Would you save money if your OH ate more pies??

[RedKettle]

As we know from various other threads many of us have OHs who do not share our sexual drives - we either do not get any at home or it is very infrequent.

What I find so frustrating is that my OH is actually a good looking bird, quite pretty, trim body and an arse to die for.  So I get horny seeing her around the house but more often than not it cannot lead to anything.    So of course any attempts I might make to reduce punting just die a death.

Occurred to me that if she let herself go, like many women her age, then perhaps I would not end up punting as often!!?? 

Mind you who wants to be seen out with a right munter?? 

[sticko]

My wife has eaten a fair few pies in her time.  This has done very little to reduce my appetite for playing away.  Nice theory but it doesn't hold up in my house

[pewpewpew]

That's weird man

My OH is slim, young, good looking blonde etc and i still get sex at least once per week and though i don't punt often it still happens

[claretandblue]

If your not getting any at home you will want to punt regardless of what the other half looks like....

Thanks for telling us how fit your wife is though!

[DogFace36]

  I think that most men just like the variety you can get with punting and it's probably less risky than having an affair.

[vw]

That's weird man

My OH is slim, young, good looking blonde etc and i still get sex at least once per week and though i don't punt often it still happens

#Maybe you should review like Raddy did with his OH

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=65634.msg836954;topicseen#msg836954

[lewisjones23]

Been on a bit of a punting spree lately

Deffo linked to not getting any elsewhere at the moment

[WelshClipper]

But it is a bit like Alladins lamp. Before the genie escaped I was quite happy with the odd hand job from the OH.
Now even if she offered I would not be interested. OH still isn't bad looking but she is not 25 nor is she size 8. So why on earth would I ever in my right mind consider stopping. As I said the genie is out the bottle due to lack of service. He has seen the light and that's the end of it.

Game over.

[Timmy2]

#Maybe you should review like Raddy did with his OH

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=65634.msg836954;topicseen#msg836954

I just re read that...quite good really
Raddy

[RedKettle]

#Maybe you should review like Raddy did with his OH

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=65634.msg836954;topicseen#msg836954

I did:

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=61278.25

[RedKettle]

  I think that most men just like the variety you can get with punting and it's probably less risky than having an affair.

I agree 100%.  Not interested in the risk and hassle of an affair but love the variety of punting.

[nike]

  I think that most men just like the variety you can get with punting and it's probably less risky than having an affair.

u hit the nail on the head DF36.

[DogFace36]

u hit the nail on the head DF36.

  To be honest, I reckon a lot of 'Erectile Dysfunction' is just blokes getting bored of shagging the same woman for years. Present them with a sexy, young, slim prossie and 90% wouldn't have a problem anymore.

[RedKettle]

  To be honest, I reckon a lot of 'Erectile Dysfunction' is just blokes getting bored of shagging the same woman for years. Present them with a sexy, young, slim prossie and 90% wouldn't have a problem anymore.

not sure that she needs to young, slim etc - I reckon in alot of cases just the variety of a different woman who is or acts as if she is interested in having sex would cure the "problem".

[DogFace36]

not sure that she needs to young, slim etc - I reckon in alot of cases just the variety of a different woman who is or acts as if she is interested in having sex would cure the "problem".

  Just stating my own preference really, but I'm sure you're right.

[Topgun]

For me it would be noticing the very fit young uni student girls walking around town, when you walk or drive past them thinking OMG her face is so beautiful! or wow look at the legs/bum/tits on her! Instantly giving you a semi. Then you get back home only to find the misses isn't in the mood...
 *shop for an escort*

[RedKettle]

Going to the gym is also bad for my wallet - seeing all the fit young hotties in tight gym kit...... 

Gets me going each time.

[WelshClipper]

Going to the gym is also bad for my wallet - seeing all the fit young hotties in tight gym kit...... 

Gets me going each time.

Not sure if its just me but I love the snarky hotties in my town who wouldn't give me the time of day.
Since becoming a punter I couldn't give it to them either.

