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Offline Metalgear2018

I’m not sure if this is common. But I prefer OW and not kissing because as Im getting older I’m scared of catching an sti. I don’t like snogging. I would rather kiss the wg neck. During sex I always take it slow and not pound just in case the condom splits. I wash my hands thoroughly after sex.

When I was younger I used to be slightly risky. But now that I’m older I can’t risk it. I just don’t get the snogging part. I have never caught something but still cautious.

Offline alabama1

I’m not sure if this is common. But I prefer OW and not kissing because as Im getting older I’m scared of catching an sti. I don’t like snogging. I would rather kiss the wg neck. During sex I always take it slow and not pound just in case the condom splits. I wash my hands thoroughly after sex.

When I was younger I used to be slightly risky. But now that I’m older I can’t risk it. I just don’t get the snogging part. I have never caught something but still cautious.
I'd have thought you'd be less scared as you get older, as you are closer to meeting your maker anyway  :unknown:

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I'd have thought you'd be less scared as you get older, as you are closer to meeting your maker anyway  :unknown:

My thoughts too, not sure what age has to do with it?
« Last Edit: March 18, 2026, 11:23:23 pm by PilotMan »

Offline MaxVerstappen

I’m not sure if this is common. But I prefer OW and not kissing because as Im getting older I’m scared of catching an sti. I don’t like snogging. I would rather kiss the wg neck. During sex I always take it slow and not pound just in case the condom splits. I wash my hands thoroughly after sex.

When I was younger I used to be slightly risky. But now that I’m older I can’t risk it. I just don’t get the snogging part. I have never caught something but still cautious.

Maybe you would be better off with collecting stamps?! Less risky  :unknown:

Offline RandomGuy99

OP, this is all fine. Do what you're comfortable doing. OWO and kissing are not mandatory.

Do you.  :thumbsup:

Offline Thephoenix

I’m not sure if this is common. But I prefer OW and not kissing because as Im getting older I’m scared of catching an sti. I don’t like snogging. I would rather kiss the wg neck. During sex I always take it slow and not pound just in case the condom splits. I wash my hands thoroughly after sex.

When I was younger I used to be slightly risky. But now that I’m older I can’t risk it. I just don’t get the snogging part. I have never caught something but still cautious.

It doesn't matter if it's common chum.
Do what you enjoy and feel comfortable with.
Nothing wrong with being cautious.  :thumbsup:

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I thought your “heart wasn’t in the game anymore”?  Why would this be a problem or a worry if you’re stepping down, as it were, from punting?

Just another “attention seeking” post akin to the banal threads that a certain other ex-banned member can”t seem to stop himself from posting up?
 
 
 
 

« Last Edit: March 19, 2026, 12:13:17 am by Waterhouse »

Offline Chazz

Maybe you would be better off with collecting stamps?! Less risky  :unknown:
And when you lick the stamps, always use an oral dam.

Offline alabama1

I thought your “heart wasn’t in the game anymore”?  Why would this be a problem or a worry if you’re stepping down, as it were, from punting?

Just another “attention seeking” post akin to the banal threads that a certain other ex-banned member can”t seem to stop himself from posting up?
Ditto  :thumbsup:

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I thought your “heart wasn’t in the game anymore”?  Why would this be a problem or a worry if you’re stepping down, as it were, from punting?

Just another “attention seeking” post akin to the banal threads that a certain other ex-banned member can”t seem to stop himself from posting up?

+1 Yawn.

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Time to take up crochet or watching football.

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Your time, your money, just do what you want, no SP ever complained about having to do less. Don’t know how old you are but I have to say your recent posts make me think here is a man who thinks he is no longer attractive to the opposite sex and is conjuring up reasons to fight against his desires.

Offline Stevelondon

I’m far more worried about falling down the stairs on a bus nowadays.
It’s my own fault. I do like sitting at the front if possible and I’ve got a stick on steering wheel I carry in my backpack.

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I’m far more worried about falling down the stairs on a bus nowadays.
It’s my own fault. I do like sitting at the front if possible and I’ve got a stick on steering wheel I carry in my backpack.

