Anyone felt that connection??

[thebe]

Hi I just wanted to ask the punters in this forum, has anyone met an escort and felt that connection, that special feeling that they have truly enjoyed the experience and that the girl in question has also perhaps felt the same. Strange question to ask as the girls are purely in it for the fast money ( god forbid that they have been forced in it ) but I would like to think there must be at least a few in this field that gain job satisfaction from doing this.

Has anyone had that experience?

[GoldenLeaf]

People probably do get that feeling, we're only human, attraction happens. But personally if I ever felt like that I wouldn't go see the pro$$ie again, at the end of the day I'm there for a shag and as harsh as it sounds I don't care if there is a connection.

So yeah, I'm sure there are guys on here that feel this way about some girls but not sure if any are going to own up.. which is fair enough....

[Belgarion]

I have had a few connections, i.e. not emotional, more of the physical side of it, or a fondness for the WG (i.e. friend with benefits).

Once you part with cash to get some action, you need to think with your brain, ignore everything else.

Yes, some of these girls you could pull at a club but you are in a business environment. Will always keep you sane.

There are a number of WGs I have excellent business relationships with, we laugh, joke, share messages etc, but that's about it. I am not emotionally available to them and they are not emotionally available to me

[thebe]

Thanks for your thoughts, this is what a forum is all about.
 I myself am getting really emotionally attached to a girl I recently saw and keep thinking about her all the time. Her beauty captivated me most of all and I keep seeing visions of her as well. I do hope that it is a passing obssession and it will go away but it has really drained me for the past few days, she probably gives a rats arse to my feelings even though I have made it clear to her but I still cannot forget her despite this, for the moment anyway.

Hope this does not happen to you gentz.

[faggins]

I have regulars who I "click" with, on the basis that they do the job right (because they have a grasp of what I'm after) and I leave as a satisfied customer, and can have a good pre and post coital chat with ("how's your job? where are you going on holiday?), but I'm about as emotionally attached to them as I am to a regular barber or plumber.

[tarkus]

I have one ex WG that I'm Facebook friends with and that I've met since she stopped working both socially and for FWB. I have another regular who's still working that I'm also FB friends with, we exchange non-sexual messages but when I see her it's still a WG/Punter relationship.

[Steady Eddy]

Thanks for your thoughts, this is what a forum is all about.
 I myself am getting really emotionally attached to a girl I recently saw and keep thinking about her all the time. Her beauty captivated me most of all and I keep seeing visions of her as well. I do hope that it is a passing obssession and it will go away but it has really drained me for the past few days, she probably gives a rats arse to my feelings even though I have made it clear to her but I still cannot forget her despite this, for the moment anyway.

Hope this does not happen to you gentz.

You need to get this out of your system. It won't end well if you don't.  Set the the right boundaries and behaviors - Post a review and keep it objective.

[tarkus]

Thanks for your thoughts, this is what a forum is all about.
 I myself am getting really emotionally attached to a girl I recently saw and keep thinking about her all the time. Her beauty captivated me most of all and I keep seeing visions of her as well. I do hope that it is a passing obssession and it will go away but it has really drained me for the past few days, she probably gives a rats arse to my feelings even though I have made it clear to her but I still cannot forget her despite this, for the moment anyway.

Hope this does not happen to you gentz.

For your sanity's sake you should stop seeing her and find numerous other girls. If she feels you getting emotionally attached she may well block you anyway.

Mind you if she's looking for UK citizenship she might marry you.... 

[thebe]

 
 Thanks all for the advice. I am finding it hard to believe myself that I would have such strong feelings for someone you pay to have sex with, if she blocks me that would be worse but am trying my utmost not to see her again so that all my feelings do not  get in the way. Unrequited love as they say is tragic.

[uutarn]

Hi I just wanted to ask the punters in this forum, has anyone met an escort and felt that connection, that special feeling that they have truly enjoyed the experience and that the girl in question has also perhaps felt the same. Strange question to ask as the girls are purely in it for the fast money ( god forbid that they have been forced in it ) but I would like to think there must be at least a few in this field that gain job satisfaction from doing this.

Has anyone had that experience?