[Monsieur69]

Before I started punting I was something of a "saddo"- no sex at home +no sex anywhere + the world seemed to be full of lovely young women with amazing bodies, especially at the Gym. I would ogle and embarrassingly get caught sometimes. Now as a seasoned punter I don't give a damn if the young women think I am an old perv! I am totally relaxed about life and sex. I get all I want within my budget and life is great.

[DoberManic]

Going to the gym is also bad for my wallet - seeing all the fit young hotties in tight gym kit...... 
Gets me going each time.

+1  I'm now going 4 nights a week since I joined the Spin Bike classes....

Fuck me dead... it's like totty city, I ride behind two 24 year old blond twins and spend the whole class
with a permanent stiffy!  Good job it's a dark disco like environment!! 

[RedKettle]

I ride behind two 24 year old blond twins

if only there was an AW link for them

[willbred]

Before I started punting I was something of a "saddo"- no sex at home +no sex anywhere + the world seemed to be full of lovely young women with amazing bodies, especially at the Gym. I would ogle and embarrassingly get caught sometimes. Now as a seasoned punter I don't give a damn if the young women think I am an old perv! I am totally relaxed about life and sex. I get all I want within my budget and life is great.

I raise  my glass of Cotes du Rhone to you, my son   

[WelshClipper]

Before I started punting I was something of a "saddo"- no sex at home +no sex anywhere + the world seemed to be full of lovely young women with amazing bodies, especially at the Gym. I would ogle and embarrassingly get caught sometimes. Now as a seasoned punter I don't give a damn if the young women think I am an old perv! I am totally relaxed about life and sex. I get all I want within my budget and life is great.

Monsieur takes the biscuit !!!

[Ben4454]

As we know from various other threads many of us have OHs who do not share our sexual drives - we either do not get any at home or it is very infrequent.

What I find so frustrating is that my OH is actually a good looking bird, quite pretty, trim body and an arse to die for.  So I get horny seeing her around the house but more often than not it cannot lead to anything.    So of course any attempts I might make to reduce punting just die a death.

Occurred to me that if she let herself go, like many women her age, then perhaps I would not end up punting as often!!?? 

Mind you who wants to be seen out with a right munter?? 

I cannot understand how you married guys just put up with that...

If my wife tried doing that to me i'd make sure the relationship was rubbish on her end....

[RedKettle]

I cannot understand how you married guys just put up with that...

If my wife tried doing that to me i'd make sure the relationship was rubbish on her end....

I suspect that I am somewhat older than you and one of the lessons that I have learnt is people and relationships are very complicated and personal - you cannot apply what you would do, or what works in one relationship to other ones.  For some of us there will be other massive upsides with the relationship and the absence of sex is a gap we fill by punting. 

It really is a case of each to their own - just like punting!!

[WelshClipper]

I suspect that I am somewhat older than you and one of the lessons that I have learnt is people and relationships are very complicated and personal - you cannot apply what you would do, or what works in one relationship to other ones.  For some of us there will be other massive upsides with the relationship and the absence of sex is a gap we fill by punting. 

It really is a case of each to their own - just like punting!!

Plus I have kids who are at a very impressionable age. I would not risk a family disruption at this time. My life is comfortable and I am just fulfilling a need. Not going to pull the house down over it.

[Topgun]

I cannot understand how you married guys just put up with that...

If my wife tried doing that to me i'd make sure the relationship was rubbish on her end....

Agree. Its maybe the main reason why I'm not bothered about wanting a girlfriend just in case my life ends up this way (its the only way to be happy you know to get married and have kids!! lol)

I've been there done that with dating just trying to get laid, I'm ok looking, a lot of girls say I'm good looking, but at the end of the day girls always seem hell bent on not fucking on the first date, or trying to not have sex with you just to test if you're worth it. It amazes me how I hear all these guys talking about how they fuck all these *fit as fuck* girls like its so easy as if all girls are sluts. For me in reality it simply is not like that at all.

So, thanks to my parents who pushed me to get into college, I now earn a decent wage to be able to afford to see "fit as fuck" girls who let me fuck them... for money.

Its something work mates and the general public do not understand, all they see is prostitutes as if... the clients have to be utter ugly and couldn't pull to save their lives - albeit that is how I used to think as well because of societies views on the subject.