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Offline big-paul-86

ive been punting for about 4 years now and i dont seem to enjoy it as much as i use to. the women are great and i always leave happy but it doesnt seem to be enough anymore. i have 1 escort who i see every couple of months then i might see 1 or 2 others inbetween, usually someone ive never seen before. i have been thinking if it was time to stop for a while now and i became more sure of it since my last trip to the escort i see often when see told me she was going to be stopping in the new year.

has anyone on here stopped and then gone back because they missed it?

or has anyone had thoughts towards stopping?

Offline cueball

Once a punter, always a punter.

The best I've done is a 5 year sabbatical in the last 20 years, when I had a sex mad girlfriend who drained me dry for five years, that were over ten years ago.

Offline willbred

Stopped twice during the 28 years as a punter - each time about 6 months. Got back on the horse each time and been there for the last 20 odd
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Offline Rod trotter

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Offline Ben4454


Some punters have managed to stop although they still regularly visit punting forums  :cool:

From my personal experience when I first tried to quit punting I went straight back to it. The urge seems to always be there even if you suppress it after a couple of months. Even when I had a girlfriend I found the need to punt although waited until I broke it off before going back to punting.
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Offline punther

Once you have crossed that line and paid for pussy the efficiency and practicality of it will always pull you back

No point deceiving yourself that you are going to quit but what you will most likely be able to realistically do reduce the frequency of your punts or take an extended break

I have had about 10 I'm giving this up for good moments in the past 3-4 months on each occasion I punted no less than 2 days after :sarcastic:


Once a punter, always a punter.

It's funny I was thinking the exact same thing.... this was supposed to be a temporary solution
until I find another regular civvy girlfriend, but.... somehow I can't see it stopping  :blush:

As someone else said on another thread; it bears all the hallmarks of an addiction  :scare:

I tend to go six months or so without and then once a week for about 3-4 weeks or so, rinse, repeat...

You will never stop.

All you can do is reduce the amount of punting and take the occasional break.

Last 5 months I've been seeing a girlfriend, this has reduced the punting, but I still like a punt. It's so convenient, with no strings attached. With a girlfriend she has her wants, her family, her friends and you get roped into all that. Punting, there is no hassle if you pick a good service provider.

I think the OP is looking for something more meaningful, like a girlfriend or serious hobby.

Punting is a great backup if a relationship goes to shit. I find I'm more in control of the relationship because she can't use sex as a weapon. Go on AW or Backpages and take your pick!

For me punting will always be a part of my life and I'm so glad I've got into it.

Offline hexohm

I lasted 15years without punting and hardly a day went by without feeling the urge.  Not sure what triggered it but i came across AW earlier this year and well and truly fell of the wagon.

Like the OP, ive felt a bit disillusioned lately but i know i'll be booking another prostitute before the end of the month.

Offline dave_59

I just reduced the frequency.
At almost 57 three or four times a year i get to dip the old guy in new and  eager wg.
Cant see me stoppingfor a few years yet.
No other way am i going to get to shag a 20 something stunner than too pay.
Reality is what it is

4 years of punting op and not one review? :dash:

Of course you can stop if you really want to. If punting is masking something that you don't want to deal with such as difficulties with building intimacy with a woman, for example, then if you can be arsed it's worth developing skills that punting may be compensating for.

4 years of punting op and not one review? :dash:
Agreed whether OP retires or not it will make no difference informing members of good bad or indifferent  :hi:

Offline seeker

Not sharing my thoughts with the op
4 years punting and shares fuck all with us  :thumbsdown:

Offline big-paul-86

Not sharing my thoughts with the op
4 years punting and shares fuck all with us  :thumbsdown:

thanks for stopping by

ive been punting for about 4 years now and i dont seem to enjoy it as much as i use to. the women are great and i always leave happy but it doesnt seem to be enough anymore. i have 1 escort who i see every couple of months then i might see 1 or 2 others inbetween, usually someone ive never seen before. i have been thinking if it was time to stop for a while now and i became more sure of it since my last trip to the escort i see often when see told me she was going to be stopping in the new year.

has anyone on here stopped and then gone back because they missed it?

or has anyone had thoughts towards stopping?

 Stopping isn't easy, hence the numbers of posts whenever this sort of thread comes up saying it's 'impossible' or 'you will never quit'. Of course you can quit but it is hard and you need to ask yourself -

1) What do you get out of this that you'll miss and can you replace that with something else (e.g. you get the illusion of intimacy, which can be replaced by pulling an actual bird)

2) Maybe you could think about what the money you spend on punting could do for you, e.g. if you're spending £3,000 a year on punting that's a hell of a holiday per year, or a payment on a half decent car, that kind of thing.

 Maybe also consider if you're just bored with this one particular woman you see and you'd be more motivated if you tried some other things, threesomes, a commitment to seeing a different woman every time, that kind of thing?

thanks for stopping by

He's certainly made more of an impression on here than you  :sarcastic:

Unless of course you are planning on reviewing some of these punts?

Aye, stopped last week, started again on Sunday, stopped until tonight and probably stopping until next week now.

Offline mcLovin

Apart from a one-off quickie in the red light district when staying overseas (does that even count?) I have quit punting for over a year.

A few times I've come close to picking up the phone, but not gone through with it. 10 years of active punting seems to have got it out of my system.

You cannot end until you have been ripped apart for a fluffy review !

I remember someone a few months back that signed up and announced that day they were retireing, quite why we needed to know ?  At least little-paul has waited 18 days since joining so maybe 1 person may give a fuck.

Anyway Paul you will be back, just happens like that usually.

Why not be realistic and take a holiday.
« Last Edit: November 19, 2015, 09:29:14 AM by virtualwaster »

Offline King Kenny

By definition you're never going to get a reply here from someone who says they've managed to stop.  If they're here, they've not stopped.

Offline RedKettle

I made a firm decision not to punt or go on UKP for the whole of November.

I have had 2 punts and planning a third next week.....


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