do you pay for companionship or sex

[Jimmyredcab]

I'll tell you a few good options for free female companionship and a good chat:

1 Volunteer at a non-profit organisation loads of women not busy old/young who like to chat.
2. Charity work for cats and dogs trust!
3. Go to church, everyone talks to you in church. Midday sessions go to Jam sandwich and tea club.
4. Meetup groups, book clubs.
5. Go to Mecca bingo, loads of women.

See, no need to pay for female companionship.

I doubt that I would find 20 year old cuties in my local Mecca bingo hall.     

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[Stealthshagger]

I doubt that I would find 20 year old cuties in my local Mecca bingo hall.     

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They are always there until they see a red cab arrive. Apparently the driver is a grumpy so and so.

[unclesweetheart]

I found SeekingArrangement weirdly interesting.  The thought of having a couple of students 'on tap' for £500/month each for some may turn out to be cheaper than actual punting.  The companionship element being going out with them as well as shagging their brains out.  The £6000/month girls on there though are clearly deluded.

Could you provide a link? Sounds very interesting.

[unclesweetheart]

With punting I can find women who are incredibly attractive (to me), have great sex with them, and if we get along also socialise with them.  To me that is the beauty of punting. 

Exactly my view. The best sex happens between people who are relaxed with each other AND who are highly sexed. The best escorts, in my experience, share the latter characteristic with us punters, and - risking the cliche - are as much turned on by the guy's character/ personality as their looks. Just wish I'd learned this 30 years ago...

[spkmstr48]

Maybe I'm just a cynical Old Hector but I haven't really considered any of the WGs I've seen getting turned on by my looks or personality. Some are just better actors than others. I just struggle with the idea of building up a relationship with a WG, not sure I could believe in it and therefore, can't see that I'd get anything out of it.

I prefer the honesty of paying for sex. Probably why I almost never see the same girl twice.

Not saying that nobody ever builds up a relationship with a regular but it illustrates the point suggested by the OPs original question, we're not all in it for the same thing.

[Jimmyredcab]

Maybe I'm just a cynical Old Hector but I haven't really considered any of the WGs I've seen getting turned on by my looks or personality.

I have always assumed that when a pro$$ie first meets me she thinks     

That is why they earn more money than a brain surgeon.     

[west8]

I have always assumed that when a pro$$ie first meets me she thinks     

That is why they earn more money than a brain surgeon.     

 

[unclesweetheart]

Maybe I'm just a cynical Old Hector but I haven't really considered any of the WGs I've seen getting turned on by my looks or personality. Some are just better actors than others. I just struggle with the idea of building up a relationship with a WG, not sure I could believe in it and therefore, can't see that I'd get anything out of it.

I prefer the honesty of paying for sex. Probably why I almost never see the same girl twice.

Not saying that nobody ever builds up a relationship with a regular but it illustrates the point suggested by the OPs original question, we're not all in it for the same thing.

Well maybe I've struck lucky. Have been on 3 dinner dates (+ sex) with one regular, and they've been great. And if she didn't enjoy it, being a very popular girl, she could just turn them down. If you really are acting with someone for that stretch of time then I think the joins would show. And besides, I like shooting the breeze, laughing and chatting, with very attractive young women. I like seeing regulars because it gets more satisfying with every meet: for a start, I can talk more openly about things I can't talk to friends about, because I'm with someone who's involved in the same world as I am. It's different strokes for different folks, I guess. Sometimes you just want the sex, sometimes you want something more.

[Bikerboy]

Well maybe I've struck lucky. Have been on 3 dinner dates (+ sex) with one regular, and they've been great. And if she didn't enjoy it, being a very popular girl, she could just turn them down. If you really are acting with someone for that stretch of time then I think the joins would show. And besides, I like shooting the breeze, laughing and chatting, with very attractive young women. I like seeing regulars because it gets more satisfying with every meet: for a start, I can talk more openly about things I can't talk to friends about, because I'm with someone who's involved in the same world as I am. It's different strokes for different folks, I guess. Sometimes you just want the sex, sometimes you want something more.

+1

Totally agree with all your comments on this thread Unclesweetheart 

Given the brain is the most potent sex organ and it's a more fulfilling meeting if there is a mutual connection, I enjoy social time.

[west8]

I pay for sexual companionship.

Sex is generally somewhat more enjoyable when practised with a companion.

[squeezebox]

I doubt that I would find 20 year old cuties in my local Mecca bingo hall.     

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Have you been to Bingo recently?   

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[Toby]

Could you provide a link? Sounds very interesting.

Highlight "SeekingArrangement" in post.

