself from cumming in preparation for the meet.

Have tried that but it got silly all I was thinking about for most of the week was sex and when I would finally get to cum. The meet itself was great, fucked the girl 3 times in the two hours and really filled the first two condoms.

Sometimes I have found I have struggled to cum when there is too much lubrication and the girl is not very tight. The condom type used can also make a big difference. I try to not put too much pressure on myself to cum and enjoy the other sensations, certainly very exciting fucking a girl hard for a long time and having her cum with me inside her, with her absolutely soaking wet.

[uncle jessie]

at the appointed time, you aren't always feeling it, so it's not always a case of "Cometh the hour, cometh the man" so to speak.

Along with the fact a WG worth punting with is a bit like finding rocking horse manure in my area,I miss the spontaneity of the late 90's to about 2005'ish when I could feel horny and make a phone call and be balls deep in one of many an English WG within the hour is why I've not punted for about 18 months now  .

[jayjay28]

Have tried that but it got silly all I was thinking about for most of the week was sex and when I would finally get to cum. The meet itself was great, fucked the girl 3 times in the two hours and really filled the first two condoms.

Yes, exactly. On the other hand i have had meets where I masturbated the day before or a lot up to the meet and had a great time, with no issues cumming. I think the most important factors are your energy, putting too much pressure on yourself and the wg and whether she pushes your buttons right

[Ali Katt]

I've done that and jeez I gave the girl a huge Peter North style facial. There was a LOT of cum.

However, about 9 months ago I abstained for 6 weeks. No porn, no edging, no nothing.
Eventually I received two blow jobs and came twice within the space of 15 minutes.

Read into that what you like but I do think it tells its own story.

I abstained for four months. Makes no difference, but definitely makes you more sensitive. I usually shoot quick anyway, I even mention it in reviews. As I've said elsewhere I don't really like masturbating, it feels like a loss of control, I sometimes relapse, but I've pretty much given it up.

[bedhedred]

I am frequently rock hard from OWO and rimming but the second I try to fuck her he just drops to an 8/10 errection. Just enough so he's still hard but it starts to become difficult.
Either it makes it so I struggle to get a good angle for entry which causes an issue or he keeps coming out if she's on top for eg.
I've frequently just asked her to suck my cock a touch more and CIM.

Does my head in.

This exact thing happened to me a couple of times in recent months: Hot Ameera and MiaMoist. Very annoying it can be too.

I sometimes find that if I can get the sub-par hard on into the girl, then the sensations can sometimes get me back to full wood, but it only works with a good co operative SP.

[Silva21]

This exact thing happened to me a couple of times in recent months: Hot Ameera and MiaMoist. Very annoying it can be too.

I sometimes find that if I can get the sub-par hard on into the girl, then the sensations can sometimes get me back to full wood, but it only works with a good co operative SP.

I wondered if too much foreplay eventually desensitised me.
The last time it happened I had 45 minutes of foreplay.
Maybe if I had actually gone for two rounds and therfore commenced the actually sex part much earlier it wouldn't have happened.

[Alastor22]

I've done that and jeez I gave the girl a huge Peter North style facial. There was a LOT of cum.

However, about 9 months ago I abstained for 6 weeks. No porn, no edging, no nothing.
Eventually I received two blow jobs and came twice within the space of 15 minutes.

Read into that what you like but I do think it tells its own story.

I’ve never been able to cum in a meeting. I blame my head more than anything but also my masturbatory methods. So you’d say abstaining worked well for you?

[Silva21]

I’ve never been able to cum in a meeting. I blame my head more than anything but also my masturbatory methods. So you’d say abstaining worked well for you?

I cum in meets every time, sometimes twice and so it seems a different problem to mine.
Mine is sometimes I find the actual shagging part not all that erotic or I find it hard to get a good angle and he comes out and before I know it I can't be arsed and so just ask to be sucked off and cum that way.
In general I don't have a massive issue, I get rock hard, I enjoy the foreplay without an issue but sometimes I have the angle issue. Might also be that I'm a bit short so struggle in doggy sometimes. He just seems an 8/10 hard by the time I've pissed about behind the girl for a few minutes.

However, yes, abstaining without watching any porn or even thinking about sex for 6 weeks worked for me.
I've rarely wanked since in all honestly and things are a million times better.