Can you cope with the bus sometimes being left hand drive ?

Offline Colston36

I’m not sure if this is common. But I prefer OW and not kissing because as Im getting older I’m scared of catching an sti. I don’t like snogging. I would rather kiss the wg neck. During sex I always take it slow and not pound just in case the condom splits. I wash my hands thoroughly after sex.

When I was younger I used to be slightly risky. But now that I’m older I can’t risk it. I just don’t get the snogging part. I have never caught something but still cautious.

You have a mental problem. I am now 89. I have never used a condom. I've spent much of my life travelling the world and having sex in every possible position with women it would be polite to say are of easy virtue. I only caught the clap from a 17 year old receptionist over 60 years ago - and my doctor told me it was possible for her to have it without knowing it. The chance of catching something by kissing is incredibly remote. You only live once. Stop worrying about nothing.
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You have a mental problem. I am now 89. I have never used a condom. I've spent much of my life travelling the world and having sex in every possible position with women it would be polite to say are of easy virtue. I only caught the clap from a 17 year old receptionist over 60 years ago - and my doctor told me it was possible for her to have it without knowing it. The chance of catching something by kissing is incredibly remote. You only live once. Stop worrying about nothing.

I have had lots of paid sex over the years.

The only time I have caught something (crabs) was from a Civvy when I was in my early twenties. That was back in the days when girls never shaved as a matter of course, the era of the bush  :sarcastic:

I think the OP is attention seeking as others have said.

Offline JustaPunter

I’m not sure if this is common. But I prefer OW and not kissing because as Im getting older I’m scared of catching an sti. I don’t like snogging. I would rather kiss the wg neck. During sex I always take it slow and not pound just in case the condom splits. I wash my hands thoroughly after sex.

When I was younger I used to be slightly risky. But now that I’m older I can’t risk it. I just don’t get the snogging part. I have never caught something but still cautious.

I honestly think you need to take a break.

Not least because you can catch things like Genital Warts when wearing a condom.

Offline Trex

You have about 5 positive out of 26 reviews on here, I don’t think punting is for you and you said your heart is not in it anymore that explains your lack of positive on your reviews.


Offline Sunny

Just can't fathom how so many guys request bareback from service providers and believe nothing will arise from it. STIs are becoming and more drug resistant and asymptomatic. I don't understand guys who don't take showers before/after punts and don't make an effort to be hygienic.
To be on the safe side, I don't see any female provider that offers Anal.

Recently have noticed SPs with (unsure what this is) moles? skin tags? warts? appearing on chests. Cause for concern or just harmless?

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Offline Zimbaman

Just can't fathom how so many guys request bareback from service providers and believe nothing will arise from it. STIs are becoming and more drug resistant and asymptomatic. I don't understand guys who don't take showers before/after punts and don't make an effort to be hygienic.
To be on the safe side, I don't see any female provider that offers Anal.

Recently have noticed SPs with (unsure what this is) moles? skin tags? warts? appearing on chests. Cause for concern or just harmless?

A shower isn’t going to wash the clap away  :wacko:

I think you are thinking too deeply about this. Be careful yes. But you can take it too far. I’ve been doing this years and have never caught anything. SPs are better at looking after their sexual health than most other people. Just pick the ones that don’t offer bb (at least openly) and you’ll be fine. A shower isn’t just courteous  :thumbsup:
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Just can't fathom how so many guys request bareback from service providers and believe nothing will arise from it. STIs are becoming and more drug resistant and asymptomatic. I don't understand guys who don't take showers before/after punts and don't make an effort to be hygienic.
To be on the safe side, I don't see any female provider that offers Anal.

Recently have noticed SPs with (unsure what this is) moles? skin tags? warts? appearing on chests. Cause for concern or just harmless?

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You don't know what it is yet you post a picture anyway? By the tone of your post you're implying it may be an STI.

To be honest I can't understand how any punter can think having a shower before and after would do anything to prevent STIs. You could wash your bits with Domestos and it wouldn't stop you catching anything.

Offline Sunny

You don't know what it is yet you post a picture anyway? By the tone of your post you're implying it may be an STI.