Yes

[Hannibal35]

Hi I just wanted to ask the punters in this forum, has anyone met an escort and felt that connection, that special feeling that they have truly enjoyed the experience and that the girl in question has also perhaps felt the same. Strange question to ask as the girls are purely in it for the fast money ( god forbid that they have been forced in it ) but I would like to think there must be at least a few in this field that gain job satisfaction from doing this.

Has anyone had that experience


Still finding my feet with this site, so bear with me!
I'm glad im not the only one who has felt a real connection with a WG. I met a new escort about a couple of months ago, and as crazy as it sounds, once we came to the end of the booking, and were chatting about life we laughed and said "have you felt that click".
The next day, we emailed, and ended up having another booking that night. 3weeks later we were doing our first overnight booking.  I have never been this hooked, in such a short time, so there was definitely a connection for us.   The trouble is what do I do now, leave it a while and see who contacts each other first, or...?     I'm sure she wasn't agreeing to the bookings for the money, either that or it was a very good act!!
I'm just glad there is someone else on here, that has also felt something with an escort.

[thebe]

 I would not be able to judge whether your connection was genuine or not, mine is more one sided and related to feelings rather than sex. But if you truly enjoyed the experience, then that is good for you.

If I was a millionare, i would probably rescue her from that life which I imagine can be very difficult. That is how much I feel for her.

[happyharry]

I do know, and have experienced many years ago, what you guys are talking about but............  Just remember the circumstances in which you first contacted these girls. You wanted sex, they wanted money. When they give you the sex for free well then, maybe, there's more to it. Until that happens, just treat them as someone who's mining a rich seam.
As a reality check, why not ask them to meet you socially for a drink/meal (nothing more) with the bill being split 50/50. If she declines then you have the answer to your dilemma. If she accepts, then ask yourself - can I ever trust a woman who sold her body ?

[thebe]

 So nice and refreshing to see such honest, insightful posts apart from all the usual crap that gets posted on this forum.

 I very much agree with the advice you gave and could not have been put better. But I would like to think that nobody is born a whore and I would like to think that they are driven to this job by necessity more than greed because of this fucked up world we live in. I would also like to think that no girl is a true slag and deep inside they are normal human beings who like everyone else desire to be treated with respect and affection. Maybe I am wrong, who knows only the person concerned would know their true self.
 Me personally I would still love her whether she was good or bad, with all her imperfections.

[socks]

So nice and refreshing to see such honest, insightful posts apart from all the usual crap that gets posted on this forum.

 I very much agree with the advice you gave and could not have been put better. But I would like to think that nobody is born a whore and I would like to think that they are driven to this job by necessity more than greed because of this fucked up world we live in. I would also like to think that no girl is a true slag and deep inside they are normal human beings who like everyone else desire to be treated with respect and affection. Maybe I am wrong, who knows only the person concerned would know their true self.
 Me personally I would still love her whether she was good or bad, with all her imperfections.

...and then you complain when people link you to RRR

[Hertsgent]

I do know, and have experienced many years ago, what you guys are talking about but............  Just remember the circumstances in which you first contacted these girls. You wanted sex, they wanted money. When they give you the sex for free well then, maybe, there's more to it. Until that happens, just treat them as someone who's mining a rich seam.
As a reality check, why not ask them to meet you socially for a drink/meal (nothing more) with the bill being split 50/50. If she declines then you have the answer to your dilemma. If she accepts, then ask yourself - can I ever trust a woman who sold her body ?

Blimey, this thread has gone a bit deep with a couple of members - your feelings could be true, but I like the advice above (although I'm not sure I'd have a problem dating an ex escort to be honest - I should be a Tory MP ) 

I generally "connect" well with WGs I regularly see (which is why I'm a repeat visitor to those, given the opportunity). I generally find that these same WGs "connect" well with many other clients too, which prevents much EAS on my part. And I almost always stick to a rule of no more than one visit a month. Of course, being married, with no palatable exit option at present, helps too.

[vw]

Still finding my feet with this site, so bear with me!
I'm glad im not the only one who has felt a real connection with a WG. I met a new escort about a couple of months ago, and as crazy as it sounds, once we came to the end of the booking, and were chatting about life we laughed and said "have you felt that click".
The next day, we emailed, and ended up having another booking that night. 3weeks later we were doing our first overnight booking.  I have never been this hooked, in such a short time, so there was definitely a connection for us.   The trouble is what do I do now, leave it a while and see who contacts each other first, or...?     I'm sure she wasn't agreeing to the bookings for the money, either that or it was a very good act!!
I'm just glad there is someone else on here, that has also felt something with an escort.

