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ram2184

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Upon reading a post here i was wondering does it make sense to pay for companionship vs paying for sex? Companionship means paying the girl to go out with you to the movies, theatre and dinner. paying her to talk to you like you mean something to her knowing she does not even know you real name nor she is interested. Paying her to eat her food and paying her food as well? would you pay a girl say 300 pounds for 2 hours just to have a companion for dinner?

an important question could punting cause you to be isolated from the real world and lose touch with reality until you monetized everything even to the extend of paying for basic human needs. it does make me feel sad to think about it 

this has been lingering in my head for a few days and it makes me question could I probably in the future end up paying for companionship as extras?


Stealthshagger

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Mostly you don't pay wgs for sex. You pay them to leave, and for it to be when you want and what you want without all the extra things around it. You certainly don't pay for companionship.


Don't pay for companionship. Why would you?

LL

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Don't pay for companionship. Why would you?
If you were lonely and couldn't find companionship without having to pay.

Stealthshagger

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Get out more? I don't see why anyone would have to pay?

Offline Blackpool Rock

Personally i'm paying for sex and once i've cum pretty much lose interest in the girl, have thought about doing an overnight a few times and having a night out or away day but if the cost is say £800 for a 10 or 12 hour booking I have to compare that to having 10 or 12 half hour punts.
I'd probably still only cum 2 or 3 times in an overnight so bit of a waste of money to pay the girl to sleep

Offline cueball

I'm with Blackpool on the overnight thing, can't really justify paying a prossie to sleep. I suppose if I were mega wealthy and 800 quid felt like 80 quid does now then it might be different.

I too pay for the sex, I don't mind a bit of chat and banter after but not before, I prefer to get stuck in straight away to be honest.

I'm definitely not paying for the companionship, if that's the case I'll take up line dancing.

Siadwel

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What's 'lonely'?

I do everything on my own, apart from visiting my family and when I'm out on a punt, then it's me and her or them (when I can afford a duo).

After a lifetime of being part of M&D&3xKids, it's really good to do what I want when I want, how I want.

I did think of a dinner date with a few girls who advertised such a while back, but I had a word with myself and it soon passed.

Online OakTree

Sex only. If I wanted companionship I'd join an art class or something like that. Over nighters are something I would never consider, just plain barmy in my eyes but horses for courses. If it's companionship you're after visiting prostitutes is a very expensive way of getting it.

Redhead Lover

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I pay to see a hot girl dressed like a slut, so I can cop a feel of her tits and ass, put my cock in her holes and cum all over her face.

Happy International Women's Day, everyone!

Offline adindas

- A true punter does not pay for a companionship, but he will pay for sex. I am a true punter so I do not pay for companionship  .....

- A person who want to sex with an attractive stunning younger girl of his age but do not want to pay is the one who try to become a master as Pickup artist. Unless you are a celebrity, well known politician with powers, I doubt many will success

- If you are looking for companionship then look for a social club ....

squeezebox

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Paying for sex...However, it could be viewed "companionship" leading up to sex, is extended foreplay.

Have a meal/go to pub, bit of groping to and from the table, in the lift, in the car/taxi, all builds up to a full on fuckfest that usually overruns when you're back in the hotel/serviced appartment.  :drinks:

Offline iPad3

I pay to see a hot girl dressed like a slut, so I can cop a feel of her tits and ass, put my cock in her holes and cum all over her face.

Happy International Women's Day, everyone!

Couldn't put it better, I like a bit of banter and to get on with the girls I see but I've no misconceptions. I understand that they wouldn't be there if I hadn't put the money on the table and wouldn't want it any other way. I pay to fuck them, if I wanted a cup of tea and a chat Id go elsewhere.

Offline flybynightpm

For me, a WG is purely for sex, but I don't think its uncommon for girls to have regulars that they never have sex with and are there just for companionship.. I don't understand it but heh.. if your have the money and are happy, fill your boots.. Is it sustainable in the long run or 'normal', plenty of folks use their money to buy friends but its not something I see as normal..



Offline smiths

Upon reading a post here i was wondering does it make sense to pay for companionship vs paying for sex? Companionship means paying the girl to go out with you to the movies, theatre and dinner. paying her to talk to you like you mean something to her knowing she does not even know you real name nor she is interested. Paying her to eat her food and paying her food as well? would you pay a girl say 300 pounds for 2 hours just to have a companion for dinner?

an important question could punting cause you to be isolated from the real world and lose touch with reality until you monetized everything even to the extend of paying for basic human needs. it does make me feel sad to think about it 

this has been lingering in my head for a few days and it makes me question could I probably in the future end up paying for companionship as extras?

