I realise this is potentially a controversial topic, but every now and again, I come across an Adultwork profile where the woman seems to be completely up herself. It's only my interpretation of the profile, and I accept that if I name women whom I think come in that category, other UKP members may leap to their defence, possibly justifiably.
Nevertheless, I thought I'd start this thread, with the intention that anybody else who has a view on an "up herself" prossie might care to contribute to it.
So I'll get the ball rolling with this one: www.adultwork.com/1859244
Nice looking woman, from what you can see of her, and the (very wordy) profile is highly literate and well organised. . She may well be telling the truth when she says she has a "proper" job, and this is just a hobby. I can only think her job must demand intellect but pay very little, like being a librarian in a theological college.
But what makes the profile "up itself" is the remarkable requirement that if you have not seen her before, you have to pay her for a 60 minute social meeting, to take place at a venue of her choice. If you don't "click", then she says goodbye. In other words, you end up £120 out of pocket,plus the cost of the drinks which no doubt, with a classy lady like her, includes a couple of glasses of champagne. If you do hit it off, you then, it would appear, have to pay for another hour to shag her. What a racket! I can see that she might want the "neutral territory" meeting for her own protection, but to pay a three-figure sum for it is a bloody piss-take. Your time is being wasted as much as hers. It's not just her senses that twirl (I quote from her profile) but mine at her impudence. And you are required to confirm that you have read her profile and understand the terms and conditions. Amazingly, several people have gone through this ludicrous charade, to judge by her feedback. I look forward to a negative post saying "She said I was an uncouth fat slob and buggered off leaving me over £150 out of pocket".
That's enough on her. Any comments, whether in agreement or dissenting?
My next up herself woman will follow shortly. Right now, I'm going ot have a drink: I need one after re-reading that profile.