Emotional Attachment Syndrome

[Brazilian Martian]

Totally agree.

There's a few who've posted in this thread who I strongly suspect use the process of paying for sex as a foot in the door to purposely try and form a relationship. It stikes me as odd that some seem to have had EAS with numerous WGs.

Then these twats normally turn nasty and start to either stalk or try and out the prossies that do not return back the affection. These guys need to realise it's a business transaction it's not a friendship or relationship it's strictly business.

[Silver Birch]

As a youth I used to get attached to new girfriends a bit too quickly  , so I would seem a prime target for EAS. But never had it.

The reason I put it down to, I punt for sex and nothing else. My theory of EAS is that the punter would really like more (not necessarily a relationship, but to be a special punter maybe), or is at least leaving themselves open to the option, even if it is subconciously.

I met a wg a few times who made it clear that she was willing to spend unpaid leisure time with some of her punters. I never got to find out if this offer was open to me (I can't think why she mentioned it otherwise though), because that is not why I punt.

[Brazilian Martian]

As a youth I used to get attached to new girfriends a bit too quickly  , so I would seem a prime target for EAS. But never had it.

The reason I put it down to, I punt for sex and nothing else. My theory of EAS is that the punter would really like more (not necessarily a relationship, but to be a special punter maybe), or is at least leaving themselves open to the option, even if it is subconciously.

I met a wg a few times who made it clear that she was willing to spend unpaid leisure time with some of her punters. I never got to find out if this offer was open to me (I can't think why she mentioned it otherwise though), because that is not why I punt.

Did you talk alot during your punts with her, as I've had brothel girls attempt to ask me personal questions before the only thing I normally talk about with prossies are tattoos or if they are from Brazil we normally have a joke about which football team they support. But that's where I draw the line, I've had a convo once with a young romanian about cars and insurance when she told that she wanted to buy a Mercedes G wagon 
We have to remember women are masters at manipulation 

[Silver Birch]

We have to remember women are masters at manipulation 

We do indeed!

[JohnnyPark]

Then these twats normally turn nasty and start to either stalk or try and out the prossies that do not return back the affection. These guys need to realise it's a business transaction it's not a friendship or relationship it's strictly business.

I'm with you on that. Those are mentally unbalanced guys. The woman I asked out, off the clock. Told me about 2 previous clients. 1 was just a needy stalker constantly texting and phoning. The other just got free sex off her and then fucked off. I've told her I'm not those guys but how does she know that?

I don't have EAS. I thought I did. It is her who has over stepped the boundaries of the escort/client transaction. I don't mean that in a bad way because I don't think she realised she was doing it and I feel honoured she has trusted me, with personal information, from day 1.

Before you say it, no that is not her MO with all her clients. I'd already scuppered any future paying, business transactions by asking her out and then asked her was her getting personal with me from day 1 just her being very good at her job? She was a little hurt by that and said I am the only client she is personal with. Why would she lie?

I have to wait now for her to think about things. If I don't hear from her I will be sad but I respect her decision and I will move on.

[two20]

Never had it and I don't think I ever would. I'm punting for sex and enjoy the company of those offering it. Would I want a potential partner to maybe have slept with 500 men, definitely not.

[Brazilian Martian]

Never had it and I don't think I ever would. I'm punting for sex and enjoy the company of those offering it. Would I want a potential partner to maybe have slept with 500 men, definitely not.

My thoughts exactly that's why I personally could not entertain a relationship with someone that's sells there body. Much respect for them for being able to make money, but I can't  explain to my family Ohh yeah she used to suck cock for a living but she's a very nice person and I love her 

[Melfort212]

My thoughts exactly that's why I personally could not entertain a relationship with someone that's sells there body. Much respect for them for being able to make money, but I can't  explain to my family Ohh yeah she used to suck cock for a living but she's a very nice person and I love her 

+1

While you have to have a certain level of respect for WGs it's probably wise to think of them as just WGs.

[GolfNut]

My thoughts exactly that's why I personally could not entertain a relationship with someone that's sells there body. Much respect for them for being able to make money, but I can't  explain to my family Ohh yeah she used to suck cock for a living but she's a very nice person and I love her 

Interesting opinion BM. Just look at the rise in SA over the last few years and the number of SD's and SB's and it looks like there are plenty out there looking for something more than just a punt. One or two have migrated from here to SA too haven't they?

