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Hyborean

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Let this be a warning to the newer punters..

I have been punting for a few years, nowhere near Nik's 30 though. I am aware that this probably makes me still a noob to some people.
I have Fluffy tendencies (because I love women I guess) but hate being taken for a ride. I suspect that fluffiness tends to disappear at a proportional rate to the money you spend.
I am very aware that prossies are brilliant actresses who will be whatever you want them to be to make you part with cash. I am not naive.

I started seeing a WG as a regular a while ago something clicked inside of me. I thought I was c*nt-struck and did everything I could to get passed it.
I stayed away for as long as possible. I punted until I could punt no more with other girls who are prettier and were better in the sack (TBH she wasn't even that great in bed). No matter what I did, I couldn't stay away long. When this WG smiled, it turned the lights on to the world.

My head had a complete freak out. I know there is no way it could ever work for real. There is a list of arguments as long the day is long why this was a bad idea. I told myself them over and over.
Although I know she was fond of me, I have no idea whether she liked me as much as her pet dog. None of this mattered.

I woke up one day and realised that I had fallen for prossie hook, line and sinker. The sensible thing would have been to just go cold turkey and get over her. I was just not strong enough to do it. The best I could manage was fucking as many others as possible in the hope that my feelings would disappear. They never did.

She has now returned home (she is EE) and is unlikely to return. This is probably the best thing in the long run but I now feel as bad as I did when my marriage fell apart.

After a bad experience last night trying to get over her, I have lost the will to punt. I shall have to wait for old man time to work his magic.
Until then I think I shall dive to the bottom of a river of whisky..

This shit happens, even when you know it's wrong and has no happy endings.


Hyborean

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How old are you?

I gather you think I am overly young from my post? I left school a couple a decades ago.

Rochdull lad

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Fwiw, Melb; I don't think age comes into it.  Which is why, in the days when we had "signature" lines, mine was "I am a very foolish, fond old man."

A very eloquent lesson, Hyborean.  I'm sure you won't have been the only [other] one to have been there and done more or less that. 

Offline punk

You have to remember most not all are in it for the money!!!Some like the sex also.Thats it, i try to treat my time as sex only than once out the door thats it deal done until next time, you get enough shit from regular english girls fucking you around!!!!! :dash:

Closet freak

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Let this be a warning to the newer punters..


I am very aware that prossies are brilliant actresses who will be whatever you want them to be to make you part with cash. I am not naive

You are if you believe that  :D

Offline punk

If they can be bothered even with that :bomb:

Offline Tailpipe

Hyborean

Easy to fall down this rabbit hole been there done that did not like it.


Head fucked by fanny happens to a lot of people, few will admit  :drinks:

You can warn but when the lighting hits , its game over tilt .  :bomb:

Offline smiths

You have to remember most not all are in it for the money!!!Some like the sex also.Thats it, i try to treat my time as sex only than once out the door thats it deal done until next time, you get enough shit from regular english girls fucking you around!!!!! :dash:

Of course most are in it for the money, if they werent they could go Swinging and/or pulling and get as much cock as they wanted and not charge. Its their way of earning a living, many people work for the money rather than the money and enjoying their job. Why would WGs be any different in this regard, i daresay some do enjoy at least aspects of being a WG though.

As to the OP, its best in my view to punt and go with no strings, can be hard on ocassion though as i well know. Some WGs really are excellent actresses, they learn to be day in day out and can be very convincing, as long as a punter knows its very likely to just be acting then no harm done, if a punter thinks its more then thats likely to cause disappointment.

Offline Tailpipe

Of course most are in it for the money, if they werent they could go Swinging and/or pulling and get as much cock as they wanted and not charge. Its their way of earning a living, many people work for the money rather than the money and enjoying their job. Why would WGs be any different in this regard, i daresay some do enjoy at least aspects of being a WG though.

