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Offline north_east_lad

I can have either as I live on my own, yip the price goes up a bit but at least you can have a drink to calm the nerves
so which 1 do you lot go for and why, do you wish you could choose the other

Offline maxxblue

Why do you want to calm the nerves with a drink? Try to see the 'nerves' as excitement, and enjoy them.

Offline AnthG

why, do you wish you could choose the other

I think the main potential benefit of an outcall. Which I have never tested this so it may be worth someone who does outcalls regularly to confirm this would ever occur or not.

But if you book an outcall for a girl for the end of her shift, so you are the last person she is set to see, she may possibly stay over for free for sometime after.

There is obviously the flipside to this of the girl may want to do this, when you just want her to go home at the end of the booking.

That is the only potential benefit of outcalls I can think of. Everything else is negatives.
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Offline north_east_lad

good point anth never thought about trying to get rid of her if over stays (laughing at that), and as for a drink, well im not the most chattiest person in the world, wouldn't be more than 1 drink, don't want to keep going for a pee every 5 mins lol

Quesadilla

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Done more outcalls than incalls now by a long chalk and much prefer them to incalls.

Pros:
Out call only girls tend to be part timers - they have not committed to escorting so haven't bothered to arrange an incall location.
Part timers in my experience are more likely to be fresh and enthusiastic, not jaded.
By dint of being part time you will often be their only client on a given day.
Most of my out call regs come to me straight from their day job so no sloppy seconds.
Being their only client of the day often means no time pressure at the end - can lead to longer sessions. 2 hrs can become 3 hrs, or become overnights. An overnight can become a weekend.  ;)
It's your place so you will feel more relaxed and at home. You can drive the action - fuck in every room in the house, on every piece of furniture. Always brings back memories after.  :D
No panic for you trying to find the place. No concerns about the neighbourhood.  No chance of being late. No chance of running into the last punter leaving or the next one arriving.
If you are pressed for time outcalls are much better as you cut out the travel time.

Cons
I'd find it harder to kick someone out than walk if she's not as advertised.
Nosy neighbours may notice. If you care you shouldn't do outcalls. Personally I don't.
If it's a girl you've not met before you are giving her your home address. Very rarely you can run into a thief / skank as per my avatar who will try and rip you off / threaten to out you or worse.  Best practise would be to only see girls who are well reviewed here by punters you trust or someone you've met on an incall first.
Off her own turf an escort may be less relaxed and not give her best performance. That said my experience is the majority don't have a problem.

For me the pros greatly outweigh the cons but everyone is different.

The fishman 2014

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Anyone else see this as suspicious? I feel like I've been stopped in the street for some survey. I wonder if it's a wg trying to do her homework so she knows what people want. Thoughts?

Offline north_east_lad

sorry to disappoint u fishman ive got to laugh at you for even thinking that , and no im not even going to get into a discussion if that's what you think then fine

so now you cant even ask for other peoples opinions

Offline jonjo29

I like the bit of nerves going to outcall. I always feel easier as I can always walk if things don't turn out to be what they are.
If I have been to 2or3 incalls and get to know the girl better then I prefer to have her as outcall.

Offline AgedCases

Is it safer to book girls from an agency for outcalls?

I live with my parents so when they go on holiday, I'd like to indulge. But they don't deserve to be on the end of any comebacks should things go wrong.

Offline Mansell

Quesadilla made some really good points. As there is zero chance of using home for obvious reason does anyone know any hotels that offer short bookings or is it always an overnight ? Never done one but there are some cracking girls both with Agencies and also on AW who only offer Outcalls.

/scotty/

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Is it safer to book girls from an agency for outcalls?

I live with my parents so when they go on holiday, I'd like to indulge. But they don't deserve to be on the end of any comebacks should things go wrong.

Just remember to really think this one through as it can come back to bite you.  I live with my parents (Well while im home from uni anyway) and i thought about this since my parents are going away soon, but i thought against it as i have no idea what neighbors will say and how to respond if asked

Offline Mansell

Just remember to really think this one through as it can come back to bite you.  I live with my parents (Well while im home from uni anyway) and i thought about this since my parents are going away soon, but i thought against it as i have no idea what neighbors will say and how to respond if asked

Can you not just say it was a friend from uni or school ?

/scotty/

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Alot of the people i got to know from uni are from the south of england not the north but i suppose i could pass it off as a visit before they left to go home for summer, never thought of that. I think then if i were to do it then i would definently choose an agency over indie just for the fact its my parents house and not mine so i'd have less chance of a backlash
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Offline Gothic D

Quesadilla made some really good points. As there is zero chance of using home for obvious reason does anyone know any hotels that offer short bookings or is it always an overnight ? Never done one but there are some cracking girls both with Agencies and also on AW who only offer Outcalls.
I know that the Surtees on Dean st gets used a bit and also Sleepers.A WG friend often gives reduced rates if she can have the room after.It can work out very beneficial for both parties.

Am I allowed to mention the hotels?

Offline AgedCases

Just remember to really think this one through as it can come back to bite you.  I live with my parents (Well while im home from uni anyway) and i thought about this since my parents are going away soon, but i thought against it as i have no idea what neighbors will say and how to respond if asked

It's not what the neighbours think that concerns me. It's things like theft and unwelcome knocks on the door (or even chest-sitters!) that worry me.