I doubt they are all looking for a wife or someone to settle down with. Just a different type of relationship to the standard punter/wg set up.

[Brazilian Martian]

Interesting opinion BM. Just look at the rise in SA over the last few years and the number of SD's and SB's and it looks like there are plenty out there looking for something more than just a punt. One or two have migrated from here to SA too haven't they?

I doubt they are all looking for a wife or someone to settle down with. Just a different type of relationship to the standard punter/wg set up.

If I had to guess most of those guys are single, I could not imagine a married or a guy in a relationship being able to obsess over a prossie as they would not have enough time to do that.  I'm currently in a relationship  and I have to do almost jason bourne movements to be able to punt sometimes.

When ever i hear about EAS I think about last year when that weirdo Yorkshire kept on harassing the prossie from Newcastle.

But then what is a different type of relationship if you are paying for sex it's still a business transaction she's still a prossie and the guy is a punter 

[Jeff_withpetersen]

Boiled down to it's centre, EAS amounts to 'I think I'm more special than the other 10 or 20 guys that have gone balls deep inside this prostitute this week... the fact she claims to value me as a person has nothing to do with her making more money out of me, she really cares about me!'

It's embarrassing and pathetic, Jesus guys, get over it and please stop trying to convince hardened punters how right you are using 'reason' and 'logic'. See someone else if you're getting that hooked, for Christ's sake. And no I'm not some bitter veteran who once got scarred by EAS, I've had social punts with WGs, I've had WGs offer me free social time, I've had discounts (always as a result of being an undemanding punter who they see as an easy few quid - not a problem, that's how I am, but I don't think it's an indication of a potential relationship!) - EAS is a path to someone (very usually the punter) getting fucked hard, best avoided. I don't get why so many guys on here are dancing around it trying to psycho-analyse? We have clear evidence that 99% of the guys on here who 'don't have EAS ... but' are either clearly mentally ill and need help or are bizarrely wanting to get in to a relationship with a WG, using the fact they are a WG as the initial 'in' ... try POF or EHarmony if you want a partner?

This might actually be a good thread for SAAFE - would a WG be more or less likely to enter in to a relationship with a great guy if he turned up as a punter or she bumped in to him in a park or Asda? I'm guessing 99% would say the latter, as being a punter (which I am) carries a huge amount of baggage before you've even met the woman, as does being a WG on her side.

I can't believe the posters on here who share their thoughts, get told they're beaming in from another universe, then tell the respondents how wrong they are and how they are right ... I expect we will get bleeding heart 'they fucked me over and broke my heart' threads soon - of which there have already been many on here. If history has taught us anything it's that 'it's different this time' is usually a route to people getting fucked over when they refute previous experience, in regards to this or anything for that matter. It's pretty simple as far as I'm concerned:

1) Find an attractive looking, well reviewed WG. ON HERE, not AW feedback.
2) Pay her for her service and treat her very well in the process
3) Leave
4) You may be able to get some sort of discount or freebie of sorts in the future by virtue of the fact you've been reasonable, clean, nice and treated her well in the future. But that is it. This does not mean they love you, or care about you, or even like you. It's just easier money than the relative gamble of a new, unknown punter at full price who could turn out to be a total fucking nutter - and sadly some of those do exist and fuck things up for the 99% of us who aren't.

Why overcomplicate this? I've actually seen guys on here talk about how much to spend on sandals when shopping with a WG, or which make of Raspberry Pi/Kodi box to take to an overnight so she can watch a good film? Am I the one that's fuckin crazy here!

[Third Man]

Boiled down to it's centre, EAS amounts to 'I think I'm more special than the other 10 or 20 guys that have gone balls deep inside this prostitute this week... the fact she claims to value me as a person has nothing to do with her making more money out of me, she really cares about me!'

It's embarrassing and pathetic, Jesus guys, get over it and please stop trying to convince hardened punters how right you are using 'reason' and 'logic'. See someone else if you're getting that hooked, for Christ's sake. And no I'm not some bitter veteran who once got scarred by EAS, I've had social punts with WGs, I've had WGs offer me free social time, I've had discounts (always as a result of being an undemanding punter who they see as an easy few quid - not a problem, that's how I am, but I don't think it's an indication of a potential relationship!) - EAS is a path to someone (very usually the punter) getting fucked hard, best avoided. I don't get why so many guys on here are dancing around it trying to psycho-analyse? We have clear evidence that 99% of the guys on here who 'don't have EAS ... but' are either clearly mentally ill and need help or are bizarrely wanting to get in to a relationship with a WG, using the fact they are a WG as the initial 'in' ... try POF or EHarmony if you want a partner?