As to the OP, its best in my view to punt and go with no strings, can be hard on ocassion though as i well know. Some WGs really are excellent actresses, they learn to be day in day out and can be very convincing, as long as a punter knows its very likely to just be acting then no harm done, if a punter thinks its more then thats likely to cause disappointment.

Smiths

Many would wish for your clarity of thought and mental control on this subject , may be they prey on us fluffiest of punters.

A few let downs and a kick the bollocks will in time remove this fluffiness from most. 

Offline smiths

Smiths

Many would wish for your clarity of thought and mental control on this subject , may be they prey on us fluffiest of punters.

A few let downs and a kick the bollocks will in time remove this fluffiness from most.

I have learnt the hard way though TP, a fair bit of pain along the way has of course influenced my views on this. :hi:

Offline Tailpipe

I have learnt the hard way though TP, a fair bit of pain along the way has of course influenced my views on this. :hi:


In a way its reasuring that we have all had a bit of pain , and no one is above it.  :drinks:

BristolP

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The important thing to remember is that your time with the WG maybe your only time with a woman. But she will be with another guy later in the day and the next day, and the day after that, etc.

It may be a very intense experience for you, but she won’t spend any time obsessing about you. This is the only way she could be any good at her job. Focusing on the guy she is with at the time, and then forgetting about him after he has gone. I am not being cruel by telling this.

I enjoy GFE and have a regular who I see every 3 or 4 weeks but I don’t forget that I am paying her to be nice to me. I know that if she does think about me between meetings it is only to think about the easy money she will earn from a dependable regular,

Offline punk

The important thing to remember is that your time with the WG maybe your only time with a woman. But she will be with another guy later in the day and the next day, and the day after that, etc.

It may be a very intense experience for you, but she won’t spend any time obsessing about you. This is the only way she could be any good at her job. Focusing on the guy she is with at the time, and then forgetting about him after he has gone. I am not being cruel by telling this.

I enjoy GFE and have a regular who I see every 3 or 4 weeks but I don’t forget that I am paying her to be nice to me. I know that if she does think about me between meetings it is only to think about the easy money she will earn from a dependable regular,

+1 ;)

Rochdull lad

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The important thing to remember is that your time with the WG maybe your only time with a woman. But she will be with another guy later in the day and the next day, and the day after that, etc.

It may be a very intense experience for you, but she won’t spend any time obsessing about you. This is the only way she could be any good at her job. Focusing on the guy she is with at the time, and then forgetting about him after he has gone. I am not being cruel by telling this.

I enjoy GFE and have a regular who I see every 3 or 4 weeks but I don’t forget that I am paying her to be nice to me. I know that if she does think about me between meetings it is only to think about the easy money she will earn from a dependable regular,

No dis-respect, Bristol; but I think that's a bit of a generalization.

Like you, I go for a GFE service; and I think you're dead right when you say we need to remember that, shortly after we've left the WG with a rosy glow and happpy memories [hopefully], she'll probably be busy doing exactly the same with some other bloke that she did with, and to, us.  The difficulty, as Hyborean pointed out, comes when the punter falls "hook, line & sinker"; and when, as you pointed out, we let ourselves forget what she's probably doing when we're on our way home from our punt with her.

However where I think you may be incorrect is in your assertion that
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if she does think about me between meetings it is only to think about the easy money she will earn from a dependable regular
[My emphasis.]

Fwiw, I think it's possible for some punters to be friends with some WGs.  A regular of mine [someone who also knows hp!] retired two or three years ago, but I'm still in contact socially with her.

I go for GFE from a couple of Regulars and one other WG whom I see from time to time.  I know because my Regulars have been in touch with me between punts - I see each of the two them regularly; but not that often [certainly not as often as I'd like - about 3-monthly] - about general stuff.  One of them has told me that, if I got into a relationship and gave up punting, she'd still like to meet up with me socially [no sex involved] from time to time.