Clicked so much she still charges you, sounds like she has got you just where she want you.

[sxman]

If I was a millionare, i would probably rescue her from that life which I imagine can be very difficult. That is how much I feel for her.

If you were a millionaire she would fleece you for as much as she can and then fuck off, either that or she would need rescuing from you. 

[Badvicar]

Sorry to read you are feeling distressed by bullying. Might I suggest you grow a pair and stop this fluffy cry baby routine, thus alleviating any suspicion.

[James999]

So nice and refreshing to see such honest, insightful posts apart from all the usual crap that gets posted on this forum.

So you've only been here two weeks (under this nic) and you've decided the place is crap 

[thebe]

This was an extremely well going thread until the arrival of people who always tend to deviate the topic again and again for no good reason. A forum is a place for people to discuss, to exchange thoughts and ideas, for example someone has given a really good advice about this topic and am grateful to him for that.

I don't think the forum is crap, there are people who are genuinely posting to help and advise others but then there are also people who post a few words away from the topic which deviates the thread from the topic and this ends up being a mess.

Now I have posted this, I know where this thread is going... What an excellent thread this was with people expressing there true feelings and experiences, I especially liked the words by Hertsagent, could not have put it better.

[thebe]

This was an extremely well going thread until the arrival of people who always tend to deviate the topic again and again for no good reason. A forum is a place for people to discuss, to exchange thoughts and ideas, for example someone has given a really good advice about this topic and am grateful to him for that.

I don't think the forum is crap, there are people who are genuinely posting to help and advise others but then there are also people who post a few words away from the topic which deviates the thread from the topic and this ends up being a mess.

Now I have posted this, I know where this thread is going... What an excellent thread this was with people expressing there true feelings and experiences, I especially liked the words by Hertsagent, could not have put it better.

Apologies, it was Happyharry that I was referring to, not Hertsagent.

[JonnyS]

I'll admit I've had this more than once before, and am currently going through this with one wg I visit regularly.

I keep going back because she makes me feel good, and I feel that she understands me. Ever since our first meet I've felt she just naturally worked out what I like, there was no need for the whole "what do you like?" or "what positions do you want to do?" bullshit that can sometimes ruin the moment, it's a more natural and intimate flow that ultimately leads to great sex. So of course I'll keep going back. Would I tell her how I actually feel? Of course not, because I can't realistically imagine that working out well for me (and I'll probably never find another wg as good as her so my punting life would be over if she blocked me).

That being said, if I didn't feel anything then I'd probably never go back. We're spending money to have a good time, and (for me at least) if she's clearly not enjoying it then I won't either, and my money is basically wasted. I know not all punters have the same attitude, but that's just my opinion.

[uutarn]

We're spending money to have a good time, and (for me at least) if she's clearly not enjoying it then I won't either, and my money is basically wasted.

There is no "we". You are the one spending money, remember that.
But i do semi agree with "if she's not enjoying it then its money wasted".

I don't consider it money wasted if i had a good time, but i do prefer it if the girl enjoys herself.

[socks]

...and then you complain when people link you to RRR

Blimey, you really did 

[sxman]

This was an extremely well going thread until the arrival of people who always tend to deviate the topic again and again for no good reason. A forum is a place for people to discuss, to exchange thoughts and ideas, for example someone has given a really good advice about this topic and am grateful to him for that.

This is correct, but its also a place where you need to gain trust that you are a genuine punter, you need to earn that trust with reviews etc.... all you have posted is fluffy nonsense about how you have fallen in love with some WG, you obviously know your way around the site so I doubt your completely new, so my guess is you have been a member before and believe me your posts and style are exactly like someone we all know, either that or I think your a troll, but until you start making useful posts that will be of any valid input to us you will always be under scrutiny.

If you are genuine please don't take offence because I'm just saying how it looks.

[thebe]

 
Ok I got your point, I need to post reviews to be useful to other punters. But I did point out that I was relatively new to this field and as far as I am concerned , there is no requirement for someone to post reviews to prove their worth. For me the forum is a place for discussion, to seek advive but also to express my feelings. There is no need to be cynical if someone thinks I sound like someone else although I have seen his posts around the forum and can see a huge set of difference in our opinions and thoughts.