This might actually be a good thread for SAAFE - would a WG be more or less likely to enter in to a relationship with a great guy if he turned up as a punter or she bumped in to him in a park or Asda? I'm guessing 99% would say the latter, as being a punter (which I am) carries a huge amount of baggage before you've even met the woman, as does being a WG on her side.

I can't believe the posters on here who share their thoughts, get told they're beaming in from another universe, then tell the respondents how wrong they are and how they are right ... I expect we will get bleeding heart 'they fucked me over and broke my heart' threads soon - of which there have already been many on here. If history has taught us anything it's that 'it's different this time' is usually a route to people getting fucked over when they refute previous experience, in regards to this or anything for that matter. It's pretty simple as far as I'm concerned:

1) Find an attractive looking, well reviewed WG. ON HERE, not AW feedback.
2) Pay her for her service and treat her very well in the process
3) Leave
4) You may be able to get some sort of discount or freebie of sorts in the future by virtue of the fact you've been reasonable, clean, nice and treated her well in the future. But that is it. This does not mean they love you, or care about you, or even like you. It's just easier money than the relative gamble of a new, unknown punter at full price who could turn out to be a total fucking nutter - and sadly some of those do exist and fuck things up for the 99% of us who aren't.

Why overcomplicate this? I've actually seen guys on here talk about how much to spend on sandals when shopping with a WG, or which make of Raspberry Pi/Kodi box to take to an overnight so she can watch a good film? Am I the one that's fuckin crazy here!

That is a great post mate, well said.

[Brazilian Martian]

Boiled down to it's centre, EAS amounts to 'I think I'm more special than the other 10 or 20 guys that have gone balls deep inside this prostitute this week... the fact she claims to value me as a person has nothing to do with her making more money out of me, she really cares about me!'

It's embarrassing and pathetic, Jesus guys, get over it and please stop trying to convince hardened punters how right you are using 'reason' and 'logic'. See someone else if you're getting that hooked, for Christ's sake. And no I'm not some bitter veteran who once got scarred by EAS, I've had social punts with WGs, I've had WGs offer me free social time, I've had discounts (always as a result of being an undemanding punter who they see as an easy few quid - not a problem, that's how I am, but I don't think it's an indication of a potential relationship!) - EAS is a path to someone (very usually the punter) getting fucked hard, best avoided. I don't get why so many guys on here are dancing around it trying to psycho-analyse? We have clear evidence that 99% of the guys on here who 'don't have EAS ... but' are either clearly mentally ill and need help or are bizarrely wanting to get in to a relationship with a WG, using the fact they are a WG as the initial 'in' ... try POF or EHarmony if you want a partner?

This might actually be a good thread for SAAFE - would a WG be more or less likely to enter in to a relationship with a great guy if he turned up as a punter or she bumped in to him in a park or Asda? I'm guessing 99% would say the latter, as being a punter (which I am) carries a huge amount of baggage before you've even met the woman, as does being a WG on her side.

I can't believe the posters on here who share their thoughts, get told they're beaming in from another universe, then tell the respondents how wrong they are and how they are right ... I expect we will get bleeding heart 'they fucked me over and broke my heart' threads soon - of which there have already been many on here. If history has taught us anything it's that 'it's different this time' is usually a route to people getting fucked over when they refute previous experience, in regards to this or anything for that matter. It's pretty simple as far as I'm concerned:

1) Find an attractive looking, well reviewed WG. ON HERE, not AW feedback.
2) Pay her for her service and treat her very well in the process
3) Leave
4) You may be able to get some sort of discount or freebie of sorts in the future by virtue of the fact you've been reasonable, clean, nice and treated her well in the future. But that is it. This does not mean they love you, or care about you, or even like you. It's just easier money than the relative gamble of a new, unknown punter at full price who could turn out to be a total fucking nutter - and sadly some of those do exist and fuck things up for the 99% of us who aren't.

Why overcomplicate this? I've actually seen guys on here talk about how much to spend on sandals when shopping with a WG, or which make of Raspberry Pi/Kodi box to take to an overnight so she can watch a good film? Am I the one that's fuckin crazy here!

