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Offline Sonny Crockett

I mean all it should really consist of is contacting the lady to see if they are available for the date and time you want to see them, and which services you would like (I myself only ask for anal (as I really love anal) as I appreciate the lady has to prepare in advance). They say yes or no. If yes booking is arranged, confirmed and location details given (If there's no answer or lady answers no, move on). You travel to the punt, you see the lady, you pay her the right amount, you have great sex, and you leave as Happy as Larry and continue with your normal life.  :yahoo:

However what punting should not be is a science, or feel like a career of sorts where getting a meet is like going for a job interview where you write Lovey Dovey e-mails and worry about obtaining feedback from other escorts just so that you can see more escorts. It should also not be a hobby where you are messed around at certain times and worry about whether you want be seen by the lady and then go on and send more e-mails or texts that become long winded flirts/grovelling just in the hope that the lady gets back you with a positive response or feel assured your booking. With a few escorts, arranging a punt is basically exchanging love letters over a period of weeks or months. Punting should not be that at all. All it does is create mental baggage and set you up for disappointments when things don't go positively.  :thumbsdown:

With it being a simple contact, meet and pay arrangement - with a hopefully positive outcome - then punting is a Simple Hobby which becomes a Fantastic Hobby!!  :yahoo: :dance:

BrunetteBarbieBrooke

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But the same also applies to our side of things. I've put this in one of my blogs. It's your hobby and our job. We get messed around by so many guys sometimes that it just feels like a nightmare to work. In a simple world we would have what you described and guys who are genuine, book and turn up on time.

So it's not just the girls who make this hobby hard (excuse the pun!) It's the men also.

Brooke x

vw

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Do you really write lovey emails, mine are all business type date time and my flexibility on time and duration.  there is no lovely in mine and work a treat !

Offline Sonny Crockett

Do you really write lovey emails, mine are all business type date time and my flexibility on time and duration.  there is no lovely in mine and work a treat !

No I never do, but I imagine there are probably punters out there that do. All I do in my e-mails/texts/phone calls to ladies is ask if they are available for a certain date (if booking in advance, otherwise I ask about "today") and time, and request which services I want (I always ask for anal... of course I only go for ladies that do this service). Like yourself, mine are pretty much business like and simple.

vw

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No I never do, but I imagine there are probably punters out there that do. All I do in my e-mails/texts/phone calls to ladies is ask if they are available for a certain date (if booking in advance, otherwise I ask about "today") and time, and request which services I want (I always ask for anal... of course I only go for ladies that do this service). Like yourself, mine are pretty much business like and simple.
So your pretty much like me in that way !

What about your feedback on there would you say little or not.  Did a reverse booking the other day all the replies mentioned my feedback and girls that had feed-backed in their replies.  We know AW feedback is good but from an escorts point of a punter with feedback from high rated rivals is a safe bet.

Offline Sonny Crockett

So your pretty much like me in that way !

What about your feedback on there would you say little or not.  Did a reverse booking the other day all the replies mentioned my feedback and girls that had feed-backed in their replies.  We know AW feedback is good but from an escorts point of a punter with feedback from high rated rivals is a safe bet.

I have good feedback on AW yes. Some of my punts this year were booked in advance on AW.

vw

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I have good feedback on AW yes. Some of my punts this year were booked in advance on AW.
Plans I don't do, because I have realised I don't do plans well and nor do most escorts so avoid them (Plans) like the plague.  Sorry for your bout of bad luck with these matters. 

Offline Sonny Crockett

Plans I don't do, because I have realised I don't do plans well and nor do most escorts so avoid them (Plans) like the plague.  Sorry for your bout of bad luck with these matters.

I agree with that view. Out of the 22 punts I had this year, only 7 were arranged in advance (those 7 were on the whole positive punts). There were a couple of others that I booked in advance but never went ahead, either due to last-minute cancellation or the lady's failure to contact me. I then turned to Plan B, and with the exception of one punt, none of them were quite as good. For those, the disappointment of the originally arranged punt not going ahead hung over me.

