As we know from various other threads many of us have OHs who do not share our sexual drives - we either do not get any at home or it is very infrequent.
What I find so frustrating is that my OH is actually a good looking bird, quite pretty, trim body and an arse to die for. So I get horny seeing her around the house but more often than not it cannot lead to anything.
So of course any attempts I might make to reduce punting just die a death.
Occurred to me that if she let herself go, like many women her age, then perhaps I would not end up punting as often!!??
Mind you who wants to be seen out with a right munter??