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Author Topic: Punting should really be a Simple Hobby  (Read 2085 times)

Offline Sonny Crockett

I mean all it should really consist of is contacting the lady to see if they are available for the date and time you want to see them, and which services you would like (I myself only ask for anal (as I really love anal) as I appreciate the lady has to prepare in advance). They say yes or no. If yes booking is arranged, confirmed and location details given (If there's no answer or lady answers no, move on). You travel to the punt, you see the lady, you pay her the right amount, you have great sex, and you leave as Happy as Larry and continue with your normal life.  :yahoo:

However what punting should not be is a science, or feel like a career of sorts where getting a meet is like going for a job interview where you write Lovey Dovey e-mails and worry about obtaining feedback from other escorts just so that you can see more escorts. It should also not be a hobby where you are messed around at certain times and worry about whether you want be seen by the lady and then go on and send more e-mails or texts that become long winded flirts/grovelling just in the hope that the lady gets back you with a positive response or feel assured your booking. With a few escorts, arranging a punt is basically exchanging love letters over a period of weeks or months. Punting should not be that at all. All it does is create mental baggage and set you up for disappointments when things don't go positively.  :thumbsdown:

With it being a simple contact, meet and pay arrangement - with a hopefully positive outcome - then punting is a Simple Hobby which becomes a Fantastic Hobby!!  :yahoo: :dance:
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Offline BrunetteBarbieBrooke

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But the same also applies to our side of things. I've put this in one of my blogs. It's your hobby and our job. We get messed around by so many guys sometimes that it just feels like a nightmare to work. In a simple world we would have what you described and guys who are genuine, book and turn up on time.

So it's not just the girls who make this hobby hard (excuse the pun!) It's the men also.

Brooke x
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Do you really write lovey emails, mine are all business type date time and my flexibility on time and duration.  there is no lovely in mine and work a treat !

Offline Sonny Crockett

Do you really write lovey emails, mine are all business type date time and my flexibility on time and duration.  there is no lovely in mine and work a treat !

No I never do, but I imagine there are probably punters out there that do. All I do in my e-mails/texts/phone calls to ladies is ask if they are available for a certain date (if booking in advance, otherwise I ask about "today") and time, and request which services I want (I always ask for anal... of course I only go for ladies that do this service). Like yourself, mine are pretty much business like and simple.
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No I never do, but I imagine there are probably punters out there that do. All I do in my e-mails/texts/phone calls to ladies is ask if they are available for a certain date (if booking in advance, otherwise I ask about "today") and time, and request which services I want (I always ask for anal... of course I only go for ladies that do this service). Like yourself, mine are pretty much business like and simple.
So your pretty much like me in that way !

What about your feedback on there would you say little or not.  Did a reverse booking the other day all the replies mentioned my feedback and girls that had feed-backed in their replies.  We know AW feedback is good but from an escorts point of a punter with feedback from high rated rivals is a safe bet.

Offline Sonny Crockett

So your pretty much like me in that way !

What about your feedback on there would you say little or not.  Did a reverse booking the other day all the replies mentioned my feedback and girls that had feed-backed in their replies.  We know AW feedback is good but from an escorts point of a punter with feedback from high rated rivals is a safe bet.

I have good feedback on AW yes. Some of my punts this year were booked in advance on AW.
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I have good feedback on AW yes. Some of my punts this year were booked in advance on AW.
Plans I don't do, because I have realised I don't do plans well and nor do most escorts so avoid them (Plans) like the plague.  Sorry for your bout of bad luck with these matters. 

Offline Sonny Crockett

Plans I don't do, because I have realised I don't do plans well and nor do most escorts so avoid them (Plans) like the plague.  Sorry for your bout of bad luck with these matters.

I agree with that view. Out of the 22 punts I had this year, only 7 were arranged in advance (those 7 were on the whole positive punts). There were a couple of others that I booked in advance but never went ahead, either due to last-minute cancellation or the lady's failure to contact me. I then turned to Plan B, and with the exception of one punt, none of them were quite as good. For those, the disappointment of the originally arranged punt not going ahead hung over me.

Last year, all but three of my punts were arranged on the day itself, and I have to say that my experiences were generally positive. Looking back, I would say that for the whole of last year to the early months of this year, I was at my happiest as a punter, simply because other than having a great punt, I feel that arranging my punt on the day just kept things easy.
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I agree with that view. Out of the 22 punts I had this year, only 7 were arranged in advance (those 7 were on the whole positive punts). There were a couple of others that I booked in advance but never went ahead, either due to last-minute cancellation or the lady's failure to contact me. I then turned to Plan B, and with the exception of one punt, none of them were quite as good. For those, the disappointment of the originally arranged punt not going ahead hung over me.