+100

[Honolulu]

Boiled down to it's centre, EAS amounts to 'I think I'm more special than the other 10 or 20 guys that have gone balls deep inside this prostitute this week... the fact she claims to value me as a person has nothing to do with her making more money out of me, she really cares about me!'

It's embarrassing and pathetic, Jesus guys, get over it and please stop trying to convince hardened punters how right you are using 'reason' and 'logic'. See someone else if you're getting that hooked, for Christ's sake. And no I'm not some bitter veteran who once got scarred by EAS, I've had social punts with WGs, I've had WGs offer me free social time, I've had discounts (always as a result of being an undemanding punter who they see as an easy few quid - not a problem, that's how I am, but I don't think it's an indication of a potential relationship!) - EAS is a path to someone (very usually the punter) getting fucked hard, best avoided. I don't get why so many guys on here are dancing around it trying to psycho-analyse? We have clear evidence that 99% of the guys on here who 'don't have EAS ... but' are either clearly mentally ill and need help or are bizarrely wanting to get in to a relationship with a WG, using the fact they are a WG as the initial 'in' ... try POF or EHarmony if you want a partner?

This might actually be a good thread for SAAFE - would a WG be more or less likely to enter in to a relationship with a great guy if he turned up as a punter or she bumped in to him in a park or Asda? I'm guessing 99% would say the latter, as being a punter (which I am) carries a huge amount of baggage before you've even met the woman, as does being a WG on her side.

I can't believe the posters on here who share their thoughts, get told they're beaming in from another universe, then tell the respondents how wrong they are and how they are right ... I expect we will get bleeding heart 'they fucked me over and broke my heart' threads soon - of which there have already been many on here. If history has taught us anything it's that 'it's different this time' is usually a route to people getting fucked over when they refute previous experience, in regards to this or anything for that matter. It's pretty simple as far as I'm concerned:

1) Find an attractive looking, well reviewed WG. ON HERE, not AW feedback.
2) Pay her for her service and treat her very well in the process
3) Leave
4) You may be able to get some sort of discount or freebie of sorts in the future by virtue of the fact you've been reasonable, clean, nice and treated her well in the future. But that is it. This does not mean they love you, or care about you, or even like you. It's just easier money than the relative gamble of a new, unknown punter at full price who could turn out to be a total fucking nutter - and sadly some of those do exist and fuck things up for the 99% of us who aren't.

Why overcomplicate this? I've actually seen guys on here talk about how much to spend on sandals when shopping with a WG, or which make of Raspberry Pi/Kodi box to take to an overnight so she can watch a good film? Am I the one that's fuckin crazy here!

Interesting why does poster goes into so much detail.

This over analysis makes me think poster really has given it some thought, and certainly spent a lot of time developing a response.

It sound like poster has struggled with EAS, whether contemplated it or has recovered from an experience.

Just sayin.

[Jeff_withpetersen]

Think what you like good sir, was just getting it all down in one post in hopes that it might help someone, which last i checked was the whole point of this board 

[Brazilian Martian]

Hi All,

I've been reading about EAS with some interest, as I have just started up a 'relationship' with a WG.

I know the situation I've started can only end in disaster.

However, I'll retell my story to date and perhaps I'll return to share updates if you want.

Booked the WG, exchanged personal numbers, chatted a lot on What's App.  Bared my soul to her, was freaked out I was married and family. And took a little convincing to get her to meet.

Spent few hours with breakfast and stroll in the park, hand holding and lite kissing. I returned home to see my lad.  But agreeing to meet up with WG for evening drinks/meal.

Spent few hours getting intimate, and as I was dropping her home, she asked if I could book a hotel, So we can sleep together.

Pulled out a hotel app, and within 5mins in the hotel banging her silly most of the night, like one does with a new girlfriend.

Following day, spent the day with her, not getting home till 9pm at night., close to 15 hours with the WG.

We continue to message each other,  me hoping to turn this encounter into a relationship. WG. says she likes and loves me, and i of course reciprocate .

Do I care that she gets shagged by punters, who message her throughout our time together!  Well, I have a missus who calls me throughout my WG date too.  I'm trying to see her work as something she does.  What would upset and hurt me is she's simply playing me the fool,

I've said previously, I like broken girls, who need help. 

My previous encounter with EAS was only 3 weeks ago, a WG who I booked on a second occasion for 1 hour, only told me to leave when i over ran by 2.5hrs. We shagged, we laughed and she cried into my arms. I thought we made a connection, but I think she was way too broken to be helped, and thankfully, she wasn't trusting to bond with me.