Right click on it, and select Search Google For "SeekingArrangement".

[jimbobwood]

Have you been to Bingo recently?   

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Trust JRC to see the negative side of Bingo!

Fuck punting, I'm getting myself down the Mecca in Hayes on Friday night. Look at these young cuties!

What were you saying JRC??!!!

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[jimbobwood]

I'd add:   Nordic Walking      External Link/Members Only

Good fun and younger women enjoy doing it too.  (It was the last time I had civvie sex) 

Fantastic idea! 

It's weird shit like this that women love to do and most men ignore these activities.

[Steely Dan]

Highlight "SeekingArrangement" in post.

Right click on it, and select Search Google For "SeekingArrangement".

Do you have a link for this "Goggle" thing you mention?

[JV547845]

Very rarely there's a WG like Charlie or Sophie who I just had to meet.  But it was still mainly about the sex.  I've met some cracking people in doing so though, and sometimes it's possible to get to know them in a way you just can't experience through ordinary human contact with friends, family or colleagues.

[Aspen]

Fantastic idea! 

It's weird shit like this that women love to do and most men ignore these activities.

It would be funny if Nordic walking became synonymous with outdoor sex in the same way as dogging has.

[spkmstr48]

It would be funny if Nordic walking became synonymous with outdoor sex in the same way as dogging has.

How about German sunbathing? But Nordic walking is better.

Anymore suggestions?

[Blackpool Rock]

Best titties I have ever seen belonged to a bible basher I met when I volunteered for something. A year of friendship later it turned out she had a crisis of faith and sucked dick like a champ. It's what Jesus would have wanted.

When you shagged her did she scream "God i'm cumming" 

[ram2184]

I pay for sexual companionship.

Sex is generally somewhat more enjoyable when practised with a companion.

so you pay for sex.. sex for companionship i am referring to is when the guy PAYS for the girl SERVICE to eat DInner With Him. Of course he has to pay for her food as well. I think here what he pays is affection from a women.. paying for a women's artificial emotion..

basically he pays for a basic human emotion.. "to feel loved of a companian".. in this case a basic human emotion is monetized and is available for purchase 

[Quesadilla]

so you pay for sex.. sex for companionship i am referring to is when the guy PAYS for the girl SERVICE to eat DInner With Him. Of course he has to pay for her food as well. I think here what he pays is affection from a women.. paying for a women's artificial emotion..

basically he pays for a basic human emotion.. "to feel loved of a companian".. in this case a basic human emotion is monetized and is available for purchase 

Paying for dinner is one thing paying an escort to eat dinner is something entirely different. Not sure too many here would do that  - nor would many believe that they are buying love and affection if they did pay for "social time".  That's frankly a bit sad.

[west8]

so you pay for sex.. sex for companionship i am referring to is when the guy PAYS for the girl SERVICE to eat DInner With Him. Of course he has to pay for her food as well. I think here what he pays is affection from a women.. paying for a women's artificial emotion..

basically he pays for a basic human emotion.. "to feel loved of a companian".. in this case a basic human emotion is monetized and is available for purchase 

Some guys (myself included) prefer to take it slow and build up to the 'main event'. I see no harm in that. Yes, sometimes it's only about the sexual act, but other times it's a lot more interesting to spend time with a woman and simply enjoy one another's company as a prelude to the bedroom gymnastics.

I must admit I don't do 'dinner' often as I genuinely see little point unless the girl in question is very special indeed, but having done so on a few occasions it has actually ensured that the night started off as it ended - with fun, laughter and genuine appreciation on the part of the girl concerned.

[squeezebox]

Paying for dinner is one thing paying an escort to eat dinner is something entirely different. Not sure too many here would do that  - nor would many believe that they are buying love and affection if they did pay for "social time".  That's frankly a bit sad.

I would only do this with my regular who offers to go dutch, and at times pays for the dinner in full, a man has gotta eat.   

As I said earlier, it's a form of foreplay and sets things up nicely for later. 

For variation, we may go out for dinner, after a full on fuckfest, as this builds up an appetite and can then lead to extended time back in the bedroom afterwards.   

[smiths]

Paying for dinner is one thing paying an escort to eat dinner is something entirely different. Not sure too many here would do that  - nor would many believe that they are buying love and affection if they did pay for "social time".  That's frankly a bit sad.

Absolutely right, I have done the former but have never and will never do the latter.

[Jimmyredcab]

Paying for dinner is one thing paying an escort to eat dinner is something entirely different.

I have no problem at all in taking a pro$$ie for a meal -------------------- but no way in a zillion years would I pay her to eat it, anyone who does that must be extremely sad.     

