A guide on how to cure erection problems in punting

[MrMatrix]

Any ideas on how you're going to rectify this problem? At the moment my "aggression" (confidence) levels are going through the roof.

This is a long term problem. Keeping hard isnt the issue for me. Getting the little guy to do his party trick is.I do think the solution lies in the wanking ban. I had a chat with the WG I was with and she said its the same for girls. They suffer desensitisation if they keep using clitoral stimulators- this was news to me as I'd never considered this. It would appear girls suffer the same if they over indulge.
So despite chocking one out when I got home - just to check it did work and it does, I will go back to the wanking ban. As a bloke we know this is a tough route to go, it also involves a no porn ban as well(not sure I can do this one) but I dont see any other way around it if you have a damaged G spot/bellend from years of abuse. I think only time can reset its sensitiveness. I'm unaware of any medical approach. It requires a lot of will power and goes against a blokes psyche.
Without knowing your personnal circumstances - the agression, I had counselling 10 years ago and whilst it didn't sort the main problem out of not unloading , it did sort MrAngry out. These days I'm more chilled out after years of rejection. The one thing punting has given me is that I am a good fuck and its my OH that has the problems. With some of the comments I've had from SPs, well that has boosted my confidence. Hope this helps Barry.

[billybobsmith]

Tiredness works best for me.
When I'm dozing off etc., it's easy to get a good erection and quite often maintain it.

Not sure if I'm more relaxed, therefore less emotionally hung up, so blood flows better.

[hungrypunt]

the WG I was with and she said its the same for girls. They suffer desensitisation if they keep using clitoral stimulators- this was news to me as I'd never considered this. It would appear girls suffer the same if they over indulge.

this is true, my reg girl told me she was doing too much a wjile ago but her recovery was quick when she lessened the wanking.

So despite chocking one out when I got home - just to check it did work and it does, I will go back to the wanking ban.

try 1 a week, worked for me

it also involves a no porn ban as well(not sure I can do this one)

this makes ahuuuuge difference to me , stick at it mate.

It requires a lot of will power and goes against a blokes psyche.

yep but it works, brain retrain. I get a hard on now looking at hot girl or nice arse, and the sex is far more stimulating. What comes with this is the confidence that your gonna perform and enjoy it without thinking, this in turn helps anxiety, then the circle turns round from wondering if you will, to "shes getting this"

Im still keeping tabs on myself and Ive not seen any porn for a month, but had some good fucks, and heard some nice long moans and screams. Plastered a few faces and am in fact lined up today with an SA girl for the 5th time who i know gets me the horn but I will drop half a tab for insurance.

Keep it up mate.

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[MrMatrix]

this is true, my reg girl told me she was doing too much a wjile ago but her recovery was quick when she lessened the wanking.try 1 a week, worked for me this makes ahuuuuge difference to me , stick at it mate.yep but it works, brain retrain. I get a hard on now looking at hot girl or nice arse, and the sex is far more stimulating. What comes with this is the confidence that your gonna perform and enjoy it without thinking, this in turn helps anxiety, then the circle turns round from wondering if you will, to "shes getting this"

Im still keeping tabs on myself and Ive not seen any porn for a month, but had some good fucks, and heard some nice long moans and screams. Plastered a few faces and am in fact lined up today with an SA girl for the 5th time who i know gets me the horn but I will drop half a tab for insurance.

Keep it up mate.

Morning HP. Thanks for the comments. Can I look at porn with out chocking one out- cos I'm quite ok with that. Still sailing close to the wind with temptation though. You offer good advice. Thanks.
Alas I no longer get access to SA as of a few weeks ago. I actually enjoyed that thread even though I'm not doing SA (which looks a lot of fun). Regards MM

[Marmalade]

Current optimum prices update:
Cabergoline £3.59
Tadalafil 40mg 67p (so break in half for normal dose costs 34p.)

[megaman]

I have found sometimes if I get depressed my sex drive well go up, I have had hypersexuality episodes sometimes when my mood got too low. It is a bit weird but there is stuff about it on the net   

[hungrypunt]

Morning HP. Thanks for the comments. Can I look at porn with out chocking one out- cos I'm quite ok with that. Still sailing close to the wind with temptation though. You offer good advice. Thanks.
Alas I no longer get access to SA as of a few weeks ago. I actually enjoyed that thread even though I'm not doing SA (which looks a lot of fun). Regards MM

Dunno mate. All i know is afterr sewng the TED GLASGOW PORN EXPWRIMENT talk on it...i laid it off and noticed a diff in a week or so. I remi d myself now each time i get tempted as to how i get a lot harder without it. Plus i find im.more interested in things day to day.

[BarryProudfoot]

Morning HP. Thanks for the comments.

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Can I look at porn with out chocking one out- cos I'm quite ok with that. Still sailing close to the wind with temptation though. You offer good advice. Thanks.
Alas I no longer get access to SA as of a few weeks ago. I actually enjoyed that thread even though I'm not doing SA (which looks a lot of fun). Regards MM

No, because that is stimulating your mind into temptation.

[megaman]

I heard sexual arousal and libido are not the same so how can you tell the difference,  wot's most important arousal or libido(desire)

[shagmore]

I have definitely found laying of the walking makes a big difference, also not watching porn, its tough but the results in the end are worth it.
I love fucking, and wanking, but its definitely better after a lay off of wanking. With the porn watching, you still get aroused, but if you watch and don't do anything I find it desensitises you, so can be a negative effect.
Unfortunately we can't have our cake and eat it.   
A very useful and interested thread, thanks to all who have commented

[MrMatrix]

Still trying- I'm into week 4 of NOFAP, it gets easier as time goes by. Hopefully auto will kick in on my next punt in a couple of weeks time 

[nervous1]

Had a quick punt last week after laying off wanking for a week before.  I'm getting to the stage that I like oral more but it's still not anywhere near where it should be.  Penetration however is much better and I'm not lasting long.  I thought it would be the other way around since the former is unprotected and the latter is not.

Hardly a game changer but a couple of things that can only help.  Got an email from Lloyds pharmacy (since that's where I used to get my blue pills) about the effect of smoking on ED.  I didn't know that nicotine was such a big factor and it's even worse if you're a vaper like myself.  Cut down my vaping frequency already and halving the nicotine strength of my e-liquids from now on.

The other is simply drinking plenty of water.  It keeps coming up on my ED searches and I'm now trying to drink around 2 litres a day.  I feel better overall because of it including down there.

[megaman]

I'm pissed off I got some supplements too get my sex drive up and now I'm fckin wanking myself off again

[Hooters]

I'm pissed off I got some supplements too get my sex drive up and now I'm fckin wanking myself off again

What supplments did you get

[bigmanbigman]

Wankalot
Super strength

[megaman]

What supplments did you get

ginkgo biloba and zinc as made a improvement in cum volume and the urge in wanting too unload. I can feel my balls moving and get a sort of a nice feeling at the end of my penis
I don't know if ginkgo leaf is the same
I'm also putting castor oil on at night for penis growth I hope.

[Marmalade]

So now we have two "cock dropping off  " threads.
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=161318.msg1741511;topicseen#new
What a lovely advert for uk punting.   

[Mkdng]

How long does it take for the supplements to kick in guys ??

[BarryProudfoot]

How long does it take for the supplements to kick in guys ??

Everyones body is different and what you put into it also counts. I'd say a few weeks

[MrMatrix]

Yesterday my first puunt for 5 weeks and 5 weeks NOFAP - so I am fairly optomistic of the auto trigger kicking in. But no it didnt happen and the SP was great. Thought at one stage in CG it was going to happen. In the end Mrs P bailed me out....... again. Last time she couldn't help either so I guess its an improvement. Will continue with NOFAP save for punting events. A bit disappointed

[megaman]

What would people pick if they had a choice between delayed ejaculation(less feel) or premature ejaculation(but with more feeling in the penis). I personally want delayed ejaculation again

[MrMatrix]

Any sort of ejaculation quite honestly

[Autopunter]

A big revelation to me was foreplay; I originally turned to WGs because I struggled staying hard in a condom. I also had a tendency to focus on the girl when I was younger. Experiencing the full on attention of even not so attractive WGs who were nonetheless experts in getting men off was a revelation. All the problems I thought I had where really just about crap sex and my own idea that the woman had to get priority.

[rubric]

I think there's a danger of over thinking this. Of course being healthier will improve all aspects of your life - including your sex life - so sleep, exercise, eating properly all help.  If you are masturbating many times every day like a wild monkey it's not going to help - otoh i think the no-fap thing can be over blown.

Focusing too much on achieving orgasm or erection is going to affect both - the thing that has helped me most if mindfulness - pay more attention - and enjoy whats happening to you will actually help you enjoy the process, and over time you'll find yourself getting both easier.

[newbie007]

Great advice and I have successfully abstained for upto a month but then everything kinda steams up and end up masturbating twice a day.

Also some of us can't afford escorts much so hand job is the only option. Appreciate your post.

[megaman]

Is it worth getting on wellbutrin for depression? There maybe a small chance I can get on that instead of a ssri with a different docter.some reviews are saying it can help with your sex life

[Mkdng]

I see you guy recommend the flesh light to overcome the dreaded death grip..
had a look online for one and the price & choices are endless so  what one would you recommend??

[Marmalade]

I see you guy recommend the flesh light to overcome the dreaded death grip..
had a look online for one and the price & choices are endless so  what one would you recommend??

Think about it and enjoy the trolling for another fourteen pages is the usual answer.

[Mkdng]

Think about it and enjoy the trolling for another fourteen pages is the usual answer.

Thanks Marmalade Already trolled through these pages a plenty mentioned about them but nothing on brand, type or what kind of money should be spent on them

[Fugly]

"it's like eating a mars bar with the wrapper on"

I know that I'm hugely late to this discussion but I just wanted to tell you all that the guy who originally said this was the Headmaster of Eton college, addressing his students during the HIV paranoia of the early 80's.  He told them to make their own judgements re how they approached the "current difficulties", but that he would be continuing to operate au naturel  Public school eh?

[tantric talents]

Get them for half price at Holland and Barrett at the moment

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Doesn't seem that cheap. Its less than 8 quid on ebay from hench-gear.

[BarryProudfoot]

Doesn't seem that cheap. Its less than 8 quid on ebay from hench-gear.

Aren't those doses, especially the zinc a little low?

I'm very much into getting as much Zinc and Magnesium as I can into my body through food and trying to sleep for 8 hours. Is this working? I go a week at a time and reset once every 7 days because I get the urge and want to. Recently I just feel run down. I don't even feel the urge, or want to have sex. It's like my body is depleted, yet I'm eating and drinking healthy.      

[tantric talents]

Aren't those doses, especially the zinc a little low?

I'm very much into getting as much Zinc and Magnesium as I can into my body through food and trying to sleep for 8 hours. Is this working? I go a week at a time and reset once every 7 days because I get the urge and want to. Recently I just feel run down. I don't even feel the urge, or want to have sex. It's like my body is depleted, yet I'm eating and drinking healthy.    

Well of course it’s not just zinc the male body needs. I would recommend a good quality broad spectrum colloidal mineral supplement. Something like life minerals or Ancient Purity’s Fulvic minerals should help. Also make sure you are getting enough iodine. I use both Lugols topically and Nascent Iodine orally.

[nervous1]

Sorry to bump an old thread, was just wondering how you guys were getting on?

I don't punt as much these days but of the three punts I've had this year I've only needed to finish myself once.  The other two have went really well with me knowing I was going to ejaculate a while before I did.  Pretty much wank every morning but sticking to the two finger rule, which obviously slows down progress considerably, but gently does it is the only way I can manage rather than go without.  Also, sticking to 30 minute punts has helped me feel less pressure (I assumed it would have been the other way around).  Admittedly OWO is still pretty uneventful but the penetration has improved immensely.

I've been eating healthier, exercising a little and also cut way down on the nicotine I consume.  Every little has helped I would say.

[threechilliman]

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This is working for me. Amusingly called plan A!

[nervous1]

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This is working for me. Amusingly called plan A!

Thanks for that.  Don't recall reading that before.  Previously it was all NoFap torture.

[Plan R]

Great link TCM thanks - I have death grip / prison hand - or whatever it's called.
As the complete abstinence of NoFap is impossible to me (even at 50)
I'm gong to give this and a fleshlight a go.
 

[MrMatrix]

Great link TCM thanks - I have death grip / prison hand - or whatever it's called.
As the complete abstinence of NoFap is impossible to me (even at 50)
I'm gong to give this and a fleshlight a go.
 

I dont think this site helps either as every where is a constant reminder what your cock is suppose to be doing. TCMs link is a good find. Ive gone I think 6 weeks without and there am I with this SP thinking yea its going to happen au naturally......... nope, Mrs P had to bail me out. Guess I need to try again

[threechilliman]

I dont think this site helps either as every where is a constant reminder what your cock is suppose to be doing. TCMs link is a good find. Ive gone I think 6 weeks without and there am I with this SP thinking yea its going to happen au naturally......... nope, Mrs P had to bail me out. Guess I need to try again

Wasn't actually my find, a fellow punter posted the link a while ago.

[MrMatrix]

Wasn't actually my find, a fellow punter posted the link a while ago.

Sorry Treechilliman, When I say this site I mean UKP. Your reference was and is very useful for all of us.
Log on to UKP and your cock knows it should be doing some essential work on some burd some where, which is what I mean. 

[Plan R]

I dont think this site helps either as every where is a constant reminder what your cock is suppose to be doing.

Agreed MM.
One of the methods of breaking a habit is first identifying the triggers and escalation route that leads to relapse..(people, places, moods, events, habits).. you can tell I've been reading NoFap!
In an effort to stop wanking I thought about it from me. The escalation route was always:
(1) Look on UKP
(2) Look at links to loads of horny brasses on AW
(3) Think Ohhh I could be fucking one of them right now..
(4) Think Ohh I'll "just' have a 'quick' look at Pornhub
(5) Then its off to the races and before I know it I've had a wank

The important point being I wasn't even horny when I logged onto UKP  and was probably more interested in 'Off Topic' (at first)..
I do love it here though so I'm not giving that up. Going to have to work on step 2 not becoming step 3, and definitely not 4

[MrMatrix]

Agreed MM.
One of the methods of breaking a habit is first identifying the triggers and escalation route that leads to relapse..(people, places, moods, events, habits).. you can tell I've been reading NoFap!
In an effort to stop wanking I thought about it from me. The escalation route was always:
(1) Look on UKP
(2) Look at links to loads of horny brasses on AW
(3) Think Ohhh I could be fucking one of them right now..
(4) Think Ohh I'll "just' have a 'quick' look at Pornhub
(5) Then its off to the races and before I know it I've had a wank

The important point being I wasn't even horny when I logged onto UKP  and was probably more interested in 'Off Topic' (at first)..
I do love it here though so I'm not giving that up. Going to have to work on step 2 not becoming step 3, and definitely not 4

what doesnt help me is I'm a contributor to the thread my favourite porn movie clip. You click in to the last item and you cant but help have a look at some of the others movies. So if I find a decent one Mrs P may help me out and I add it to that thread.
I know I'm my own worst enemy. I'm with you Plan R. Need to show more resolve.......trouble is there are a couple of good researchers on that thread ....Lol.

[megaman]

A good hooker is important for a start but I don't know if there's any hookers that specialises in men with ED, in my experience they might be OK with you at first but after your 3nd or 4 visit they well soon lose there patience if there's still problems with your penis and as a result the level of service well start too drop. I don't want too post crap but too share my experience. I do blame half of my problems on the WG I've been seenin and trying my best too get along with but it's been adding too to the problem.
if you have ED then it probably needs too be sorted asap, services off the escort I've been seein is poor because of my ED no kissing suckin nothing she can't be fucked too give me a service anymore it seems and her attitude is not good with me. ED well have an impact on the escort too even if she's a good one I think. I also would not risk taking fake pills or really cheap pills that could be fake because there so cheap.

[bela911]

just noticed the post . nice work ! I'm trying to get the best out of my self. thank you for make an effort !

[doggyrulesovereverything]

What are people's opinions on writing reviews if the punter wasn't able to perform?

I'm guessing the review still might be useful if it's a new girl (although you wouldn't be able to review her true service accurately), but if she's got a number of reviews then don't bother?

[Marmalade]

If it was due to the WG, say so.

If it is likely to happen anyway, just tell her first. She’s unlikely to care one way or the other.

[ManOFSteel]

I wonder how professional male porn actors do it? The must be sick of the sight of vagina.

[MrMatrix]

What are people's opinions on writing reviews if the punter wasn't able to perform?

I'm guessing the review still might be useful if it's a new girl (although you wouldn't be able to review her true service accurately), but if she's got a number of reviews then don't bother?

I think if the SP delivered on her end of the deal then you have to give her a positive. If you cant get it up or unload and shes tried every thing and you've still had a good time with the foreplay etc then its a positive.

If shes pissed you off by denying you things you were expecting from her likes list, she has poor hygene, shes rude , shit attitude or abusive and you are so put off and cant get a hard on then its a negative. You have to you use your common sense and report whats fair and reasonable. Its not rocket science.

[MrMatrix]

I wonder how professional male porn actors do it? The must be sick of the sight of vagina.

Have you ever been sick of the sight of pussy MoS, nope me neither.

[Rockhead]

Sorry to bump an old thread, was just wondering how you guys were getting on?

I don't punt as much these days but of the three punts I've had this year I've only needed to finish myself once.  The other two have went really well with me knowing I was going to ejaculate a while before I did.  Pretty much wank every morning but sticking to the two finger rule, which obviously slows down progress considerably, but gently does it is the only way I can manage rather than go without.  Also, sticking to 30 minute punts has helped me feel less pressure (I assumed it would have been the other way around).  Admittedly OWO is still pretty uneventful but the penetration has improved immensely.

I've been eating healthier, exercising a little and also cut way down on the nicotine I consume.  Every little has helped I would say.

I'm happy to report that I seem to be back to normal humping duties this year. I did go through a difficult phase about a year ago. Overall I'd say a reduction in wanking, a lot less porn, a healthier lifestyle and a determination just to enjoy the moment, have been the helpful factors.
Last week (with my regular) I was absolutely bloody rock hard. I've never had any problems with my regular, but even she commented a couple of times about how hard I was.