Emotional Attachment Syndrome

[20jay]

I have had a case of EAS in the past. I think a lot of it is down to the way the SP behaves and often they are crossing the boundaries a bit.

I have also known that these SPs have got into relationships with clients. In my case she did just as she had added me to her "social circle" and when that ended she actually texted me to say she is working again and I had actually moved on but got hooked in at that point.

Relationships between SPs and clients can happen but you have to be very careful and it's probably best avoided unless you 1. really have enough disposable money and 2. are happy with the fact you'd be dating a SP.

Since feelings are something that is difficult to control, I believe that every punter has experienced such a situation before. However, the older you are, the less there is a risk imho, older donkeys (like me, for example) know how to live together with his great love after the initial fire only still glows a wee bit, many relationships only exist because of children, debts after buying a house, habit. At some point the children are out of the house and you have nothing to say to each other, that's it, then divorce. You pay off your, hopefully, good friend, end of the sad story.

Therefore, the old wise man no longer wants relationships, neither with friends in everyday life, nor with girls that he has to pay. That is my very personal view and not a wisdom of life.

Incidentally, I came on this thread after a forum member assumed for fun EAS after my comment.

[JonasG]

I remember one WG telling me how she gets marriage proposals and flowers from some punters.

Pretty tragic tbh.

Just can't fathom it.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Whats surprising about EAS anyway? Its an occupational hazard simple as that!.

However whilst i've recently been ranting re a girl who shags my brains out and vice versa no way could i get on with her in a day to day relationship!.

The really intresting question is where  do all the WG's go?, to normal stable relationships or end up as mad cat lady's??

[20jay]

Whats surprising about EAS anyway? Its an occupational hazard simple as that!.

However whilst i've recently been ranting re a girl who shags my brains out and vice versa no way could i get on with her in a day to day relationship!.

The really intresting question is where  do all the WG's go?, to normal stable relationships or end up as mad cat lady's??

Some may end up in the gutter, alcohol and drugs. I think most of them will have normal relationships at some point and live a completely civil life.

[SimonSays2108]

Having made the mistake (in my case) of having an affair with a WG - OH never knew the occupation - and ending it after it all came out in the open - i stupidly still know the WG - platonically and sporadically by phone rather than in person - i want to say that some just can't let go of the easy money aspect to escorting>

In my example she spent a fortune setting up a business and, against advice, going crazy on brand new equipment / state of the art decor / etc. rather than starting slow and making it work .. looks like she conned another punter (per companies house) to investing along side her and .. as you'd expect the business went south very quickly as, in her words, it was too much hard work getting up early every day and putting in the grind .. so she's back on the game ... having lost probably the best part of 30/40k ..

I do wonder as she gets older ... she's in her mid-30s, what she's going to do ... not my problem i guess and i'm only really a twice a year call /text on b'days, etc.

[20jay]

If I understand you correctly you weren't a customer of her ..no?

This was actually about customers of hookers who are emotionally drawn to them,  what the hooker uses to milk money as much as she can, or the guy is hopelessly in love and believes the hooker likes him instead of his money. Pretty Woman was a film, not a factual report.

[SimonSays2108]

I started as a customer and things evolved ... i sometimes wonder if i was milked .. however in time it became quite relationship like .. splitting bills .. she'd buy me things ... etc ... in total it prob wasn't 50/50 but what relationship is ... i was just sharing as i read the thread .. sorry if i took it OT ...

[20jay]

I started as a customer and things evolved ... i sometimes wonder if i was milked .. however in time it became quite relationship like .. splitting bills .. she'd buy me things ... etc ... in total it prob wasn't 50/50 but what relationship is ... i was just sharing as i read the thread .. sorry if i took it OT ...

No, I have to apologize, it was not clear to me that you were a customer. All good, nothing OT , cheers mate   

[Mr_Shins]

If I understand you correctly you weren't a customer of her ..no?

This was actually about customers of hookers who are emotionally drawn to them,  what the hooker uses to milk money as much as she can, or the guy is hopelessly in love and believes the hooker likes him instead of his money. Pretty Woman was a film, not a factual report.

Pretty woman was more sugar daddy / babe and it was more of him "rescuing" her from the street and he was absolutely super rich too. Even then it wasn't easy, if I recall, and she nearly left his lifestyle to go back to being independent.

[RogerBoner]

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Richard Gere falling in love with himself. Don't mention gerbils.
EAS was indistinguishable from true love in my experience.