BristolP

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Hi Rochdale
I am certainly fond of my regular, and you are right the word “only” is probably incorrect. I believe that my reg does have respect for me, otherwise I wouldn’t continue to see her.
I think the reason a punter would fall for a WG is because he thinks there is a chance of more, so I think if Hyborean considers my last post it may bring his relationship with the WG into perspective.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Only a very hard bastard could punt for 30 years and not have feelings for at least one pro$$ie --------- just bear in mind that they are working and they want your money ------- nothing else.    :hi:

BaddaBanger

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I’m glad you started this thread as it’s something I can easily relate to as I went through the exact same thing.

It’s very easy to forget when you see a regular that an emotional attachment can develop, be it one sided. And it’s very easy to lose sight of the fact that it’s a prossie who is saying and doing what she needs to get the money.

The worst thing for me is that I thought that the friendship with my regular was at least genuine. I realise now that it wasn’t and it was one sided. That’s the part which is the hardest to get over as I’ve never been the sort of bloke that pretends to like or be friends with someone when I’m not. Without sounding fluffy, I would have done anything for my regular and would have stood by her through thick and thin. Stupid I know.

As punters we are all different, and we have different reasons for punting. So now when I look at aw I’ll come across one that I fancy a punt with, but then I just don’t have the stomach to go through with it.

Will I punt again? I don’t know. For me it’s pointless punting and a waste of money if it doesn’t make me feel happy.

So I read the posts here on UKP, contribute when I can, and just stick around for the banter as some of the discussions do make me laugh and cheer me up.  :D

Hyborean

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Thanks for all the words of wisdom and advice guys.
The bit got me was I guess that I knew most of this. There is probably a whole heap of fun a psychologist could have with me analysing why I fell for a prossie knowing I was probably just a rent-paying number.

I guess I just wasn't vigilant enough. By the time I realised, it was just too late. Like a drug addiction. I couldn't stop. It took her leaving to end it.

I seriously wonder, even now, if she came back, whether I could stay away. Maybe I should put my punting money towards a therapist for a while!  :D

Hyborean

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I’m glad you started this thread as it’s something I can easily relate to as I went through the exact same thing.

It’s very easy to forget when you see a regular that an emotional attachment can develop, be it one sided. And it’s very easy to lose sight of the fact that it’s a prossie who is saying and doing what she needs to get the money.

The worst thing for me is that I thought that the friendship with my regular was at least genuine. I realise now that it wasn’t and it was one sided. That’s the part which is the hardest to get over as I’ve never been the sort of bloke that pretends to like or be friends with someone when I’m not. Without sounding fluffy, I would have done anything for my regular and would have stood by her through thick and thin. Stupid I know.

As punters we are all different, and we have different reasons for punting. So now when I look at aw I’ll come across one that I fancy a punt with, but then I just don’t have the stomach to go through with it.

Will I punt again? I don’t know. For me it’s pointless punting and a waste of money if it doesn’t make me feel happy.

So I read the posts here on UKP, contribute when I can, and just stick around for the banter as some of the discussions do make me laugh and cheer me up.  :D

Well if that doesn't sum up exactly how I am feeling right now...
+1

Offline smiths

Only a very hard bastard could punt for 30 years and not have feelings for at least one pro$$ie --------- just bear in mind that they are working and they want your money ------- nothing else.    :hi:

Good post Jim, yes a hard bastard or an emotional robot.  :D

Offline smiths

Thanks for all the words of wisdom and advice guys.
The bit got me was I guess that I knew most of this. There is probably a whole heap of fun a psychologist could have with me analysing why I fell for a prossie knowing I was probably just a rent-paying number.

I guess I just wasn't vigilant enough. By the time I realised, it was just too late. Like a drug addiction. I couldn't stop. It took her leaving to end it.

I seriously wonder, even now, if she came back, whether I could stay away. Maybe I should put my punting money towards a therapist for a while!  :D

IMO its harder nowadays than in my early punting days when kissing was rarely on the menu, my punting then was a much colder experience generally compared to now, (and it was just as AIDS was becoming a massive thing) so i can understand how much easier it can be to misread a WG, as i said before if they happen to be good actresses it can be even harder.