To be honest I can't understand how any punter can think having a shower before and after would do anything to prevent STIs. You could wash your bits with Domestos and it wouldn't stop you catching anything.

No I genuinely wanted to know what it is? Never seen a big spot like that on someone's chest before. I took a screenshot, I didn't share the SP's AW profile page.

I didn't say taking a shower could prevent STIs, more for hygiene purposes. Perhaps you have been out, on public transport, coming straight from work and you visit a SP and don't feel the need to have a shower just baffles me.

Offline Markc

To the OP this hobby can carry risks. I have done this for over 30 years and luckily never caught anything.
As l get older l now only see providers that offer OWO and CIM. These are my 2 favourite things to do along
with kissing is this is available that’s a bonus.

I try to stick to well reviewed women who are either English or Polish. I avoid Roms and had bad experiences with them in
the past.

Offline Nomerzypuntr

I’m not sure if this is common. But I prefer OW and not kissing because as Im getting older I’m scared of catching an sti. I don’t like snogging. I would rather kiss the wg neck. During sex I always take it slow and not pound just in case the condom splits. I wash my hands thoroughly after sex.

When I was younger I used to be slightly risky. But now that I’m older I can’t risk it. I just don’t get the snogging part. I have never caught something but still cautious.

i hope you go to heaven fast my good soul :dance:

Offline Bluelight85

To be perfectly honest, NOTHING is without its risks, I can only speak for myself but to be fair I was scared shitless until it came to my first proper punt aside from massage parlours, I was questioning myself with a lot “what if” and believe me google and Reddit are NOT your friend here - it’s full of unlikely and most likely untrue scare stories, but like like myself and most others on here just get yourself tested regularly, always use condoms for all kind of insertive and receptive sex (even toys) - OWO can be dicey from what I have read but (touch wood) as yet I’ve never got anything from it. Punting is a minor gamble of sorts, but just play it safe, check yourself out regularly, avoid barebackers, and enjoy yourself !

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No I genuinely wanted to know what it is?
It could be anything from a dirty mark to skin cancer, an accurate diagnosis from a photograph is impossible.

Offline Sunny

It could be anything from a dirty mark to skin cancer, an accurate diagnosis from a photograph is impossible.

Looks something like this, noticed some other SPs have these marks on their chest above their breasts but not as big as hers.

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Offline Zimbaman

Looks something like this, noticed some other SPs have these marks on their chest above their breasts but not as big as hers.

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What is wrong with you  :unknown:

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What is wrong with you  :unknown:

There will be a lot wrong with him if he has touched that. It is a Molluscum Pendulum. Highly contagious. Incurable. Six months until he is in the ground.


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There will be a lot wrong with him if he has touched that. It is a Molluscum Pendulum. Highly contagious. Incurable. Six months until he is in the ground.

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Looks something like this, 
If you are really this stupid you shouldn't be allowed out on your own.

"Looks something like this" so that isn't even what you're asking about.   :wacko:

Offline Sunny

You deleted my screenshot of her AW pic.... so I put up a google image instead.
On her AW gallery you can see how abnormal it looks. Can I share her AW page or not?

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You deleted my screenshot of her AW pic.... so I put up a google image instead.
On her AW gallery you can see how abnormal it looks. Can I share her AW page or not?
You can post pictures from a current public gallery if you link to the profile showing them.

Offline Thephoenix

There will be a lot wrong with him if he has touched that. It is a Molluscum Pendulum. Highly contagious. Incurable. Six months until he is in the ground.

I bet I'm not the only one who looked that up.  :D

Offline mrwhite

ou could wash your bits with Domestos and it wouldn't stop you catching anything.

I think washing your bits in Domestos is a great way of preventing STIs......

The chemical burns you are going to get on your knob from rinsing them in neat bleach are going to be so painful you won't want to fuck anyone for weeks!

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There will be a lot wrong with him if he has touched that. It is a Molluscum Pendulum. Highly contagious. Incurable. Six months until he is in the ground.

He has obviously not seen many naked bodies, plenty of people have these - including many punters, particularly over the age of 40.