[BarryProudfoot]

Sounds rather familiar. In the cold light of day it’s clear that the boundary crossing is designed to make you think there’s more to it than a paid transaction, especially when you both know they have dated clients before. Flirty texts between bookings, sending pictures etc, real names, that sort of thing. All quite cynical and manipulative but I’m sure they just see it as putting the work in for regular £££.

Girls you'll meet on nights out all do the same stuff hoping to be taken out the following weekend.   

[Dogfather]

Just don't ever, EVER, ask them out.

If they want to be with you then they will do all the work to show they want you. It will be very obvious.

If they don't then you are being milked royally.
And will very likely get less sex due to "talking about feelings" during your next booking.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Whats the differnce meeting a woman WG at Work, to any other woman at Work;?.

[Dogfather]

Whats the differnce meeting a woman WG at Work, to any other woman at Work;?.

If you are 50 and the girl is 20 (and beautiful) and you've had limited success with women all your life then I'd say the difference is money changing hands.

However, a fool and his money are soon parted.

[king tarzan]

It should be only temporary DICK ATTACHMENT..


Any other than that then the men are weak and sad to fall for a day in day out cock sucking slut..

[Home Alone]

It should be only temporary DICK ATTACHMENT..


Any other than that then the men are weak and sad to fall for a day in day out cock sucking slut..

Mind you, there's more than just those who don't approve of 'the industry' who would say that we're all - yes, even you and me, KT!  - sad for having to pay for the opportunity to have our cocks sucked, and more.

And how do you account for those - rare, I'll grant you - couples who've met as Escort and client?

[OakTree]

EAS is something that could befall anyone of us, even the most cynical and emotionally remote. It’s what you do with it that sorts the men from the boys.

Walk away or become like a besotted school girl.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

If you are 50 and the girl is 20 (and beautiful) and you've had limited success with women all your life then I'd say the difference is money changing hands.

However, a fool and his money are soon parted.

Well there was a bit of a gap betwixt me and the missus that cost a LOT  in court;!

Wimmen cost - end of;(.

[winkywanky]

It should be only temporary DICK ATTACHMENT..

KT, I want to congratulate you, assuming you are the first person here to coin that phrase, along with EAS (Emotional Attachment Syndrome) we now have TDA (Temporary Dick Attachment).

A quick & easy go-to moniker with which to assess the punting arena 

"Never get into the rather dangerous EAS, in reality this should never be more than a very simple and stress-free TDA".

[freeze44]

Just looking at AW and have a look at the feedback from chef69 for this wg....clearly an experienced punter who defo got a case of EAS! Why would someone announce that via feedback ffs???!

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[django0700]

Whats the differnce meeting a woman WG at Work, to any other woman at Work;?.

Huge difference------I cannot meet a woman at work and within 5 minutes ask her to suck me and then as soon as I get hard tell her that I want to fuck her asap.....

[Home Alone]

Just looking at AW and have a look at the feedback from chef69 for this wg....clearly an experienced punter who defo got a case of EAS! Why would someone announce that via feedback ffs???!

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   And the 19-y-o - Stated age  - of the object of his affections is nearly as bad.

I don't remember writing anything quite so cringeworthy when I had EAS.

[Murray Mint]

  And the 19-y-o - Stated age  - of the object of his affections is nearly as bad.

I don't remember writing anything quite so cringeworthy when I had EAS.

I don't think he has EAS at all - it's just the way he is. Look at the comments he has received going back three years. He clearly has a je ne sais quoi with these ladies! 

I had a super session with an SP on Tuesday. It was so good that at the end she asked me to marry her!

[Happylad]

Just looking at AW and have a look at the feedback from chef69 for this wg....clearly an experienced punter who defo got a case of EAS! Why would someone announce that via feedback ffs???!

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I don`t think it`s quite as bad as you suggest.  If you look back through the feedback he has given other girls you will see he`s pretty effusive in his praise for them as well although he uses a different style for each one.  My guess is that he has literary ambitions, writes love sonnets for amusement in his spare time, is a very good judge of female character, and quickly realises which buttons to press to charm the birds.

Must confess, I wish she was in my area - might get even my old juices running again, and I`m still up to running off the odd sonnet now and then.

[Payyourwaymate]

Just looking at AW and have a look at the feedback from chef69 for this wg....clearly an experienced punter who defo got a case of EAS! Why would someone announce that via feedback ffs???!