I punt for sex only and wouldn't pay for a WGs social time though have had lunch and dinner off the clock with some WGs on occasion where I have paid, she has or we have gone dutch.


Siadwel

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Does an overnighter include her cooking breakfast?

That's the bit I find a bit wearing, no one to cook breakfast for me.

Offline flybynightpm

Is that the full gfe experience ? Why stop there.... get the hoover out...

spkmstr48

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Sex.

Of course other things are worth doing, just to tick them off the list. I did an overnight years ago, which included social time at a party.

Still on the list (cos I can't afford it) is take a WG on a holiday for a week or so...

I like the idea of having a scantily clad WG at my beck and call, day and night. Of course she'd have to be gorgeous and dressed like a slut so everyone looked at her.

I'm fantasizing now, aren't I? Best shut up...

spkmstr48

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Back on topic.

I generally prefer my own company, too little of it as a rule.

Paying a WG for companionship is an expensive way of doing this, join an evening class.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Get out more? I don't see why anyone would have to pay?

If you are 60 years old and you prefer the company of a 20 year old you do have to pay ------------- unless your name is Ronnie Wood, and even he will pay eventually.     :hi:

Offline Jamboney

I pay to have sex with a hot girl and the ability to walk away when I'm done knowing there will be no repercussions. If she's able to hold a conversation it's a bonus but my primary objective is to empty my ball bag.

Quesadilla

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As a single guy I enjoy both sex and companionship.  However, I only pay for the sex. 

If I enjoy an escorts company and it's obviously mutual then I'm always delighted to take her out off the clock; I always get a buzz being seen out and about with a young gorgeous lady on my arm - knowing I've either shagged her senseless before we came out, or am about to.  ;)

I often go out for dinner with one particular regular after a long session and we take turns paying.  I have had a few really nice evenings out with two other regulars for dinners or a show where I've paid for the meal/show but otherwise only paid their hourly rate for the sex.  Also have had over-nights and weekends away where I've just paid for the play time and expenses. 

Not entirely dissimilar to dating a civvy except I'm paying a premium for the privilege of dating someone much younger/hotter than I otherwise could, and of course the guarantee of a great shag; plus the added benefit of no aggro if I don't call her, send flowers, or remember her birthday! :drinks:



Offline pervlens

As I'm more of a parlour guy than independents. I'd say I mainly pay for the sex. But I do enjoy the company before and after we hit the room. I often like hanging out in my favourite parlour after I've done the deed.

Depending on the working girl I've found the ones I see to be really nice people who can hold conversation and have fun away from the sex.

Sylvester

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As a single guy I enjoy both sex and companionship.  However, I only pay for the sex. 

If I enjoy an escorts company and it's obviously mutual then I'm always delighted to take her out off the clock; I always get a buzz being seen out and about with a young gorgeous lady on my arm - knowing I've either shagged her senseless before we came out, or am about to.  ;)

I often go out for dinner with one particular regular after a long session and we take turns paying.  I have had a few really nice evenings out with two other regulars for dinners or a show where I've paid for the meal/show but otherwise only paid their hourly rate for the sex.  Also have had over-nights and weekends away where I've just paid for the play time and expenses. 

Not entirely dissimilar to dating a civvy except I'm paying a premium for the privilege of dating someone much younger/hotter than I otherwise could, and of course the guarantee of a great shag; plus the added benefit of no aggro if I don't call her, send flowers, or remember her birthday! :drinks:

Nicely put.  I would put myself squarely in this camp...

Offline fettish008

I pay for the sex.a bit of fun for an hour without having to be nice and pretend to have a girlfriend.

Offline Dani

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would you pay a girl say 300 pounds for 2 hours just to have a companion for dinner?


Most decent girls will have a much lower rate for social only time which is normally at most half their normal hourly rate

unclesweetheart

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As a single guy I enjoy both sex and companionship.  However, I only pay for the sex. 

If I enjoy an escorts company and it's obviously mutual then I'm always delighted to take her out off the clock; I always get a buzz being seen out and about with a young gorgeous lady on my arm - knowing I've either shagged her senseless before we came out, or am about to.  ;)

I often go out for dinner with one particular regular after a long session and we take turns paying.  I have had a few really nice evenings out with two other regulars for dinners or a show where I've paid for the meal/show but otherwise only paid their hourly rate for the sex.  Also have had over-nights and weekends away where I've just paid for the play time and expenses. 