Right now , I'm hoping I have something meaningful with this WG.

Wish me luck on this rollacoaster chaos!

Honolulu

This made me choke on my toast  some people ehh

[OakTree]

This made me choke on my toast  some people ehh

It reads like Mills and Boon.

I remember commenting at the time on that post. He's one of the individuals who I'm convinced seeks relationships whilst using the ease of payed sex as an introduction.

[Brazilian Martian]

It reads like Mills and Boon.

I remember commenting at the time on that post. He's one of the individuals who I'm convinced seeks relationships whilst using the ease of payed sex as an introduction.

Very odd but if that makes him happy so be it, I just hate when they come back on here complaining about prossies and then want a shoulder to cry on  :dash.

I recently had a disagreement with him as he reviewed a girl who I have seen in the flesh but not punted with, when I noted down her real age which is early 40s and that her body was not natural and enhanched he disagreed with me. 

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=131524.0

[MrMatrix]

Perhaps you saw different girls?

[Brazilian Martian]

Perhaps you saw different girls?

I did not punt her but I saw her in a line up and it's the same woman as her pic is the top left corner of the review. I always give a honest opinion when I see women and I'm telling you her body was enhanced and she was a slightly older lady.

[Honolulu]

I did not punt her but I saw her in a line up and it's the same woman as her pic is the top left corner of the review. I always give a honest opinion when I see women and I'm telling you her body was enhanced and she was a slightly older lady.

Let it go friend.  You saw a WG for moment and made an error.  But your pride don't let it go, when called out.  I spent an hour with the very same WG and corrected you.  Yet you remain butt-hurt.  😂

[Brazilian Martian]

Let it go friend.  You saw a WG for moment and made an error.  But your pride don't let it go, when called out.  I spent an hour with the very same WG and corrected you.  Yet you remain butt-hurt.  😂

Oh no I'm not but hurt at all I'm just someone that likes to give a honest opinion I dnt want people to waste time or money that's why with all my reviews upload pictures . When punters fail to provide honest descriptions I find that sneaky, but seeing as you easily fall for prossies and suffer from EAS it's easy to understand why you're a sensitive type of bloke  enjoy your Sunday 

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[bigmanbigman]

On this site posters tell you how it is for there selfs
If 10 say the same and 1 something different its up to you to choose  .what is more likely in you case. Its that simple.

[Brazilian Martian]

On this site posters tell you how it is for there selfs
If 10 say the same and 1 something different its up to you to choose  .what is more likely in you case. Its that simple.

So if I meet a girl who is a size 18 then say she's not big and another punter has seen her and calls me out on that bullshit statement. Its plain and simple that I'm either delusional or I'm a lying prat. But let's not hijack this thread any more it's about EAS not punters differing opinions.

[JohnnyPark]

Ok that did not go so well. I hate to admit it you guys where right. Hpwever I am pissed about people on here going through my posts and finding out who the WG was, emailing her on AW and telling her shit that I was not saying on here. Not cool. Now knowing what I now know, I could not give a crap about how she feels about it but it was compromising me. However on the other side of the coin you did me a favour.

I'm still a 'fluffy' bell end and I still don't agree with alot of your opinions but you where right on this one.

This is how the whole sorry incident transpired. I can see it now with clarity and not through 'fluffy' tinted goggles.

Recap: So I asked her out. What I noticed when I did that was she dropped out of escort bullshit mode and was a totally different woman. The way she looked at me was totally different. She explained why she didnt want to date. I was cool with it. I said I understand and she was right. Never pushed it. I was ready to fuck off and not return. However she then adds 'I'll think about it'. 'I'll see you in 2 weeks and invite you for a coffee'.

2 weeks later. There's been no contact from either side. So I text her 'How about that coffee?'. No answer. 3 days later I send another text on the lines of 'Listen I'm not trying to get free services. I propose I'll pay for an in-call and all we do is have a coffee and get to know each other'. No answer. 5 days later. I go the official route. Call her and leave a voice mail requesting an in-call. Texted with a follow up as I always do. All very official. No mention of coffee etc.

A couple of hours later I get a email on AW 'I don't think we should meet. I don't want to get to know you. I don't mix business with pleasure. This is my job (really? I thought she was a flower girl). Take care'. Bullshit escort signature at the end.

I replied with a lengthy email, not nasty, stateing the facts of how she had not played fair and got into my head. Have a happy life. Thanks for the good time. Blocked her on AW, deleted off my HL and deleted from my phone.

