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Author Topic: Any one ended up in a relationship with a wg or even casual sex outside of "work  (Read 4344 times)

Every once in a while they show wg on movies or crime programs (csi)  a working girl starting a relationship or seeing a client outside of work?
I'm fairly confident its bs but you never know.
Any one experience this? Or something similar?
I've been punting for four  years now and  and have had two girls that I saw on off over a two year period. With one of em  we ended up going shopping (didn't charge me her usual hourly rate) and she gave me bj on the return trip back. Not sure if that counts coz im sure she was using me for a lift. Bargain in my opinion head for few quid of petrol.

Forgiveness please for the many grammar errors.

Do share your thoughts /experiences

Briefly back in 2002/03 with a Belarussian WG via a London agency. Didn't end well but learnt
a very valuable lesson in life, specifically never, ever think of punting as dating/romance.

Was very naïve and gullible at that time but still should have had the wit/wisdom to avoid
the situation I found myself in.

What happened dude,  don't say she scammed you?  :scare:

Offline GreyDave

 :hi: for a few months in the 1990`s I was in between partners and saw a latvian girl it started as a once a week then she asked me to see her and "chat" to learn english better it helped that I got on with the maid Pat a middle aged big titted blonde who maided for a few of the flats in the Harrow radius area.It started by sharing a Mcdonalds with her and the maid then poping out for one then seeing her after shift for a drink .. I thought it would stop quicker than it did I got to shag her every day that I saw some days I paid others if I had chatted with her and the maid she would get up and just say and now we fuck yes? Pat the maid sometimes watched and finished me off :D :D I was younger and fitter looking than I am now so this helped  :D  Then I turned up one lunch time to be told by  the maid she had gone indpendant much to her annoyance...hey ho. best summer ever for me  :cool:  thinking about it now though I only ever shagged her it was all ways with the maids permission and it was a sort of set routine every time and always in that flat generallly after I`d been there 1-3hrs in the Kitchen as other punters shagged her inbetween ..maybee I was just a cheap english lesson
« Last Edit: January 04, 2016, 10:25:37 AM by GreyDave »

Nope - and no interest in that tbh. I've also turned down a free punt. All of these things feel like boundary pushing to me. It's strictly business - I pay up, I walk out the door, and any "connection" is severed.

Offline Midlane

First post, so hello everyone.

Yes, for seven and a half years, albeit she stopped the work when the relationship started, so it wasn't technically with a wg.

What happened dude,  don't say she scammed you?  :scare:

It was kind of surreal now looking back. On meeting her for the first time, she was unusually
"keen" on me. We swapped numbers as she mentioned about wanting to meet agency clients
1-2-1 by-passing the agency itself (my guess to avoid paying agency commission).

Then things started to spiral out of control, started to exchange flirty type text messages then
escalated to a full-on dating relationship, ie evening meals, cinema screenings, overnight
sessions at hotels, and crazily on my part even introducing her to my close circle of friends
during a social outing.

Throughout this "dating phase" never paid for sex, just the costs of entertaining her as mentioned
above and on quite a few occasions split costs or she even paid for overnight hotel accommodation.
Bizarre I thought when my mind was NOT fixated on the "free casual sex" and it was bloody good.

Circa Feb/Mar 2003, she was going away on a trip to Europe, promising to contact me again on
her return to London. She started to talk about becoming engaged with view to marriage with
me on her return. However, here was the sting. She asked if I could loan her some money,
she didn't ask for a gift. Due to my own STUPIDITY & GULLIBILITY in believing the story
of her coming back and relationship becoming more serious, I gifted her £1,500
but in essence even LOANING money out was crazy never mind gifting this amount,

Surprise, surprise later when she returned from her Euro vacation, she ignored my calls to
see her again, she had zero intention of ever becoming engaged/married to me. Her only
regret (her own words to me) was that she could not fleece out more money from me
when I did manage to speak with her.

Moral of the story: NEVER confuse punting with dating

Fuuuuck that sneaky bitch  :wackogirl:
Still on a plus side if you got more than say 25+ hours of fuckin from her (sounds like you did ) not bad for an hourly rate. Suppose the worst part aent the money is it but mayb the emotional connection? And betrayel/broken trust?