I think watching porn and masturbating mentally desensitised me and I had to 'reboot' so to speak.

[Moby Dick]

I’m a messy fucker, rephrase: messy wanker.
I like to cum on her face, boobs, hair. I like to see how much of a mess I can make.
Cuming in a bag, nah that’s a waste, let them bad boys fly.
 
It is not as if suffocating little Moby with a condom makes him wilt or anything it just doesn’t feel as good as a BJ.
I used to cum up the chuff regularly. It was more of a case of trying to delay to get my monies worth back then. Maybe that’s why I need the full hour these days.
I recall my first attempt at anal. I was in the chuff and a WG told me to shove it up her arse, I came in the condom in my hand trying to get it in her wrong un. The thought of it was enough back then. Happy Days

I certainly blame porn.
I also blame a previous partner where we sometimes used the coitus interruptus method because she kept forgetting to take the pill (because she was going through her broody stage) Being a responsible type, delaying the costly inevitably for as long as possible, I got used to controlling when to cum and I enjoyed spunking on her tits and face from beneath her bunker. Happy Days

Edit: she got the house in the end.

[Silva21]

I’m a messy fucker, rephrase: messy wanker.
I like to cum on her face, boobs, hair. I like to see how much of a mess I can make.
Cuming in a bag, nah that’s a waste, let them bad boys fly.
 
It is not as if suffocating little Moby with a condom makes him wilt or anything it just doesn’t feel as good as a BJ.
I used to cum up the chuff regularly. It was more of a case of trying to delay to get my monies worth back then. Maybe that’s why I need the full hour these days.
I recall my first attempt at anal. I was in the chuff and a WG told me to shove it up her arse, I came in the condom in my hand trying to get it in her wrong un. The thought of it was enough back then. Happy Days

I certainly blame porn.
I also blame a previous partner where we sometimes used the coitus interruptus method because she kept forgetting to take the pill (because she was going through her broody stage) Being a responsible type, delaying the costly inevitably for as long as possible, I got used to controlling when to cum and I enjoyed spunking on her tits and face from beneath her bunker. Happy Days

Edit: she got the house in the end.

Ha! I'm not sure what the moral of your story is tbh but I wholeheartedly agree. Splashing cum everywhere is an absolutely awsome sight.

I want to make as much mess as possible too.... In fact, if I could guarantee I'd make a second pop them I'd love to cum all over a sp's face and then get her to leave it there until after I've come again and witness the carnage of it on her face twice.

I'm damned sure watching her deep throat me with her face and hair already coated on my cum would be an even bigger turn on.

Jesus, I'm unpleasantly filthy!

Edit - I've never tried anal because if fucking around behind her causes me to lose interest when I'm putting it in her pink I can't help but think I'd have double the issue trying to pot the brown... Which is a damned shame as I'd love to fuck an SP in the arse.

[Moby Dick]

Jesus, I'm unpleasantly filthy!

Nah, quite normal, besides She’s the one covered in cum not you.
Even better when’s it’s a gangbang with bukkake finish

[Silva21]

Nah, quite normal, besides She’s the one covered in cum not you.
Even better when’s it’s a gangbang with bukkake finish

Definitely talking my language.

I've got a punt booked in for next week and then it's a toss up (pun intended) between a duo or a gangbang next with bukake next.

[Moby Dick]

Definitely talking my language.

I've got a punt booked in for next week and then it's a toss up (pun intended) between a duo or a gangbang next with bukake next.

Glad to hear.
I do more gang bangs these days, works out much cheaper than FFM but you can’t beat 2 girls sucking your meat and rimming your arse at the same time.
Have to share your cum on their faces for a 3 way snowball. Don’t want to favour one by cumming in a bag lined chuff.

[Rockhead]

Mine is sometimes I find the actual shagging part not all that erotic or I find it hard to get a good angle and he comes out and before I know it I can't be arsed and so just ask to be sucked off and cum that way.

This demonstrates how different our issues can be. I've got the opposite issue.

No woman in my entire sexual history has ever succeeded in making me cum via a blow job. I've literally never been sucked off. I don't dislike it, but really don't feel much.
When I get properly turned on I really want penetration straight away - which is sort of impractical given most women's need / expectations of foreplay / warming up.