After speaking with my regular about this I agree with her opinion and that this woman seen I liked her, I am fluffy and played me like a cheap violin. She got £300 out of me in 2 weeks, 3 positive ratings and a fluffy field review. What did I get? I got emotionaly fucked.

I'm not going to post who it is (I know a number of people know who she is by now so feel free to reveal who it is. I don't care) because I don't want to come across as sour grapes but this is what I now think of this woman from an objective point of view.

Physically very attractive and sexy
Very smiley, happy, chatty, fluffy etc. However I now believe this to be part of the whole dog and pony show. Not the real her.
The services are pretty good but very generic.
A good GFE but too much bullshit thrown in there trying to make you think you are special compared to every other client.

Ok now here is the downside.
She constantly talks about herself 'Are you nervous because I am powerful and sexy?' . 'Are you addicted to me?'. She showed no interest in me. Did not use my name until the 3rd meet. However I knew everything about her and her 'real' name. The woman is borderline narcissistic.
Talked about other clients and even showed me texts from a client who was 'addicted to her'. God knows who she is showing my texts and emails to and what she says about me. Over stepping boundaries much?
Got really shitty with me on the phone because she thought I was posting, on here, that she was offering free services. Didn't care I had been compromised and that I was also upset about it. I took her to the posts I had made. She said everything was cool and there is no problem but still spoke to me shitty and did not apologise.

So if you want a reasonable GFE, with a curvy, attractive, sexy EE with narcissistic tendencies, lots of fluffiness and absolute verbal bullshit that she has used on the 5 previous clients, you could do worse. Also £100 is a good price.

However if you are fluffy like me keep your guard up or she will go for the jugular, manipulate you and get into your head. I would not believe anything she tells you.

It's not that she said no to an off the clock date it is how she acted, treated me after and dealt with the whole situation after I had asked her. We could have talked it out and more than likely we could have carried on our meetings as business transactions. Because of the fact that she did not want to talk about it was a big red flag.

I feel I had to get this out because there is so much emphasis put on being very respectful to WGs which I am and certainly the majority of clients are as well but it seems to be ok for some WGs (most certainly not all) to show little respect in return. I was royally, emotionally screwed with no apology and no explanation. Yes I was stupid to let her get into my head but the fact is she should not took advantage.

I could become a cynic after this but I wont change who I am. My guard is well and truely up now and this will NEVER happen again and I wont judge all escorts by her low professional standards.

I have lost interest in any sort of GFE. I don't want to be fed bullshit by a WG. All I want now is genuine honesty from an escort. Im not there to get my ego stroked. It doesn't need to be. I'll be just sticking with my regular for the time being as she is genuine, definately honest, never stroked my ego and and all round good woman. When my wounds have healed I shall venture forth and book someone new.

[vw]

I could become a cynic after this but I wont change who I am.

Seems you have !

I have lost interest in any sort of GFE.

Sorry to read that load of self pitying stuff, if your email to her was on the same lines you did yourself a favour by ending it earlier so hurts less.

Get back on the horse is my advice and try something new ! 

[JohnnyPark]

Seems you have !

Sorry to read that load of self pitying stuff, if your email to her was on the same lines you did yourself a favour by ending it earlier so hurts less.

Get back on the horse is my advice and try something new !

I know you are thinking 'soon you will be one of us'. No. It takes a better WG to kick the fluffyness out of me.

Nar I was never self pitying or needy with her. That's like painting a target on myself. I just said she was bang out of order. I'm glad I could help with paying for her new photos and upcoming videos 

[OakTree]

I know you are thinking 'soon you will be one of us'. No. It takes a better WG to kick the fluffyness out of me.

Nar I was never self pitying or needy with her. That's like painting a target on myself. I just said she was bang out of order. I'm glad I could help with paying for her new photos and upcoming videos 

Sounds like to me she made it quite clear she wasn't interested when she didn't get back to you over the coffee.

You should of heeded your own advice.

I look at it like this. I either hear from her and we go out and see what developes from there or I don't hear from her and that's where the story ends. It is what it is.

Instead you made numerous attempts to contact her and failed to take the hint.

[vw]

I was never self pitying or needy

Why be self pitying or needy with us then ?   

[JohnnyPark]

Sounds like to me she made it quite clear she wasn't interested when she didn't get back to you over the coffee.