Last year, all but three of my punts were arranged on the day itself, and I have to say that my experiences were generally positive. Looking back, I would say that for the whole of last year to the early months of this year, I was at my happiest as a punter, simply because other than having a great punt, I feel that arranging my punt on the day just kept things easy.
Yes same day ones means your really in the mood, and really want to do it, we all have up and down days in terms of horniness.  Nothing turns me off more than a queue or waiting list.

Offline Sonny Crockett

Yes same day ones means your really in the mood, and really want to do it, we all have up and down days in terms of horniness.  Nothing turns me off more than a queue or waiting list.

+1

Yes, being in the mood is the main factor, as well as the lady being an excellent SP.
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But the same also applies to our side of things. I've put this in one of my blogs. It's your hobby and our job. We get messed around by so many guys sometimes that it just feels like a nightmare to work. In a simple world we would have what you described and guys who are genuine, book and turn up on time.

So it's not just the girls who make this hobby hard (excuse the pun!) It's the men also.

Brooke x

I suppose it's the time wasters on both sides that makes this hobby difficult, as it means that we all have to go the extra mile to make sure the other is genuine. If we all were genuine then the only let downs would be things that happen in life that we can't control, especially if we have arranged the booking in advance.

I've mostly had a successful time booking & having a punt & that's using AW, where my feedback helps show I'm genuine & obviously their feedback, & reviews on here help show me that they are too.

I think Sonny that you are going through a run of bad luck at the moment which is understandably frustrating, but as you have had a successful time before that, it will pass & all it takes is a couple of good punts & you will be back in the flow again. I would choose your next punt with someone you have seen before & know that they are reliable, or someone well reviewed on here.


Offline Bud$

I agree with that view. Out of the 22 punts I had this year, only 7 were arranged in advance (those 7 were on the whole positive punts). There were a couple of others that I booked in advance but never went ahead, either due to last-minute cancellation or the lady's failure to contact me. I then turned to Plan B. Last year, all but three of my punts were arranged on the day
"e-mails or texts that become long winded flirts/grovelling just in the hope that the lady gets back you with a positive response or feel assured your booking. With a few escorts, arranging a punt is basically exchanging love letters over a period of weeks or months. Punting should not be that at all. All it does is create mental baggage...... punting is a Simple Hobby" "I imagine some punters do this" (sic)
 

Offline Bud$

What you say, above post, is fair enough, Sonny. I can't 'imagine' many punters or girls exchanging lovey dovey emails with each other, but as you say, you only imagine it as well. There's quite a few 'shoulds' in your OP - that's ok for you as it's how you see your experience of punting. You're quite 'scientific' in your approach to the hobby, having kept a record of the numbers of times you've punted this year, how many were arranged in advance, on the day, on the hoof etc. and obviously that's your way of doing it. For me, though, it might make the hobby too cut and dried, might take away from the fun, the unexpected, the thrill. I'm not so sure, either, if it's a simple hobby, or if it's a hobby at all. What is a 'hobby'? Is punting a life style, a pastime, a need, a desire, an addiction? I think that probably it's all of these or some of them or different ones at different times in our lives. Maybe it 'should' be simple or straightforward anyway, although it does involve an interaction between 2, or more sometimes, human beings and that's never simple.

What you say, above post, is fair enough, Sonny. I can't 'imagine' many punters or girls exchanging lovey dovey emails with each other, but as you say, you only imagine it as well. There's quite a few 'shoulds' in your OP - that's ok for you as it's how you see your experience of punting. You're quite 'scientific' in your approach to the hobby, having kept a record of the numbers of times you've punted this year, how many were arranged in advance, on the day, on the hoof etc. and obviously that's your way of doing it. For me, though, it might make the hobby too cut and dried, might take away from the fun, the unexpected, the thrill. I'm not so sure, either, if it's a simple hobby, or if it's a hobby at all. What is a 'hobby'? Is punting a life style, a pastime, a need, a desire, an addiction? I think that probably it's all of these or some of them or different ones at different times in our lives. Maybe it 'should' be simple or straightforward anyway, although it does involve an interaction between 2, or more sometimes, human beings and that's never simple.
Some good points, I agree about the use of the word "hobby" to describe punting, I don't think that's really accurate and it actually makes me cringe a little,
I think it is more of an addiction though thankfully for  most a reasonably mild one that doesn't take over your life

Offline Sonny Crockett

I wrote what I wrote based on my own recent experiences (as well as my experiences last year and earlier this year) and also what has happened recently elsewhere.

When I contacted ladies to arrange my meets, either on the day or in advance, I've always stuck to keeping my e-mail/text/phone call short and business like. That includes the advance bookings I made which were cancelled last minute or where the lady never contacted me on the day to give their location details. After the lady agreed to see me and I made a subsequent booking request, which was then acknowledged by her, I never contacted the lady again until the morning of the meet where I tell them that I am coming to see them and ask for their location details. Once a booking request is acknowledged, I don't see a point in making any further contact with the lady beforehand, unless I had to cancel.

If or when I do return to punting, I will continue to contact ladies in that fashion.

