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Author Topic: How to get your mojo back after a really bad punt.  (Read 1410 times)

I recently had a bad punt, so bad it affected my mojo. My first thoughts were to quickly get back on the nest, resulting in a couple of punts where my performance was nothing short of sublime. However, it felt like the damage was done and a re-think was required. Took myself off for a week of sun, sand and San Miguel's, went to the Doc's for a check-up - luckily, he stopping short of sticking his finger up my arse - just to make sure everything was bob-on.

Unfortunately, Mr Mojo still hasn't returned.  :cry:

I realise we have punters on UKP who've never had a bad punt, but for the one's who are honest: How do you mentally recover after a real shitter? Retail therapy? Beer? More punts? Abstinence? Fuck the ball and chain?

 :hi:

Offline hendrix

I don't think there's any one answer :unknown:

If the issue isn't physical, then it's in your head. I think you have to try abstinence, and if you don't feel like punting after a while, then maybe just take a longer break.

Good luck with Mr Mojo :drinks:

Offline smiths

I recently had a bad punt, so bad it affected my mojo. My first thoughts were to quickly get back on the nest, resulting in a couple of punts where my performance was nothing short of sublime. However, it felt like the damage was done and a re-think was required. Took myself off for a week of sun, sand and San Miguel's, went to the Doc's for a check-up - luckily, he stopping short of sticking his finger up my arse - just to make sure everything was bob-on.

Unfortunately, Mr Mojo still hasn't returned.  :cry:

I realise we have punters on UKP who've never had a bad punt, but for the one's who are honest: How do you mentally recover after a real shitter? Retail therapy? Beer? More punts? Abstinence? Fuck the ball and chain?

 :hi:

I book in with a regular immediately after a bad punt, works for me, plus I do a negative review about the bad punt or attempted punt and bad mouth the WG as she deserves in my book.

I'm with Smiths. I'll revert back to one of a few trusted regulars as I know they won't balls it up for me.

Offline hendrix

I'd definitely agree that if you have a cast iron certainty for a good time, then that's a good idea.
« Last Edit: May 02, 2016, 01:25:04 PM by hendrix »

Offline smiths

I had a computer problem but was going to add when I have lost my punting mojo completely its a sign I need a break, the worst occurrence of this was in 2010 when I took 6 months off punting and punting forums. I came back refreshed and raring to go.

Offline James999

I recently had a bad punt, so bad it affected my mojo.

Who on earth was so bad that it killed off your mojo?

Offline Buttons

If by mojo you mean floppy cock syndrome, then best thing is do not overthink things. Trust me, I know. I struggled with this for 4 years. If the doc says all is good, and the old chap is up before you in the morning (advice given to me by a doctor) then the plumbing is working as it should.

The danger is you over think, start to really worry and it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. It's a vicious circle and gets hard to break. Try and relax, do not put pressure on yourself to perform and just enjoy the experience. Take the attitude is doesn't matter, but you are going to enjoy. Approach it that way with a trusted regular and you will be back up to full throttle before you know it.  :drinks:

Offline shagbambi

I would take a break. Then kick things off with a regular or a girl that you know delivers. Sometimes stress from elsewhere creeps into ones life and it's a killer.

Seems like you had a bad punt, went back to a couple of known winners and you still haven't recovered. If it were me, I'd take a break from punting - no point wasting your money. There's nothing spoiling out there. When the urge returns, book someone you know will be good.

tcm

Offline JV547845

Have a break and think of the money you're saving.

Who on earth was so bad that it killed off your mojo?

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If it were me, I'd take a break from punting - no point wasting your money. There's nothing spoiling out there. When the urge returns, book someone you know will be good.

Good advice. It's been about 7/8 weeks of abstinence, and thought that would be enough - apparently not. Maybe things will change once the sun comes out and the clothes come off.  ;)   


50 review(s) found for EnglishRebecca121 linked to in above post (47 positive, 1 neutral, 2 negative)

Offline cueball

Shit punts are part and parcel of this game. We all have them, for me,I put it down to experience and choose another.

If the shit punt with rebecca has affected your mojo bangers, I'd say you already know you're ready for a break.

Take your foot off the gas, keep your money safe and take a step back. There's no shortage of lasses, they're not going anywhere.

Enjoy the antics of others on here, there's no need to disappear from here unless you feel you need to.

I only punt 2 maybe 3 times per month now and enjoy it more, not too long ago I were punting 2 maybe 3 times a week and it all started to turn into a blur

Offline SamLP

Getting your mojo back can differ from one person to the next. A break may be needed. Sometimes seeing a regular won't get your mojo back either as it doesn't involve the excitement of seeing someone new and even an unreviewed girl.



50 review(s) found for EnglishRebecca121 linked to in above post (47 positive, 1 neutral, 2 negative)

sounds like you suffering from PTPS (Post-traumatic punt syndrome) bangers. 

Like an eastern euro whore who has suffered from burn out and has to go home for 3 months before her next tour of duty.

Like them maybe you need a short break from all punting related activites.

Offline AnthG

I realise we have punters on UKP who've never had a bad punt, but for the one's who are honest: How do you mentally recover after a real shitter? Retail therapy? Beer? More punts? Abstinence? Fuck the ball and chain?