Been there and bought the T shirt. As for many other who have posted on this subject, mine ended in a train crash. Never again, lesson learnt. Punt, pay and keep it professional.


Thats awful mate, but looking at the bigger picture its not a great deal of money and you could recoup that easily. Emotionally maybe not so.
Some have been fleeced out of a lot more, but at least you got some good sessions out of her  :hi:

If a girl ever asks for a loan, then you know its too good to be true. That should set the alarm bells.

Offline webpunter

Some have been fleeced out of a lot more, but at least you got some good sessions out of her 
Exactly - the price of 2 overnighters.  Plus she probably put a bit more effort in.  Well at the start anyway & some fun along the way.  So there is some upside

Thats awful mate, but looking at the bigger picture its not a great deal of money and you could recoup that easily. Emotionally maybe not so.
Some have been fleeced out of a lot more, but at least you got some good sessions out of her  :hi:

If a girl ever asks for a loan, then you know its too good to be true. That should set the alarm bells.

My stupidity and error at that time. Part of me (when thinking rationally) was saying "Keep it at arms length, don't
get involved etc" but didn't pay attention. It was an experience, a life lesson so came through in the end wiser.

Agree, the amount of money in the end wasn't that substantial and potentially could have got ripped off
for a lot more.

Offline eroticaddictwilliam

I would keep punting and relationships distinct.

Knowing a girl has been an escort would not bold to well for me in relationship as the thought if someone offered her a good amount of money she may just wip her knickers off again one day.  :cool:
Banning reason: Multiple account pimp tout (eroticaddictwilliam, Nightowl1)

First post, so hello everyone.

Yes, for seven and a half years, albeit she stopped the work when the relationship started, so it wasn't technically with a wg.


Do share further details? Like the dynamics? Did u prefer them as gf or wg? Ect ect

Offline Midlane


Do share further details? Like the dynamics? Did u prefer them as gf or wg? Ect ect

Well, I shan't waffle on about it because this isn't a site to discuss relationships. But briefly, I preferred gf by far. I only saw her as a wg once, so it's probably an unfair comparison.

She never asked for anything financially, in fact none of the issues we're always warned about were present. It ended for reasons not at all related to her having been a wg, namely geography (she had to return to Thailand) and me stupidly not appreciating what I've got until it's gone.

Back to the regular warnings though, and subsequent attempts to recreate this with a wg or stripper have all failed (only once catastrophically, the rest due to my now having in my mind a pretty unattainable yardstick).

As a wg, a lot of people probably would have found her sweet but rather vanilla.

She's now back on this side of the world and happily married, something I will always regret not doing.

So, the point is, heed the warnings, they probably apply more than 95% of the time. But maybe, in a rare example, things will work out well.

Thanks for the insight dude. 95% + seems about right. Appreciate the advice  :thumbsup:

Offline Rick2468

There was some chat at this link about a punter becoming chummy with an escort and getting blocked suddenly:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=49310.msg645093;topicseen#msg645093

The post slyvester was banned for having multiple accounts on this website so it might have been a story to stir something up x

Offline ClitTeaser

I went out with a former WG - if that counts.  We never spoke about it because what she previously got up to was a) none of my business and b) done and couldn't be undone.  Anyway, I had been a customer of WGs -but not her - before we met, so wasn't an angel. (I didn't tell her this.  I would never tell anyone. It might come back on me one day.)

 The strange thing about it all was that she did not give good head: too much teeth. 

 Anyway we eventually got bored with one another and split up - probably due to the fact neither of us was used to relationships. I am too busy and selfish. I don't know what she is up to now. 

I am still seeing prossies and it satisfies my needs.


Offline bokkaboy

There was some chat at this link about a punter becoming chummy with an escort and getting blocked suddenly:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=49310.msg645093;topicseen#msg645093

The post slyvester was banned for having multiple accounts on this website so it might have been a story to stir something up x

At least she had the sense to block that mentalist Sylvester/Atticus and whatever other names he uses, before she was "owned" by him. It wouldn't surprise me if he stalked and scammed the information out of her. Perhaps at one of his coffee mornings.