I guess that the opening post I made here is more or less an offshoot of my other post regarding my observations about booking on the day and booking in advance.
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Offline smiths

I mean all it should really consist of is contacting the lady to see if they are available for the date and time you want to see them, and which services you would like (I myself only ask for anal (as I really love anal) as I appreciate the lady has to prepare in advance). They say yes or no. If yes booking is arranged, confirmed and location details given (If there's no answer or lady answers no, move on). You travel to the punt, you see the lady, you pay her the right amount, you have great sex, and you leave as Happy as Larry and continue with your normal life.  :yahoo:

However what punting should not be is a science, or feel like a career of sorts where getting a meet is like going for a job interview where you write Lovey Dovey e-mails and worry about obtaining feedback from other escorts just so that you can see more escorts. It should also not be a hobby where you are messed around at certain times and worry about whether you want be seen by the lady and then go on and send more e-mails or texts that become long winded flirts/grovelling just in the hope that the lady gets back you with a positive response or feel assured your booking. With a few escorts, arranging a punt is basically exchanging love letters over a period of weeks or months. Punting should not be that at all. All it does is create mental baggage and set you up for disappointments when things don't go positively.  :thumbsdown:

With it being a simple contact, meet and pay arrangement - with a hopefully positive outcome - then punting is a Simple Hobby which becomes a Fantastic Hobby!!  :yahoo: :dance:

Obviously different punters operate differently and that will always be the case. I only ring WGs and never get involved in phone or text ping pong as it doesn't interest me in the slightest. Enquire, book, confirm, call when their, punt and fuck off, that's the usual for me. I don't mistake punting for dating.

Offline Bud$

Some good points, I agree about the use of the word "hobby" to describe punting, I don't think that's really accurate and it actually makes me cringe a little,
I think it is more of an addiction though thankfully for  most a reasonably mild one that doesn't take over your life
Thank you for that. I suppose the 'cringe' word describes how I see it as well, or perhaps inappropriate anyway. A hobby would imply some relatively harmless pastime, although it could involve an element of danger; rock climbing, skiing etc. Punting is possibly illegal (I'm never quite sure of this though), risky - STI's, money-sapping (usually) and, for some at least, immoral; if it involves lying to a partner (I just don't feel like having sex anymore!) or your children, about where you've been, what you've been doing and why you've not got enough money. These are not usually the case if your hobby is going to watch Arsenal or keeping snakes, although these could get expensive as well.
« Last Edit: November 06, 2015, 03:07:18 PM by Bud$ »

Thank you for that. I suppose the 'cringe' word describes how I see it as well, or perhaps inappropriate anyway. A hobby would imply some relatively harmless pastime, although it could involve an element of danger; rock climbing, skiing etc. Punting is possibly illegal (I'm never quite sure of this though), risky - STI's, money-sapping (usually) and, for some at least, immoral; if it involves lying to a partner (I just don't feel like having sex anymore!) or your children, about where you've been, what you've been doing and why you've not got enough money. These are not usually the case if your hobby is going to watch Arsenal or keeping snakes, although these could get expensive as well.
The word hobby sounds so dated, stamp collecting or fishing are good examples of hobbies, not imo nailing whores  :D

The word hobby sounds so dated, stamp collecting or fishing are good examples of hobbies, not imo nailing whores  :D

I consider punting to be a hobby. What would you call it?

I consider punting to be a hobby. What would you call it?
An addiction


Offline smiths

Thank you for that. I suppose the 'cringe' word describes how I see it as well, or perhaps inappropriate anyway. A hobby would imply some relatively harmless pastime, although it could involve an element of danger; rock climbing, skiing etc. Punting is possibly illegal (I'm never quite sure of this though), risky - STI's, money-sapping (usually) and, for some at least, immoral; if it involves lying to a partner (I just don't feel like having sex anymore!) or your children, about where you've been, what you've been doing and why you've not got enough money. These are not usually the case if your hobby is going to watch Arsenal or keeping snakes, although these could get expensive as well.

Punting here isn't illegal off/street unless you punt with an underage and/or coerced WG. Punting to me is a pastime, what others view it as is of course up to them.

A lifestyle I call it
I can see that more than calling it a hobby, for me some of us punters are mildly addicted to punting while some as we have seen on here are obsessed

What is consistent is everyone seems to get a buzz from punting and is looking forward to their next punt, hence my reasoning for calling it an addiction  :hi:

I can see that more than calling it a hobby, for me some of us punters are mildly addicted to punting while some as we have seen on here are obsessed

What is consistent is everyone seems to get a buzz from punting and is looking forward to their next punt, hence my reasoning for calling it an addiction  :hi:
Having been an addict before, not classic addiction signs In mine, never got in to debt or any underhand shit addicts do.

Having been an addict before, not classic addiction signs In mine, never got in to debt or any underhand shit addicts do.
To be fair neither have I, maybe a habit rather than addiction then


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