I'm curious to know if it's possible for a man to live life without wg's once he has had the experience with them..Can you live without that side of your life. My OH spent a busy summer texting and phoning girls..says there was never sex just the schoolboy thrill of speaking to them 
not convinced!! But anyway he says never again and wants normality..is this possible? I've been through the whole process of kicking him out etc and deep down still love him but I'm not an idiot. Just want to know the opinion of those in the know.
I agree and most of the time I think we are just skin and bone and sex is just a thing we do..the physical doesn't bother me as much as the emotional side I suppose. He had a thing for one girl that might be what hurts the most..he connected with her enough to text her constantly for a while..says she ran the house though but didn't work herself.
Well I am going to give you some good news and bad news.
Let’s start with the good ones.
(i) Many men who have never met a prostitute and are willing/planning to meet one don't do so immediately. Judging from the various new members here asking for information for their first punt they tend to overthink about it, contemplating it for several months before deciding to take the plunge. Take for example
Oberyn1 (assuming his is not a troll because…. so he says(!)) who after almost a year he still haven’t punted. And some who do decide to take the plunge get cold feet at the last minute and don’t do it. It is not a coincidence that newbies are unwelcome for many prossies as they have the greatest probability to waste their time. Not necessarily by booking and not showing up but by calling/emailing/texting and asking questions and more questions and not making a booking. So in case your husband had never punted in his life before last summer he may still haven't punted to date either.
(ii) If your husband is an experienced punter and has met many girls he doesn’t run the risk to develop emotional attachment syndrome with a WG. If he loves YOU he will only love YOU. With the prostitutes it is just a physical act, an illusion at most---“
External Link/Members Only” to quote the movie “friends with benefits”.
(iii) There is no 2-way emotional connection with a WG. Even if a punter is delusional and develops emotional attachment syndrome (EAS) with a prostitute this will NOT be reciprocal. The girl wants nothing more from a punter than his money. And no money, no honey. And this is what we are warning new punters here all the time who seem to develop emotions for WGs. For example read these threads:
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2.
Let’s go to the bad news.
(i) If he did punt before in his life he was most definitely meeting some of the girls we was texting/calling.
(ii) Even if he never punted before the “thrill” that he talked you about is a big bullshit. He was at least mentally planning to punt.
(iii)If he is a new punter he may have developed EAS with one prostitute. But as this is not reciprocal you shouldn’t fear as sooner or later he will realise his delusion.
(iv) Seeking to meet prostitutes (even if he has not met any yet) means that he is missing something that you cannot offer him.
There are various threads in this forum about the reasons married men punt and their views. You can read for example these threads:
1,
2. Below are some of the most common:
(i)Desire to fuck very beautiful young girls.
(ii) Desire to meet a variety of girls and/or desire to meet a large number of girls.
(iii) Seeking more “dirty” services such as anal sex, facials, swallow, toys, role plays, watersports, etc that your civvie partner wouldn't do or that you don't feel comfortable asking her to do. Also having a fetish that you would be embarrassed to share with your civvie partner. For example a man being submissive and wanting to get fucked in the arse or whatever floats someone’s boat but not be considered normal.
(iv) Not getting sex at home frequently enough or at all. Or not getting quality sex.
(v) Wanting to boost your confidence in case you have a mid-life crisis. Feel that you can still fuck other girls if you want to.
P.S: I guess you are 35y.o. (from your username). You can create your own service provider profile on Adultwork.