Last year, all but three of my punts were arranged on the day itself, and I have to say that my experiences were generally positive. Looking back, I would say that for the whole of last year to the early months of this year, I was at my happiest as a punter, simply because other than having a great punt, I feel that arranging my punt on the day just kept things easy.

vw

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I agree with that view. Out of the 22 punts I had this year, only 7 were arranged in advance (those 7 were on the whole positive punts). There were a couple of others that I booked in advance but never went ahead, either due to last-minute cancellation or the lady's failure to contact me. I then turned to Plan B, and with the exception of one punt, none of them were quite as good. For those, the disappointment of the originally arranged punt not going ahead hung over me.

Last year, all but three of my punts were arranged on the day itself, and I have to say that my experiences were generally positive. Looking back, I would say that for the whole of last year to the early months of this year, I was at my happiest as a punter, simply because other than having a great punt, I feel that arranging my punt on the day just kept things easy.
Yes same day ones means your really in the mood, and really want to do it, we all have up and down days in terms of horniness.  Nothing turns me off more than a queue or waiting list.

Offline Sonny Crockett

Yes same day ones means your really in the mood, and really want to do it, we all have up and down days in terms of horniness.  Nothing turns me off more than a queue or waiting list.

+1

Yes, being in the mood is the main factor, as well as the lady being an excellent SP.

Two tone

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But the same also applies to our side of things. I've put this in one of my blogs. It's your hobby and our job. We get messed around by so many guys sometimes that it just feels like a nightmare to work. In a simple world we would have what you described and guys who are genuine, book and turn up on time.

So it's not just the girls who make this hobby hard (excuse the pun!) It's the men also.

Brooke x

I suppose it's the time wasters on both sides that makes this hobby difficult, as it means that we all have to go the extra mile to make sure the other is genuine. If we all were genuine then the only let downs would be things that happen in life that we can't control, especially if we have arranged the booking in advance.

I've mostly had a successful time booking & having a punt & that's using AW, where my feedback helps show I'm genuine & obviously their feedback, & reviews on here help show me that they are too.

I think Sonny that you are going through a run of bad luck at the moment which is understandably frustrating, but as you have had a successful time before that, it will pass & all it takes is a couple of good punts & you will be back in the flow again. I would choose your next punt with someone you have seen before & know that they are reliable, or someone well reviewed on here.


Bud$

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I agree with that view. Out of the 22 punts I had this year, only 7 were arranged in advance (those 7 were on the whole positive punts). There were a couple of others that I booked in advance but never went ahead, either due to last-minute cancellation or the lady's failure to contact me. I then turned to Plan B. Last year, all but three of my punts were arranged on the day
"e-mails or texts that become long winded flirts/grovelling just in the hope that the lady gets back you with a positive response or feel assured your booking. With a few escorts, arranging a punt is basically exchanging love letters over a period of weeks or months. Punting should not be that at all. All it does is create mental baggage...... punting is a Simple Hobby" "I imagine some punters do this" (sic)
 

Bud$

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What you say, above post, is fair enough, Sonny. I can't 'imagine' many punters or girls exchanging lovey dovey emails with each other, but as you say, you only imagine it as well. There's quite a few 'shoulds' in your OP - that's ok for you as it's how you see your experience of punting. You're quite 'scientific' in your approach to the hobby, having kept a record of the numbers of times you've punted this year, how many were arranged in advance, on the day, on the hoof etc. and obviously that's your way of doing it. For me, though, it might make the hobby too cut and dried, might take away from the fun, the unexpected, the thrill. I'm not so sure, either, if it's a simple hobby, or if it's a hobby at all. What is a 'hobby'? Is punting a life style, a pastime, a need, a desire, an addiction? I think that probably it's all of these or some of them or different ones at different times in our lives. Maybe it 'should' be simple or straightforward anyway, although it does involve an interaction between 2, or more sometimes, human beings and that's never simple.