In the main its easy for me now as i can honestly say why would most good looking say 25 year old women actually have real feelings for me, they have no idea about my personal situation so i could be skint as far as they would know as fact, and i am no oil painting accept if its of an Elephant man lookalike. :scare: :hi:

Offline punk

Good post Jim, yes a hard bastard or an emotional robot.  :D

is that not what some escorts are? :D

Offline smiths

is that not what some escorts are? :D

What, Hard and/or Robots, i have found some EE WGs to be robotic, and i have also met some really hardfaced WGs, fortunately many more that werent though. :hi:

charming_red

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I'm kind of having this issue at the moment. Seen a girl several times, we've become 'friendly' enough with each other to become friends on facebook. Shes genuine, but I don't know what she really thinks of me.

I know I shouldn't but I'm thinking of taking her out as 'friends' when she returns from her hols just to get to know her on a more personal level. And I'm slowly losing the urge to punt with other girls too. I'm such a pussy  :blush:

 :wacko:

LL

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I woke up one day and realised that I had fallen for prossie hook, line and sinker.

I guess I just wasn't vigilant enough. By the time I realised, it was just too late. Like a drug addiction. I couldn't stop. It took her leaving to end it.

These two statements are incompatible.  You didn't actually fall for her you just thought you did.  "Like a drug addiction".  That's an infatuation my friend.  I don't believe you can fall in love with somebody without getting to know them properly.  By that I mean spending time with them without having to pay for the privilege.  Spending time with somebody without having to keep secrets from them because you cannot allow yourself to fully trust them.  During your "drug addiction" - did you feel happy when you weren't with her?  I suspect not.  This is not a good state to get yourself into and it certainly isn't love.

I've been there - infatuated with a WG (a Polish girl) and it's shit.  At least I learned from it.
I still put a lot of emotions into my punts sometimes - if I meet the right girl (or is that the wrong girl?); if she gives me a lot of eye contact during sex, passionate kissing.  I.e. a really convincing GFE.  However, my recovery time after such a punt has improved (by that I mean the amount of time it takes me to get my head out of the clouds and come back down to Earth).

Hyborean

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I'm kind of having this issue at the moment. Seen a girl several times, we've become 'friendly' enough with each other to become friends on facebook. Shes genuine, but I don't know what she really thinks of me.

I know I shouldn't but I'm thinking of taking her out as 'friends' when she returns from her hols just to get to know her on a more personal level. And I'm slowly losing the urge to punt with other girls too. I'm such a pussy  :blush:

 :wacko:

And I bet with all the sane advice in this thread, your *probably duped* heart will do the deciding.. Head says one thing and then she smiles at you and you would do absolutely anything to be the reason for that smile again..
Good luck.

Hyborean

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These two statements are incompatible.  You didn't actually fall for her you just thought you did.  "Like a drug addiction".  That's an infatuation my friend.  I don't believe you can fall in love with somebody without getting to know them properly.  By that I mean spending time with them without having to pay for the privilege.  Spending time with somebody without having to keep secrets from them because you cannot allow yourself to fully trust them.  During your "drug addiction" - did you feel happy when you weren't with her?  I suspect not.  This is not a good state to get yourself into and it certainly isn't love.

I've been there - infatuated with a WG (a Polish girl) and it's shit.  At least I learned from it.
I still put a lot of emotions into my punts sometimes - if I meet the right girl (or is that the wrong girl?); if she gives me a lot of eye contact during sex, passionate kissing.  I.e. a really convincing GFE.  However, my recovery time after such a punt has improved (by that I mean the amount of time it takes me to get my head out of the clouds and come back down to Earth).

Infatuation, love. They are interchangeable to a certain degree in that they convey emotional attachment - hence the name of this thread.
I am well aware that the person I felt something for may not have been real in any sense other than the experience. But then, experience is reality.
Whatever you call it, she made me happy and not just when I saw her so maybe a drug addiction isn't quite the right analogy.