Offline Gothic D

It's not what the neighbours think that concerns me. It's things like theft and unwelcome knocks on the door (or even chest-sitters!) that worry me.

Surely though you would only do it with a tried and trusted regular wouldn't you?
I would love to be able to have outcalls.Free reign to do whatever you wanted in any room sounds fantastic.

/scotty/

  • Guest
It's not what the neighbours think that concerns me. It's things like theft and unwelcome knocks on the door (or even chest-sitters!) that worry me.

Yeah thats why i would personally choose a agency like i said in my last post, agencies are probably less likely to have a girl which something like that can happen. And you can always see if the girl from the agency is reviewed on here which can add even more comfort, but i suppose as Quesadilla pointed out in some of the cons that its still a stranger coming to your house.

Quesadilla

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It's not what the neighbours think that concerns me. It's things like theft and unwelcome knocks on the door (or even chest-sitters!) that worry me.

So far in my outcalls with 15 different girls I've only had one that gave me any cause for concern and that one was a TOFTT.  I've had two TOFTT's that were absolutely fine, the rest had been well reviewed on here.  The one "bad apple" did threaten to send some "dangerous people" round but nothing materialised. Certainly wouldn't put me off outcalls at all but I would definitely think hard before TOFTT on an outcall again. 

Offline AnthG

Being their only client of the day often means no time pressure at the end - can lead to longer sessions. 2 hrs can become 3 hrs, or become overnights. An overnight can become a weekend.  ;)

How often has this happened for you. And has it been with anyone who is also known for also offering incalls who has done it?

It does seem to be the ultimate test to see if you are not offputting to be around if the girl stays over after the paid for time.

does anyone know any hotels that offer short bookings or is it always an overnight ?

Denyason last year made a good argument towards using the White Hotel in Osbourne road. Looking that the rates today it is very cheap as you can get a double en-suite room for £35 for the night. Its more expensive for weekends, but you could in that instance use the likes of Laterooms to get a dicsount on the day itself you wanted to book. Its also a three star hotel which is better than most travellodges in the area (which are generally two star hotels)

The White hotel Jesmond on Osborne road is very cheap.  Parking in rear is free and entrance from rear bypasses reception to rooms.  Saw Frankie May there last month, saw no one up to her room on top floor via the backdoor which for me was superb and the same when i left.  believe the rooms are very cheap too.  I have my reservations before i went but it turned out to be an ideal hotel tbh.  Rooms reasonably quiet and sound proof with en suite and fairly nice.  Obviously plenty of places to eat, drink etc....
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Offline AgedCases

Surely though you would only do it with a tried and trusted regular wouldn't you?
I would love to be able to have outcalls.Free reign to do whatever you wanted in any room sounds fantastic.

Oh yes, I'd only do it with an agency girl who gets well reviewed here.

The only reason I'm considering outcalls is because I live in Middlesbrough and all the top totty appears to be in Newcastle. It cuts out all the getting on a train, following directions, finding her place, etc.

The fishman 2014

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sorry to disappoint u fishman ive got to laugh at you for even thinking that , and no im not even going to get into a discussion if that's what you think then fine

so now you cant even ask for other peoples opinions
Erm how does this stop me asking anyone's opinions?

Offline Fragilehand

for me puntings 100% separate from personal life something you can do enjoy and forget and get on with it. If its a out call then you will be reminded what you have done who with etc so for me its a no no and the wife would probably agree its a no  :timeout:

Offline Fragilehand

I ment inviting a wg to your house is a no

sentinel

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Having sampled both outcalls and incalls I have to say that for me outcalls are much more my favoured option.

I'm lucky in that I live on my own in a relatively quiet area with no busy body neighbours.

Close the blinds, unplug the doorbell, phone in silent mode, put some relaxing music on and bob's your uncle.

Marmite

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Outcalls infinitely preferable, its far nicer to be in control of you immediate environment.

Quesadilla

  • Guest
Being their only client of the day often means no time pressure at the end - can lead to longer sessions. 2 hrs can become 3 hrs, or become overnights. An overnight can become a weekend.  ;)
How often has this happened for you. And has it been with anyone who is also known for also offering incalls who has done it?

It does seem to be the ultimate test to see if you are not offputting to be around if the girl stays over after the paid for time.
The girl hanging around unpaid has happened a lot - I've grabbed dinner after fucking with a few regs and we've taken turns buying. 

A 2 hr session becoming more like 3 hrs of shagging has happened a fair few times (2 hrs becoming over 4 hours twice).  A 2 hr session turning into an overnight has only happened a small handful of times.  An overnight that turned into a weekend happened just once but I've since had multiple weekends at that lady's 3 hr rate as it was so much fun for both of us.  Although I have covered travel / eating / drinking expenses most times - but not all.

Most of these have been part timers and mainly outcall only girls but not all.  One was primarily offering incalls at the time but no longer bothers to keep an incall location.  A girl with a permanent incall location has additional overheads that make it less likely she will engage in unpaid time with a punter no matter how much she may like them.