Not entirely dissimilar to dating a civvy except I'm paying a premium for the privilege of dating someone much younger/hotter than I otherwise could, and of course the guarantee of a great shag; plus the added benefit of no aggro if I don't call her, send flowers, or remember her birthday! :drinks:

I like going out for a meal too. Sex comes before or after. Both equally pleasant. I usually pay for the meal but one girl insists on returning the favour, which is great. The regulars I tend to see want to talk about this world as much as I do, so "companionate" time feels natural and as much fun as the sex. It ain't called a GFE for nothing: and eating out is part of that.

Offline Boundless

Back on topic.

I generally prefer my own company, too little of it as a rule.

Paying a WG for companionship is an expensive way of doing this, join an evening class.

I love my own company, as you say, it's a precious commodity.

My old mum used to say - If you're bored with your own company, why inflict it on other people.

Quesadilla

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I like going out for a meal too. Sex comes before or after. Both equally pleasant. I usually pay for the meal but one girl insists on returning the favour, which is great. The regulars I tend to see want to talk about this world as much as I do, so "companionate" time feels natural and as much fun as the sex. It ain't called a GFE for nothing: and eating out is part of that.

Exactly - I enjoy the full GFE wherever possible.  Eating out / eating them out is all good.  :lol:


Tjkooker

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Upon reading a post here i was wondering does it make sense to pay for companionship vs paying for sex? Companionship means paying the girl to go out with you to the movies, theatre and dinner. paying her to talk to you like you mean something to her knowing she does not even know you real name nor she is interested. Paying her to eat her food and paying her food as well? would you pay a girl say 300 pounds for 2 hours just to have a companion for dinner?

an important question could punting cause you to be isolated from the real world and lose touch with reality until you monetized everything even to the extend of paying for basic human needs. it does make me feel sad to think about it 

this has been lingering in my head for a few days and it makes me question could I probably in the future end up paying for companionship as extras?

Are you a journo, writer or prossie?

greychap

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Both....but as this is a punting website most will be the other.

Offline Jeff_withpetersen

Definitely just the sex - I have a reasonably fulfilling social life so am lucky to never feel alone. These days I only do 30 minute punts because the last few 1 hour punts I've had, the main event is over within 30 minutes and then I spend (an expensive) 30 minutes pretty much bored - talking to someone who isn't interested in me about my fake persona and theirs.

 As others have said, there are plenty of ways of fulfilling a social need without punting, in my humble opinion, if that's what you feel is missing - even pulling up a chair at the bar of a pub and buying a couple of rounds would be way cheaper than a punt and possibly more socially fulfilling as well if you meet someone who genuinely does give a shit about you.

Stealthshagger

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If you are 60 years old and you prefer the company of a 20 year old you do have to pay ------------- unless your name is Ronnie Wood, and even he will pay eventually.     :hi:

But that is in a sexual dynamic, isn't it? If not, why not just hangout with people that age? You don't need to pay. Join a class or group, or tour or society and it happens. If it is sexual, we are back to my point.

Quesadilla

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Definitely just the sex - I have a reasonably fulfilling social life so am lucky to never feel alone. These days I only do 30 minute punts because the last few 1 hour punts I've had, the main event is over within 30 minutes and then I spend (an expensive) 30 minutes pretty much bored - talking to someone who isn't interested in me about my fake persona and theirs.

 As others have said, there are plenty of ways of fulfilling a social need without punting, in my humble opinion, if that's what you feel is missing - even pulling up a chair at the bar of a pub and buying a couple of rounds would be way cheaper than a punt and possibly more socially fulfilling as well if you meet someone who genuinely does give a shit about you.

There's quite a different social need fulfilled by spending time with a hot young lady as opposed to hairy arsed blokes who smell of beer. In day to day life I have plenty of the latter interactions, not many of the former.

Also I guess many punters are married which means they a) have plenty of social time with their wives / families and b) have to keep their punting very much on the down low hence fake personas which as you say rather hampers your conversation options with an escort.

I can honestly say I'm rarely if ever bored with an escort despite mainly having 2-3 hour punts - and obviously I'm not such a stud that that's 100% shagging time.  Having spent many evenings and several weekends with various regs we still find stuff to talk about. Go figure.  :unknown:

Offline Blackpool Rock

Is that the full gfe experience ? Why stop there.... get the hoover out...