Offline claretandblue

What you say, above post, is fair enough, Sonny. I can't 'imagine' many punters or girls exchanging lovey dovey emails with each other, but as you say, you only imagine it as well. There's quite a few 'shoulds' in your OP - that's ok for you as it's how you see your experience of punting. You're quite 'scientific' in your approach to the hobby, having kept a record of the numbers of times you've punted this year, how many were arranged in advance, on the day, on the hoof etc. and obviously that's your way of doing it. For me, though, it might make the hobby too cut and dried, might take away from the fun, the unexpected, the thrill. I'm not so sure, either, if it's a simple hobby, or if it's a hobby at all. What is a 'hobby'? Is punting a life style, a pastime, a need, a desire, an addiction? I think that probably it's all of these or some of them or different ones at different times in our lives. Maybe it 'should' be simple or straightforward anyway, although it does involve an interaction between 2, or more sometimes, human beings and that's never simple.
Some good points, I agree about the use of the word "hobby" to describe punting, I don't think that's really accurate and it actually makes me cringe a little,
I think it is more of an addiction though thankfully for  most a reasonably mild one that doesn't take over your life

Offline Sonny Crockett

I wrote what I wrote based on my own recent experiences (as well as my experiences last year and earlier this year) and also what has happened recently elsewhere.

When I contacted ladies to arrange my meets, either on the day or in advance, I've always stuck to keeping my e-mail/text/phone call short and business like. That includes the advance bookings I made which were cancelled last minute or where the lady never contacted me on the day to give their location details. After the lady agreed to see me and I made a subsequent booking request, which was then acknowledged by her, I never contacted the lady again until the morning of the meet where I tell them that I am coming to see them and ask for their location details. Once a booking request is acknowledged, I don't see a point in making any further contact with the lady beforehand, unless I had to cancel.

If or when I do return to punting, I will continue to contact ladies in that fashion.

I guess that the opening post I made here is more or less an offshoot of my other post regarding my observations about booking on the day and booking in advance.

Offline smiths

I mean all it should really consist of is contacting the lady to see if they are available for the date and time you want to see them, and which services you would like (I myself only ask for anal (as I really love anal) as I appreciate the lady has to prepare in advance). They say yes or no. If yes booking is arranged, confirmed and location details given (If there's no answer or lady answers no, move on). You travel to the punt, you see the lady, you pay her the right amount, you have great sex, and you leave as Happy as Larry and continue with your normal life.  :yahoo:

However what punting should not be is a science, or feel like a career of sorts where getting a meet is like going for a job interview where you write Lovey Dovey e-mails and worry about obtaining feedback from other escorts just so that you can see more escorts. It should also not be a hobby where you are messed around at certain times and worry about whether you want be seen by the lady and then go on and send more e-mails or texts that become long winded flirts/grovelling just in the hope that the lady gets back you with a positive response or feel assured your booking. With a few escorts, arranging a punt is basically exchanging love letters over a period of weeks or months. Punting should not be that at all. All it does is create mental baggage and set you up for disappointments when things don't go positively.  :thumbsdown:

With it being a simple contact, meet and pay arrangement - with a hopefully positive outcome - then punting is a Simple Hobby which becomes a Fantastic Hobby!!  :yahoo: :dance:

Obviously different punters operate differently and that will always be the case. I only ring WGs and never get involved in phone or text ping pong as it doesn't interest me in the slightest. Enquire, book, confirm, call when their, punt and fuck off, that's the usual for me. I don't mistake punting for dating.

Bud$

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Some good points, I agree about the use of the word "hobby" to describe punting, I don't think that's really accurate and it actually makes me cringe a little,
I think it is more of an addiction though thankfully for  most a reasonably mild one that doesn't take over your life
Thank you for that. I suppose the 'cringe' word describes how I see it as well, or perhaps inappropriate anyway. A hobby would imply some relatively harmless pastime, although it could involve an element of danger; rock climbing, skiing etc. Punting is possibly illegal (I'm never quite sure of this though), risky - STI's, money-sapping (usually) and, for some at least, immoral; if it involves lying to a partner (I just don't feel like having sex anymore!) or your children, about where you've been, what you've been doing and why you've not got enough money. These are not usually the case if your hobby is going to watch Arsenal or keeping snakes, although these could get expensive as well.
« Last Edit: November 06, 2015, 03:07:18 pm by Bud$ »

