Well I sent another message, no reply.
I'm not going to get drawn into the he said/she said game. All I can say is, she is what I find to be attractive. While there are a number of females that are attractive, she is one of those that fit the bill more for me. I am therefore willing to take the chance. She has had lots of good feedback also.
As for excuses... well yes, I'm not surprised that the old excuses come out often when one of them changes their mind, or has something else come up. But what about those that genuinely are telling the truth? What if her sibling or parent died? We can't know that. So I'll remain neutral. And even if she is lying, her profile says she can't manage incalls all the time. For me, that suggests she shares accommodation,. maybe that other person came back (who might be a boyfriend) unexpectedly, and she doesn't want them finding out, so had to provide cover.
I'll try, if nothing happens, nothing happens. If it does, I'll be perfectly honest in the feedback (positive OR negative). I do9n't believe in being deceitful, so wouldn't lie. I'm betting I'd find it a positive experience though, obviously, or I'd not be taking the risk.
