ive been punting for about 4 years now and i dont seem to enjoy it as much as i use to. the women are great and i always leave happy but it doesnt seem to be enough anymore. i have 1 escort who i see every couple of months then i might see 1 or 2 others inbetween, usually someone ive never seen before. i have been thinking if it was time to stop for a while now and i became more sure of it since my last trip to the escort i see often when see told me she was going to be stopping in the new year.
has anyone on here stopped and then gone back because they missed it?
or has anyone had thoughts towards stopping?
Stopping isn't easy, hence the numbers of posts whenever this sort of thread comes up saying it's 'impossible' or 'you will never quit'. Of course you can quit but it is hard and you need to ask yourself -
1) What do you get out of this that you'll miss and can you replace that with something else (e.g. you get the illusion of intimacy, which can be replaced by pulling an actual bird)
2) Maybe you could think about what the money you spend on punting could do for you, e.g. if you're spending £3,000 a year on punting that's a hell of a holiday per year, or a payment on a half decent car, that kind of thing.
Maybe also consider if you're just bored with this one particular woman you see and you'd be more motivated if you tried some other things, threesomes, a commitment to seeing a different woman every time, that kind of thing?