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External Link/Members OnlyI was not going to review this non meeting and I will probably get attacked by Dani and her friends on here - but what the hell she has pissed me off.
I had a few attempts to book her via AW (not my usual vehicle, I normally just call) and it proved tricky, not for any bad reason on either side just getting diaries to match. Anyway she had suggested Thursday or Friday and I said that i needed to wait for something to clear - which it did and on the Thursday there was an exchange of emails in which she said 2 and (very late that night) I agreed that would be fine.
Friday morning I had no response on AW and knowing that she does not always log on during the day I called and sent a text. No response at all so at 1.30, when I was nearby I sent a text saying that I was assuming nothing was going to happen and I was heading away.
I heard nothing at all which surprised me given the nature of her posts on here. I decided to drop her an email on AW today (monday) asking what had happened on Friday. My email was quite polite and friendly - I was hoping for a friendly exchange, an excuse I could pretend to accept and then arrange another meeting. However the response was quite aggressive and she maintained that she had texted back on the day. I said not and queried whether she had used the number attached to my profile as I do not use that anymore. Got another aggressive response that no she had used the number I texted from and I was "wrong again". How could I be wrong - I had merely put forward a possible reason for the mismatch in her saying she had texted and me receiving nothing.
The list of things that I did wrong grew - she apparently thought I meant a week Friday and I should on Thursday have said tomorrow. When I pointed out that it was a chain of emails over a few days so was quite obvious what it meant I was told how could she be expected to follow a chain of emails amongst all the many enquiries she gets? By this stage I was getting irritated and responded how she deals with her email enquires is her problem not mine.
She also along the way connected me to a previous visit I made to her about 2 years ago. Again I had been wrong to not mention this - I replied why would I? I see lots of WGs and am not going to record the full history each time. There had been no issues last time so I was not being sneaky at all.
Anyway I started off with alot of goodwill towards Dani, having seen her before and "knowing" her from UKP. I would have written off the communication cock up on Friday or accepted any excuse. Certainly I was not intending to write a negative review given the late arrangement of the meeting.
However the subsequent emails have really wound me up - if I wanted to deal with a woman who does not give me sex and tells me I have done everything wrong I would stay at home!!
Anyway I have my tin hat on and no doubt will now pick up a battering.
PS - if Admin feels this should not be a review that is fine, please move.