OK, what will follow here is a review of a Dom/sub session with all that it entails.
Some may think it overly fluffy or floral in places, and quite graphic in others. That is simply the nature of sub/Dom play, nothing more so please don't think I'm trying to write this in the manner of Byron or Shelley on indeed De Sade. BDSM has a great many sides to it. Hopefully this review will be helpful to those with an enquiring and open mind.
So as if anyone didn't know, here's Lindsey...https://www.adultwork.com/Lindsey%5Fxxxhttps://www.adultwork.com/2811799
I am not a bandwagon jumper, but occasionally there is a girl I hear of who has become very popular very quickly and who suits my own dominant nature so well that I simply have to book her. Lindsey had been described in earlier reviews as tall, slender, English, pale, pretty and most importantly, submissive. Oddly, what hadn't been mentioned in the reviews was her gorgeous curves from waist to hip to thigh. She's not got a Beyoncé body and nor would I want it from her, but her subtle,
tapering curves are truly beautiful.
But the thing that sets her apart for me is that she is a libertine in the truest most unabashed and hedonistic dissolute sense of the word, and they are rare. I am one myself and once I find similar girls and if we click, I try to make them regulars.
So as a practiced and natural dominant I simply had to investigate further and made contact just before things swamped her a little, setting up a 2.5 hour booking at her pervious rate of £300, which has since gone up due to demand. We eventually extended by another hour.
Now, being a dominant partner, I know how to handle submissive girls very well. Quite far in advance I called Lindsey and talked through very calmly and frankly what I was about to which she said she'd love to see me. We spoke a couple of more brief times and had a good long chat a week prior. We also kept in close contact via whatsapp, swapping ideas, general chat and the like.
She soon said that she felt very comfortable with me and was looking forward to it. A good dom makes every effort to ensure his sub's safety and comfort. I'd recommend that this is the only approach to make.
I get the feeling that Lindsey gets a lot of aspiring doms which is fine, but when subs are not commanded at every point of their play, they tend to become frustrated, disorientated and unruly, which the novice Dom lacks the requisite skill to control or correct. One of Lindsey's final messages to me was how much she was looking forward to meeting a competent Dom.
So, on the day we meet nearby for a drink. We chat, flirt and tease. Lindsey seems beautifully demure. Just my favourite type of submissive. She looks exactly like the description in her reviews, a natural beauty. Really quite beguiling. She teases and I tell her that she'll regret it later.
We leave the pub and begin the short walk to the hotel. We take each other's hands and chat like a couple. However I spot a opportunity for a quick detour and lead her into a little mews off the road.
Now, this may sound freaky, but if you are a submissive girl reading this, you will doubtless have a very different and quite a positive reaction.
Many sub girls have said to me that they can look into my eyes at play and see when I switch from gentleman to demon. They have said that there is an almost imperceptible flicker or flash in my eyes and they can see the demon arrive in me. Lindsey said she saw it in that moment. We kissed, bit each other's lips sucked on our tongues, I pulled her hair back to raise her face to mine and held her throat firmly I commanded her to turn around, raised her dress, my fingers were inside her tiny g-string, seeking out her pussy, and then I administered a number of spanks for her insolence in the pub. Our eyes met as we turned to leave and I knew she was what she'd said. A submissive who not only understands a dominant at play, but completes that union of yin and yang. As soon as we had ducked into the mews we were gone and on our way as people passed by within yards of us.
We ascended in the lift to the room and continued our play, me removing her g-string in the corridor.
In the room I began with more correction. I instructed her that she needed my permission to cum and that I would correct lapses of poise and discipline mercilessly. I instructed her to stand facing the mirror on her tip toes, legs apart and arms crossed behind her back, whilst I teased her then tortured her with her doxy. If she fell forward onto the mirror, she was corrected with a harsh stroke of hand or riding crop. If she failed to keep on her toes and retain her poise, she was similarly corrected. If she breached etiquette, she was again corrected.
The strength of the spanks or implement used depended upon the degree of transgression, but by the time I moved her to the bed, the poor little lamb was trembling with a need to climax, which I continued to deny her in the cruelest fashion. However, it this point she needed praise and a fleeting bit of love, so I gently rubbed her scarlet little buttocks with ice and offered her soothing words, before we commenced with some Shibari rope play.
When nicely tied, hands behind her waist, tethered to the bed facing forward, I continued in my denying her orgasm, alternating between praise "clever girl. That's my clever girl!" To cruel "that is not how you present yourself to your master! (Spank) raise your buttocks and show me how much you desire me! (Spank) higher! Come on, you were doing so well. How come you are looking lazy now!? (Spank)"
Throughout I demanded that her poise remained perfect with her toes beautifully pointed to the sky. I used a pinwheel on her thighs, buttocks, feet and arms and rather more gently on her outer labia, all which drew gasps of surprise and delight from her as she jumped and twitched in response. "Come on! Point your toes!" I demanded, running the pinwheel over her instep, "I can't! It's too sensitive!" She responded. "I don't care! I snapped, applying greater pressure. All the time I continued to torture her with her doxy.
I am an extraordinarily patient Dom and can keep my sub in this state of arousal, desire, frustration and submission for quite some time. It had been approaching three quarters of an hour when I drove my cock into her as she lay trussed on the bed. The sex was animalistic with me driving into her fiercely from behind, but with passion and the true love for a sub that a dominant possesses. She was absolutely helpless, and looked into my eyes as we fucked, and you know what? I saw that she'd now truly switched to from demure young english rose to a submissive dissolute who gives herself to her master for his pleasure.
If you have not done Dom/sub play before you'll think this is bullshit, but It happens. We kissed, bit, sucked, licked as we fucked, her hair balled up in my fists, she pushed herself back onto me and met my thrusts, before I commanded her to take me in her mouth and swallow my sperm that she deserves and had earned, because despite my continued correction, she behaved really excellently, but I'd never tell her that at that stage. Her deep throat skills are simply out of this world.
After she had satisfied me, we continued in the orgasm denial with me keeping her on the brink for longer. Eventually she sought my permission to cum. I had denied her for so long that I granted it. Maybe I'm going soft in my old age, but I genuinely though that after over an hour of denial, she had earned it and she had a beautifully explosive orgasm and collapsed into my arms with tender kisses and touches.
So during the rest of the session, we fucked twice more, I came in her mouth once more, she came again - calling me mean and cruel for denying her earlier, I have her reverse oral, rimming both ways, etc, etc... All the usual stuff.
But to me the thing about this booking was always going to be the sub play. Recently I've seen a few aspiring subs in my private life and whilst not quite as frustrating as a sub seeing an aspiring Dom, it still lacks the natural intensity of a true submissive. Lindsey and I were gentle and tender with each other after I'd dominated. True submissives thrive in the love the get in response to their submission. I was careful to praise her afterwards and tell her that she was a clever, talented girl, which she responded to.
This was also something of a tester session and I was at about a 5 out of 10 in terms of domming her. Next time I'll push it and incorporate other stuff I now know she loves. Afterwards I took time to show her how I'd tied her and she expressed great admiration for the intricacy and symmetry of knots. The rope indentations were still there as we left. Very sexy! I took a couple of photos for her personal collection and sent them to her.
We eventually showered, dressed and left hand in hand. She went back to teasing me and we kissed goodbye. She was off that evening to a duo with my other special girl Miss KDD, so God only knows how she felt after that evening!
Yes, she is beautifully, delicately submissive and I had a great time. We'll see each other again for sure.