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Offline big-paul-86

ive been punting for about 4 years now and i dont seem to enjoy it as much as i use to. the women are great and i always leave happy but it doesnt seem to be enough anymore. i have 1 escort who i see every couple of months then i might see 1 or 2 others inbetween, usually someone ive never seen before. i have been thinking if it was time to stop for a while now and i became more sure of it since my last trip to the escort i see often when see told me she was going to be stopping in the new year.

has anyone on here stopped and then gone back because they missed it?

or has anyone had thoughts towards stopping?

Offline cueball

Once a punter, always a punter.

The best I've done is a 5 year sabbatical in the last 20 years, when I had a sex mad girlfriend who drained me dry for five years, that were over ten years ago.

willbred

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Stopped twice during the 28 years as a punter - each time about 6 months. Got back on the horse each time and been there for the last 20 odd

Rod trotter

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Ben4454

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Some punters have managed to stop although they still regularly visit punting forums  :cool:

From my personal experience when I first tried to quit punting I went straight back to it. The urge seems to always be there even if you suppress it after a couple of months. Even when I had a girlfriend I found the need to punt although waited until I broke it off before going back to punting.

punther

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Once you have crossed that line and paid for pussy the efficiency and practicality of it will always pull you back

No point deceiving yourself that you are going to quit but what you will most likely be able to realistically do reduce the frequency of your punts or take an extended break

I have had about 10 I'm giving this up for good moments in the past 3-4 months on each occasion I punted no less than 2 days after :sarcastic:


DoberManic

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Once a punter, always a punter.

It's funny I was thinking the exact same thing.... this was supposed to be a temporary solution
until I find another regular civvy girlfriend, but.... somehow I can't see it stopping  :blush:

As someone else said on another thread; it bears all the hallmarks of an addiction  :scare:

Offline WeekendSport

I tend to go six months or so without and then once a week for about 3-4 weeks or so, rinse, repeat...

jimbobwood

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You will never stop.

All you can do is reduce the amount of punting and take the occasional break.

Last 5 months I've been seeing a girlfriend, this has reduced the punting, but I still like a punt. It's so convenient, with no strings attached. With a girlfriend she has her wants, her family, her friends and you get roped into all that. Punting, there is no hassle if you pick a good service provider.

I think the OP is looking for something more meaningful, like a girlfriend or serious hobby.

Punting is a great backup if a relationship goes to shit. I find I'm more in control of the relationship because she can't use sex as a weapon. Go on AW or Backpages and take your pick!

For me punting will always be a part of my life and I'm so glad I've got into it.

Sureshot

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I lasted 15years without punting and hardly a day went by without feeling the urge.  Not sure what triggered it but i came across AW earlier this year and well and truly fell of the wagon.

Like the OP, ive felt a bit disillusioned lately but i know i'll be booking another prostitute before the end of the month.

Offline dave_59

I just reduced the frequency.
At almost 57 three or four times a year i get to dip the old guy in new and  eager wg.
Cant see me stoppingfor a few years yet.
No other way am i going to get to shag a 20 something stunner than too pay.
Reality is what it is

Offline claretandblue

4 years of punting op and not one review? :dash:

Offline PatrickCarnes

Of course you can stop if you really want to. If punting is masking something that you don't want to deal with such as difficulties with building intimacy with a woman, for example, then if you can be arsed it's worth developing skills that punting may be compensating for.

Offline HappyandLucky

4 years of punting op and not one review? :dash:
Agreed whether OP retires or not it will make no difference informing members of good bad or indifferent  :hi:

Offline seeker

Not sharing my thoughts with the op
4 years punting and shares fuck all with us  :thumbsdown:

Offline big-paul-86

Not sharing my thoughts with the op
4 years punting and shares fuck all with us  :thumbsdown:

thanks for stopping by

Offline Jeff_withpetersen

ive been punting for about 4 years now and i dont seem to enjoy it as much as i use to. the women are great and i always leave happy but it doesnt seem to be enough anymore. i have 1 escort who i see every couple of months then i might see 1 or 2 others inbetween, usually someone ive never seen before. i have been thinking if it was time to stop for a while now and i became more sure of it since my last trip to the escort i see often when see told me she was going to be stopping in the new year.

has anyone on here stopped and then gone back because they missed it?

or has anyone had thoughts towards stopping?

 Stopping isn't easy, hence the numbers of posts whenever this sort of thread comes up saying it's 'impossible' or 'you will never quit'. Of course you can quit but it is hard and you need to ask yourself -

1) What do you get out of this that you'll miss and can you replace that with something else (e.g. you get the illusion of intimacy, which can be replaced by pulling an actual bird)

2) Maybe you could think about what the money you spend on punting could do for you, e.g. if you're spending £3,000 a year on punting that's a hell of a holiday per year, or a payment on a half decent car, that kind of thing.

 Maybe also consider if you're just bored with this one particular woman you see and you'd be more motivated if you tried some other things, threesomes, a commitment to seeing a different woman every time, that kind of thing?