 I would like to thank the guys who are posting in relation to the topic and request that more be shared.

[Punchdrunk]

Express your feeling? 

[vw]

Ok I got your point, I need to post reviews to be useful to other punters. But I did point out that I was relatively new to this field and as far as I am concerned , there is no requirement for someone to post reviews to prove their worth. For me the forum is a place for discussion, to seek advive but also to express my feelings. There is no need to be cynical if someone thinks I sound like someone else although I have seen his posts around the forum and can see a huge set of difference in our opinions and thoughts.

 I would like to thank the guys who are posting in relation to the topic and request that more be shared.

Well that's up to the individual , some people hate leeches with a passion but as you said you are new, hopefully you break your review duck at some point soon, reviews are the life blood of this forum.

[Dani]

If I was a millionare, i would probably rescue her from that life which I imagine can be very difficult. That is how much I feel for her.

Why on earth do you think she needs rescuing. A quick look on saafe will show you exactly what a lot of prossies think about men who think we want to be rescued. It won't make good reading for you I'm afraid.  These are the guys that girls tend to avoid like the plague

As for making a connection. I connect with a lot of the men I see.  We have a great time because of it as it makes every booking flow easily. It also means I look forward to seeing them and have had email and text chat between bookings with them. I have also done overnights with some of them. However it is just a connection that many people have before becoming friends and does not mean there is something special between us. It just means I prefer to see those guys over guys who I make no connection with

As for her enjoying herself,  if she is good at her job you should always think she is as she should be a good enough actor that even if she disliked you, you would not ever know. A good prossie treats every client the same and acts as if she really likes every guy who hands over money.  It's part of the job. You pay for a fantasy and we supply that fantasy.  However it is just fantasy so don't read anything into it unless you want to find your regular girl blocking your number

[thebe]

 Nice to get a female perspective. Referring to the if I was a  millionaire thing, what I would have done is given her a large sum of money so that she could leave the life she was leading, it would not matter if she ignored me after that, I just love her and let's face the facts- escorting is not an easy job I would imagine, having sex with strangers, "pretending " to like it as you mentioned. Personally, I would never be able to do it ( if I was a woman) and I think these girls are incredibly brave in doing what they are doing. Rescue was not the appropriate word, I just want her to leave the profession. I can tell very easily whether a person is remotely happy or satisfied with what they are doing and I do not think everybody would be fooled into thinking otherwise.

[vw]

I just love her.

Clearly you have issues, maybe punting is not for you RRR.

If you are looking to fall in love with escorts, then you will end up being the problem punter everyone hates !

[thebe]

 I don't tend to fall inlove with every WG that I see .
You thinking that I am RRR does not bother me at all if that is what you are thinking.

[vw]

You thinking that I am RRR does not bother me at all if that is what you are thinking.

why cry to Admin then ?

I don't tend to fall inlove with every WG that I see .

Only the special ones then, you sound like a liability to yourself and others trapped in your delusion !

[cueball]

I met a new escort about a couple of months ago, and as crazy as it sounds, once we came to the end of the booking, and were chatting about life we laughed and said "have you felt that click".

The next day, we emailed, and ended up having another booking that night. 3weeks later we were doing our first overnight booking.  I have never been this hooked, in such a short time, so there was definitely a connection for us.   The trouble is what do I do now, leave it a while and see who contacts each other first, or...?     I'm sure she wasn't agreeing to the bookings for the money, either that or it was a very good act!!

That's real lovely story that, touching and emotional. I too have had that, here's my version....

I'd met dirty Doris on many occasions, she agreed we had a special connection. I knew there was a click. So, I booked doris twice weekly and even over nights. I knew the money was irrelevant and to prove it,I sent her this message.....

I said... "hi doris my darling, as we have now moved from wg/punter relationship into the realms of real feeling and genuine connection, I feel the money is now detracting from our experience. I suggest we spend the night together but no money changes hands"

Doris said... "fuck off"

Give your bloody heads a sheck if you think this ain't business, yes, I've had many a good laugh with many a lass but it's a money transaction.

They don't need saving and they don't need loving.

Pay, podge, don't act like a twat and drive away at the end of it.

Don't be a fuckin soppy idiot who falls in love with a wg, it'll end in tears, usually yours.