Overall, neither here nor there. I may have become emotionally attached to fantasy or to real person who just knew better. The point is the attachment was real, whatever you call it. I will get over it. It was not a sane logical response knowing everything I do, but that is kind of the point.

Someday, somewhere, there will be a girl who can push exactly all the right buttons who will make not give a flying fuck whether or not you should feel something or not because you just will. If you see enough girls and aren't a robot, one will come along.

Wiltsboy01

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I am well aware that the person I felt something for may not have been real in any sense other than the experience. But then, experience is reality.

Sex and 'making love' are the same physical thing so I can see how the brain can mix them up, to the detriment of your emotional wellbeing.

I think it's easier for the guys who punt for the sex and are lucky enough to get their fill of the emotional side from their partners.  I do realise how lucky I am to be in that group.

Offline Tailpipe

Sex and 'making love' are the same physical thing so I can see how the brain can mix them up, to the detriment of your emotional wellbeing.

I think it's easier for the guys who punt for the sex and are lucky enough to get their fill of the emotional side from their partners.  I do realise how lucky I am to be in that group.


Good point , as the fairer sex are prone to emotional attachment , think its easy to see how a WGs
Head gets fucked up after years in the job.

BaddaBanger

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Good point , as the fairer sex are prone to emotional attachment , think its easy to see how a WGs
Head gets fucked up after years in the job.

TP, as always, you seem to have hit the nail on the head. :thumbsup:

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Good point , as the fairer sex are prone to emotional attachment , think its easy to see how a WGs
Head gets fucked up after years in the job.

That's true as we do form emotional attachments at times to our clients.  it can be hard not to when you see them regularly and spend a lot of time talking and kissing before play time.  It can be very hard to try and keep things professional and keep that needed distance as when you have been seeing someone every week for over a year they do tend to know a lot about your real life and you know about theirs too so you do become friends but sometimes feelings run deeper than that.
Personally I have had two clients I had to stop seeing as I had feelings for them and felt it better to stop contact than to complicate things.
Some people tend to forget we are humans too and do have feelings and don't always see men as just money machines

BaddaBanger

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I'm kind of having this issue at the moment. Seen a girl several times, we've become 'friendly' enough with each other to become friends on facebook. Shes genuine, but I don't know what she really thinks of me.

I know I shouldn't but I'm thinking of taking her out as 'friends' when she returns from her hols just to get to know her on a more personal level. And I'm slowly losing the urge to punt with other girls too. I'm such a pussy  :blush:

 :wacko:

Let me give you the benefit of my experience of how this will play out:

She'll become more and more friendly and start to cross the boundaries that exist between a prossie and the punter. You'll be happy as you'll think you're becoming real friends. You'll start to see her socially, probably at her request. More and more boundaries will get crossed by her, and you'll be more than happy to go along with it and will feel on top of the world.  :)

Then you'll cross a small boundary, then BOOM! She'll shout at you that you've crossed the professional boundaries and the friendship that you thought you had will be over.

Don't go there buddy, it'll only end one way, BADLY :dash:

BaddaBanger

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That's true as we do form emotional attachments at times to our clients.  it can be hard not to when you see them regularly and spend a lot of time talking and kissing before play time.  It can be very hard to try and keep things professional and keep that needed distance as when you have been seeing someone every week for over a year they do tend to know a lot about your real life and you know about theirs too so you do become friends but sometimes feelings run deeper than that.
Personally I have had two clients I had to stop seeing as I had feelings for them and felt it better to stop contact than to complicate things.
Some people tend to forget we are humans too and do have feelings and don't always see men as just money machines

Dani, I think it gets forgotten that us punters are human too. :)

