Any one ended up in a relationship with a wg or even casual sex outside of "work

[texasjapan]

Every once in a while they show wg on movies or crime programs (csi)  a working girl starting a relationship or seeing a client outside of work?
I'm fairly confident its bs but you never know.
Any one experience this? Or something similar?
I've been punting for four  years now and  and have had two girls that I saw on off over a two year period. With one of em  we ended up going shopping (didn't charge me her usual hourly rate) and she gave me bj on the return trip back. Not sure if that counts coz im sure she was using me for a lift. Bargain in my opinion head for few quid of petrol.

Forgiveness please for the many grammar errors.

Do share your thoughts /experiences

[laidbackasiandude]

Briefly back in 2002/03 with a Belarussian WG via a London agency. Didn't end well but learnt
a very valuable lesson in life, specifically never, ever think of punting as dating/romance.

Was very naïve and gullible at that time but still should have had the wit/wisdom to avoid
the situation I found myself in.

[texasjapan]

What happened dude,  don't say she scammed you? 

[GreyDave]

  for a few months in the 1990`s I was in between partners and saw a latvian girl it started as a once a week then she asked me to see her and "chat" to learn english better it helped that I got on with the maid Pat a middle aged big titted blonde who maided for a few of the flats in the Harrow radius area.It started by sharing a Mcdonalds with her and the maid then poping out for one then seeing her after shift for a drink .. I thought it would stop quicker than it did I got to shag her every day that I saw some days I paid others if I had chatted with her and the maid she would get up and just say and now we fuck yes? Pat the maid sometimes watched and finished me off I was younger and fitter looking than I am now so this helped    Then I turned up one lunch time to be told by  the maid she had gone indpendant much to her annoyance...hey ho. best summer ever for me    thinking about it now though I only ever shagged her it was all ways with the maids permission and it was a sort of set routine every time and always in that flat generallly after I`d been there 1-3hrs in the Kitchen as other punters shagged her inbetween ..maybee I was just a cheap english lesson

[lostandfound]

Nope - and no interest in that tbh. I've also turned down a free punt. All of these things feel like boundary pushing to me. It's strictly business - I pay up, I walk out the door, and any "connection" is severed.

[Midlane]

First post, so hello everyone.

Yes, for seven and a half years, albeit she stopped the work when the relationship started, so it wasn't technically with a wg.

[laidbackasiandude]

What happened dude,  don't say she scammed you? 

It was kind of surreal now looking back. On meeting her for the first time, she was unusually
"keen" on me. We swapped numbers as she mentioned about wanting to meet agency clients
1-2-1 by-passing the agency itself (my guess to avoid paying agency commission).

Then things started to spiral out of control, started to exchange flirty type text messages then
escalated to a full-on dating relationship, ie evening meals, cinema screenings, overnight
sessions at hotels, and crazily on my part even introducing her to my close circle of friends
during a social outing.

Throughout this "dating phase" never paid for sex, just the costs of entertaining her as mentioned
above and on quite a few occasions split costs or she even paid for overnight hotel accommodation.
Bizarre I thought when my mind was NOT fixated on the "free casual sex" and it was bloody good.

Circa Feb/Mar 2003, she was going away on a trip to Europe, promising to contact me again on
her return to London. She started to talk about becoming engaged with view to marriage with
me on her return. However, here was the sting. She asked if I could loan her some money,
she didn't ask for a gift. Due to my own STUPIDITY & GULLIBILITY in believing the story
of her coming back and relationship becoming more serious, I gifted her £1,500
but in essence even LOANING money out was crazy never mind gifting this amount,

Surprise, surprise later when she returned from her Euro vacation, she ignored my calls to
see her again, she had zero intention of ever becoming engaged/married to me. Her only
regret (her own words to me) was that she could not fleece out more money from me
when I did manage to speak with her.

Moral of the story: NEVER confuse punting with dating

[texasjapan]

Fuuuuck that sneaky bitch 
Still on a plus side if you got more than say 25+ hours of fuckin from her (sounds like you did ) not bad for an hourly rate. Suppose the worst part aent the money is it but mayb the emotional connection? And betrayel/broken trust?

[HappyandLucky]

Been there and bought the T shirt. As for many other who have posted on this subject, mine ended in a train crash. Never again, lesson learnt. Punt, pay and keep it professional.

[charming_red]

Thats awful mate, but looking at the bigger picture its not a great deal of money and you could recoup that easily. Emotionally maybe not so.
Some have been fleeced out of a lot more, but at least you got some good sessions out of her 

If a girl ever asks for a loan, then you know its too good to be true. That should set the alarm bells.

[webpunter]

Some have been fleeced out of a lot more, but at least you got some good sessions out of her 

Exactly - the price of 2 overnighters.  Plus she probably put a bit more effort in.  Well at the start anyway & some fun along the way.  So there is some upside

[laidbackasiandude]

Thats awful mate, but looking at the bigger picture its not a great deal of money and you could recoup that easily. Emotionally maybe not so.
Some have been fleeced out of a lot more, but at least you got some good sessions out of her 

If a girl ever asks for a loan, then you know its too good to be true. That should set the alarm bells.

My stupidity and error at that time. Part of me (when thinking rationally) was saying "Keep it at arms length, don't
get involved etc" but didn't pay attention. It was an experience, a life lesson so came through in the end wiser.

Agree, the amount of money in the end wasn't that substantial and potentially could have got ripped off
for a lot more.

[eroticaddictwilliam]

I would keep punting and relationships distinct.

Knowing a girl has been an escort would not bold to well for me in relationship as the thought if someone offered her a good amount of money she may just wip her knickers off again one day. 

[texasjapan]

First post, so hello everyone.

Yes, for seven and a half years, albeit she stopped the work when the relationship started, so it wasn't technically with a wg.

Do share further details? Like the dynamics? Did u prefer them as gf or wg? Ect ect

[Midlane]

Do share further details? Like the dynamics? Did u prefer them as gf or wg? Ect ect

Well, I shan't waffle on about it because this isn't a site to discuss relationships. But briefly, I preferred gf by far. I only saw her as a wg once, so it's probably an unfair comparison.

She never asked for anything financially, in fact none of the issues we're always warned about were present. It ended for reasons not at all related to her having been a wg, namely geography (she had to return to Thailand) and me stupidly not appreciating what I've got until it's gone.

Back to the regular warnings though, and subsequent attempts to recreate this with a wg or stripper have all failed (only once catastrophically, the rest due to my now having in my mind a pretty unattainable yardstick).

As a wg, a lot of people probably would have found her sweet but rather vanilla.

She's now back on this side of the world and happily married, something I will always regret not doing.

So, the point is, heed the warnings, they probably apply more than 95% of the time. But maybe, in a rare example, things will work out well.

[texasjapan]

Thanks for the insight dude. 95% + seems about right. Appreciate the advice 

[Rick2468]

There was some chat at this link about a punter becoming chummy with an escort and getting blocked suddenly:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=49310.msg645093;topicseen#msg645093

The post slyvester was banned for having multiple accounts on this website so it might have been a story to stir something up x

[ClitTeaser]

I went out with a former WG - if that counts.  We never spoke about it because what she previously got up to was a) none of my business and b) done and couldn't be undone.  Anyway, I had been a customer of WGs -but not her - before we met, so wasn't an angel. (I didn't tell her this.  I would never tell anyone. It might come back on me one day.)

 The strange thing about it all was that she did not give good head: too much teeth. 

 Anyway we eventually got bored with one another and split up - probably due to the fact neither of us was used to relationships. I am too busy and selfish. I don't know what she is up to now. 

I am still seeing prossies and it satisfies my needs.

[Peterpack]

Yes a few times actually

[bokkaboy]

There was some chat at this link about a punter becoming chummy with an escort and getting blocked suddenly:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=49310.msg645093;topicseen#msg645093

The post slyvester was banned for having multiple accounts on this website so it might have been a story to stir something up x

At least she had the sense to block that mentalist Sylvester/Atticus and whatever other names he uses, before she was "owned" by him. It wouldn't surprise me if he stalked and scammed the information out of her. Perhaps at one of his coffee mornings.

There are I feel, a few others who have been a bit naïve in their dealings with him.
The dangers of EAS with workings girls laid bare.
Unfortunately it makes us all look like twats.

[Rick2468]

At least she had the sense to block that mentalist Sylvester/Atticus and whatever other names he uses, before she was "owned" by him. It wouldn't surprise me if he stalked and scammed the information out of her. Perhaps at one of his coffee mornings.

There are I feel, a few others who have been a bit naïve in their dealings with him.
The dangers of EAS with workings girls laid bare.
Unfortunately it makes us all look like twats.

It did sound a bit creepy. Apologies there are so many typos in my earlier post and that I put a kiss at the end. Not sure what I was doing! It won't let me edit it now.

[HappyandLucky]

I put a kiss at the end. Not sure what I was doing! It won't let me edit it now.

Don't worry Rick there are plenty of sentimental fluffies on here 

[webpunter]

and that I put a kiss at the end. Not sure what I was doing! It won't let me edit it now.

Don't worry - just ask Nik or Admin to amend / remove 

[leedsfella]

I would say you definitely can as I am going through this very thing at the moment.

I went to visit a lady in Leeds and the first meeting was absolutely fantastic and stupid or not, felt a great spark and connection between us. Over the next few months I visited her a further twice and it just seemed to get better (not only the sex but the general chit chat, banter, flirting etc) and I then went abroad for business and being the nice guy I am I bought her a bottle of perfume and some chocolates which I gave to her the day after returning from my trip. Later that evening I got a whatsapp msg from her private phone thanking me for the present etc and basically what ensued over the next 2 weeks was almost 3000msgs (dont ask how)discussing anything and everything from personal history, dreams, family etc with us making plans to spend xmas day and new years eve together. Around 2 weeks after we started chatting she came round to mine for Sunday dinner and everything went really well (no hanky panky but wasnt expecting any either) but was great just to hang out and chill, she left telling me that im totally her type and that she really really likes me and we kissed passionately. 3 days later all of a sudden her msgs get very cold and distant and I put it down to a mood swing (she told me she gets these and issues to do with the flat she works from and its manager) and I ease off saying im there if she wants to talk and give her some space, we would send each other good morning and good night messages and these carried on but then they stopped so I sent her an email asking if everything was ok and that I am there for her) she then starts texting again and getting warmer but is now blowing hot and cold so I sent a message asking her to tell me whats going on, if I know then I can understand and deal with it accordingly and we end up having a argument and she gives me 3 reasons why she has changed (nothing to do with a mood swing) and they are 3 reasons that she was fully aware of right from the start before getting to close so seems more to me like shes using these as an excuse and I think she has all of a sudden built this wall (hurt a lot in the past she said) Unfortunately this girl has really got to me and as such half of me doesnt want to give up too easy and the other half wants to walk away and after our row which was on Xmas Eve, I left it for a week until yesterday to give her some time to figure out whats going on and text her yest wishing her good luck in her new flat (shes just moved into her own apartment) and saying if she was 100% sure she wants to call it off then all she needed to do was block me on whatsapp and if she wasnt, dont block me and lets talk, she text me back saying she was going to call last night, she didnt and this morning I text her to say good morning and she said she forgot to call me and I will call today. I am probably going to be slated for this but would really like to hear the thoughts of others out there as it has affected me a hell of a lot more than I thought possible.

So all I can say guys is be very careful as a lot of these ladies have baggage etc etc

[Midlane]

Leedsfella. I've done it five times.

Four remained working. Two of those were just friendships. We'd have a booking and then, availability permitting, have a drink or a meal, or go shopping. Once, when a flight was cancelled, I was able to stay overnight (separate beds, keeping the two types of meet strictly separate). I was quite happy with all that. We certainly had a common interest to talk about and it didn't preclude having proper WG meets.

The other two drifted into relationship territory and both became awkward, clingy and horrible. These, I did NOT enjoy.

The fifth one (the first, chronologically) she stopped working as we got closer, and we had a relationship for 7+ years. Should've married her.

Hope that puts it in perspective.

[Mark1]

I think that it is rare but I have had two what I would call real normal relationships with wgs. The main one of them I first visited about six years ago, she gave up the business about two years later apart from just seeing me: I know that this was true because I knew her real name (have been out with her family including her mum) and I also went to visit her at her new job a few times. We see each other a lot normally at least twice a week and when we go out we take it in turns to paid for meals, drinks, etc and I don't pay anything for her time. We have become best friends - she has said this herself (and she is a very honest person) and she was also there for me when I was very ill last year. I did lend her some money twice, but she has paid me all the money back, both times and one was a quite a lot of money to buy a car. She has a boyfriend but we still meet for a sexual massage and some fun about once a week, which I now don't pay for. I think that you have to be careful but it is possibly only about 1-2% that are real.

[HappyandLucky]

Leedsfella, take my views as someone who has been there. Cease all contact, delete her contact details, take a deep breath, man up and move on by punting other WG's. The alternative will be a head fuck, heart fuck, drained bank account. Just keep it professional and if you lean towards EAS, then don't see the same girl more than once. Good luck

[interlude]

I've often finished a punt and thought "I wish she was my girlfriend!", but that's probably something to do with the endorphin rush accompanying the orgasm.

Never actually been in a position where a relationship or even casual sex was on the table, but free sex would be very tempting.

[onion]

Good god no, and may god have mercy on my soul should it happen!

As ppl have said, Ill keep it professional, pay my cash do the deed then go about life.

[Horneylee]

I did a Thai girl who was very keen on going for dinner. Never did but did get free sex over a year period. Fun while it lasted!

[BecksP]

Done it Myself in the end tears but so what lesson learned but if she phoned now would still asking When can we meet? so do not worry your are not the only one

[leedsfella]

I have now ceased all contact after she tried getting in touch with me and I have found out that she has started playing similar games with another client.  I will be posting a review of her and although the service was good she could be dangerous to someones wallet as I have found out she has done it previously to some other guys who have lent her money so I was lucky.

One poster commented that I should do another punt to get her out of my head and I done exactly that on Friday with Amazing Victoria No1 (I will be posting a full review) and she totally done the job :-)

[jack_hackett]

From someone who's spent most of their adult life (hitting the big 40) single, from observing friends in "normal" relationships and my own experience with a witch, it's probably best to be wary of all women! It doesn't take working as an escort to have serious baggage. I'm beginning to doubt there's a woman out there for me with just carry on!

If you're lucky enough to meet someone who likes you, give them a chance (whilst being very very careful!) Who knows what might happen

[backofthenet]

Her only
regret (her own words to me) was that she could not fleece out more money from me
when I did manage to speak with her.

lbad - what a horrible horrible story - good for you for sharing. Did she REALLY say the above? What a horrible cunt.

Stay safe out there....

[mattylondon]

It was kind of surreal now looking back. On meeting her for the first time, she was unusually
"keen" on me. We swapped numbers as she mentioned about wanting to meet agency clients
1-2-1 by-passing the agency itself (my guess to avoid paying agency commission).

Then things started to spiral out of control, started to exchange flirty type text messages then
escalated to a full-on dating relationship, ie evening meals, cinema screenings, overnight
sessions at hotels, and crazily on my part even introducing her to my close circle of friends
during a social outing.

Throughout this "dating phase" never paid for sex, just the costs of entertaining her as mentioned
above and on quite a few occasions split costs or she even paid for overnight hotel accommodation.
Bizarre I thought when my mind was NOT fixated on the "free casual sex" and it was bloody good.

Circa Feb/Mar 2003, she was going away on a trip to Europe, promising to contact me again on
her return to London. She started to talk about becoming engaged with view to marriage with
me on her return. However, here was the sting. She asked if I could loan her some money,
she didn't ask for a gift. Due to my own STUPIDITY & GULLIBILITY in believing the story
of her coming back and relationship becoming more serious, I gifted her £1,500
but in essence even LOANING money out was crazy never mind gifting this amount,

Surprise, surprise later when she returned from her Euro vacation, she ignored my calls to
see her again, she had zero intention of ever becoming engaged/married to me. Her only
regret (her own words to me) was that she could not fleece out more money from me
when I did manage to speak with her.

Moral of the story: NEVER confuse punting with dating

Interesting. I think the key trigger point there was 'needing the money question'. She was pretty skilled though. Sharing nights with you, trips to the cinema and so on. A lot of people could've fallen for that. I was a little surprised that you introduced her to your mates though, but I guess when you've done all the other stuff, you probably thought that meant something.

I think the moral of that story was to continue enjoying the fun with that prossie, but never let them into your personal life. That is, keep her away from knowing your address, from friends, family and most important of all, never ever give/loan a prossie money. 

[jack_hackett]

Hate to say it, but non working girls can be just or more ruthless and cruel... Once money or lack of it becomes an issue in a relationship you find out quickly who's in it for the money or love!

[texasjapan]

Hate to say it, but non working girls can be just or more ruthless and cruel... Once money or lack of it becomes an issue in a relationship you find out quickly who's in it for the money or love!

+7

[Horneylee]

Hate to say it, but non working girls can be just or more ruthless and cruel... Once money or lack of it becomes an issue in a relationship you find out quickly who's in it for the money or love!

So true!!

[Jackjizzy]

I went on a few dates with a very tasty polish girl a few years back. She would never tell me what her job was despite asking several times.  I think I worked it out in the end.

[Bud$]

Yes a few times - meaning I've had 2 relationships with WG's, one which lasted 3 months and another for 2 years. No different from any other relationship for me anyway. The sex though was very ordinary. I've had much raunchier sex with non-WG's.

[JamesRockford]

I've had much raunchier sex with non-WG's.

Ha! Glad that it's not just me that thinks so. Thought I was imagining things.

[usmnm]

First post folks so forgive me for any lack of etiquette.

I wanted a little clarity in this subject as it has happened on 3 occasions for me. The first was an English girl from the Midlands (My second ever punt) who after a couple of bookings, text me completely out the blue asking if I wanted to watch her and her BF make love to each other. I was 22 at the time and was sideswiped by the suggestion and politely declined. So after a few further paid meetings she began to text me out the blue to come and see her for free if I was ever single I would say accept the offer. This might have happened for about 4 years with the regularity of about 5 times a year. Anyway she once texts me and asked if I could wire her £30 because of some elaborate emergency which I did and then never heard from her again. I did try to contact her a few months later but was completely ignored.

The second was a Bulgarian I saw a couple of times and had really memorable bookings a few years ago. She texts me out of the blue and after a couple of weeks of sms and phone calls she invited me over for dinner and that led to her and I occasionally hooking up for some mutual fun with her always initiating the request on a fairly regular basis. I last met her in October, she has never asked me for anything much the opposite offering to pay for hotel rooms and the like.

The last one is why how I found this thread and am posting today, last summer after being quite cut up about breaking up with my last real non WG girlfriend. I booked with a Polish girl in London and we really hit it off, common likes and so on lots of good conversation and a real connection between us. I saw her regularly for about 2 months then had to go away for work for 2 weeks, a few days after getting back to London I get a whatsapp message from her on her private number. We now hook up regularly, speak whatsapp daily and she stays over at mine on occasions. I am now beginning to really like this girl and know it’s a little impossible because of her circumstances with accommodation and work. My head tells me to cease all contact but the other irrational organ of mine wants to constantly be around her and I find myself being the initiator with this girl even to the point if she is working I’ll book with her just to spend time with her (with her prior consent not out the blue).

The other 2 were fun and I think we all appreciated that but that is not the case currently. I have to add I don’t see very many WG’s and have only visited them in between regular relationships if single so the misfortune or success rate (depends on how it is perceived) has been high in my case. and was wondering if it had happened to others also.

[mattylondon]

Hate to say it, but non working girls can be just or more ruthless and cruel... Once money or lack of it becomes an issue in a relationship you find out quickly who's in it for the money or love!

Very true.

[Mr Sinister]

Been in contact with a retired wg recently some friendly texts here and there, there's no possibility of dating but I may try for a casual fling.

[mattylondon]

Been in contact with a retired wg recently some friendly texts here and there, there's no possibility of dating but I may try for a casual fling.

Rarely do they ever truly 'retire', in my experience. Once the choosing to whore taboo has been broken.

I've punted more than a couple who went 'offline', 'retired', but kept some of their 'favoured regs', by transferring them to a new sim. Therefore, either the punter or unknowing boyfriend they hooked up with (no pun intended) would never know. I saw one such woman for nearly two years after she disappeared from AW and other sites. And I wasn't the only one. Some people underestimate the attraction of the relatively easy money some can make. It can be incredibly hard to go back to a 9 - 5 and not have as much cash anymore, if they don't have somebody effectively subbing them.

If you're receiving those sort of messages, I'm certain you'd be in with a chance of a casual fuck. It will probably only cost you a couple of non-sexual 'dates'. 

[Mr Sinister]

If you're receiving those sort of messages, I'm certain you'd be in with a chance of a casual fuck. It will probably only cost you a couple of non-sexual 'dates'. 

There's an age gap she's older so I won't be going down that road of 'dates' or getting serious, but she's an attractive lady with big baps friendly and accommodating(running overtime, discounts etc) as I saw her a bunch of times. But yeah I wouldn't mind a nice sexual fling with her, she has a proper job now even told where she's working and all.

[Mr Carlton]

Poor guy

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[texasjapan]

That is so fuuuucckkkkeeeedddd.  Never let the other half have so much leverage.

[Brompton]

Yes once! 11 years ago for 8 months & at times I still feel the pain as I actually (the only time in my life) fell totally in love (idiot) I don't wish this response to sound at all 'fluffy' although I know some will think it is.

I had met this lady via a local press advert (brothel) we got on & I asked her after a couple of visits as I wasn't comfortable in a brothel environment I asked would she consider an out call? Obviously she keeps all the money rather than the 'house' getting half! I used to stay in a decent hotel in West London for my work, she didn't live far away (she was divorced) but a lot younger than me (I'm an older guy, much older these days from that time)

After about 3 visits over a couple of months to my hotel for a two hour booking one evening she stayed about 4 hours then asked would I like to go to the cinema down the road & sushi & she would pay? (we went but I insisted on paying) I used to get nice texts then & occasionally before this. She had told me she had a 'proper job' in Italy to go to some 6 months on so I knew the situation plus she had family there (she was Brazilian but half Italian) she was stunning (I'm no George Clooney) so I was shocked she liked me.

Next time round at my hotel I walked her back to the tube, returned to my room, she text me to say "look under your pillow" (a 2 hour appointment that lasted 5 hours) she had returned 'the fee' without me knowing. The most I ever did up to that point was buy her flowers for her visit.

For the following 6 months 'proper dates' followed (told me her name/address/proof etc) ceased working, she had a proper job too. Often whether a restaurant, cinema, concert she would 'insist' on paying so before anyone says 'bullshit reply, fantasy reply etc' believe what you will.

I said earlier didn't want this to be fluffy but I saw this thread & it touched a nerve. Age difference, her life plans, etc I knew it would never pan out, we parted when the time came for her plans in Italy & as I say to this day I still feel pain, maybe not as bad but even so.

I know many have their own story to tell but not all working girls are money grabbing cold hearted bitches. Both sides of the fence there are decent people around. In hindsight I wouldn't have changed a thing even though I was left with a huge void in my life.

Good weekend to you all fellas!

[HappyandLucky]

Not all but 99% are money grabbing WG's. To think anything different is