My honest advice is simple, and that is, do whatever you want to do. It may seem like me taking a cop-out by saying this but this is the best advice to follow.

I was messed around something rotten at Christmas by a WG and as a result I was feeling down and my mojo lost.

As a result everyone started becoming advice givers. So here is the advice and the best response.

1. Book another girl ASAP - If you have lost your mojo what is that going to do but make you feel worse. If you are not in the mood for punting, don't do it hoping it will bring it back. It won't.
2. Take time away from punting, or the forums - but why do this if you do not feel you want to do this.
3. Cheer up - Fuck off, is my response to that.
4. Or the biggest classic, you need to accept all Prostitutes are just money grabbing bitches, so don't trust them and treat it like a transaction, and when you do, this wont happen again to you  - (Actually said to me by many other fellow WGs) - this one is a trick, as if you go, ok, I accept this now. Those same girls then turn around irate weeks later saying. How dare you think all WGs are money grabbing bitches.

So the moral of the above, don't listen to other people's advice. Do what you want to do yourself. If you do however want some advice of what to possibly do, I would say, maybe spend some time on a secondary hobby you may have.

So for example if you are into computers. But a new graphics card for your PC. Or if you are into music. Buy a new Amplifier. or new Guitar or something and just mess around with this.

Whatever you do, do not do a hair of the dog that bit you. And by this I do not mean drink alcohol. I mean its original definition of;

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This phrase comes from the old myth that if you got bit by a dog, and took a clump of that dog's hair and rubbed it on the wound, it would kill all the bacteria in the cut and help it heal faster.

As in don't go back to the same girl again trying to book her thinking this will help you get over it or something. I foolishly had this idea as it's my birthday in three days time and wanted / tried to book the same girl again for it after being told by one of the agency owners one of her friends had told her she is thinking of returning to this job. And the result. She has fucked me right over / let me right down a second time with my birthday two days to go. As a result I have blocked her from Whatsapp last night and said to myself, that is it final straw on that camels back. She can get fucked. So strong advice, don't do the same mistake as me.

Offline Corus Boy

Could it be that you are having doubts about your judgement and your issue is less than with the actual punt than your choice of girl?

As a season punter you probably did your research, satisfied yourself of your choice and yet it was still a bad punt.  So now you will have doubts about your future selections.

No simple answer.  Going back to a good, known service might help but as that may not be the problem, it may not provide the answer.

I would, take some time, continue doing my research, cross reference my choices to reviews on here and mark myself out of ten on the picks.

Continue with known quality punts until I was happy with my decision making process and then punt a wild card.
« Last Edit: May 02, 2016, 04:14:16 PM by Corus Boy »

Could it be that you are having doubts about your judgement and your issue is less than with the actual punt than your choice of girl?

As a season punter you probably did your research, satisfied yourself of your choice and yet it was still a bad punt.  So now you will have doubts about your future selections.

That's an interesting theory that has serious merit, CB. I like to punt for variety, so maybe you're right about doubting my selection processes. Although the main fault must lie at the pro$$ies door because I've been told numerous times how great I am in bed.  :D

Offline stevedave

sounds like you suffering from PTPS (Post-traumatic punt syndrome) bangers. 

Like an eastern euro whore who has suffered from burn out and has to go home for 3 months before her next tour of duty.

Like them maybe you need a short break from all punting related activites.

This sounds about right to me. Take some time out of the game, chill out, give it a few weeks (months  :scare:) for the weather to brighten up a bit and there will be plenty of scantily clad young ladies around to get the sap rising. Have a cheeky half an hour with someone you know from experience will do it for you, and you'll be back.

Offline Redevil86

This is a bizzar one, I've booked E R on her Cardiff tour in a few weeks, as she's so well reviewed  ( obviously not her last review ! ) as my punts are all damned good , I've booked her as I'm expecting another enjoyable hour, law of averages it will be and I will turn up with a positive attitude , determined to have a good time, but this is now in the back of my mind, but I'm confident it will be good, sorry o p has had this problem, can only be a mental thing, ( I've not read his review)  complete rest from punting till your mo jo returns is what I would do, time is a great healer, you'll be fine in time . Guaranteed. Don't over think it, it's only sex !

Offline Sonny Crockett

I am going through a similar phase as well. This year I have only done three punts and on reflection I simply didn't have the same level of enthusiasm towards them compared to last year, when I punted far more prolifically. The punts themselves were OKish, but nowhere near as good as the ones I had last year and in 2014.
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One way to get over a bad punt is to do a review, get it all out of your system. You'll probably get sympathy from other punters and thanks for helping them dodge the bullet. Then go and see someone who is highly recommended on here for good service. That should sort you out. I certainly hope so since it my plan for getting over my last punt.

One way to get over a bad punt is to do a review, get it all out of your system. You'll probably get sympathy from other punters and thanks for helping them dodge the bullet. Then go and see someone who is highly recommended on here for good service. That should sort you out. I certainly hope so since it my plan for getting over my last punt.

He did, man 11 page masterpiece review !

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=90478.0

Online Jimmyredcab

I recently had a bad punt.

Maybe your expectations are too high.

You have 25 reviews online, 15 are Negative, never known anyone that unlucky.     :thumbsdown:


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