Offline claretandblue

Thank you for that. I suppose the 'cringe' word describes how I see it as well, or perhaps inappropriate anyway. A hobby would imply some relatively harmless pastime, although it could involve an element of danger; rock climbing, skiing etc. Punting is possibly illegal (I'm never quite sure of this though), risky - STI's, money-sapping (usually) and, for some at least, immoral; if it involves lying to a partner (I just don't feel like having sex anymore!) or your children, about where you've been, what you've been doing and why you've not got enough money. These are not usually the case if your hobby is going to watch Arsenal or keeping snakes, although these could get expensive as well.
The word hobby sounds so dated, stamp collecting or fishing are good examples of hobbies, not imo nailing whores  :D

Offline Jamboney

The word hobby sounds so dated, stamp collecting or fishing are good examples of hobbies, not imo nailing whores  :D

I consider punting to be a hobby. What would you call it?

Offline claretandblue

I consider punting to be a hobby. What would you call it?
An addiction


Offline smiths

Thank you for that. I suppose the 'cringe' word describes how I see it as well, or perhaps inappropriate anyway. A hobby would imply some relatively harmless pastime, although it could involve an element of danger; rock climbing, skiing etc. Punting is possibly illegal (I'm never quite sure of this though), risky - STI's, money-sapping (usually) and, for some at least, immoral; if it involves lying to a partner (I just don't feel like having sex anymore!) or your children, about where you've been, what you've been doing and why you've not got enough money. These are not usually the case if your hobby is going to watch Arsenal or keeping snakes, although these could get expensive as well.

Punting here isn't illegal off/street unless you punt with an underage and/or coerced WG. Punting to me is a pastime, what others view it as is of course up to them.

Offline claretandblue

A lifestyle I call it
I can see that more than calling it a hobby, for me some of us punters are mildly addicted to punting while some as we have seen on here are obsessed

What is consistent is everyone seems to get a buzz from punting and is looking forward to their next punt, hence my reasoning for calling it an addiction  :hi:

vw

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I can see that more than calling it a hobby, for me some of us punters are mildly addicted to punting while some as we have seen on here are obsessed

What is consistent is everyone seems to get a buzz from punting and is looking forward to their next punt, hence my reasoning for calling it an addiction  :hi:
Having been an addict before, not classic addiction signs In mine, never got in to debt or any underhand shit addicts do.

Offline claretandblue

Having been an addict before, not classic addiction signs In mine, never got in to debt or any underhand shit addicts do.
To be fair neither have I, maybe a habit rather than addiction then

Rod trotter

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its a need, a need you have to pay for

Offline Hertsgent

I'm almost a short and sweet text person and on the day - rarely get problems and ensures I'm in the mood. Generally only those I've seen before that I might book in advance.

I heard somewhere that WGs consider punters that converse with brevity are a more reliable bet. I reserve any flirtatious stuff for post punt thanks or a preamble forWGs I've seen before.

Offline Sonny Crockett

I appreciate peoples different viewpoints as to what they think punting is. I myself punt because I love having sex, therefore I consider sex as a pastime for me which I engage in if I am in the mood, or book certain days off work in order to pursue this pastime. Like some hobbies it does cost money, however if I have a great time then I consider it money well spent, plus I feel that my day has been fulfilled.

Clarkson

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The OP to the thread is what kicks it, in my view its right and its the one area where some guys fuck it up for the others

However what punting should not be is a science, or feel like a career of sorts where getting a meet is like going for a job interview where you write Lovey Dovey e-mails and worry about obtaining feedback from other escorts just so that you can see more escorts. It should also not be a hobby where you are messed around at certain times and worry about whether you want be seen by the lady and then go on and send more e-mails or texts that become long winded flirts/grovelling just in the hope that the lady gets back you with a positive response or feel assured your booking. With a few escorts, arranging a punt is basically exchanging love letters over a period of weeks or months. Punting should not be that at all. All it does is create mental baggage and set you up for disappointments when things don't go positively.  :thumbsdown:

Most punters probably same as you Sonny just want to keep it simple.   :music: 
But some are interfering White Night fluffy cunts thinking they can help the poor distressed damsel in one way or other. If they fuck off most of that unnecessary bollocks sort itself out. 