Fuck me if i'm paying her to clean my house I'm not sure I can afford a whole week

Offline Blackpool Rock

I pay to see a hot girl dressed like a slut, so I can cop a feel of her tits and ass, put my cock in her holes and cum all over her face.

Happy International Women's Day, everyone!

Ha Ha yeah respect  :thumbsup:

Stealthshagger

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Fuck me if i'm paying her to clean my house I'm not sure I can afford a whole week

Go for the weak hole instead

Offline Blackpool Rock

I love my own company, as you say, it's a precious commodity.

My old mum used to say - If you're bored with your own company, why inflict it on other people.
Wise words indeed

Offline Malvolio

I pay for sex - as far as companionship goes, I find an evening in the pub with my mates does the trick.

bitsandbobs

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There are non-sex escorts out there and last year I used one from here:

External Link/Members Only

She was charming, fun and no clock watcher either so it worked out well.  Google will list other sites.

For me it is a bit of both, for sex will an hour booking only otherwise have done multiday bookings for companionship before.

spkmstr48

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Most decent girls will have a much lower rate for social only time which is normally at most half their normal hourly rate

As with all things, it's "different strokes for different folks"

For me it's sex at a time and place of my choosing, with a girl of my choosing.

I treasure time alone as it's a rare thing and planning what to do with it is important.

I understand that there are lonely people out there who need the companionship but even at half price wow that's expensive. Wouldn't they be better Joining an evening class?

Offline Jimmyredcab

Most decent girls will have a much lower rate for social only time which is normally at most half their normal hourly rate

Big Deal.       :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Take a pro$$ie who charges £120 an hour --------------------- @ £60 an hour a three hour dinner date would still cost £180.  :scare:

I would rather have a hot needle pushed down my Jap's eye.      :hi:

spkmstr48

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Apologies, I already said most of what's in my past post.

jimbobwood

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As with all things, it's "different strokes for different folks"

For me it's sex at a time and place of my choosing, with a girl of my choosing.

I treasure time alone as it's a rare thing and planning what to do with it is important.

I understand that there are lonely people out there who need the companionship but even at half price wow that's expensive. Wouldn't they be better Joining an evening class?

I'll tell you a few good options for free female companionship and a good chat:

1 Volunteer at a non-profit organisation loads of women not busy old/young who like to chat.
2. Charity work for cats and dogs trust!
3. Go to church, everyone talks to you in church. Midday sessions go to Jam sandwich and tea club.
4. Meetup groups, book clubs.
5. Go to Mecca bingo, loads of women.

See, no need to pay for female companionship.

I value my time alone too, so it's paid sex time for me and a few minutes chat between round 1/2.

Quesadilla

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I'll tell you a few good options for free female companionship and a good chat:

1 Volunteer at a non-profit organisation loads of women not busy old/young who like to chat.
2. Charity work for cats and dogs trust!
3. Go to church, everyone talks to you in church. Midday sessions go to Jam sandwich and tea club.
4. Meetup groups, book clubs.
5. Go to Mecca bingo, loads of women.

See, no need to pay for female companionship.

I value my time alone too, so it's paid sex time for me and a few minutes chat between round 1/2.

Really don't think you understand the concept of "companionship" in this context.  The fat ugly trollops who volunteer, go to church, go to bingo etc etc are no more interesting to spend time with than the fat hairy beer swilling blokes down the pub.  I have lots of people - male and female - I socialise with through various groups and through work. 

For me "female companionship" means something totally different - it means spending quality time with a very hot young lady that I fancy the pants off, can flirt with, and invariably of course also fuck.  I for one get a buzz from flirting with hot girls.  Yes of course it's not real flirting as I don't need to win them over to fuck them, just open my wallet, but for me it's still a great way to spend an evening every now and then. 

Also as I said if you genuinely click with a regular WG my experience is that some will certainly be happy to see you socially for free as long as you are still regularly paying for sex.  It's not something I ever came out and asked, just happened naturally so maybe it's just me and my amazing social skills - your mileage may vary.  :D

Offline CardiffCentral

Really don't think you understand the concept of "companionship" in this context.  The fat ugly trollops who volunteer, go to church, go to bingo etc etc are no more interesting to spend time with than the fat hairy beer swilling blokes down the pub.  I have lots of people - male and female - I socialise with through various groups and through work. 

For me "female companionship" means something totally different - it means spending quality time with a very hot young lady that I fancy the pants off, can flirt with, and invariably of course also fuck.  I for one get a buzz from flirting with hot girls.  Yes of course it's not real flirting as I don't need to win them over to fuck them, just open my wallet, but for me it's still a great way to spend an evening every now and then. 