You should of heeded your own advice.

Instead you made numerous attempts to contact her and failed to take the hint.

Oh yeh I know what I said but it's only good manners on her behalf. She said she would contact me and invite me for coffee. She did not have to say that. I'm a big boy.

You make me sound like I hassled her. Nothing of the sort. I texted her twice. Short texts just asking her to let me know. I then made an in-call booking through the official channels.

 Anyway that is all academic. At the end of the day I'm just an SS to her. It does not matter how much of a good guy I am it's just all about the benjamins. She's good at her job but she, not me, overstepped SS/SP boundaries and is deceptive. I handled the whole situation like a grown up but I am afraid she is one of those escorts whose ratings have now increased, she starts to believe her own hype and has lost herself in her own escort ego.

[JohnnyPark]

Why be self pitying or needy with us then ?   

Just helping you out Advising you of this woman. I'm doing you a favour   

[bigmanbigman]

Stand back take stock and understand wgs are a unknown item
With very different thinking !!!

[JohnnyPark]

Stand back take stock and understand wgs are a unknown item
With very different thinking !!!

Yes I have learnt the hard way that they are wired differently 

Onward and upward. Just mulling over a duo with regular and her friend. I only seen her Wednesday. I know there's no hard and fast rule but the bank manager may not be happy.

[Monsieur69]

The last person an SP will want a relationship with is a punter. I have heard that from 3 SPs and have personally been informed of that after several lunches and even a holiday together. " I wish we could have met under different circumstances, then we might have got something together". As a punter you are a lesser being to them. You are a meal ticket and a needy person.

[two20]

I read the blog of WG Ivy Derriere who has just retired because her and a punter have hitched their wagons. He's been cheating on his wife with her for a while (freebies I guess) and now they are taking the plunge. If that works out I'll be amazed, not an ideal way to start.

[JohnnyPark]

The last person an SP will want a relationship with is a punter. I have heard that from 3 SPs and have personally been informed of that after several lunches and even a holiday together. " I wish we could have met under different circumstances, then we might have got something together". As a punter you are a lesser being to them. You are a meal ticket and a needy person.

Yeh totally agree with you on that. I know I'm not needy I just like the company of beautiful women and If I have the money I don't mind paying for the privelage. A lot easier and can be cheaper than going to a bar. Also my 'game' is not as good as it could be. I'm working on that so I don't have to fork out as much dough 

I asked my regular to do me a favour 'If I ever get romantic feelings for a WG again and in fact a woman in civvy life, give me a swift knee in the happy sack, slap me across the face and tell me to snap out of it'. I hope that does not cost extra

[vw]

Yeh totally agree with you on that. I know I'm not needy I just like the company of beautiful women and If I have the money I don't mind paying for the privelage. A lot easier and can be cheaper than going to a bar. Also my 'game' is not as good as it could be. I'm working on that so I don't have to fork out as much dough 

I asked my regular to do me a favour 'If I ever get romantic feelings for a WG again and in fact a woman in civvy life, give me a swift knee in the happy sack, slap me across the face and tell me to snap out of it'. I hope that does not cost extra

 

In denial to !

you are in such denial you are getting your regular to manage your emotions because you need them to ! 

I suspect in a  few months you will be writing about your regular on this post !   

Just fuick them and leave, why get them to assist managing your life ?   

[JohnnyPark]

In denial to !

you are in such denial you are getting your regular to manage your emotions because you need them to ! 

I suspect in a  few months you will be writing about your regular on this post !   

Just fuick them and leave, why get them to assist managing your life ?   

Fuck me, it would kill you to say something nice 

No no, I am not getting her to manage my feelings. She is a confidant, confederate an advisor. Who better to advise me on the mind of a WG? Another WG. My mates advice goes as far as 'mate, she's a prostitute'. Ok stateing a fact but not helping.

My regular wouldn't let me fall for her. She would give me a swift knee in the happy sack for free. However in a few months If I am on here winging about my regular I'll let you say 'told you so' and you can have a free punt on me. £120 budget.

[vw]

Fuck me, it would kill you to say something nice 

No no, I am not getting her to manage my feelings. She is a confidant, confederate an advisor. Who better to advise me on the mind of a WG? Another WG. My mates advice goes as far as 'mate, she's a prostitute'. Ok stateing a fact but not helping.

My regular wouldn't let me fall for her. She would give me a swift knee in the happy sack for free. However in a few months If I am on here winging about my regular I'll let you say 'told you so' and you can have a free punt on me. £120 budget.