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As l get older l now only see providers that offer OWO and CIM. These are my 2 favourite things to do along
with kissing is this is available that’s a bonus.

I’d imagine some folk on here would have palpitations at the thought of kissing someone who was happy to provide also OWO & CIM.

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There will be a lot wrong with him if he has touched that.

If that one of those third teats that witches are supposed to have he probably gave it a nibble as well.

Offline Iamforreal

Just don't go out of the house anymore, you will be safe then.
And we also, we might get infected from you lol.

Offline runner in the woods

A few years ago, pre COVID, I just used to partake in just rub and tugs, B2B.
Somehow caught Chlamydia. Went to clinic, got the antibiotics , and was cleared. What I was told there was basically if the girl has anything and any of her muscous membranes touch you and if yours, then stands a chance you will be infected. So really anymore than a handjob has the potential to cause you problems. So if catching anything is going to cause you issues you need to stop your behaviour. Maybe just fully clothed girls tugging you is your limit of fun.
I do still have owo and I do to and love rimming, so I take my chances, but test ever 2 months. Luckily nothing caught since, but law of averages will get me at some point again. But it's a risk I have to take to get what I need to exist as a man.
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Offline Stevelondon

A few years ago, pre COVID, I just used to partake in just rub and tugs, B2B.
Somehow caught Chlamydia. Went to clinic, got the antibiotics , and was cleared. What I was told there was basically if the girl has anything and any of her muscous membranes touch you and if yours, then stands a chance you will be infected. So really anymore than a handjob has the potential to cause you problems. So if catching anything is going to cause you issues you need to stop your behaviour. Maybe just fully clothed girls tugging you is your limit of fun.
I do still have owo and I do to and love rimming, so I take my chances, but test ever 2 months. Luckily nothing caught since, but law of averages will get me at some point again. But it's a risk I have to take to get what I need to exist as a man.

Oh my god. So if for some reason you couldn’t punt…….. what would you exist as 😂

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He has obviously not seen many naked bodies, plenty of people have these - including many punters, particularly over the age of 40.

Precisely. That is why I jested. How could anyone not have seen many pigmented skin lesions even on clothed bodies let alone naked?

Anyway, I only viewed his original photo very briefly before it was removed by Davie. (the photo that is not the lesion .. he is a mod not a dermatologist  :D) It seemed to be a poor quality photo taken at distance and impossible to identify/diagnose.

Given the lesion was apparently on her upper chest, in a female especially, it is more likely to be a pigmented mole (melanocytic naevus) than a skin tag which are more normally found in areas subject to repeated friction.

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The skin is affected by a multitude of lesions (numbering thousands) hugely in excess of any other part of the body. A competent dermatologist requires an excellent visual memory and recall. Not to mention having to also remember so many Latin terminologies  :scare:


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If that one of those third teats that witches are supposed to have he probably gave it a nibble as well.

 :D If you encountered one how could you not resist doing so  :D

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Oh my god. So if for some reason you couldn’t punt…….. what would you exist as 😂

He would have to just make do with jogging in the forest  :D

Coat?

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Anyway, I only viewed his original photo very briefly before it was removed by Davie. (the photo that is not the lesion .. he is a mod not a dermatologist  :D) It seemed to be a poor quality photo taken at distance and impossible to identify/diagnose.
He referenced STIs in his post then posted a picture without a link to a current profile asking if it was anything for him to worry about , he has been invited to repost it with the relevant link to the AW profile showing it. He's been back online since but  . . . . . . .

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He referenced STIs in his post then posted a picture without a link to a current profile asking if it was anything for him to worry about , he has been invited to repost it with the relevant link to the AW profile showing it. He's been back online since but  . . . . . . .

Changed my mind would be unfair to share her AW profile link publicly, rather just take screenshots from her free AW gallery.

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Changed my mind would be unfair to share her AW profile link publicly, rather just take screenshots from her free AW gallery.
How do we know the pictures are in the public domain in a current advert without a link to show it.

The rules are very clear, no current advert no photos posted.

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I tried to DM you the AW link Dave, but unable to do so got the: "Your account can only reply to messages received from other members, you cannot send messages to other members that have not contacted you before"