Ask for a freebie, that'll put it in all true reality for you.

I'll dig the link out for Doris

Edit.... watch out for the loan request, the soppy fuckers usually get stung with that one too

[Wilson85]

FFS! If I was whoring and was given a lump sum to leave I'd take the money, make some noise about a fresh start and then carry on whoring regardless.

Having spoken to at least one prossie about their work, it isn't easy money but it is good money. So good that it is hard to leave purely because no other job pays at least £100 an hour.

As for feelings and love, you may well feel foolish in a few months time. I know I do after catching 'feelings' for a prossie. Just fuck 'em and have a good time for 30mins/an hour then carry on with life.

[thebe]

why cry to Admin then ?

Only the special ones then, you sound like a liability to yourself and others trapped in your delusion !

 Where did you get the feeling that I was crying out ? Just becos i said that you calling me RRR would not bother me? What are you on ? Do you have a persoanl problem with me ?
 And what does it concern you if I do fall in love with someone, how does that affect you or the forum? We are in a country where we are free to express ourselves within our boundaries and certainly in this forum.

I did say before that the topic was going to be deviated and I was right. Just becos of one stupid post .

 

[vw]

FFS! If I was whoring and was given a lump sum to leave I'd take the money, make some noise about a fresh start and then carry on whoring regardless.

Having spoken to at least one prossie about their work, it isn't easy money but it is good money. So good that it is hard to leave purely because no other job pays at least £100 an hour.

As for feelings and love, you may well feel foolish in a few months time. I know I do after catching 'feelings' for a prossie. Just fuck 'em and have a good time for 30mins/an hour then carry on with life.

Would it be worth it ?  I can imagine sad twats like TheBeRonRon would think they are owed for saving someone that didn't need saving !

[thebe]

Ignoring the last post by this twat, thank you to the other two guys for their words and advice, I can tell you really mean it.

[thebe]

 You know who i am talking about you virtual waste of space and time.

[vw]

Where did you get the feeling that I was crying out ? .

You cried in your report to admin and people calling you Ronnie.

[Wilson85]

It's a gift. Gifter can go fuck themselves as far as I'd be concerned.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=38312.0 This was a memorable meltdown.

Keep us posted about how you get on with your beloved thebe.

[Bangers and Gash]

I always 'feel that connection' - usually when she slides down to the base of my cock and gives a little wiggle. 

[thebe]

Are you the fucking admin or what ? I just said i was getting irrritated by others referring me to the other guy when I had just joined the forum. If admin has a problem with this, they can fuck off my account. You are  the sort of person who likes to piss people off for no reason arent you silly cunt

[thebe]

 Virtual waste of space and semen.

[vw]

Are you the fucking admin or what ? I just said i was getting irrritated by others referring me to the other guy when I had just joined the forum. If admin has a problem with this, they can fuck off my account. You are  the sort of person who likes to piss people off for no reason arent you silly cunt

No just hate saddos that fall in love with prossies, more often than not they cause problems for other punters. 

Hope she is a fat moose so nobody here will miss out !

[thebe]

It's a gift. Gifter can go fuck themselves as far as I'd be concerned.

 Thanks for the post and advice. I will take it on board.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=38312.0 This was a memorable meltdown.

Keep us posted about how you get on with your beloved thebe.

[cueball]

Has there ever been a marriage on here?

I'd at least come to the night do but I'm likely to come to the church too, all the bridesmaids will be prossies and we'd most likely get a go on the bride.


Ooo, I've never podged a prossie in a wedding dress.

Volivons, chicken legs and quartered pork pies all need to be on the buffet.

[cheek]

Thebe you really haven't taken any of the advise offered to you on board have you ?

You cannot dictate what people post - and yes sometimes topics are sidetracked!

I genuinely think you need to calm down a bit because you're not giving yourself any credibility with posts like this or going off at other established members without having even posted a review yourself!

[vw]

Thebe you really haven't taken any of the advise offered to you on board have you ?

You cannot dictate what people post - and yes sometimes topics are sidetracked!

I genuinely think you need to calm down a bit because you're not giving yourself any credibility with posts like this or going off at other established members without having even posted a review yourself!

Would you trust a review from someone in love with a prossie !

Maybe thebe has considered the conflict of interest, or maybe he doesn't want other punters booking her !