Offline claretandblue

thanks for stopping by

He's certainly made more of an impression on here than you  :sarcastic:

Unless of course you are planning on reviewing some of these punts?

foreverandever

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Aye, stopped last week, started again on Sunday, stopped until tonight and probably stopping until next week now.

mcLovin

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Apart from a one-off quickie in the red light district when staying overseas (does that even count?) I have quit punting for over a year.

A few times I've come close to picking up the phone, but not gone through with it. 10 years of active punting seems to have got it out of my system.

vw

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You cannot end until you have been ripped apart for a fluffy review !

I remember someone a few months back that signed up and announced that day they were retireing, quite why we needed to know ?  At least little-paul has waited 18 days since joining so maybe 1 person may give a fuck.

Anyway Paul you will be back, just happens like that usually.

Why not be realistic and take a holiday.
« Last Edit: November 19, 2015, 09:29:14 am by vw »

Offline King Kenny

By definition you're never going to get a reply here from someone who says they've managed to stop.  If they're here, they've not stopped.

Offline RedKettle

I made a firm decision not to punt or go on UKP for the whole of November.

I have had 2 punts and planning a third next week.....

willbred

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By definition you're never going to get a reply here from someone who says they've managed to stop.  If they're here, they've not stopped.

Spot on, sir   :hi:

Offline MrMatrix

I've tried stopping twice in the last 5 years. 1st time lasted a year and last time 4 months. Each time some one off my hots list wandered into my patch. And the little guy just says , you really should do this one. After all the OH isn't interested in you and that will never change and you only live once. Life isn't  a rehearsal. So I go ahead and see the prossie. At my time of life pulling a 20 something isn't going to happen unless shes blind. You cant beat a nice young body with some one who gives you a world of pleasure even if there's a financial cost. The hobby is too addictive................ :hi:

Pussydoc

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ive been punting for about 4 years now and i dont seem to enjoy it as much as i use to. the women are great and i always leave happy but it doesnt seem to be enough anymore. i have 1 escort who i see every couple of months then i might see 1 or 2 others inbetween, usually someone ive never seen before. i have been thinking if it was time to stop for a while now and i became more sure of it since my last trip to the escort i see often when see told me she was going to be stopping in the new year.

has anyone on here stopped and then gone back because they missed it?

or has anyone had thoughts towards stopping?  I

 tried to stop a few times simply because so much crap out there and getting more difficult to find genuine  girls , who don't tell so many lies , I have just had my first punt after abstaining for 3 months , and she was lovely , if I give the link then you will identify me by my feedback , so sorry , but I can assure you she was great , I am still trying not to punt  I may go back ,,but after 3 months it. I  don't feel the need anymore after 25 years punting  getting a bit stale , not saying I won't go back because once a punter always a punter., maybe  just cut down , but it's a serious addiction , and patches don't work ,lol

Offline anyfucker

i haven't had a punt for a whole week now

Jay-Jay

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Looking at the original post it was a lot longer than 4 years for me before I became disenchanted but then all those years ago there wasn't the glut of shite EE girls clogging up the system. The novelty wears off but the convenience of no strings shags doesn't.

Jay

Offline Mr Kent (Not AW)

ive been punting for about 4 years now and i dont seem to enjoy it as much as i use to. the women are great and i always leave happy but it doesnt seem to be enough anymore. i have 1 escort who i see every couple of months then i might see 1 or 2 others inbetween, usually someone ive never seen before. i have been thinking if it was time to stop for a while now and i became more sure of it since my last trip to the escort i see often when see told me she was going to be stopping in the new year.

has anyone on here stopped and then gone back because they missed it?

or has anyone had thoughts towards stopping?
You could go on a training course about when to use Capital letters, that might take your mind off punting ?

Offline big-paul-86

You could go on a training course about when to use Capital letters, that might take your mind off punting ?

my teachers at school gave up on me

Offline Mil 34

I've successfully given up , until payday tomorrow that is

DeWallenFan

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Punting = Hotel California

"You can check-out any time you like,
But you can never leave!"

 :D


Offline Thepacifist

ive been punting for about 4 years now and i dont seem to enjoy it as much as i use to. the women are great and i always leave happy but it doesnt seem to be enough anymore. i have 1 escort who i see every couple of months then i might see 1 or 2 others inbetween, usually someone ive never seen before. i have been thinking if it was time to stop for a while now and i became more sure of it since my last trip to the escort i see often when see told me she was going to be stopping in the new year.

has anyone on here stopped and then gone back because they missed it?

or has anyone had thoughts towards stopping?

I've thought about stopping before but didn't manage it. Sometimes I've felt a punt was so good that the next one won't compare so what's the point?! But then I go and punt anyway.. At the moment I feel like I've done everything I've ever wanted to do punting wise and have been lucky to get away with it. Once a punter always a punter springs to mind however. If I were to say I'm quitting punting forever I think that would be unlikely. How am I to know how I'll feel tomorrow? I won't until I get there.

'He who is wise knows that he knows not'   :hi:

Offline rogercock00

Some punters have managed to stop although they still regularly visit punting forums  :cool:


Been exactly one year since my last punt  :(

ness4

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been doing it for 20 years...tried to stop a few times (usually after a really bad experience with a Romanian bait and switch type, or a moment when I've punted with a WG who I wouldn't have looked twice at in a civil situation) but as everyone else says, it is addictive and difficult to give up and if you don't get caught why would you?