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You know, part of me wonders if AW punters write such insufferable feedback as the WGs will give them a good rating in return, eating up all the fluffy BS...so that in future when another prospective WG is looking at their (the punters) feedback history, it makes the process of booking them through AW much easier than going back and forth. The WG in question would think that the AW punter is a delightful fellow/sucker that will serenade them with a concoction of praise...so he must be a nice guy/easily manipulated and would be good for business when other prospective AW punters look at their ratings and see such acclaims. Perhaps it's an inception of an AW circle jerk between WGs and AW punters that naive punters wondering around in the dark, would fall for if they attach any sort of credibility to AW feedback.

Or maybe those men are really cut from the softest cloth of the finest silks, ready to lift their angels to great heights  . 

[freeze44]

You know, part of me wonders if AW punters write such insufferable feedback as the WGs will give them a good rating in return, eating up all the fluffy BS...so that in future when another prospective WG is looking at their (the punters) feedback history, it makes the process of booking them through AW much easier than going back and forth. The WG in question would think that the AW punter is a delightful fellow/sucker that will serenade them with a concoction of praise...so he must be a nice guy/easily manipulated and would be good for business when other prospective AW punters look at their ratings and see such acclaims. Perhaps it's an inception of an AW circle jerk between WGs and AW punters that naive punters wondering around in the dark, would fall for if they attach any sort of credibility to AW feedback.

Or maybe those men are really cut from the softest cloth of the finest silks, ready to lift their angels to great heights  .

  I think some love fluffy feedback and want the wg's to go ott as an ego boost.

The wg's must love these types...regs, easy shag and presents galore no doubt....but they want to forget some dirty bastard not far behind to cover their beloved wg in splaff! 

[winkywanky]

You know, part of me wonders if AW punters write such insufferable feedback as the WGs will give them a good rating in return, eating up all the fluffy BS...so that in future when another prospective WG is looking at their (the punters) feedback history, it makes the process of booking them through AW much easier than going back and forth.

The WG in question would think that the AW punter is a delightful fellow/sucker that will serenade them with a concoction of praise...so he must be a nice guy/easily manipulated and would be good for business when other prospective AW punters look at their ratings and see such acclaims. Perhaps it's an inception of an AW circle jerk between WGs and AW punters that naive punters wondering around in the dark, would fall for if they attach any sort of credibility to AW feedback.

Of course, that's exactly the case with AW feedback, and exactly why anyone would be foolish to attach any real meaning or truthfulness to it.

It's a virtuous circle of self-perpetuating bullshit, and precisely the reason why this place - UKP - exists. You can come and give an honest review here because the WG won't know who you are (unless you're foolish enough to use the same nickname), and therefore UKP is a fantastic resource for punters when trying to find a WG to meet their needs  .

[winkywanky]

...and following on from that, what is really funny is when new UKP members write their reviews in exactly that AW-style, not realising that what's required here is complete and unblinkered honesty.

But after they've had a couple of gentle face-slaps from gnarly and cynical members, they soon get into shape though  .

That's not to say some WGs should not be deserving of effusive praise of course, but only if they're really earnt it.

[OakTree]

Of course, that's exactly the case with AW feedback, and exactly why anyone would be foolish to attach any real meaning or truthfulness to it.

It's a virtuous circle of self-perpetuating bullshit, and precisely the reason why this place - UKP - exists. You can come and give an honest review here because the WG won't know who you are (unless you're foolish enough to use the same nickname), and therefore UKP is a fantastic resource for punters when trying to find a WG to meet their needs  .

It's very true. I've left very glowing feedback on AW (almost sickly) then came straight on here and written a negative review. 

[John Johnson]

...and following on from that, what is really funny is when new UKP members write their reviews in exactly that AW-style, not realising that what's required here is complete and unblinkered honesty.

But after they've had a couple of gentle face-slaps from gnarly and cynical members, they soon get into shape though  .

That's not to say some WGs should not be deserving of effusive praise of course, but only if they're really earnt it.

Yep, that was me. I wrote a fluffly review, posted it in the wrong place then got my bollocks fried by the regulars for being a wet prick. She was cute as hell though and it didn't con..........."oh shut up!" cried the crowd.

[winkywanky]

I'm sure you're over it  .

I can be a little 'effusive' in my reviews sometimes, rather than just matter-of-fact, but I always try to give a real picture of my own experience.