Offline Tailpipe

That's true as we do form emotional attachments at times to our clients.  it can be hard not to when you see them regularly and spend a lot of time talking and kissing before play time.  It can be very hard to try and keep things professional and keep that needed distance as when you have been seeing someone every week for over a year they do tend to know a lot about your real life and you know about theirs too so you do become friends but sometimes feelings run deeper than that.
Personally I have had two clients I had to stop seeing as I had feelings for them and felt it better to stop contact than to complicate things.
Some people tend to forget we are humans too and do have feelings and don't always see men as just money machines


Think that's the difference dani , you were able to break the connection , as would Jim or smiths
Problem comes when punter or WG can not break away . I would suspect the strength showed by you three is not common place , its more likely that punter and WG would continue into the black hole
Those events create.   

Hyborean

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Think that's the difference dani , you were able to break the connection , as would Jim or smiths
Problem comes when punter or WG can not break away . I would suspect the strength showed by you three is not common place , its more likely that punter and WG would continue into the black hole
Those events create.
+1

Offline Horizontal pleasures

Thanks for all the words of wisdom and advice guys.
The bit got me was I guess that I knew most of this. There is probably a whole heap of fun a psychologist could have with me analysing why I fell for a prossie knowing I was probably just a rent-paying number.

I guess I just wasn't vigilant enough. By the time I realised, it was just too late. Like a drug addiction. I couldn't stop. It took her leaving to end it.

I seriously wonder, even now, if she came back, whether I could stay away. Maybe I should put my punting money towards a therapist for a while!  :D

the psych word is transference

Hyborean

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Offline Tailpipe

Great, now I have an actual diagnosis!  :crazy:


Its not going to help , whiskey will but in reducing amounts over time .
plus plenty of interaction with others even if its the pub .

Hyborean

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Its not going to help , whiskey will but in reducing amounts over time .
plus plenty of interaction with others even if its the pub .

Too true. Whisky soak in progress. Social interaction may have to wait a while. This is as social as I can be for the moment.

Offline Tailpipe

Too true. Whisky soak in progress. Social interaction may have to wait a while. This is as social as I can be for the moment.


That's because you wish to OD on self pity , as we are all needy cunts at heart.

Small steps and time , sleep , healthily food . Back off the whiskey as you can.

Get out there and have some proper chavy punts .  :hi:

Hyborean

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That's because you wish to OD on self pity , as we are all needy cunts at heart.

Small steps and time , sleep , healthily food . Back off the whiskey as you can.

Get out there and have some proper chavy punts .  :hi:

Cheers TailPipe.  :hi:

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It's best to get back in the saddle when you get the chance, many women can make you feel the same thing, finding them is the hard part.

Offline Tailpipe

Cheers TailPipe.  :hi:


Not sure where you are based but if its London and the south east , can point you
To some nice WGs that will ease the pain .  :hi:

Rochdull lad

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I'm kind of having this issue at the moment. Seen a girl several times, we've become 'friendly' enough with each other to become friends on facebook. Shes genuine, but I don't know what she really thinks of me.

I know I shouldn't but I'm thinking of taking her out as 'friends' when she returns from her hols just to get to know her on a more personal level. And I'm slowly losing the urge to punt with other girls too. I'm such a pussy  :blush:

 :wacko:

Sorry to reveal myself as a real old fogey who has no intention of ever joining the Facebook generation, but in terms of commitment, what does "being friends on Facebook" actually mean, red?

Sorry, also, to come over as "devil's advocate" so to speak; I'm only asking as one [of quite a few, it turns out from reading this thread!] who've been where you seem to be heading and wouldn't want you to make the same mistakes that some of us have done, without weighing up the consequences.

Although you're "friends on Facebook" with this WG, you admit you don't know what she really thinks of you.  Does it follow from that that she doesn't know you're intending taking her out as "friends" when she returns from her hols?  And if she doesn't know that, have you asked yourself what her reaction is going to be when you float the idea with her?