Offline Sonny Crockett

I must admit that this year alone I wracked myself with worry over whether a lady that I had just meet via booking on AW, would leave me feedback. There were two AW meets where I was not left feedback in return. Not a good thing to go through after a meet, especially when you feel that you have had a good time. Worrying about feedback does take the simple, fun element out of punting, made worse by ladies insisting that YOU must have feedback before you meet them (and there is one I know that actually hides her feedback and yet insists she will only see clients with feedback). A punter should not be made to feel that they must hunt for feedback.

For me, that is another disadvantage of making advance bookings.
« Last Edit: November 07, 2015, 11:12:32 am by Sonny Crockett »

Two tone

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I must admit that this year alone I wracked myself with worry over whether a lady that I had just meet via booking on AW, would leave me feedback. There were two AW meets where I was not left feedback in return. Not a good thing to go through after a meet, especially when you feel that you have had a good time. Worrying about feedback does take the simple, fun element out of punting, made worse by ladies insisting that YOU must have feedback before you meet them (and there is one I know that actually hides her feedback and yet insists she will only see clients with feedback). A punter should not be made to feel that they must hunt for feedback.

For me, that is another disadvantage of making advance bookings.

When I leave feedback after what I think has been an enjoyable punt, if I don't get feedback in return then I won't bother seeing that prossie again. It's not hard to leave feedback, so I just assume that they don't want to see me again & move on. Positive feedback tells me that they don't mind seeing me again & I've no problem spending my cash on them if the mood takes.

Sonny, I can understand your disappointment if you don't get feedback after what you think has been an enjoyable punt but there's so many prossies out there, just move on mate, it's not worth the stress & worry that will effect you negatively.
« Last Edit: November 07, 2015, 12:56:28 pm by Two tone »

Offline LanceVance

I wonder if this is a geography thing. Here in London, I can just call a WG with 1-2 hours notice to have a good punt because there are so many service providers in one place. I wonder if in places where there are not as many WGs, they feel able to make potential customers jump through more hoops to get a better feel of the guy beforehand as well as to be more picky about who they see.

Offline od13218

An addiction
Certainly can be. Personally I find I have to really watch myself- every now and then I get carried away with a "binge" (3-4 in a week when I can only really afford 2-3 a month) - which in fact I've just done with 3 punts in 4 days. I think it has huge addictive potential, certainly.
Doug

Offline WelshClipper

I wonder if this is a geography thing. Here in London, I can just call a WG with 1-2 hours notice to have a good punt because there are so many service providers in one place. I wonder if in places where there are not as many WGs, they feel able to make potential customers jump through more hoops to get a better feel of the guy beforehand as well as to be more picky about who they see.

I really think someone could write a book on this subject 'The Joy of Punting'. Great thread by the way, AW feedback is a nightmare, you can build up 20 fb from the best girls out there then have it all ruined because you see a trollop. Wgs focus on the bad not the good. I get more and more disillusioned with some of the hoops you have to go through. I agree that except for a couple that I have built up trust with, I am making 2016 the year of the same day booking, no build up, no bullshit, no unanswered emails.

And if that fails 2017,  I am going back to agencies, order at 4, fucking at 5.  Where I started. Simples   :cool:

Offline purple_t

Eh II haven't found punting to be too complicated.
The hardest part isn't the comms, its sifting through tons of shit profiles and obvious scams to find the gems

Offline Nagilum

I mean all it should really consist of is contacting the lady to see if they are available for the date and time you want to see them, and which services you would like (I myself only ask for anal (as I really love anal) as I appreciate the lady has to prepare in advance). They say yes or no. If yes booking is arranged, confirmed and location details given (If there's no answer or lady answers no, move on). You travel to the punt, you see the lady, you pay her the right amount, you have great sex, and you leave as Happy as Larry and continue with your normal life.  :yahoo:

However what punting should not be is a science, or feel like a career of sorts where getting a meet is like going for a job interview where you write Lovey Dovey e-mails and worry about obtaining feedback from other escorts just so that you can see more escorts. It should also not be a hobby where you are messed around at certain times and worry about whether you want be seen by the lady and then go on and send more e-mails or texts that become long winded flirts/grovelling just in the hope that the lady gets back you with a positive response or feel assured your booking. With a few escorts, arranging a punt is basically exchanging love letters over a period of weeks or months. Punting should not be that at all. All it does is create mental baggage and set you up for disappointments when things don't go positively.  :thumbsdown:

With it being a simple contact, meet and pay arrangement - with a hopefully positive outcome - then punting is a Simple Hobby which becomes a Fantastic Hobby!!  :yahoo: :dance:

No lovey dovey stuff from me, very much to the point with a couple questions and then an arrangement. I tend not to send texts or emails aside from on the day itself.

But getting feedback AW is painful as escorts forget.

Offline Agent W

The hardest part isn't the comms, it's sifting through tons of shit profiles and obvious scams to find the gems

+1

The most frustrating thing for me is the vague list of incall locations in AW profiles. It's never just "Manor House", it's always "Seven Sisters, Manor House, Finsbury, Wood Green, Bounds Green, City of London" or something. My entire sex life needs to take place on the way home from work or possibly at the weekend if I can combine it convincingly with a gym trip, but always against the clock and risking awkward questions if I'm late back, so this means a phone call/email/text along the lines of "Hi X, love your profile, whereabouts are you for incalls because out of the six places you listed I can make make two and I don't believe one of those" (well maybe a bit friendlier than that), to which I get a reply about 25% of the time.

I've never liked making phone calls, and the whole "Hi is that Sabrina, I was just admiring your Adultwork profile" conversation can be tricky to say the least from either work or home, so I massively prefer text/email at least until we've introduced ourselves.

I really wish AW made service providers pick one actual location off a list, to save me hunting through interview questions and field reports for clues.

vw

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+1

The most frustrating thing for me is the vague list of incall locations in AW profiles. It's never just "Manor House", it's always "Seven Sisters, Manor House, Finsbury, Wood Green, Bounds Green, City of London" or something. My entire sex life needs to take place on the way home from work or possibly at the weekend if I can combine it convincingly with a gym trip, but always against the clock and risking awkward questions if I'm late back, so this means a phone call/email/text along the lines of "Hi X, love your profile, whereabouts are you for incalls because out of the six places you listed I can make make two and I don't believe one of those" (well maybe a bit friendlier than that), to which I get a reply about 25% of the time.

I've never liked making phone calls, and the whole "Hi is that Sabrina, I was just admiring your Adultwork profile" conversation can be tricky to say the least from either work or home, so I massively prefer text/email at least until we've introduced ourselves.

I really wish AW made service providers pick one actual location off a list, to save me hunting through interview questions and field reports for clues.
Have you tried the postcode proximity search ?  Not sure how well it works in London but works damn fine here !

Offline WelshClipper

Have you tried the postcode proximity search ?  Not sure how well it works in London but works damn fine here !

Rose Cottage, Leominster.  Address and locale to die for. Wish she hadn't moved  :cry:

vw

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Rose Cottage, Leominster.  Address and locale to die for. Wish she hadn't moved  :cry:
So you have 12 toes with a HR6 postcode !

Offline od13218

+1

The most frustrating thing for me is the vague list of incall locations in AW profiles. It's never just "Manor House", it's always "Seven Sisters, Manor House, Finsbury, Wood Green, Bounds Green, City of London" or something. My entire sex life needs to take place on the way home from work or possibly at the weekend if I can combine it convincingly with a gym trip, but always against the clock and risking awkward questions if I'm late back, so this means a phone call/email/text along the lines of "Hi X, love your profile, whereabouts are you for incalls because out of the six places you listed I can make make two and I don't believe one of those" (well maybe a bit friendlier than that), to which I get a reply about 25% of the time.

I've never liked making phone calls, and the whole "Hi is that Sabrina, I was just admiring your Adultwork profile" conversation can be tricky to say the least from either work or home, so I massively prefer text/email at least until we've introduced ourselves.