[Plan R]

Just looking at AW and have a look at the feedback from chef69 for this wg....clearly an experienced punter who defo got a case of EAS! Why would someone announce that via feedback ffs???!
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Yes it's OTT but he's probably just the poetic sort.

N, n, n, nineteen ? I wonder if she was really sure what was going on
 

[Simon_9000]

N, n, n, nineteen ? I wonder if she was really sure what was going on
 

  Nice!   

[Dogfather]

Strange how you are the one but when the times up alarm goes off I have to fuck off out of there real quick. 

In football terms its France vs San Marino. The chances of the San Marino win are on a par of you being special.

Don't ever ever ever ever ever ask them out.

[Mr_Shins]

Just looking at AW and have a look at the feedback from chef69 for this wg....clearly an experienced punter who defo got a case of EAS! Why would someone announce that via feedback ffs???!

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?She? the flowers ,the wing & spring .In all her spender sweetly surrounding. The love innocence? brings. xXx

his bad spelling (spender? should be splendour), but I recognise that as lyrics to "Almaz" by Randy Crawford.

[Mr_Shins]

I don`t think it`s quite as bad as you suggest.  If you look back through the feedback he has given other girls you will see he`s pretty effusive in his praise for them as well although he uses a different style for each one.  My guess is that he has literary ambitions, writes love sonnets for amusement in his spare time, is a very good judge of female character, and quickly realises which buttons to press to charm the birds.

Must confess, I wish she was in my area - might get even my old juices running again, and I`m still up to running off the odd sonnet now and then.

writes nothing just misquotes song lyrics

[workinallweek]

 seen the eas work the other way round twice both girld fall for a punter and at least in one case the punter continued to punt and the girl wondered why ...

[winkywanky]

seen the eas work the other way round twice both girld fall for a punter and at least in one case the punter continued to punt and the girl wondered why ...

I wonder who you could possibly mean? 

[Mr_Shins]

seen the eas work the other way round twice both girld fall for a punter and at least in one case the punter continued to punt and the girl wondered why ...

punter will take advantage if the girl fall for him and offers her services for free, but in the end a punter won't want to surrender his freedom most of the time, and especially if she's still working and thus having sex with other men, he'll want to still punt.

An "open" relationship where:
- The woman can have sex with other men as long as it's paid (thus just work)
- The guy can have sex with other women as long as he's paying for it (fancies a change, or services she doesn't offer).

but they otherwise do things together in a relationship kind of way not just sex...

is probably the only thing that will work unless she gives up working in that manner.

[workinallweek]

I wonder who you could possibly mean? 

The one who was shocked was a long time ago  not who your thinking

[king tarzan]

punter will take advantage if the girl fall for him and offers her services for free, but in the end a punter won't want to surrender his freedom most of the time, and especially if she's still working and thus having sex with other men, he'll want to still punt.

An "open" relationship where:
- The woman can have sex with other men as long as it's paid (thus just work)
- The guy can have sex with other women as long as he's paying for it (fancies a change, or services she doesn't offer).

but they otherwise do things together in a relationship kind of way not just sex...

is probably the only thing that will work unless she gives up working in that manner.

Which self respecting man in his right mind would go through all that ridiculous nonsense???


CERTAINLY NOT ME

just pay pump release and go!! 👅👅😋😋 Is the best emotionless/no feelings POLICY

[Home Alone]

And yet again, KT, you prove that "it takes all sorts" to make the world.

[king tarzan]

And yet again, KT, you prove that "it takes all sorts" to make the world.

Yep your spot on there 🐅🥊🥊🥊🥊

[winkywanky]

The one who was shocked was a long time ago  not who your thinking

 

[RandomGuy99]

Please define EAS?

[OakTree]

Please define EAS?

Emotional Attachment Syndrome.

Or commonly known on here as Cunt Struck.

[RandomGuy99]

Emotional Attachment Syndrome.

Or commonly known on here as Cunt Struck.

But what does that actually mean?

You love 'em or you don't want to upset them?

[OakTree]

But what does that actually mean?

You love 'em or you don't want to upset them?

Yes to be enamoured, in love, have strong feelings for. All of those things when common sense tells you it’s going nowhere. She only loves your wallet.

There are some WGs who may nip it in the bud but these are few and far between. Cash is king.

[EnglishRebecca121]

eas is soooo common especailly when a wg offers a gfe experience¬

[hunkybc]

I guess moral of the story is to not become a regular otherwise you risk emotional attachment. My advise is to play the field and if you get the urge to keep going back to the same one, have a wank instead!