I'm always nice, do you need me to be nicer, isn't that a bid needy.

Having a prossie as a confidant is asking for trouble, would go with your mates combined with forum advice.  You are swapping crack for smack.   

To right i will say i told you so !

Her is some advice, get a grip and quite the surrogate prossie nonsense !

[OakTree]

Fuck me, it would kill you to say something nice 

No no, I am not getting her to manage my feelings. She is a confidant, confederate an advisor. Who better to advise me on the mind of a WG? Another WG. My mates advice goes as far as 'mate, she's a prostitute'. Ok stateing a fact but not helping.

My regular wouldn't let me fall for her. She would give me a swift knee in the happy sack for free. However in a few months If I am on here winging about my regular I'll let you say 'told you so' and you can have a free punt on me. £120 budget.

Just out of interest, have you ever had some form of a relationship (outside of paying for it) with a WG before these recent events?

[Shearer1955]

Unfortunately some guys genuinely want to believe that the girl they are fucking (along with several others that day) has an attachment to them...when I have a great punt I also want to believe that there is some real attraction...it does not exist.....Jeff withpetersen;s post explains it in detail that what we do is a surreal experience...it is great for that moment but that is all it is...I usually find the best way to read the reality is when you go in to see them if it is the right girl then they are full on lips locking.....when you leave it is a peck on the cheek or the lips.....always brings me back to the real world...sorry to those who are deluded 

[JohnnyPark]

Just out of interest, have you ever had some form of a relationship (outside of paying for it) with a WG before these recent events?

Nope only civvy girls. Unless a civvy girl was a WG and just didn't tell me.

I admit it, I was foolish. I let my guard down. 'Oh the meet has run over by 45 mins. Oh shes being all vunerable with me by revealing personal information. Oh She tells me I'm the only client she does that with. Oh she sees me on her day off and texts me kisses after a meet. She must have feelings for me! Let me just draw another 100 out the bank so I can see her for the 3rd time in 2 weeks!'. What a fuckin dick head I was  Never again

[vw]

What a fuckin dick head I was  Never again

Dont beat your self up, just learn, having another prossie be her surrogate is not really learning !

[Bangers and Gash]

She is a confidant, confederate an advisor. Who better to advise me on the mind of a WG? Another WG.

Don't take offence, but you sound like a fruit loop. And why are you interested in the mind of any ''WG'' ?

[JohnnyPark]

Don't take offence, but you sound like a fruit loop. And why are you interested in the mind of any ''WG'' ?

Aaah another compliment. Because I liked her....have you not been following?

[dickrichard]

Hyborean

Easy to fall down this rabbit hole been there done that did not like it.


Head fucked by fanny happens to a lot of people, few will admit 

You can warn but when the lighting hits , its game over tilt . 

Very well put its much like cancer we all try to avoid it but its just bad luck if it gets you

[Fishface]

Look up histrionic borderline personality disorder (her) and Codepency  (you) the original white knight of folklore.

The moment you went for it and asked her on a date was the moment she lost all interest in you because you became a known quantity and admitted to liking her as a person not just a paid shag.

Good for her self esteem but then a big yawn to carry it on (pointless) and also the pleasure of dropping you as abruptly as possible so you can suffer like she suffers. Plenty to take your place, about one every two hours whereas you'd be planning another meet in a weeks time with your 'Princess'

[Honolulu]

EAS works perfectly fine when it's reciprocated.  Otherwise jog on.

[JohnnyPark]

Look up histrionic borderline personality disorder (her) and Codepency  (you) the original white knight of folklore.

The moment you went for it and asked her on a date was the moment she lost all interest in you because you became a known quantity and admitted to liking her as a person not just a paid shag.

Good for her self esteem but then a big yawn to carry it on (pointless) and also the pleasure of dropping you as abruptly as possible so you can suffer like she suffers. Plenty to take your place, about one every two hours whereas you'd be planning another meet in a weeks time with your 'Princess'

I like that. Very on point and very accurate.

[JohnnyPark]

Dont beat your self up, just learn, having another prossie be her surrogate is not really learning !

Are you showing compassion? You big softy 

I understand what you are saying about the surrogate but I have had the talk, with her, about what occured with said narcissistic, Hungarian, bullshitting escort and that is done. I wont be seeing her until next pay day now and the plan is a duo with her hot mate