[Silva21]

This demonstrates how different our issues can be. I've got the opposite issue.

No woman in my entire sexual history has ever succeeded in making me cum via a blow job. I've literally never been sucked off. I don't dislike it, but really don't feel much.
When I get properly turned on I really want penetration straight away - which is sort of impractical given most women's need / expectations of foreplay / warming up.

There was a girl recently who lay me down, deep throated me and pushed a finger into my arse. It took everything I had to now blow instantly she was that good.
But then I'd turn her over, try to put him in, fuck about trying to get comfy and build a rhythm and by the time I actually got it going I wasn't really aroused anymore. Absolutely does my head in.

[tesla]

This demonstrates how different our issues can be. I've got the opposite issue.

No woman in my entire sexual history has ever succeeded in making me cum via a blow job. I've literally never been sucked off. I don't dislike it, but really don't feel much.
When I get properly turned on I really want penetration straight away - which is sort of impractical given most women's need / expectations of foreplay / warming up.

This like reading my life story. I also have never cum through a blow job, generally I just go soft

[ianchar14]

I think ive only ever come inside once or twice. Usually via blowjob or handjob.

[mradventures]

dont think ive come from just oral either, oral with hand i have

[NigelF]

dont think ive come from just oral either, oral with hand i have

That's surprising, your lack of reviews suggests you've never came. You should get going with that review you promised weeks ago:

will write it up tomorrow 

but she is very good at the gfe experience, and very pretty.

[mradventures]

Ha! I'm not sure what the moral of your story is tbh but I wholeheartedly agree. Splashing cum everywhere is an absolutely awsome sight.

I want to make as much mess as possible too.... In fact, if I could guarantee I'd make a second pop them I'd love to cum all over a sp's face and then get her to leave it there until after I've come again and witness the carnage of it on her face twice.

I'm damned sure watching her deep throat me with her face and hair already coated on my cum would be an even bigger turn on.

Jesus, I'm unpleasantly filthy!

Edit - I've never tried anal because if fucking around behind her causes me to lose interest when I'm putting it in her pink I can't help but think I'd have double the issue trying to pot the brown... Which is a damned shame as I'd love to fuck an SP in the arse.

get her to wear a butt plug, and after your messy facial no clean up, when you get hard again, have her lay on her back, legs up on her chest, remove the plug, get in there abit quick but slow, and when shes ready start fucking her.

[olddognewtricks49]

I envy you guys, Ive always been prone to PE, but in latter years, partly due to medications I dont get same sensations , very little ejaculate, and cum for want of better word, before entry, did have one girl who could suck me semi hard after till I felt the sensations though didnt cum

[akauya]

This demonstrates how different our issues can be. I've got the opposite issue.

No woman in my entire sexual history has ever succeeded in making me cum via a blow job. I've literally never been sucked off. I don't dislike it, but really don't feel much.
When I get properly turned on I really want penetration straight away - which is sort of impractical given most women's need / expectations of foreplay / warming up.

I'm sort of like that. Although I have come from a blowjob in the past, it takes forever for me to come that way. I do enjoy a good blowjob but ultimately it's penetration that does it for me.

[MME]

I also rarely cum with a blow job, have done maybe three times in my life. I used to think I was in a minority, apparently I'm not!

It's a shame really as I really do like to shoot my load and have it swallowed, whenever that happens though I've always got to wank myself off into her mouth which always seems like a waste to me - paying to wank off in a womans mouth when I could be up her cunt or arse.

[Titti Tatti]

I think if you are regularly masturbating multiple times a day then yes probably restraint is called for - but the whole no fap thing is a weird form of purity culture.

I find that the biggest help is getting into the mindset that it doesn't matter if I come or not, and what I'm there for is to enjoy the physical sensations of the particular moment and go along where-ever they lead -- this coupled with the gumption to give the WG fairly precise instructions if necessary lfor example, from experience being wanked or blown fast at ever increasing speeds *never* does it for me personally, and at that point I absolutely need to tell the WG to slow down and go sensual or I know its a waste of both time and money).

This.  I presume this works for 99% of their clients, but a girl who starts stroking me through my keks before even hugging, is going to get a long pounding before she gets instruction of what I like \ need to climax.  Fun and sensuality bring me close, mechanical rubbing doesn't