[Jock-Scot]

Personally I'm paying for sex. I'm paying a girl for all the things (oral, anal, CIM etc) that I don't get at home from my wife!

[spkmstr48]

Personally I'm paying for sex. I'm paying a girl for all the things (oral, anal, CIM etc) that I don't get at home from my wife!

+1

[BillGoldberg]

I pay for great conversation
And to treat her well
And if she's really really special I'll convince her to increase her rates, because she's a gem

Anything else that happens between us will remain private, because I'm a gentleman, and she's a gem, with great conversation, and it's a date

Treat her well lads, (she's a gem)
And the £400/hr rate is perfectly justified, because she's so genuinely interesting, and I'm a professional gentleman, on a date

Did I say to treat her well ?

Her conversation is great

(She's a gem)

[Siadwel]

I pay for great conversation
And to treat her well
And if she's really really special I'll convince her to increase her rates, because she's a gem

Anything else that happens between us will remain private, because I'm a gentleman, and she's a gem, with great conversation, and it's a date

Treat her well lads, (she's a gem)
And the £400/hr rate is perfectly justified, because she's so genuinely interesting, and I'm a professional gentleman, on a date

Did I say to treat her well ?

Her conversation is great

(She's a gem)

Should we treat her well?

[smiths]

I pay for great conversation
And to treat her well
And if she's really really special I'll convince her to increase her rates, because she's a gem

Anything else that happens between us will remain private, because I'm a gentleman, and she's a gem, with great conversation, and it's a date

Treat her well lads, (she's a gem)
And the £400/hr rate is perfectly justified, because she's so genuinely interesting, and I'm a professional gentleman, on a date

Did I say to treat her well ?

Her conversation is great

(She's a gem)

Yeah right Bill.

[spkmstr48]

Should we treat her well?

I'm not sure, I don't think Bill said, maybe you should ask him again?

[hockogrockle]

I always thought the "companionship" stuff was there to try and camouflage the fact that it was actually a contract for sexual services.

[KingAlpha]

Paying for recreational sex only, and the anticipation around a particular punt. If you click with a WG and there's a bit of chemistry then so much the better, but on the rare occasion that happens I tend not to book again in case of blurred lines or EAS. So for me companionship is a definite no-go, and I don't have regulars.

[spkmstr48]

Paying for recreational sex only, and the anticipation around a particular punt. If you click with a WG and there's a bit of chemistry then so much the better, but on the rare occasion that happens I tend not to book again in case of blurred lines or EAS. So for me companionship is a definite no-go, and I don't have regulars.

 

+1,000,000

Unless she's a sub who needs proper training and discipline of course.

[squeezebox]

+1,000,000

Unless she's a sub who needs proper training and discipline of course.

...and there are lot more out there than I realised. (since fifty shades of grey has been published)
That includes civvie sex too.   

[Big Bad R]

Sex, filthy dirty acting like a slut. Doing all the things wife doesn't....... . In particular with a hot young girl who wouldnt give me a second glance in the street !

Not interested in talk or socialising with her, once I have cum I've had enough.

If I wanted companionship I would use a dating website 

[BillGoldberg]

I'm not sure, I don't think Bill said, maybe you should ask him again?

She's a gem
And the details shall remain private

...... But seriously
I pay, usually £150/hr, for hopefully very good, uninhibited sex and DFK with a sexually attractive, round assed wg who really knows what she's doing and doesn't try to get it all over and done with ASAP

Half decent conversation is a bonus, but that's not what I pay for
Really good sex with a skilled professional
That's what I pay for

[dc0582]

Sex, pure and simple. Variety is the spice of life and I don't want to risk the fallout of having an affair... At least the professionals are discrete usually.

[jcdmj12]

Convenience, and for them to leave. I have no desire for an emotional relationship, but every so often I have an itch that needs scratching. The ability to deal with that with a few phone calls, and then get on with  my life afterwards is worth the money to me. 

[Boundless]

Great expression that - you don't pay to fuck them, you pay for them to leave afterwards, so true!

[spkmstr48]

Great expression that - you don't pay to fuck them, you pay for them to leave afterwards, so true!

Yes of course, light bulb moment, we pay them to go home!

With age comes wisdom, but by then it's too late. If only I could be spending the money I'm spending on my family on punting, travel and beer.

[Sonny Crockett]

I solely go punting just for the sex... Nothing More!!!!!

If I wanted companionship, then I would do this in very different circumstances, mainly getting to know a female work colleague or a female friend of a friend and develop a relationship of sorts... This way it makes the companionship far more genuine!!!!!