There are I feel, a few others who have been a bit naïve in their dealings with him.
The dangers of EAS with workings girls laid bare.
Unfortunately it makes us all look like twats.
Banning reason: Wierdo

Offline Rick2468

At least she had the sense to block that mentalist Sylvester/Atticus and whatever other names he uses, before she was "owned" by him. It wouldn't surprise me if he stalked and scammed the information out of her. Perhaps at one of his coffee mornings.

There are I feel, a few others who have been a bit naïve in their dealings with him.
The dangers of EAS with workings girls laid bare.
Unfortunately it makes us all look like twats.

It did sound a bit creepy. Apologies there are so many typos in my earlier post and that I put a kiss at the end. Not sure what I was doing! It won't let me edit it now.

I put a kiss at the end. Not sure what I was doing! It won't let me edit it now.
Don't worry Rick there are plenty of sentimental fluffies on here  :kiss:

Offline webpunter

and that I put a kiss at the end. Not sure what I was doing! It won't let me edit it now.
Don't worry - just ask Nik or Admin to amend / remove  :sarcastic:

I would say you definitely can as I am going through this very thing at the moment.

I went to visit a lady in Leeds and the first meeting was absolutely fantastic and stupid or not, felt a great spark and connection between us. Over the next few months I visited her a further twice and it just seemed to get better (not only the sex but the general chit chat, banter, flirting etc) and I then went abroad for business and being the nice guy I am I bought her a bottle of perfume and some chocolates which I gave to her the day after returning from my trip. Later that evening I got a whatsapp msg from her private phone thanking me for the present etc and basically what ensued over the next 2 weeks was almost 3000msgs (dont ask how)discussing anything and everything from personal history, dreams, family etc with us making plans to spend xmas day and new years eve together. Around 2 weeks after we started chatting she came round to mine for Sunday dinner and everything went really well (no hanky panky but wasnt expecting any either) but was great just to hang out and chill, she left telling me that im totally her type and that she really really likes me and we kissed passionately. 3 days later all of a sudden her msgs get very cold and distant and I put it down to a mood swing (she told me she gets these and issues to do with the flat she works from and its manager) and I ease off saying im there if she wants to talk and give her some space, we would send each other good morning and good night messages and these carried on but then they stopped so I sent her an email asking if everything was ok and that I am there for her) she then starts texting again and getting warmer but is now blowing hot and cold so I sent a message asking her to tell me whats going on, if I know then I can understand and deal with it accordingly and we end up having a argument and she gives me 3 reasons why she has changed (nothing to do with a mood swing) and they are 3 reasons that she was fully aware of right from the start before getting to close so seems more to me like shes using these as an excuse and I think she has all of a sudden built this wall (hurt a lot in the past she said) Unfortunately this girl has really got to me and as such half of me doesnt want to give up too easy and the other half wants to walk away and after our row which was on Xmas Eve, I left it for a week until yesterday to give her some time to figure out whats going on and text her yest wishing her good luck in her new flat (shes just moved into her own apartment) and saying if she was 100% sure she wants to call it off then all she needed to do was block me on whatsapp and if she wasnt, dont block me and lets talk, she text me back saying she was going to call last night, she didnt and this morning I text her to say good morning and she said she forgot to call me and I will call today. I am probably going to be slated for this but would really like to hear the thoughts of others out there as it has affected me a hell of a lot more than I thought possible.

So all I can say guys is be very careful as a lot of these ladies have baggage etc etc

Offline Midlane

Leedsfella. I've done it five times.

Four remained working. Two of those were just friendships. We'd have a booking and then, availability permitting, have a drink or a meal, or go shopping. Once, when a flight was cancelled, I was able to stay overnight (separate beds, keeping the two types of meet strictly separate). I was quite happy with all that. We certainly had a common interest to talk about and it didn't preclude having proper WG meets.

The other two drifted into relationship territory and both became awkward, clingy and horrible. These, I did NOT enjoy.

The fifth one (the first, chronologically) she stopped working as we got closer, and we had a relationship for 7+ years. Should've married her.

Hope that puts it in perspective.




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