(Ps...i thought it was a bit harsh some of the 4 years no reviews comment...the OP didn't say he'd be on UKP for 4 years just punting for 4 years....hell I only discovered it a few months ago...)

Offline RedKettle

(Ps...i thought it was a bit harsh some of the 4 years no reviews comment...the OP didn't say he'd be on UKP for 4 years just punting for 4 years....hell I only discovered it a few months ago...)

agreed, the OP only been a member here since 31/10/15!!

Offline uutarn

I've only just started and there is no fucking reason for me to stop, just wish i would have sorted my shit out earlier :angry:.

Offline HappyandLucky

agreed, the OP only been a member here since 31/10/15!!
Fair point. I look forward to reading a couple of historical reviews from the last month or so.

Offline Nagilum

I discovered AW and this site over a year ago now, lurked until recently with envy reading the great reviews. Broke up with the missus after she had an affair and now I can never stop! Now it's my turn to post those reviews  :)

Who would give up bedding hot women with no strings? It's way too difficult... Sure you can try, but let's face it, we are programmed genetically to propagate and spread our seed. Don't fight nature  :cool:




Offline Bangers and Gash

I've thought about quitting many times, but realised that with a package like mine it would be plain selfish.  :hi:   

cockneybstrd

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I've thought about quitting many times, but realised that with a package like mine it would be plain selfish.  :hi:

wallet or cock or both BG?

Offline Nagilum

I've thought about quitting many times, but realised that with a package like mine it would be plain selfish.  :hi:

You generous man  :lol:

willbred

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i haven't had a punt for a whole week now

2 days...balls turning blue    :scare:

willbred

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I've thought about quitting many times, but realised that with a package like mine it would be plain selfish.  :hi:

One of the things this country's famous for...philanthropists   :lol:

Speedy

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ive been punting for about 4 years now and i dont seem to enjoy it as much as i use to. the women are great and i always leave happy but it doesnt seem to be enough anymore. i have 1 escort who i see every couple of months then i might see 1 or 2 others inbetween, usually someone ive never seen before. i have been thinking if it was time to stop for a while now and i became more sure of it since my last trip to the escort i see often when see told me she was going to be stopping in the new year.

has anyone on here stopped and then gone back because they missed it?

or has anyone had thoughts towards stopping?

Mate, every punt is my last punt. But then I get horny again and make another booking. It is useless trying to give up, for me anyway.

Offline hendrix

By definition you're never going to get a reply here from someone who says they've managed to stop.  If they're here, they've not stopped.

Not strictly true.  Staying on forums is sometimes the only way to stay in touch with people that you need to contact due to punting related issues. I still haven't punted since May, and have no plans to.

Offline NIK

In my punting hey day I often vowed I would stop. In the 90's I would drive back from Sheffield having more often than not wasted £60 / £70 on a crap experience and think what I could have done with that money. The difference back then was that I was in my late thirties and needed sex and as I was relatively financially comfortable I could afford to waste the money. From the turn of the century I began to have better punts and punt more in London so for many years continued to punt regularly, although they became increasingly spread out.
Ironically by around 2010, the year UKP was born, I had got myself in massive financial difficulties at the same time as age had decreased my libido, consequently my punting declined. I still managed 4 / 5 punts a year as I had in the period 1990 - 1992 before my punting subsequently exploded, however with the exception of Nicoletta in August I haven't had a punt now for eighteen months, the longest I've gone since 1989.

What is surprising, and I don't know if others have experienced the same, stopping punting, like advancing years just sort of creeps up on you and isn't always in your control as you expect it would be. I thought there would come a time when I would decide no more that's it; instead time and circumstances have stolen the decision from me.

What has also surprised me is that I don't really miss it that much. I never thought I would never reach a stage where I didn't care that I couldn't punt. In my thirties and forties it was a really huge part of my life. However I barely punted at all in my twenties, so I guess things have come full circle. The difference was back then I expected to get a girlfriend / wife so that was why I didn't punt.

I can't say that I will never punt again, but it could easily be that Nicoletta will be my last punt and it would be a good way to go out. As things stand at the moment I can't see my ever having another punt. Apart from lack of money and libido I have become much more choosy and there is absolutely nothing to tempt me locally and I simply can't afford to travel to London as I used to regularly (certainly can't be arsed just to go for the day).
Once upon a time I would travel miles for a punt, now it would take me all my time to cross the  road.  I have a job in Sheffield later today and once upon a time would have inevitably gone for a punt afterwards, now I just want to come home and put my feet up.  :blush:
« Last Edit: November 20, 2015, 12:22:20 pm by NIK »

Offline uutarn


What is surprising, and I don't know if others have experienced the same, stopping punting, like advancing years just sort of creeps up on you and isn't always in your control as you expect it would be. I thought there would come a time when I would decide no more that's it; instead time and circumstances have stolen the decision from me.

I'm hoping i will be the same. Your own body/desires will take over and make the decision for you... natural.
Besides, i can't see myself making the conscious effort to change at this point in time.