What if she says that going out as friends isn't going to be "off the meter" - remember; Escorting's her job.  So how do you react if that's what she says?  Can you afford to keep paying the appropriate fee to take her out as friends as often as you'd like to, as well as paying for the meal, the film, the theatre; whatever you planned ?  If you can't, then it's probably just as well that you're losing the urge to punt with other girls.

Sorry to come across as so negative; I hope you'll perhaps think of it as realistic.

Offline Tailpipe

I'm kind of having this issue at the moment. Seen a girl several times, we've become 'friendly' enough with each other to become friends on facebook. Shes genuine, but I don't know what she really thinks of me.

I know I shouldn't but I'm thinking of taking her out as 'friends' when she returns from her hols just to get to know her on a more personal level. And I'm slowly losing the urge to punt with other girls too. I'm such a pussy  :blush:

 :wacko:


Some good advice from RL , ask yourself this if you take her out and it goes well , at some point
Down the line you are going to ask her to stop working as you are not going to be happy if  2 to 5 blokes
Are fucking your GF everyday . Think clearly before you cross this line .

charming_red

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Thanks RL and Tailpipe  :thumbsup: I'm not really planning on making her my gf, just wanna get to know her more at a personal level as I find her a very interesting person and she has good views on a lot of things. We've developed a good level of trust and I must admit I do somewhat care about her and would like to see the other side of her away from the bedroom where we just fuck and talk. I never went into punting because I couldn't get sex, just the short term excitement of picking a girl as I haven't got the time for relationships right now. I'm more interested in people and since getting into this business I guess I have that desire to find out more about her. I know the GF thing isn't gonna work and I'm not planning it either - she doesn't intend to work or stay in London doing this shit long term anyway and already has her own business (not escorting). And I certainly won't be moving away to be with her. I think infatuation is a better way to describe it and I'm trying not to get suckered too much into it or too emotional.

However if she starts handing out freebies things could change  :P

But thats why you guys are here, help me think with my brain and not my dick  :thumbsup:

Cossack

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How i see it is you did  fall in love with WG no shame in that some of them look amazing fuck amazing etc. So nothing strange in that i bet good number of guys who punt  fallen for WG just they do not want to admit it ...

I will tell you a story what happened to me when i was 16-17 ...
I was in military academy and i just past year with flying colors so my cousin who was a Brothel&Strip club owner told me he have surprise for me in club ! i knew straight away what it is so i ask can i bring few friends from academy he say bring whoever you want...
To cut story short there was around 10+ girls working there i chose one amazing looking girl she was 27 she did fucked my brains out so i continue coming back for like 3 more nights (It was all free of course ) ...When my Cousin find out that i was banging the same girl all the time he grab me nearly kicked my arse ...he told me you can come back but you cant fuck that girl anymore you can fuck any other girl you want but not that girl i told him i don't want to fuck any other girl i want that one  :D

So the whole point of the story is if you become regular there is big chance you will fall for the girl in question,like i did,it does not have to be, but chances are bigger ...
I have a rule soon i start liking WG i just cut her off ...
I m happily married man but my work keep me sometimes for 15 days out of home i have needs  :lol: but i cant afford to fuck my life over ...
To get that girl out of your head medicine is simple Vodka&Women +spending time with your m8`s and did i say women ? Yea a lot of different women...
Good luck in recovery,get well soon  :)

Melb

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I wanted a rough idea of your age as it affects my response, I didn't have an preconceptions.
You're in a bad place and I feel for you, genuine sympathy not pity.

I hope time and perspective help you get back your emotional well-being. Do all the things that make you happy, friends pubs gym...whatever.

When you come out if it, you will be stronger.
I wish you well.

Hyborean

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I wanted a rough idea of your age as it affects my response, I didn't have an preconceptions.
You're in a bad place and I feel for you, genuine sympathy not pity.

I hope time and perspective help you get back your emotional well-being. Do all the things that make you happy, friends pubs gym...whatever.

When you come out if it, you will be stronger.
I wish you well.

Thanks Melb. Much appreciated.