I really wish AW made service providers pick one actual location off a list, to save me hunting through interview questions and field reports for clues.
Ditto- sometimes I think these profiles are written as if we're all gentleman of leisure who can plan a visit 2 weeks in advance at any location of the WG's choosing! Do they not realise how crucial the *actual* location is?
Doug

Offline oldrunter

I have to take a somewhat scientific apparoach to punting.
Being both retired and together at home a lot with my wife my main alibi is my golf.

I really have to watch the weather forecast for the day i wish to punt as she would question my sanity going to golf if it is pissing it down.
As a 5 day member only(mon-Fri) i can't get away weekends or indeed evenings either.
Much easier in the Summer for me as usually we get more dry days.
AS you can see it's not easy to be spontaneous but i do occasionaly manage to book a girl on same day.

It was much easier when we both used to work,especially as i used to work shifts so had much more flexibility.

Still as old as i am(67)with the help of a blue pill i can't shake off the urge to get to grips with a bit of younger flesh now and then. :P 

Offline Agent W

Have you tried the postcode proximity search ?  Not sure how well it works in London but works damn fine here !

I've found it a bit hit and miss TBH. For top-level postcodes like "N19" it calculates a radius around some notional central point which is never quite where I need it to be, so I have to run searches for two or three neighbouring postcodes and attempt to triangulate. There is an option to enter a more detailed postcode through a fiddly interface but I've never had much success with it, and the "use my location" feature has never worked at all. Also there are a lot of possible locations along my route home and it is much harder to do detailed searches for every single tube station etc than it would be just to browse accurate profiles. Even when I do get a selection of search hits, I still have to contact the SP to confirm and I'm back to the tricky phone call or 25% reply rate email system.

Offline Agent W

Still as old as i am(67)with the help of a blue pill i can't shake off the urge to get to grips with a bit of younger flesh now and then.

Good to hear it.

I'm a little younger, but I still sometimes wish there was another pill that put you in the mood to take the blue pill.

vw

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I've found it a bit hit and miss TBH. For top-level postcodes like "N19" it calculates a radius around some notional central point which is never quite where I need it to be, so I have to run searches for two or three neighbouring postcodes and attempt to triangulate. There is an option to enter a more detailed postcode through a fiddly interface but I've never had much success with it, and the "use my location" feature has never worked at all. Also there are a lot of possible locations along my route home and it is much harder to do detailed searches for every single tube station etc than it would be just to browse accurate profiles. Even when I do get a selection of search hits, I still have to contact the SP to confirm and I'm back to the tricky phone call or 25% reply rate email system.
Just an idea do a text search using specific words, clicking the words dot and put tube station names in or place names, they seem to load that town field up but mention the venue only in the text area.



Offline oldrunter

Good to hear it.

I'm a little younger, but I still sometimes wish there was another pill that put you in the mood to take the blue pill.

Cheers Agent. :)

Yeah i know what you mean i sometimes get the urge to book one day and then on the actual day of the meet the old libido drops.
I have more than once struggled to fuck the girl when i get there and have had to content myself with lot's of foreplay and oral etc.

If i can i prefer to book on the day for that reason as much as it needing to be dry weather for golf.

Bloody old age eh. :rolleyes:

Offline WelshClipper

Cheers Agent. :)

Yeah i know what you mean i sometimes get the urge to book one day and then on the actual day of the meet the old libido drops.
I have more than once struggled to fuck the girl when i get there and have had to content myself with lot's of foreplay and oral etc.

If i can i prefer to book on the day for that reason as much as it needing to be dry weather for golf.

Bloody old age eh. :rolleyes:

It is definitely a mindset, only had a floppy once but it was with a girl that I had had the most anticipation for. Wonder if that is the reason, you build it up in your mind only to fail. Another girl was spur of the moment and I shafted her like a 20 year old.  :unknown:

Offline Itsnotshy

It is a simple pastime if you use parlours.Really couldn't be bothered with all that text,email,vetting crap.When I feel like a grope and poke it has to be spontaneous,same day.

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It's not a hobby. It's a character trait.