Also as I said if you genuinely click with a regular WG my experience is that some will certainly be happy to see you socially for free as long as you are still regularly paying for sex.  It's not something I ever came out and asked, just happened naturally so maybe it's just me and my amazing social skills - your mileage may vary.  :D

You're wasting your breath.  People here are genuinely equating charity shop volunteers (yay, let's give up an entire weekend in the hope of clicking with someone attractive while standing around in a shop full of old things!), random pub people (because that's companionship right?) with sexily dressed, attractive dinner dates who are focused entirely on you.  It really is different strokes for different folks I guess. 

And you don't have to be a 'pick-up artist' to get some sort of buzz from feeling attractive.  The best times I've ever had with women began with her genuinely finding me sexy.  The thought that the lady you're with wants to spend time with you and wants to fuck your brains out (even if it's in fantasy land!) is not to be sniffed at. 

In fact most of what this site is about is whether or not the WG you're seeing actually feels enthusiastic about shagging you.  If you break down companionship in this context; mutual attraction, flirtation, sexual chemistry, ALL of those things are what makes an awesome session with an escort too.  The opposite is something we all loathe, someone who just lies there with their legs open. 

Anyway Adultwork isn't probably the best place for companionship, neither is that site Dukes of Daisy (although worth a browse!).  I found SeekingArrangement weirdly interesting.  The thought of having a couple of students 'on tap' for £500/month each for some may turn out to be cheaper than actual punting.  The companionship element being going out with them as well as shagging their brains out.  The £6000/month girls on there though are clearly deluded. 
« Last Edit: March 09, 2015, 01:26:11 am by CardiffCentral »

Stealthshagger

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Really don't think you understand the concept of "companionship" in this context.  The fat ugly trollops who volunteer, go to church, go to bingo etc etc are no more interesting to spend time with than the fat hairy beer swilling blokes down the pub.  I have lots of people - male and female - I socialise with through various groups and through work. 

For me "female companionship" means something totally different - it means spending quality time with a very hot young lady that I fancy the pants off, can flirt with, and invariably of course also fuck.  I for one get a buzz from flirting with hot girls.  Yes of course it's not real flirting as I don't need to win them over to fuck them, just open my wallet, but for me it's still a great way to spend an evening every now and then. 

Also as I said if you genuinely click with a regular WG my experience is that some will certainly be happy to see you socially for free as long as you are still regularly paying for sex.  It's not something I ever came out and asked, just happened naturally so maybe it's just me and my amazing social skills - your mileage may vary.  :D

Best titties I have ever seen belonged to a bible basher I met when I volunteered for something. A year of friendship later it turned out she had a crisis of faith and sucked dick like a champ. It's what Jesus would have wanted.

squeezebox

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I'll tell you a few good options for free female companionship and a good chat:

1 Volunteer at a non-profit organisation loads of women not busy old/young who like to chat.
2. Charity work for cats and dogs trust!
3. Go to church, everyone talks to you in church. Midday sessions go to Jam sandwich and tea club.
4. Meetup groups, book clubs.
5. Go to Mecca bingo, loads of women.

See, no need to pay for female companionship.

I value my time alone too, so it's paid sex time for me and a few minutes chat between round 1/2.

I'd add:   Nordic Walking      External Link/Members Only

Good fun and younger women enjoy doing it too.  (It was the last time I had civvie sex)  :thumbsup:

Quesadilla

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Best titties I have ever seen belonged to a bible basher I met when I volunteered for something. A year of friendship later it turned out she had a crisis of faith and sucked dick like a champ. It's what Jesus would have wanted.
The Lord works in mysterious ways and no mistake but personally I prefer my gratification to be a little more instant than a year!  :lol:

spkmstr48

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The Lord works in mysterious ways and no mistake but personally I prefer my gratification to be a little more instant than a year!  :lol:

Agreed but that's the beauty of punting, the sex and the companionship don't have to be with the same person.

Quesadilla

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Agreed but that's the beauty of punting, the sex and the companionship don't have to be with the same person.

For you maybe - for me that's not the point at all.  I have plenty of companionship from civvy women and from mates.  That's all good.  But I also enjoy the companionship of hot young women that I would not normally socialise with let alone be able to fuck.

With punting I can find women who are incredibly attractive (to me), have great sex with them, and if we get along also socialise with them.  To me that is the beauty of punting.  As you said yourself, diff'rent strokes and all that.  :hi: