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Author Topic: Have you ever wasted a booking?  (Read 1615 times)

Offline Faustus

Has anybody here spent a whole session doing something they didn't quite want to spend so much time on and effectively wasted the booking?

One might guess the reason I'm asking…that's precisely what I did a few weeks ago and left feeling bereft, foolish and rather bloody exasperated. It was a short first booking, which ran overtime: the whole thing on RO. She essentially having a 45min orgasm and me not the slightest of intended purpose. Naturally, it was all very entertaining being lost in her box for three-quarters of an hour, that is until time was announced and hurriedly ushered out. Responsibility for this was mostly mine for not planning properly — also an argument for wearing a watch — though part I feel lies with her for not even suggesting moving things on somewhat. (My wife is too frequently this self-indulgent, which is why I began punting). The WG in question seems decent enough giving little reason to suggest she was taking-the-piss, nevertheless I can't shake that notion.

The trouble is unless wanting something very specific I find being prescriptive counterproductive to enjoyment, having had some dreadful experiences as a result. However, it is undoubtedly the best means of: a) getting the most out of a punt; b) contingency against being taken advantage of. It's quite apparent I have learnt the hard way that encounters with WGs cannot be treated in a similar fashion to those of a more or less romantic nature, even perhaps with regulars and ought be a touch more regimented. I don't punt often because of wife, work, etc. or merely not wanting to and am finding adjusting mindset difficult.

No, I put my needs first while others obsessively put the prossies satisfaction first .  :wacko:

Up to you how you punt but if you feel it was wasted then you need to take control of your own punts.

No, I put my needs first while others obsessively put the prossies satisfaction first .  :wacko:

Up to you how you punt but if you feel it was wasted then you need to take control of your own punts.

+1. I am completely selfish when it comes to punting which is a complete reverse of my non punting sex life. Sometimes you have to give the girl a 'push' to get things moving, don't forget if you don't ask you won't get.

Offline Spunky34

I booked a submissive girl to try a BDSM experience.  After about 25 minutes I realised it was not for me and I called it off.  We spent the rest of the time talking it through (which was at my request, and useful as I was feeling generally uncomfortable at the time I called it off).

So not a total waste of time as I tried something new, but it was not as I had thought the meeting would be, and at the end I did feel disappointed about that. 

The WG in question seems decent enough giving little reason to suggest she was taking-the-piss, nevertheless I can't shake that notion.

Although she may have found it easy to lie back and say nothing, she is also not a mind reader and could have thought that is where you wanted to spend your time.
 
Most punters might feel put out if a wg tells him to stop doing something he seems to be enjoying, (within her agreed services), so I would put the blame in your corner.

I like spontaneity, but ultimately, if a punt is not going the direction/pace I want, I will either instigate it or ask for it.



Offline Zeusthedoc

No, I put my needs first while others obsessively put the prossies satisfaction first .  :wacko:

Up to you how you punt but if you feel it was wasted then you need to take control of your own punts.

unless it's about the ego of wanting a WG to cum before cumming yourself.

Offline cain

Lets be honest the Hooker was probably wondering what she was going to buy from the supermarket, rather than having a 45 minute orgasm.

Offline Faustus

No, I put my needs first while others obsessively put the prossies satisfaction first .  :wacko:

Up to you how you punt but if you feel it was wasted then you need to take control of your own punts.

There's no need for ad hominems they're quite unhelpfully unreasonable…but then one could suppose objective achieved? I did not intentionally put her needs ahead of my own and did not do anything obsessively, merely excessively. If there is no benefit to me in these scenarios I simply won't do something: on that occasion I felt like starting as it did. It was largely a time issue — not realising how much had elapsed, which I acknowledged could have been aided by wearing a watch and better handling, rather than relying upon a WG to keep time.

Further in my defence: omitted from the first post was a request made in correspondence for her to be assertive, ergo direct some of the action. That along with one or two other requests, was neglected; for reasons not to be elucidated, on the day in question I was distracted by earlier events and didn't notice. Initial coms weren't fantastic, which ought to have alerted me to something being amiss but, it was at short-notice, she was in pole position on my HL and available at the time required. With other past punts, it hasn't been a problem. Post an e-mail and phone conversation regarding my concerns, this is to be remedied during a future visit. It remains to be seen if it materialises; however, I'm sanguine.  Thank you all the same.

Now that's dispensed with, my question was aimed at occasions when members here might have lost track of time or something similar and not fully realised what they'd wanted to.

Offline Faustus

Lets be honest the Hooker was probably wondering what she was going to buy from the supermarket, rather than having a 45 minute orgasm.

Speaking of which: what did you have for dinner a week last Friday?

Offline Nagilum

She essentially having a 45min orgasm and me not the slightest of intended purpose. Naturally, it was all very entertaining being lost in her box for three-quarters of an hour, that is until time was announced and hurriedly ushered out. Responsibility for this was mostly mine for not planning properly — also an argument for wearing a watch — though part I feel lies with her for not even suggesting moving things on somewhat.

You have to remember you are paying to do the things you want to do.  If you went down for 45 minutes she would assume that is what you wanted.  They would not suggest anything to you, because you are leading at all times. 

Be in control and dictate what you want.

Offline Nagilum

There's no need for ad hominems they're quite unhelpfully unreasonable

VW wasn't attacking you personally, he is stating something that most punters do.  Not necessarily you in this case. 

Offline Kryten

It's a change in mindset that can sometimes take a while to accept. IE, if you've had civvie girlfriends for years then the expectation is that you pleasure them. You're selfish if you don't. Suddenly you're with an attractive women and the natural instinct may be to please. Just remember that they've been paid a hefty sum to pleasure you.

I do enjoy RO, but also don't feel at all guilty about stopping half way through if I fancy something different.

Offline cain

Speaking of which: what did you have for dinner a week last Friday?

I can't remember , probably like the hooker can't remember the 45 minute orgasm.

Offline JV547845

Never a waste.  Even the shit ones you learn something.  And hopefully you can just be like "Doesn't matter.  Had sex."  I've left disappointed by it ending too soon or not over running a few times, but that's just my own expectations.  Waste of time to stay for a massage or some bullshit if the vibe is wrong anyway.

Offline Sonny Crockett

Yes. Spent too much time in one punt facefucking a WG and then when it came to the actual fucking, I struggled to get hard thanks to the condom, so I had turned my focus to getting hard again. That ruined the flow of the punt. The WG then penalised me by looking at the clock when walking into the bathroom.
Banning reason: Troll

The only thing I spend too long doing is recovering between pops, not the girls fault that I'm old and overweight  :D

There's no need for ad hominems they're quite unhelpfully unreasonable…but then one could suppose objective achieved? I did not intentionally put her needs ahead of my own and did not do anything obsessively, merely excessively. If there is no benefit to me in these scenarios I simply won't do something: on that occasion I felt like starting as it did. It was largely a time issue — not realising how much had elapsed, which I acknowledged could have been aided by wearing a watch and better handling, rather than relying upon a WG to keep time.

Further in my defence: omitted from the first post was a request made in correspondence for her to be assertive, ergo direct some of the action. That along with one or two other requests, was neglected; for reasons not to be elucidated, on the day in question I was distracted by earlier events and didn't notice. Initial coms weren't fantastic, which ought to have alerted me to something being amiss but, it was at short-notice, she was in pole position on my HL and available at the time required. With other past punts, it hasn't been a problem. Post an e-mail and phone conversation regarding my concerns, this is to be remedied during a future visit. It remains to be seen if it materialises; however, I'm sanguine.  Thank you all the same.

Now that's dispensed with, my question was aimed at occasions when members here might have lost track of time or something similar and not fully realised what they'd wanted to.

To be honest bet she was glad you were down there and not talking in riddles !
« Last Edit: April 30, 2016, 02:27:04 AM by virtualwaster »

No, I put my needs first while others obsessively put the prossies satisfaction first .  :wacko:

Up to you how you punt but if you feel it was wasted then you need to take control of your own punts.

+ 100

I find it difficult to understand why you would give a prossie oral for 45 mins then complain about wasting a booking  :unknown:

Offline Nagilum

I find it difficult to understand why you would give a prossie oral for 45 mins then complain about wasting a booking  :unknown:

Shyness, inexperience and submissive.

Shyness, inexperience and submissive.

I see those points but the op has no sympathy from me on this occasion I think he needs to man up and make sure this does not happen again.

Shyness, inexperience and submissive.

From his postings, just a tosser that cant tell the time !

From his postings, just a tosser that cant tell the time !

He probably thought he was giving her pleasure and he's a modern day Mr Darcy/Adonis would not be surprised if in his mind set he believed he would get a freebie or she would fall head over heels in love with him. No doubt he signs his reviews off with the treat her well guys statement

He probably thought he was giving her pleasure and he's a modern day Mr Darcy/Adonis would not be surprised if in his mind set he believed he would get a freebie or she would fall head over heels in love with him. No doubt he signs his reviews off with the treat her well guys statement

Well he likes to fuck fatties in scrap yards !

Offline Icarus

I think its a learning curve some, maybe most, people have to go through. When you first start I think its somewhat natural to ask the WG to take the lead because you are unsure whats allowable and what isn't. I wouldn't say I've ever wasted a booking but a few of my earlier ones fizzled out after the first pop and usually I ended up wasting 20-30 mins of the punt just doing nothing really.

My turning point was when an agency offered me a free hour punt. I paid for an additional hour. Got there to see the girl (I'd seen her before), first 30-40 mins were great full on sex and then we started chatting whilst I recovered. This dragged on and on for a full hour. When she didn't initiate anything with 15 mins to go I simply asked and she jumped on top.

If you don't ask you don't receive.


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